ok so i wasn't even going to mention anything....but now it's driving me crazy...

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July 16th, 2010, 09:46 PM
~Kim~

ok so i wasn't even going to mention anything....but now it's driving me crazy...

We aren't TTCing at all, but this month DH got a little bit excited - twice :rolleyes:

Now I have a very regular 24 day cycle with CD1 being 20th June. That meant the AF was due on Wednesday (14th July).
Now his first 'accident was on 29th June so that should have been OK
On Sunday the 4th July I got what I'm pretty sure were O pains on the right hand side and EWM.
DH's second 'accident' was on the Monday or Tuesday after that.

I usually get really bad PMS type cramping and bloating, but this time the pains haven't been awful and only for a few seconds each a couple of times a day. I am bloated but I'm also incredibly nauseas and have a fair bit of CM when normally i don't have any at this stage in my cycle.

I know you're all going to say "so test!"
but I have tested the last 4 days and all have been BFNs....

arck....don't know what to do....we're in a new town, knowing no-one and with no-one to recommend a doctor or anything.....

Please someone tell my I'm not being dumb. Despite the fact that this could be a total accident, I am actually quite excited and this is just torture....
July 16th, 2010, 09:51 PM
Jakabella

Ohhh.. well I was 5 days past AF before I even got a feint pos! They have only been getting stronger after that..

Maybe you o'd latter?? So its still to early?? I was using really sensative tests that say you can test 6 days before your period and still didnt get anything till 5 days after...

Good luck babe xox

Kate
July 16th, 2010, 09:54 PM
~Kim~

:hug: thankyou my gorgeous friend I thought I was going insane.....that's what I've been using.
DH says to just wait a week and I'm probably not, but I just know....
July 16th, 2010, 09:58 PM
Jakabella

Absolutly NOT crazy! Im the crazy lady who took ANOTHER preg test today just to make sure it had not disapeared!! LOL... yep crazy!

I have all my fingers and toes crossed for you... and if its not to be this time.. maybe this has started the TTC ball rolling??? xox
July 16th, 2010, 10:04 PM
~Kim~

you know...I think it might have.
July 16th, 2010, 10:06 PM
Jakabella

Yay xox
July 16th, 2010, 10:26 PM
Ilithyia

Ooooo Kim!!!

Very exciting stuff hunni bun!

So how many DPO are you???
July 16th, 2010, 10:45 PM
~Kim~

well if I o'ed around the time I think (the sunday)...maybe 12? But then the pains could have been a bit prior couldn't they and the EWCM is always a little bit prior to O so it could be 11 or even 10 I guess...
July 16th, 2010, 10:50 PM
Shanti

ooooh Kim!! I'm excited for you!! Perhaps you did O a little later than you originally thought you did.... test again in 2 days and see how you go? I know it's a killer having to wait huh.

Totally jealous of you if you are ;) hehe
July 16th, 2010, 11:00 PM
Arimeh

Oh Kim, I'm so excited for you honey, for what could be!!!! (insert girly squeal here)

I'd wait another couple of days and test as well
xoxoxxox
July 17th, 2010, 08:55 AM
~Kim~

Thank you girls, your posts have made me cry this morning.
Sadly I woke up to a huge bleed today. My instinct tells me that it was real and just didn't stick, but hey....
July 17th, 2010, 01:20 PM
Jakabella

Ah Hun. Hugs babe xox That happened to me last cycle to and I know how you feel. Look after yourself xox
July 17th, 2010, 01:23 PM
*Ash*

Oh, Kim :hug:

I was feeling really excited for you when I read your original post.
July 17th, 2010, 02:31 PM
Arimeh

Oh bugger :(
July 17th, 2010, 02:38 PM
~Kim~

Thanks Kate, Ash and Mel...in a bit of a funk today...but just rang DH before and he said well at least you know in your heart what you want to do now...

I was so excited at the prospect of being belly buddies with you Mel :(
July 17th, 2010, 02:52 PM
Arimeh

:

I was so excited at the prospect of being belly buddies with you Mel :(

Same babe.. same.. :(
But your DH is right you know ;)
July 17th, 2010, 07:25 PM
Ilithyia

Oh hun!

