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At only 4 weeks we had to say goodbye.
I knew I was pregnant, my boobs had exploded, was throwing up.
I'd just become excited was about to break it to DP that we had a little surprise.
Unfortunately, I started bleeding on Saturday, horrible cramps and all my pregnancy symptoms are gone. I've also passed a few clots.
I don't know how to grieve for this little one. I want to. I'm devastated.
shhh on FB.
I feel heartbroken. I was so excited.
Its been a hard day.
Oh hun :hug:
I don't really know what to say but huge squishy hugs :hug:
Oh no, i'm sorry your little one couldn't stay. Look after yourself. :hug:
I'm so sorry Charlotte, take care of yourself :(
Oh hun :comfort: I'm so sorry your precious bubba couldn't stay x
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Oh hun I am really so very sorry....have you told DH? You shouldn't go through this alone xoxo
aw no :hug:
im so sorry sweetie xxx
Oh no not you too :cry: I know nothing i say will make you feel any better. i am so sorry and please take care xoxoxo
:comfort: sorry for your loss
Oh no, I am so sorry to hear. It is amazing how quickly you bond to a baby and it must be a huge shock to have had to say goodbye.
I agree with Chepie, I hope you are not going through this alone.
Huge :hug: and take care of yourself.
Oh no, I am so sorry to hear. It is amazing how quickly you bond to a baby and it must be a huge shock to have had to say goodbye.
I agree with Chepie, I hope you are not going through this alone.
Huge :hug: and take care of yourself.
:( Im so sorry charlotte! Take care of yourself babe, and grieve :hug: lots of love xxxxxxxxxxxx
I am so sorry for your loss :( :hug:
oh im so sorry xxx
Oh sweetie, I am so so sorry :hug::hug::hug:. I wish I could make it all better for you and bring your little one back. My heart is breaking for you hun, it's so bloody unfair. Thinking of you :comfort:
b xoxoxoxo
:hug: Charlotte. Sorry your little one couldn't stay. Thinking of you xo
I'm so sorry Charlotte!!! :hug:
Thanks ladies. DP knows, he's upset but he's under alot of stress at the moment and I hoped that this baby would give him something positive to focus on.
Unfortunately, not. He's been good and giving me lots of hugs.
I hoped that I would never have to post in here. It just sucks and it hurts badly. I had just gotten my head around the fact that I was pregnant and now its been taken away. I keep thinking of the lyrics from one of my favourite albums. "Grief crippled me, the Reaper cheated me. Left me yearning for the path I'd come to adore."
That song is actually about a true story. The lead singer got his girlfriend pregnant and was scared. By the time he got excited and was ready, she lost the baby during the second trimester.
I know I was only 4 weeks, but...
I feel ripped off.
Thanks again for all your hugs and support. I'm gonna need some hugs for the next little while, I think.
I'm so so sorry. Thinking of you. xoxoxoxox
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I'm really sorry for your loss, take care xx
All i can say is I'm so sorry for your loss and please let me know if i can help in any way even if you just need someone to vent too send me an inbox xxx
huge hugs hun :hug: I'm so sorry
:hug: So sorry to hear this hun xoxo
Im sorry for your loss.:hug:
I'm really sorry for your loss Charlotte. I wish there was something more to say, but know you have tons of support here.
Lots of love and hugs xxx
Oh no :(
So sorry to hear this. Be kind to yourself xxx
So sorry for your loss hun xxx.
Regards,
Dianne
Oh Charlotte, I'm so sorry. Love and hugs to you, DP and gorgeous Hannah.
xox
:hug: How are you going hun? I just want to say don't think cause you were 'only' 4 weeks you don't have the right to grieve and be upset. I was devastated after my mc. Thinking of you xxxxxxxxxxxx
Sorry to hear of your loss I went for my first scan 2 weeks ago would of been 13 weeks but sadly the heartbeat stopped at 9 wks 2 days, words cannot describe how we felt, sadly I didnt pass naturally and Wednesday (would of been 15 weeks) I was taken into hospital given taken and experienced labour pains, I passed a small amount but had to be taken down yesterday for a d&c, woke up crying and couldnt believe I was no longer pregnant, family friends and the hospital midwife and team has been amazing and hopefully with their love and support me and my partner will get through this. You have to grieve, scream, shout, cry do what you feel will help you and hopefully for us both we may have good news again soon :pray:. Take care:
i am so sorry :(
Stop judging your greif in terms of weeks...your baby was your baby!: