What are your reasons for choosing a middle name?

DP and I are currently debating whether or not to choose a middle name for Dot. We can't decide.

If you have chosen a middle name, what are your reasons for having a first and a middle name?

If you have just gone with a first name, why didn't you chose a middle name as well?

Thanks :)

Both childrens middle names have been chosen out of respect for deceased family members - it was our choice both times and there was no pressure on us at all. DD's middle name is Kate, my grandmothers name was Katica (Croatian) so we angliscised (sp?) it to Kate. Alex's middle name is Ivan after DH's grandfather who passed away whilst I was pregnant.

If this baby is a girl chances are its middle name will be Marie or Maria after DH's grandmother who passed away a year ago, she was such a lovely woman and we miss her so much.

We have considered other names as middle names that were not family related, eg we both love the name Grace for a middle name, but in the end decided to go the family names. And they seemed to go ok with our chosen first names so it was no skin off our noses so to speak.:D

We chose middle names for the girls. For DD1 we chose my sister's name as she passed away from cancer a couple of months before I conceived. For DD2 we chose from MIL's name. Both sides of our family tend to pick middle names from family members, I was more than happy to keep that tradition going.

I like middle names, for many reasons. I like the history they give if they are named after someone. They are practical, I have known a few people who go by their middle name, rather than their first (my father for one), so I like the choice they give. I have worked in payroll and in process serving/repossession, anything that can differentiate a name, like a middle initial, can help with confusion over similar names. Someone is better off being John Roger Smith, than just John Smith when the repo man comes knocking and or when pays are being entered.

I love my full name, both first and second names. So I wanted my children to have middle names too.

We've given DS two middle names, his first middle name is to honour my family and the second DH's family (DH gets the last name on all the children, so I get the first middle name). It was never an option NOT to give DS one of two middle names. Should we have another son then we'll use the other name. A daughter would have two names from my family because DH doesn't have any female family names. And the names I've picked are gorgeous!

As Astrid said, it's a choice too: DS could decide to go by a different name and have some ready to go! I have an aunt who is known by her middle name.

I also look at the meaning of the name and how it flows with the other names. That's important to me too as I love the meaning of my full name!

I love a meaning behind having a middle name.

DS's middle name is Stanyford. The first boy of each generation of DH's family has this middle name, DH has it, plus it is his grandfather's first name. DH is very close to his grandfather.

If we have a girl next time around, her middle name will be Paige. That's my sister's middle name.

If we have a boy next time around, his middle name will be Thomas. That's my father's middle name AND DH's father's middle name.

Oh and my middle name is my mum's first name.

I love the middle name to have a family connection. For DD1 it was simple, both my mum and MIL have the same first name, so we used that. For DD2, I chose her first name so I let DH choose the middle name, which was his grandmothers first name. If we have a boy we will probably use my dad's name as DH wants to name a son after himself, which is also his dad and great grandfathers name.

DS' name didn't seem complete without a middle name, and everything we came up with didn't sound right without a second name. So DS has two middle names.

We then chose names from our families and chose the two that went best together, so he wasn't named after the family, moreso that the other names we liked a being reserved for more boys as we had so much trouble agreeing on this one!

For me - I like middle names to honour family members. DS's middle name Anthony is my DH's middle name and future children will also have a middle name that ties back with the family somehow (at this stage Joy is a definite if we have a girl after my deceased Nana). Funnily enough I use to hate my middle name as a kid, but have since grown to love it as I was named after a grandparent who I'd never had a chance to meet, and that to me is something special to link us I think.

I also agree with the middle name to differentiate it as well - I work in a bank and see so many people with the same first and last name - it's helped to keep them different by there middle name. Our last name is a rather common one (I remember one of the other staff served a girl with the same first and last name...at first I thought the staff member was looking in my bank details until I saw the middle name...lucky I'm a think before I act...could've easily gone over and given her a serve).

When my mum was in hospital having me the woman in the next bed lost her little girl during labour. Mum gave me her name as a middle name in honour of the little lost baby and visited the mum lots and "shared" me. They were still in touch years later when mum died.

When DD was born mum had been dead just over a year, and we gave her mum's name for a middle name. It is from the Latin for "alive" which describes both my mum's nature and DD's perfectly :)

Bx

we have chosen two middle names for the Gremlin - and any other kidlets we have will have two as well. one to honor someone special to us, one a name that we both love and has a really high relevance to us.

For us, it was never an option at all. Samuel was always going to have a middle name.

A few reasons - we both do, so why shouldn't he? It's another option for him later in life if he decides he'd really rather not be Samuel or Sam.

Also - meanings behind names are really important to me. My username is what my first and middle names mean and that has pretty much described my life. Sometimes I do wish my parents had given me a name that would mean I was less likely to have to fight for everything!

The meaning behind Samuel's names... Samuel means "asked for" and comes from the bible. Samuel was the son of a barren woman who prayed for a son and never stopped believing she would have one. His middle name is Angus which means "chosen", "the only choice" or "posesses strength". All of which fit - his embryo was chosen as the best of the batch by our FS, and is likely to be the only one that will work, and the posesses strength part was VERY appropriate considering his stretching in utero, and how he fought through the days in special care.

And finally... Samuel, who mainly gets known as Sam... his middle initial is A, and our surname begins with M... So his initials are SAM - which we both liked. Once we'd decided on Samuel as a first name, we both decided that his middle initial had to be A and went from there.

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DS's middle name is my madien name - which luckily could be used as either a first or second name. I like the idea of getting my families name in there somehow :)

Both my children have middle names. For DD it was just a name that we liked, was pretty and went well with her first name.

DS middle name is my dad's name - he is the first grandson in the family and I love the name so figured why not.

This baby will probably just have a middle name we like and that goes well with it's first name. I don't want DD to be the only one without a 'family' middle name.

My mum doesn't have a middle name and she has always told me how much she hates that, so I guess that's stuck with me.

We simple chose middle names as the majority of our families have them!

Jason has Peter after my grandfather whom I was close to but passed when I was younger.

Marcus has Allen which is my DFs middle name but also a combo of Jason's great grand father and great great grand father albert and len.

Bump if a girl (doctors can be wrong) will have Grace after DFs nana but if a boy will have Ashley as we both like it!

DD's has 2 middle names - her first middle name is Claudia after DP's father Barry Claude and his grandfather Claude who are no longer with us (and we really couldn't inflict Claude onto a boy so Claudia was a nice option). Her second is my surname.

This time if we have a boy trhe middle name will be David or John after my father plus my surname. I'm not sure what we will do if we have a girl.

I never thought about why but because DP and I both have middle names we just automatically slected middle names for out children. A PP made a good point though - with so many people in the world it is likely that someone else will have the same first name and surname combination but it is less likely that they will have the same middle name as well so it does make them more identifiable.

DD's middle name is my last name (Prue - so still a "girls" name) and DS's middle name is DH's name Stewart (family tradition)

I wanted to give both my DD's meaning-full names.

DD1's middle name is Sophia - I really hope she grows in Wisdom.
DD2's middle name is Hope. She was born on a 9/11 anniversary so the name holds all our hope and longing for a more tolerant and harmonious world.

Thanks so much for all your replies girls. I really appreciate it. It's made me look at middle names a bit differently.

Looks like there could be more choices to make now!!

Cheers.