I am so sorry :hug:

I def know what you mean.

But at least this has brought up an issue that you may want to discuss with DH?? The possibility of another baby??

Thinking of your sweetheart! :hug:
July 17th, 2010, 07:50 PM
~Kim~

Thanks Sara. The possibility of another (or 2) has always been there....just the timing wasn't something we had discussed yet.....hey we might even give it a proper go this time :D
July 17th, 2010, 07:54 PM
Ilithyia

:

Thanks Sara. The possibility of another (or 2) has always been there....just the timing wasn't something we had discussed yet.....hey we might even give it a proper go this time :D

Thats exciting in itself hun!

Good luck!
x
July 17th, 2010, 08:06 PM
mrsmac

So sorry i only just saw this thread and the outcome :(
You are such an awesome mummy that I think you owe it to the world to have more children babe!
How exciting if you do have more!! I am jealous.
July 17th, 2010, 08:16 PM
Ilithyia

:

You are such an awesome mummy that I think you owe it to the world to have more children babe!
How exciting if you do have more!! I am jealous.

Well said hun!
x

I'm envious too! :lol:

My time will come again!
July 17th, 2010, 08:17 PM
mrsmac

Yes it will Sara!
July 17th, 2010, 08:26 PM
~Kim~

Miss C, thankyou sooo much :hug:

What would I do without you both?
July 17th, 2010, 08:27 PM
mrsmac

If only we could all be baby buddies again :(
July 17th, 2010, 08:28 PM
Epacris

Hey my darling Kim, I too have only just seen this thread and I just wanted to send you all the warmth and love in the world. :hug: I’d love to see you with another little one (or two) sometime in the future. And you know... I am seriously your DD’s no 1 fan! Ever since she came up to me and introduced herself to me and my kiddies at that meet-up at Jen’s. She totally rocks! :lol: You make absolutely gorgeous children!!! More hugs. :hug:
July 17th, 2010, 11:51 PM
~Kim~

She did Rach? Well that's a proud mummy moment :D Thankyou for the kind words hun.

Me too Christine.
July 18th, 2010, 01:04 AM
smiles4u

... oh Kim my heart just sank for you when i read your later post, i so wish i had the right words, anyway i wanted to pop by and at least give you a warm hug via this message and let you know i'm thinking of you :hug:
July 18th, 2010, 09:24 AM
Ilithyia

:

If only we could all be baby buddies again :(

Nawwww me too!

It seems like so long ago now doesnt it! :(

Def no more for you C???? You look like you could do with another boy just to even things out! ;)
July 18th, 2010, 10:24 AM
MrsFabuloso

Oh Kim, hugs babe. But at least it has cleared things in your mind a bit more? Good luck hun!
July 18th, 2010, 10:27 AM
csab

I too havew only just seen this thread, here I was reading and having my fingers crossed for you until I readf your post, Im so sorry. Im so glad it appears to have started the TTC again, thats wonderdful. Sounds like your DH was really ready for it and just wanted to give you a nudge in the direction. Loads of hugs hun, cant wait to hear a BFP announcement dfrom you soon.
July 19th, 2010, 01:19 PM
Jennifer13

:hug: Kim, well if you can hold off until later this year, maybe you can be my baby/belly buddy. ;)
July 19th, 2010, 01:28 PM
Shanti

:

Thank you girls, your posts have made me cry this morning.
Sadly I woke up to a huge bleed today. My instinct tells me that it was real and just didn't stick, but hey....

:hug: oh hun, I'm so sorry. That happened to me 3 cycles ago (our 1st month ttc) and it was so upsetting for me.

Maybe you and I can be bellybuddies in the very near future ;)
July 19th, 2010, 01:30 PM
beckoes

just saw this thread, i was all excited for you, but you DH is right, atleast you know what you want to do now, we had a similar thing, thought i might be, got all excited ,did the test and it was negative but we were so dissapointed we started TTC the next month!!!
Good luck.
July 19th, 2010, 02:00 PM
ezymay

ok so i wasn't even going to mention anything....but now it's driving me crazy...

Oh Kim I was excited for you too! I'm sorry it's not gone as hoped. Big hugs!