hellllp wat do i do?

ok well im just pg due sept and havent told the in laws yet, as they will dissaprove and i wont here the end of it ouf 5th child, and well my sil is gettin married in april 3 aand has asked me 2 b a bridesmaid, she wants my dress size ... i know i wont b that in apr as i get very big whne im utd, wat do i do this is wat ive thougght

1. tell her that im pg and that i dont want her to waste any money for me to outgrow the dress

2. not say anything and get a larger size.

im stressin as we rhavent told the kids or steves parents and his dad is stayin up at his sisters while he is havin chemo, so this will b way 2 big of a secret 2 keep

oh wat do i do?

Oh tricky! Congratulations! I've been a bridesmaid while pregnant, and just got a larger size, and then had it taken in a week or so before the wedding.

If you want to keep your pregnancy a secret, it could be pretty tricky...

They are all going to find out soon enough - so maybe best to get it over and done with now and tell them - they might be more upset if u hid it from them for awhile!

Goodluck with it all tho! :D

It's up to you, but I would tell her that I was pregnant and therefore will need the larger size. That way she doesn't spend money on something that won't fit when her wedding comes around. I would be annoyed if you told me to spend a few hundred dollars on a dress that you knew wouldn't fit!

PS I found your post really hard to read with the text language.

I think you need to tell her, so she can buy a correct dress.

So what if they don't approve. It's your life - not theirs. My in-laws can not approve of anything I do, I could care less. Most of mine need to be in a padded room and learn how to speak to people without being insulting everytime. They don't have the social skills, I don't have the care factor.

lestypuss- i wish i could just think that way im so close to them it makes it hard , it would be easier if i wasnt.and was more distant actually would be better if we didnt live so close.

oscaroscar-thanks for your advice sorry you found it hard to understand

thankyou all i took all of your advice, i really appreciated it all very wise .

i tolde her im pregnant and she said if i dont wanna be in the wedding thas it was ok and she would leave it up to me, i said i do but i just want u to know so you dont waste any money on a dress that may cost alot and then dont fit.
shes not bothered , she said i will still be the smallest out of everyone anyway wow wat a complanent although trust me im not skinny :);)

Oh, nice response there savina!! That's a great outcome.

BTW - my in-laws live in the house next door. So, I ain't escapin' either. You are evidently not the same as me, and THAT is a good thing!!!

I'm glad it worked out! It is lovely that it is up to you... will you still do it? I think the wedding photos will look stunning with a little bump in it :D.