azoospermia ---- us too!!
Hi buddy,
My husband and i have been trying for 5 years. Just over 1 year ago we decided to get ourselves tested. I too had always considered it was my fault and was shocked to discover the news. after 3 sperm tests all showing no sperm, my husband was diagnosed with azoospermia.
In his case further testing revealed that he has one of the cystic fibrosis genes which in most cases means incomplete vas defrens therefore complete blockage.
You should not despair however. Just because no sperm come out does not mean they are not there!!!
My husband and i have been undergoing ivf for 1 year (no success yet, but you may be lucky). Each time i have my eggs removed my husband has his sperm removed. It is a quick procedure under local anesthetic. It is done via fine needle aspiration in to the testies, hes a bit sore the next couple days but with all us women go through its a small price to pay.
I think you need to get more info, dont let them just talk you into donor sperm until you given it a go. We also jumped to that conclusion and were devastated.
If you want to chat further im on msn or email me stewandmeg@hotmail.com