oh where, oh where has AF gone, oh where, oh where could she be?

Hating my body atm!!!
DF and I are TTC#3 and i was due for AF on monday, she was a no show :dance:, yesterday morning did a test, BFN. bought a different brand test last night and this morning another bfn!!!
still no signs of the red devil either.

Had my pre period cramping and moodyness on sunday and monday, but nope she's not here!!!

i'm thinking that if the tests came up negative then i cant be pregnant, but where on earth is my period!!!
prior to this cycle i've had 2 normal cycles, completely on time. DTD at ovulation, knew i was ovulating because i had pains, had what i thought was implantation pains 4 days later, but obviously it wasnt.

u girls know what on earth could be going on?? the only time im ever late is when im pregnant or breastfeeding and im currently not breastfeeding and apparently not pregnant!!!

It could be too early to tell? With DD2, my cycles were very regular but the pregnancy test kept coming up negative. It took a blood test at 5 weeks to confirm that I was pregnant. It just wouldn't show on any HPT for some reason.
Good luck.

When u tested with DD1 was it the same or did it show up straight away hun?? with both the girls they showed up on the day AF was due, so this is new territory for me!! (quietly going insane with the am i or arent i!!!!)

With DD1 and this pregnancy it showed up before my period was even due. I was 7DPO with this one, and 10dpo with DD1. It was very strange. Even throughout my pregnancy I kept forgetting I was pregnant as I had absolutely no pregnancy symptoms.

how interesting!! fingers crossed thats whats happening. did they tell you why it didnt show up for so long?

Nope, dr had no idea.

Go buy a digital test my love, then you wont have to squint to see if it is actually BFN or not! Implantation may have happened a day late or something though and that would cause a lower level of HCG in your blood which might cause a negative result. FWIW my last period was 3 days late after being back to normal since it returned.

Good luck Skybie, my fingers are crossed for you!!!!

lol LD ur ment to tell me that it was weeks after AF was due that u got a bfp with DD!!!!! lol fingers crossed its just not showing. i think i'll be heartbroken if AF just rocks up now!

still nothing :( i should buy shares in pregnancy test companies i swear!!!! going MENTAL!!

Awww hun, BIG HUGS! It is such a crappy time waiting, wiating and waiting even more. My apologies about my last post it came out totally unlike I meant it to read lol. Still got everything crossed for ya babe.....sorry cant find where the little faces etc are!?!

keep us updated hun.:hug:

:hug: :hug: :hug: I hope that it is just a bit too early, what tests are you using? I always go for the First Response or the Discover One Step.
I hope your shiny bright BFP isn't just waiting for you and :SAAF: you're not wanted here for at least 9 months!
xxoo

well still no AF and another bfn!!!!! going to wait now until next weds when i should be 5 weeks if its af's a no show till then!

LD- i was only jokin hunny, its all good.

Beema- i've used, confirm, first response and crystal clear! pmsl, seriously got issues!!! I got my bfp's with the girls using discover so will get one of those next week. until then im going to try pretend im just mid cycle and ty and put it out of my mind before i really do loose the plot!

my fingers are crossed for you sweet.
i hate the waiting game :hug:
Thinking of you my lovely xx

Crossing everything for you. The waiting game succccccccccccccks!!
:hug:

xox

still nothing!
feeling kinda heavy and crampy tonight, not period crampy though. more like that first week after a bfp when u poo ur pants and think AF has turned up IYKWIM?

Ohh hun my fingers are crossed for you that you get good news :)
im thinking of you xx

*will be stalking this thread too * :p

Wherever your AF is she is with mine! Except I know Im not pregnant. Hope you are!

Oh i hope AF stays away. I didn't get a BFP with DS till i was over a week late and this one came up with a BFP before i even missed a period so it varies. As they say every pregnancy is different so you never know. I have everything crossed for you.

Thanks for ur love and support girls, but mystery is now solved!!
bad new is, AF just showed up
Good news is, 2ish weeks till we try again!! yay

completely random, 4 days late and showing up at night time! ah well

oh bummer skybie. Wishing you all the best for next month though.

:( Bugger I guess you know now.... crossing my fingers for you for next month :hug:

sorry hun what a bummer! My fingers, toes and everything will be crossed for you next month :)
will be keeping an eye out on how ur going xx

an update-
got a phone call from my doctor (on his day off! i love this man) he asked if i'd started bleeding yet.
i said yes, how did u know?!
he asked if it was heavier than normal
i said yes its unbeliveably heavy, im flooding a super tampon about every 3 hours which i dont even do on my heaviest day!
he asked if i'd passed any clots
i said yes some pretty big ones actually....oh
he apoligised profusely and said that because its so early no action needs to be taken but to keep an eye on it. he also said that we can try again straight away and shouldnt have any issues concieving.
Is it really ok to try straight way?
little bit lost atm, dont really know how to feel

Oh hon i am so sorry. Sending you big hugs.

I had a similar thing happen to me before we conceived DS. I got a BFP which got progressively fainter as the days went on and then i started to bleed. Went to the doc who did a blood test and found that i was no longer preg. We were told its just one of those things. Most likely the egg was fertilized but never implanted properly or there was something wrong with the embryo so my body rejected it. Good news is that we conceived DS the month after! We were told not to wait also and everything was fine.

:hug: Hoping sometime in the next few months brings you better news hun xx