Who do you think should attend the interview?

DS 15 is changing his school and we "think" we have found the right one for him. DS lives fulltime with me and my df, my other 2 children live with xh and come over on weekends....this is going somewhere.... xh called the school that I "think"is the right one and made and got an interview set up. Now, who do you think should be at that interview -

1. My df is paying for the school and the cost is waaaay more than the school he goes to now.
2. I never got to go to any of the other 2 kids interviews let alone any answer as to which shcool they were even attending even though I don't pay for their schooling costs.
3. XH has already told the "new"school a lie that my df and I are moving into the area that the school is located in.

What do you think? XH has it all mapped out and it's causing some friction between df and I :wall: cause we haven't even made up our minds which school he will be going to.

He might come a cropper with the "moving into the area" as some schools ask for proof before this happens to stop people saying but not doing.

Your son needs to have some say in all of this because if she is sent to a school he doesn't want to do to he will not enjoy being there and this can cause many problems.

Have you & your DS had an interview with the school yet?

You can go to all your children's interviews just ask for a time that doesn't clash with his. It happens a lot and just let the teacher know that you are going to it so you know where they are at.

All the best as you sort this out.