Letter from hospital, why trial of labour isn't supported.
I had been planning on having a trial of labour< I was'nt even going as far as talking VBAC just the chance to see if there was any potenial.
My original OB suggested it to me, I just thought I would be straight to CS this time around. I found out in the early 30 weeks that he was leaving and going to the hospital I am currently with, then later found out that he won't have started by my due date, so had to change OB's.
I decided to use who had done my emergency CS last time, the recovery had been good etc.. so the discussion starts with him, he is'nt happy about trial of labour but will let me try knowing i am informed of all the risks, each time I see him we talk more about it. I feel that we are at a point where I am going ahead with caution..then in the mail yesterday arrives a letter from the head of midwifery, short and sweet and definately to the point..basically she says that they have been in discussion and that the Ob, herself and other collegues have discussed my case and the option of trial of labour is too risky..outcomes are very high risk with uterine rupture highly likely and hard to predict..with brain damage to baby or death a likely outcome in that eventuality, and for me loss of uterus etc etc etc, they tell me to "carefully reconsider" (like I really have much of a choice) elective CS, but whatever I decide my OB will assist with the birth.:o
No contact number just hospital switch, you would think there would be a direct line or something...so now I am left with little choice but to go to elective CS, I can't see much point in even trying..I am left deflated and scared and this is not the way to attempt a trial of labour let alone really thinking VBAC..they are obviously making sure they are covered in the event of worst case scenario, but I think this is way out there.
Guess what though!!! armed with her letter I am going to be asking for home help, because it is EXTREMELY DIFFICULT to look after 3 little ones and a new baby after a CS and get housework done..???and if anything happens on the table DH has a letter from them basically forcing me into doing something I am not happy with ( well I'm sure lawyer might see it that way???) Yesterday I was upset and in tears... today, unable to sleep it has turned into completely pee:wall: off!!
What gets me the most is that an OB they have employed would have/even suggeseted to me originally that I could attempt it, so what gives there??? His style must be going to seriously compromised when he starts his new job!!! He comes from a highly reputable hospital known for its high VBAC rates, people are travelling form Melb to deliver there..I went for the OB himself on recommendation , after my previous OB left the area..apparently he had big problems with the hosptial, surprise, surprise!!! He also was no slouch he was picked up as the head of Ob at a large Melb hospital.
Anyway enough of my rant I feel so much better now:wall: