So if you're tandem feeding AND you never have sex.....

The chance of actually getting pregnant would have to very slim huh?...like tiny...barely non existent I would say....wouldn't you? (Ok..by "never" having sex I mean ONCE in the past year pretty much!).

No need to reply...I just needed to think *out loud* so to speak..

Slim, yes. But if it's the right time of month, then not so slim. A friend of mine was still b/f her dd and AF had not yet returned when her and her dh dtd, and she ended up falling pg. He works away, and it was the only time they dtd that month!

:lol: I think you'd be pretty safe from conception in that case..... LOL!!!

Thanks girls! Jodi, your friend must have got a MASSIVE shock!!
Shanti, yes me too!!


I've just done 2 tests and they were both :bfp: :bfp:
I just don't know what to say or think...This is just crazy :jawdrop:

We never have sex :lol:

well congrats.. :D

this sneaky bubba wants to join you obviously :D:D:D

Oh my goodness :o Congratulations!!! Wow, you must be in complete shock right now!

I guess it only takes one 'moment' then! Congrats :)

My DS was a One hit Wonder too :)

Thanks girls...I've been thinking very deeply about this over few mins..and I *think* that there must be another way, besides DTD, to get pregnant. That must explain it! :think:

I'm shaking.....(because I am thinking about all the washing I'll have to do :lol:)

LOL - sorry... just had to have a good laugh at this thread.

First off - congratulations!

I think the only thing out of your list that 'should' be reliable contraception is the 'never having sex' thing LOL. Tandem feeding never stopped me getting my cycle & being fertile again (mind you... didn't test it out.. but had a beautiful cycle after 5 mths.. so am assuming was pretty fertile). But hahahaha... I can honestly tell you I would have been posting the exact SAME thing if I had fallen pg in the first year of DD's life... I'd be adding co-sleeping with 2 children to the list too LOL.

But that is just sooo exciting! Just think - soon you will be feeding THREE!! woo!

WOW!! Congrats!! Thats awesome! (Isnt it??)

Congratulations on your little 'surprise' bubba. It is meant to be by the sounds of it!!

wow!! thats so exciting, congrats!!!!

Congrats Lee!
Doesn't look like you'll be getting any sleep any time soon ;)

Congratulations, great news. Must have been such a suprise for you!

Congratulations Lee...wishing you a very Happy and Healthy 9 months

Congrats on your 'sneaky' bubba :)

Congratulations!! how exciting

Congratulations Lee! How fantastic.

So do we need to explain what sex is ;)

Wow congratulations!!!!

And yes you must have had sex at some stage LOL

LOL. No sex wasn't going to stop this cheeky little one!! Congrats!!

So hun, I am just going to be cheeky and say, So if you and your DH dont DTD, whos the daddy? :lol: ( just kidding with you, just thought I would humour myself if not anyone else.
A huge congratulations on ytour BFP :happyforyou::hooray:. I hope you have a H & H pgcy. Now can you pass some of that my way, cant seem to get that BFP from not DTD, even with DTD, I am looking for a accidental one. :lol: Would like to give DH the shock factor, :jawdrop:

Congratulations on your little surprise !
xo

congratulations!!!! can you triple feed? i guess so!!!

Thanks for all the kind wishes girls x

Csab- LOL!! I was going to say something about not DTD with my husband, so it must have been someone else :lol: :lol:

Haha, brilliant!!

Congratulations on your BFP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Send some of that Baby dust my way! Getting pregnant and never having sex, I need some of your dust... ;)

My DP and I do it like clockwork trying haha...

CONGRATS AGAIN :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap: :clap:

:lol::lol: Lee, great minds think alike. hehehe
I was thinking maybe your so fertile that only need to sniff your DH to get a BFP, :D Good job hun. :clap::clap::dance::dance:

You might have to start DTD so you dont fall pg, as your form of contraception.:D

awwww congrats lee!!

Hehehe, I know how you feel sweets!!!! :p
CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!! :clap::clap::dance::dance:

Wow!!! Congratulations!!!! :happyforyou:

WOOHOO!! lol Sneaky lil sucker ;)

Good luck for a fabulous pregnancy!!

That's is fantastic - even if you are claiming semi immaculate conception :rofl: Congratulations :cheer:

You must've been in a deep sleep... ;)

Congrats :D

YAY, I was right! Congrats on your pregnancy Lee :hooray:

I've always said that DH only has to hang his undies on the end of the bed and I'm pregnant! ;)

Congrats :lol:

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Congratulations Lee how exciting.

omg Lee :o congratulations!!

Well it was definately meant to happen that's for sure :clap:

So excited for you and wishing you a super happy and healthy pregnancy hun xx

Congrates Lee. Wishing you a wonderful pregnancy. I must admit you've got me scared now..DH and I haven't been very careful lately..I think it is time to crack out the contraception lol

Congrats Lee!

BekZ, your post has raised a very good point for us all! and has also prompted me to issue the following warning....

Ladies, if you DTD twice a year too, just like us, then BE AFRAID! Please make contraception your friend. If you don't, you may end up like me..with a number of children born VERY CLOSE TOGETHER..and breastfeeding them all...AT ONCE!!!

:ROFL::rofl:

(I need to make jokes to avoid having a breakdown).

Thanks also to the very special people who pm'd me yesterday, which hopefully I'll be able to sit down and reply to tonight when the kids are in bed xx

holy moly Lee - scary concept - but congratulations - very determined bubby #3 you have there :-)

Julie x