For Skybie, mummydreamer, Ahurani and RockingBaker

I'm sorry to include you all in one message. It's just that I'm thinking of all of you as you near the anniversaries of the birth and deaths of your beautiful, cherished babies, Jack, Josiah, Hayley and Sophie.

I know how difficult it is in the lead up to the anniversary. You relive each day as though it's happening again. I found it difficult on the day, not just the date. Be gentle with yourselves and let the tears fall as they will. I found the lead up worse than the actual day, but everyone is different.

I know we've all had different experiences. Some stillbirth, some death just after birth or SIDS. We share the endless grief, love and pride in our babies no longer with us.

I wish you lots of love, support and strength in the upcoming days and weeks. Cry, remember and rejoice in the love for your darling child. I am so sorry your babies aren't home with you planning their first birthday. I know how heartbreaking that is. I hope you are all able to do something lovely to honour them on their birthdays.

For anyone else who lost their darling baby this time last year, who I have not mentioned, I am sorry and wish you strength and peace as well.

:grouphug: Have been thinking of you ladies so much lately.

:hug: to all. It's also nearly two years since Ianto was born :grouphug:

Beautiful - lots of love to you ladies :hug::hug:


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:hug: love to you all, and to your precious babies :hug:

Aw Tash that's beautiful thank you :hug:

I subconsciously know its coming and it's coming up really fast. It's weird, I kind of don't know what to feel anymore itms. I definately couldn't have got to where I am without alot of support from so many people.

I think about your boys alot too <3

Hugs to you beautiful ladies :grouphug:

Tash, you have an incredibly beautiful heart to be thinking of others when you also have been through so much.

Thinking of you all and sending you hugs and strength, xx

Thinking of you all and your precious babies x

Thinking of you all xX

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thinking of you all :hug:

You are all in my thoughts.

Regards,
Dianne

Thinking of you all beautiful ladies and your precious angel babies :grouphug:

*Cue blubbering*
Thank YOU sweet lady, thank you for reaching out, thank you for your messages of love and support.
Im a bit like A, not really sure what to feel or what we're suppose to do...celebrate, hide away from the day.
DF and i were imagining what he'd be like if he was still here last night, we decided he'd already be walking and getting into all sorts of mischief!
Thank you everyone xxx

Huge :hug:s and :comfort: to everyone coming up to their bub's birthdays soon - named here or not. You WILL survive this. You might not know how, it might come from hiding in bed all day crying, but you will do it.

Giant thanks to PZ for mentioning Ianto too :) You've no idea how much it makes me smile knowing people remember :)

Thinking of you all xx much love and strength

I think of you all often, ladies.

Sending love and strength and tears and whatever else may help.

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Big hugs to you all from me too.

Thinking of you all, Skybie, mummydreamer, Ahurani and RockingBaker and Tenibear.
Including my daughter too, who was a February girl.

Tash. Always so well said and thinking of others.

There are many of us that think of you ladies (tash you included) every time we get on BB.

Go gently

Xxoo

Thanks guys it means a lot to be remembered. We have so many important dates in the next few months and I'm dreading them all. My wedding anniversary is next month and I spent ages convincing DH to ignore it as all I can think of is how happy we were to have our whole family apart of our wedding,. DH's birthday is right in between her birthday and the day she died which is going to be rough on him.

I think about guys daily, everytime I see my tattoos in the mirror or Sophie's painting. I know we're not alone (but I wish we were for your sakes).

Lots of love x

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Huge :hug:s and :comfort: to everyone coming up to their bub's birthdays soon - named here or not. You WILL survive this. You might not know how, it might come from hiding in bed all day crying, but you will do it.

Giant thanks to PZ for mentioning Ianto too :) You've no idea how much it makes me smile knowing people remember :)

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I definately always think of you, scott and ianto as it approaches williams birthday xx altho ur ending was not how anyone wanted or expected I was very thankful to share pregnancy with you :).

Hugs - I hope you each find a way to celebrate your angels. Thinking of you all xxx

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I definately always think of you, scott and ianto as it approaches williams birthday xx altho ur ending was not how anyone wanted or expected I was very thankful to share pregnancy with you :).

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Make me cry why doncha? I always wonder if anyone remembers I was meant to be in that group :redface:


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Thinking of all mums with Angel babies. May 2012 bring no more families to our horrible club.
We celebrated our Angel Ellen's 2nd birthday on the 13/1 with a butterfly release with close family. It was a lovely thing to do. As usual the build up to the day (like with Xmas mothers/fathers day/funeral date) was worse than the actual day.
Go gently and with faith in yourselves as the most special parents there ever can be. Parenting an angel is a harder job than parenting a baby you can see hold and hug.
Kate

Thinking of you ladies, and your beautiful angel babies. Tash, you never cease to amaze me hun, you are so thoughtful and so caring. Thank you :grouphug: