TeniBear Scare

Hi all...

I apologise right now Ten, because I know you'll be reading this and thinking to yourself: He should have learnt proper Spelling and Grammar off me by now!

not often I log in and post which sort of makes the gravity of the situation sink in a bit more I think.

So today, from when my friend commented on her status and woke her up (phone notification) she was feeling what she thought were Brackston Hicks contractions, no big deal.

She goes about her day and at about 1:30 ish while having a shower she gets a really bad pain in her tummy. She send a message to myself and her mum saying "DON'T STRESS - I've been having pains in my tummy..."

I get home and start going about my list of menial tasks to do having not gotten the message in the first place... Ask her if she's ok and she informs me (again). Me being the worry wart I am start freaking out! and decided to call the hospital to find out what we should do.

They told us to come in and get a check up so they could be more certain... I was off in a flash, a quick change of clothes and I bolt into her parents to tell them what's going on... Then the back streets we usually take for work because peek hour traffic sucks!

We go through emergency and after a short visit in a side room (where we just sat down for about 5 mins tops) we were escorted up to the LABOUR WARD (which got both of us a little defensive and excited at the same time! One of the Midwives attaches the CTG to her and I try to work out what's happening on the screen as there were two graphs being plotted... (One obviously the Baby's Heart Rate and one turned out to be tracking any changes in her uterus)

After an hour of that the Doctor gets around to us and tells her what they have to do to check if its a prem Labour and if so the steps they'll need to take after that.

They do they're checking and ten minutes later the test result come back negative for prem Labour and that's pretty much that. "However... we think it would be best, going that this is happening and with the result you had last pregnancy, that we keep you overnight for a closer check" *both of us gulp*

So they escort us up and into a room in the antenatal ward and that's where my precious people are right now :(

:hug: how scary.
I hope your family are all back home and safe with you, where they belong, very soon.

Thank-you for letting us know.

hugs to you both, they're both in good hands, and i'm sure they'll be fine - just bubba keeping you guys on your toes!
Hope the cookie keeps baking xoxo

Oh Teni! How stressful for you. I'll be thinking of you and wishing for your precious Cookie to stay put for a while longer.

Thanks for letting us know Scott. Please give Teni a gentle cuddle from me :)

How scary for you both. Thinking of Teni and your precious Cookie, and hope they are home safe and sound with you tomorrow :hug:

Big squishy :hug: It is terrifying to be in this situation. The positives are everything is looking ok and they are watching her and bubba. Just to be safe. But it is still terrifying :hug:

oooh :hug:

Looking forward to hearing that everyone is home safe and sound (and still contained hopefully!) tomorrow!!

Hugs they are in the best possible place, hope Teni and cookie home soon (with cookie still in utero!)

xoxo

Thinking of you all!

Oh Scott! What a day you have had. Teni is in the best place for her right now so they can stop the labour if it starts. We are all here for you and Teni. Hope you can get some rest tonight.

Thinking of you all. I was wondering what was happening after seeing it on FB... Big :hug: hoping you are ok. x

I hope everything is ok!! I am really only just up the road so let me know if you or Teni need anything and I can be there in 5 min.

Praying for you gorgeous, Hang in there. Hold tight Cookie

hang in there. she is in the best possible place..
hugs

Thanks for updating us Scott. You must be so worried. She's in the right place, though I bet she's scared stiff. Hoping it's just BH.

Sending strength to Teni. Stay in Cookie.

Scott, if you guys have been doing the hypnobabies course, you might find it useful to download the Baby Stay in track for Teni to listen to on her ipod.

Oh Gosh - I had my heart in my mouth all the time I was reading. :hug: The good things are that she's being watched closely & there is no sign of labour. I am so sorry you've had this shock - it's terrifying for you both.

You are a beautiful man to let us all know - please send my love & squishy hugs to both of "your people"... Cuddles to you too Scott. :hug:

All the best... hope all is ok big hugs x o

Hope everything is ok....
I actually live not far from you guys, please yell out if there is anything I can do


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:hug: Teni, take care of yourself and that preciouse cookie. rest up, hopeing for all the best for you three.

hang in there baby, you have a few weeks more cooking to do yet.

:hug: It'll all be ok. Have faith xx
Rest up Teni!!

Has she got her phone charger yet?? :lol: She's gonna go insane without it!

hugs. how scary for you all. hope all is well tomorrow!

Oh my, :hug:'s to both of you, hope everything goes well tonight and cookie stays put for a lot longer yet!

Oh Scott, how terrifying for you guys!!! Teni is in the right place, it is best for her. How tough for you though, big hugs :hug:

Thanks for letting us all know xx

Thanks Tash, I'll look into it!

and to everyone else. Thanks as well, I know how much you have all supported her when she felt she couldn't open it up to me... I'm still dealing with evrything my way (the wrong way of course :)) but if anything, I owe it to her to fill you all in on what's going on while she doesn't have the capacity or availability to.

Hugs. Cookie and teni are in the best possible place. Good luck

I've been watching this on FB and thinking of you all. Hope you are all OK and Cookie stays put for at least another month!
Do we know if someone was able to take Teni an IPhone charger? I think her battery is flat and she must be feeling very scared and lonely.
:(

Thinking of you all.

Thinking of you all xx

:hug:

you are in my thoughts and prayers tonight.

She is in the best place possible and hopefully they are BH.

:hug:

Big hugs. :hug:
Stay bakin' in there Cookie!

Thinking of you all.
xoxoxoxoxox

Thanks for letting us know Scott.

Thinking of you both and hoping lil Cookie stays put for at least another 6 weeks.....big hugs to you both.

I really feel for you guys so much and I honestly know how scared you both must be. Thanks for letting us know Scott, I will be praying that all will be fine.

Regards,
Dianne

How terrifying. Thanks for updating us Scotty, I'm glad Teni is being well looked after (by you and the hossy).

All will be well, she's in the right place. Take care and get lots of rest. And stay inside Cookie!

Thinking of you guys xx

Lots of :hug:

thinking of you all!

thinking of you all right now!!
hoping and praying that everything settle's down and little Cookie stay's in there a little longer xx

scottyduck thank you for coming in here and letting us all know, must be very hard and extremely worrying for you to see the 2 most important people in your world going through this! stay strong mate and thanks again for coming here letting us know

Oh my goodness! Take lots of care Teni and Scott, keep baking a little longer Cookie :hug:

thinking of you all :hug: hang tight little Cookie!

hugs teni
stay strong hun and you too scott
my thoughts are with you both and of course cookies