Why do i keep dreaming of him?

I keep on having these dreams (at least once every 1-2 months) where i dream of this guy (who i've known since i was about 6-7yo) who died 12-13 years ago.

In my dreams, he buys me gifts (diamond earrings), or he won't talk to me, shrugs me off. But last night, i gave him the biggest hug, i actually felt it. He didn't talk to me, but he looked at me at first as if he couldn't recognise me (i have changed dramatically since he died) but then he did recognise me and we hugged, a great big hug. it was beautiful.

I had a huge crush on him when he died and i really believed that he would've been the one i eventually married, but he died tragically. I will never forget him.

I don't think about him on a daily basis but every now and then i do.

Any help?

I would interpret it as a confirmation of your love and feelings for each other (the hug), after he recognised you since you say that you have changed your look dramatically.

The gifts may be those that a true love or partner may buy (diamonds are a forever item), and the not talking to you or shrugging you off may be a 'lover's tiff' if you will.

That is how I see it. I think you both miss each other, and there is much unfinished business (a deep love) between you, and that is why he comes to you in your dreams. That is how you two communicate with each other, as he doesn't know how to come to you any other way.

Does this help?

Thank you Netix for your reply. It has brought tears to my eyes. Your interpretation was beautiful and so meaningful.

After this dream, i have made an appt to see a medium and hope he comes through for me.

Thank you once again.

TD- i was going to suggest go and see a medium. He obviously is trying to connect with you, trying to tell you something - however, his energy just may not be high enough or he just may not know how. But from the sounds of your dream, i would be inclined to think Netix is spot on. He is affirming he felt the same.......

Maybe it just wasnt meant to be this time around, but you know what - they say you keep coming back until you get it right! Looks like your both in for another life or two... ;)

Would love to hear what happens at the medium - hope he is able to come through to you!

:hug:

I told DH about my dream. He doesn't know this guy personally as he passed way before i met DH, but knows of him through my dreams.

DH asked me (after i told him about my dream) if i ever had a crush on this guy and i couldn't deny it and said "yes" back in my teenager years but not anymore as i was married to him and i have a family now. He replied "hmmm, that's why his mother loves you so much. You were meant to be her daughter in law." I told him not to be silly.

I sense this guy around me sometimes. I talk to him aloud, and pat the back of my right shoulder acknowledging him and thanking him for being around and taking care of me.

I hope i'm not going nuts!

Oh TD, I did not mean to make you cry! :hug: I did see that you have made an apt with a medium. I hope that they can answer your questions. I will try to answer any others you may have if you wish, and you are more than welcome.

You are right to tell DH of your dream, this guy was and still is a part of your life, so DH should really know. He does have a point about dream guy's mum though. I think she also feels the living connection with her son through you.

You are not going nuts, I have no doubt that dream guy is around you sometimes. How you talk to him is the right thing to do. (As long as you feel comfortable)

Also, at your medium, if he does come through and things are 'finalised', then he may not come to you anymore. Unlikely I think, but I think that if he feels that things are (for want of a better word) 'finished' between the two of you (ie, he acknowledges your new love and family, and you say goodbye to him), then he may also move on, especially as he died suddenly, he didn't get the chance before he left, so as a result, he's never really 'left'. Do you know what I mean?