My sad introduction

Hi ladies

I have been reading your wonderful & informative forum posts for since early April, when my husband and I decided it was time to start trying for a family.

We were incredibly lucky falling pregnant; I had my Implanon removed on the 14th April, after 4 years, and did my first positive HPT on 6th May. I had a great start to my pregnancy - no m/s to speak of. But started spotting at around 6 weeks. Had a scan & all OK, saw baby's HB for the first time. More bleeding at 9 weeks, including one major bleed which saw me heading to Emergency, for fear of miscarriage. Two scans in a week showed a healthy & active baby, with a strong heart beat. Told I had a haematoma which may continue to bleed so should not worry. Had a break from bleeding of about 2 days, then bleeding commenced again at the start of last week, and had been constant. Brought my 12w scan forward to Tuesday (which made me 11w3d), at which time we were told that there was no heartbeat, and the baby had stopped growing about 5 days earlier.

Obviously, my husband & I are heartbroken; but I think that deep down, I knew that this bleeding couldn't be a good sign for our baby.

I had a D&C this morning, which, whilst upsetting, was actually not as distressing as I thought it would be. As I had been bleeding for over a week, and body was showing no sign of passing baby naturally, I really wanted the D&C so I could start getting back to 'normal'.

Yesterday, I went through my computer and removed all reminders about baby appointments, due dates etc, and was going to delete all of my 'baby related' websites until we are lucky enough to fall pregnant again, but then realised what a wealth of support you all are, so thought I should still call in and introduce myself, as I'm really sure I'll be needing some advice in my next steps of the journey.

The silver lining of our cloud is that we did fall pregnant so quickly, so I think we will try again as soon as we feel up to it, and hope that the next pregnancy is an extra sticky one.

Thanks for listening to my story

Im sorry...:( I hope things get better...I also know what it is like to miscarry and the best advice I can give is give it time to heal..

Hi TheMrsSmith, so sorry for the loss of your bubs. Funny how as mums, we usually have the 'right' intuition. You have certainly come to a great place for support, information etc.... GL with your TTC journey

Welcome to BB TheMrsSmith, I'm so sorry for your loss :hug:.

I also joined BB while going through a loss. At the time BB was a wealth of information for me, and now, years later it has become my community :).

Please take good care of yourself :hug:

I'm so sorry for your loss.
Sadly, there's so many members here who have been through the same thing.

Welcome to BB.

Welcome to BB so sorry its on such sad terms.
So sorry for your loss, my first preg ended in a mc and d and c.

I hope you find love and support from BB.

xoxo

:hug: and welcome to BB. I too came here looking for support after my third mc, and i am so happy i did. Go easy on yourself and heal. Fly free little bubba xxx

Could have written those words myself. Sorry for your loss but you will find masses of support here. I first posted here three years ago about my first loss and I'm still here. Welcome :hug:

Hope you find some comfort here.

take care

welcome and i am so sorry! please say, its great support, more so than people in real life i have found!

be kind to yourself, take time to heal physically and emotionally!

Im so very sorry for your loss.

Give yourself much time to grieve and heal.

I myself had a similar loss and link it to the haematoma which was lying alongside the sac.

Thinking of you during this sad time!
xxxx

I am so sorry for your loss :hug:

Welcome to BB. I hope you find lots of comfort and support here. It really is a wonderful community.

Im sorry for your loss. I know what you are going thorough and, speaking from experience, I know you will find a lot of support here.

Interestingly, I had a sub-chronic haematoma right next to the sac with my last two miscarried pgs, and none with my two healthy pgs.

Thinking of you.

Oh I hun I am so sorry for your loss.... With my ectopic pregnancy (even though my first) I knew something wasn't right ..... Please stay the women here are amazing xoo

I'm very sorry to hear of your loss hun, big hugs. Welcome to BB and I hope that you get the support that you need, which I know you will. Wishing you all the very best in your TTC journey when you're up to it.

Welcome to BB. Im so sorry for your loss huni and I hope you are doing ok xxx

Welcome to BB MrsTheSmith, sorry to meet you in sad circumstance. I wish you well on your journey and hope to see you in other forum sections soon.
kaz

welcome to BB,im so sorry that it is under such sad circumstance! hope you find the support her you need. hugs

Sorry to hear of your loss, give yourself time xxx