Our baby didn't make it

Well after a dream run with our first IVF cycle it all came crashing down on Tuesday at our first doctors appointment. I was expecting everything to be fine as I had heaps of symptoms. I had a lovely doctor, thank goodness. The baby should have been 10 weeks but stopped growing in the 8th week. So it was a big shock as everything was fine at the 7 week ultrasound.
Realistically I know that the stats for miscarriage at my age are over 40% but things had gone so well and I was really confident and have thrown out all my IVF stuff! So we go back for one last try and then perhaps look at using donor eggs.

Ohhh Anney, I am very sorry for your loss.... take care of yourself.
Lots of hugs...


Love

Oh Anney Im so sorry to hear of your loss :hugs:

so sorry for your loss anney... thinking of you sweetie.. leis xx

Oh anney,

I am so very sorry for the loss of your little miracle bub. Stats cant take away the longing you have for a baby or the pain you feel when you have lost one. I hope that you can get through this difficult time, and allow yourself to grieve and let your body recover.

I am thinking of you and we are all here to help you through and give you strength.

Big hugs,
Lisa

So very, very sorry for your loss Anney. Please take care of yourself and good luck with your next cycle.

I'm so sorry for your loss Anney. :hugs: to you.

Hugs to you Anney..... I'm really sorry.

So sorry to hear of your loss Anney and I hope and pray the next IVF cycle works out better for you.

I'm totally devestated for you sweetie. I'm glad you had a good dr that definitely helps.

Goodluck and :hug: thinking of you!

*mwa*
Cailin

Anney - I am so sorry that your beautiful baby didn't make it. I'm thinking of you an really hope that you have a wonderful experience and healthy baby next time round.

Anney I am so very sorry that your precious little bubs hasn't made it. My thoughts are with you at this terrible time.

Sending you huge hugs

Im so very very sorry.

Jo

Anney I'm so sorry honey my thoughts are with you at this terrible time hugs to you both

Oh Anney, my heart sank when I read your post. I am truly very very sorry for your loss.

Oh Anney...i'm so so very sorry to hear of your loss. Big hugs to you and your DH during such a hard time in your lives...

Oh Anney i'm so very sorry for u. i will be praying that u soon receive the precious bub u so desire. Take care of urself :hug:

Anney i am so sorry to hear of your loss :hug:

Very sorry to hear of your loss Anney, big hugs to you, and hope your next cycle gives you a healthy baby.

I'm so sorry for your loss Anney.

Anney I am so sorry to hear your news- hugs

oh anney i am so sorry big hugs :hug:

So very sorry Anney, chin up and take care....you are in my thoughts. X

Oh, so sorry to hear of your loss Anney.

OH no ! Anney :hug: I'm so very sorry to hear this devastating news .My thoughts are with you & DH at this difficult time.It really is so unfair.My heart aches for you.

All the wonderful ladies here echo my thoughts and feelings.I am so sorry for the loss of this precious baby.The little one you had but never to hold in your arms only in your heart.

I too lost a precious baby and the heartache remains deep after 22 months.

Be gentle with yourselves, grieve and cry as much as you need to. I know there is NOTHING I could possible say to ease your pain.

Draw on your great personal strength as you continue this journey.

with hope
Trish

Anney I'm so sorry your much-adored baby was lost.

Anney - thinking of you during such a tough time. :crying: Try and take good care and sending lots of love and hugs your way. :hug:

Marg
xoxo

anney i am sorry to hear this, will be thinking of you guys

liz

Oh no Anney, I am so very sorry. I hope you, DP and DD are finding support in each other. I have fingers and toes crossed for next time for you :hug:

Oh Anney - I am so, so sorry for your loss.

Thinking of you at this terrible time.

Hugs,

Anney, I too am saddened by your news!!!
I hope you are OK...

Dear Anney,

I am so so sorry to hear of the loss of your beautiful baby. You are in my thoughts.

Love Sarah xx

Anney

As per all of the lovely ladies above I am very sorry to hear of you loss. Try to keeps the stats out of your mind - there is always room for one more miracle. Stick with it and dont lose hope no matter what

Huge hugs to you

XXXX

So sorry Anney.

I am so, so sorry.
Big Hugs,
Debbie

So sorry to hear your news, it is just so unfair for some. This same thing happened to my dear friend, and it was very devastating. I hope you achieve your dream soon.

Oh Anney,
I am so sorry to hear that. I was hoping that everything would be just right for you.
My heart goes out to you.

:hug: Anney, so sad for you.
Yes, you did have a dream IVF run this time and you can do it again.
Take time to heal and as always...take care of your heart, first and foremost.

I am so sorry for your loss,
I will have you and your DH in my prayers. :hugs:

oh no! I am so upset for you, Anney. Your little one will be in my prayers tonight.