Really sad

I'm just over 38 weeks pregnant with our 1st (and due to my age, probably only) assisted conception baby. We've been getting excited about his arrival and looking forward to sharing this special time with family and friends but sadly my Mum passed away this morning after a failed operation. I'm so sad at losing my Mum but it's even harder because she didn't get to meet our baby and he will never know her. She was a wonderful mother of six and grandmother of eleven and I wish she was still here.

I'm so sorry for the loss of your mother and such a shock with the failed operation. Your mum must have loved thinking about her new grand baby even if he was still on the inside - and I hope that the birth of your baby brings you much joy and hopefully a reminder of your mum in something inherited that will make you smile thinking of her :hug:

:comfort: I'm so sorry to hear about your mum..... very very sad that she won't get to meet your little man. She'll be watching over you.
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I am so terribly sorry for your loss

Take care

xoxo

Oh so very sad, my thoughts are with you and your family at this hard time.

Your mum will be your babys special guardian angel watching from above.

xoxo

OMG, I have a tear in my reading that..words cannot express my deepest sympathies for you at this horrible time....

Hugs hunny...xx

I am so sorry for your loss, I believe they will meet one day. Just praying that you can find peace at this time. I am so sorry

Wishing you the very best of luck :shakehead: it will be difficult inthe weeks ahead try and look after yourself and baby and know your mum is looking out for you. Remember to talk and maybe some professional counselling.
xxxx Pam.

I'm so sorry for your loss :hug: :( Thinking of you and your family. I'm sure your mum will be watching over you and your baby feeling very proud.

I'm so sorry to hear of your loss :comfort:

Im so sorrry to read about your loss. Big hugs to you. I can relate in a small way as my mother in law passed away a few months ago, everything DD does i wish she was here to see!! But my DH has a very possitive outlook now and will always tell me that she is there watching DD 24/7. And its a nice thought, like a gardian angel. I know its not the same, but she will always be on your shoulder guiding you and your LO!!

I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I can only imagine how your feeling.
Sending you and all your family loads of :hug:

I am so sorry

I am so sorry for the loss of your mum :hug:.

A Big hug for you Alipetrina - I know how you feel my mum died 6 years ago and never got to meet any of her grandchildren, see us married etc and it really makes you sad when you think about all that they have missed. She will be with you and watching over you!

I'm so so sorry. :hug:
Thinking of you and your family.

xox

I am so very sorry to hear of your loss. I couldn't imagine what it is like to loose someone so close to you. My heart goes out to you and your family.

I never got to meet my Dad's mum as she passed before I was born, but I feel as though I knew her. People say I talk about her as if I knew her and that is only because both of my parents told me tons of stories about her, the good and the bad, and kept her spirit alive throughout all of these years. You can do that too. Share photos and stories and always be open and completely honest about every aspect of your beloved mum. When the times comes, tell the little just how it felt to loose her and the feeling you had about him not being able to meet her. Then I believe he too will feel as though he knew her and love her just as much as you do.

:hug: thinking of you. Be kind on yourself, healing takes time.

That is very sad.

I'm sure you'll have lots of stories and pictures to share with your little one, so that they know there's someone special keeping an eye out for them from above.

And I bet your mum went peacefully, knowing the joy you would very soon be experiencing.

All the best for getting through this. If you can get to a counsellor I think it would be a great idea.

:hug: I am so sorry... I also believe that she will be watching and smiling down on you

Thank-you for all of your kind replies. It's a bittersweet time for us but I know my Mum will be watching over us and I'm glad that we told her what we were having, the name etc.

Aww hun! I am so sorry for your loss! Just know your Mum will be there for you, watching over you and your family :hug:
I am so sorry :hug:

:hug: I can only imagine how sad you must feel. I hope your beautiful bub brings you some comfort in the coming weeks and years. xo

I'm so so sorry for your loss. Losing your mum is such a hard thing, I can't imagine how hard it must be when you're just about to become one yourself.

I know it's no consolation, but I believe that we all live on after we pass away. While your mum won't be there physically to support you, know that she is there giving you the strength and support you need to make your transition to motherhood :hug:

Nothing much to say, just a big hug. Hope you have some real-life hugs around you to try and ease your sadness.

I'm so very very sorry to hear that.

I can't imagine how you must be feeling.

Sending lots of hugs your way.

Sue xxx

I'm so sorry to read of your loss. :comfort: Sending you strength and love at this difficult time.

aww hun, I'm very sorry for your loss. :hug:

I'm so sorry for your loss :hug:
Thinking of you and your family at such a sad time
Im sure your mum is looking down from heaven at you with the biggest heart warming smile and, and she will be so proud of u hunny
xx