Why is my DS screaming hysterically ALL NIGHT????

Where has my gorgeous DS gone?? DS used to go to bed at 7pm and sleep until 11pm roughly and then have b/f basically in his sleep every 3/4 hours until morning. He would sleep in his cot. He is now 6 1/2 months old but for the last 3 or so weeks he has been screaming hysterically and neither me or DH can calm him down. I try b/f, holding him, putting him in his cot, co-sleeping, DH holding him but nothing is working. He just screams and he is exhausted and finally gives in to the exhaustion & sleeps. He is perfect during the day. Happy, playing, squirting around on the floor, sleeping anywhere between 1 1/2 to 2 1/2 hours after settling himself in bed without a single tear/cry/gizzle. But come night he screams hysterically for hours and then wakes up hourly. I follow exactly the same routine at night as during the day. Our room is extremely dark so I put my lamp on the floor behind my bed on the lowest setting just to put a little bit of light in there. He is wrapped. Our house has ducted heating so it's a constant temp. My older two kids are still up so there is still noise in the house like during the day.

I'm desperate - any ideas before I completely loose the last thread of sanity I'm hanging on to for dear life?

TIA

Hang in there it dies get better (eventually) remember they have a big developmental jump around 6mths


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Is it possible he has an ear Infection??
Good luck honey.

Id be taking him to the Dr for a full check-up.

3 weeks is a long time for it to be going on and not be investigated.

Hope you get some answers soon.

Big hugs!
x

I agree with Frangipani Lou, my DS2 was a champion sleeper except for when he had ear infections. It affected him at night only and was happy during the day.
Worth having him checked out for peace of mind. It could also be a very long wonder week.

DD did that at 8 months (6 1/2 corrected). She was up ALL night and an angel during the day.
It only lasted about 10 days. It was a very long 10 days, though.

I had him at GP last week & they couldn't find anything. I'm going to go see my mch nurse this week & see if she has any ideas.

Just not sure how much longer I can keep going.

What are his bowel movements like? Do you think it is pain - ie: pulling up his legs or is he just crying? Just trying to think what it could be....

How about teeth? A friend's LO had two teeth coming through side by side and there wasn't enough room for them so they were giving her a lot of pain, and were sort of stuck into each other so weren't breaking through properly.

hang in there lovely. I hope he settles back to his normal happy self soon and you and D get some sleep

No ideas here honey but wanted to pop in and give you a :hug: and hope you find some answers or he settles soon xoxox

I'm just stopping by to give you a :hug:. I have no idea why he is doing this. Although my newest theory is he is a night time rager. Lets track him when he's older to test my theory ;) And I bet when he's an old man, he has sundowners!

But in all seriousness - :hug: and more :hug: and I hope he settles soon xo

separation anxiety?

I agree with a checkup just to rule out anything medical. Only other thing I can think of is have you started solids? Could it be food/tummy related?

I hope you find an answer soon. It's upsetting when they're distressed and you can't work out why :(

Does he seem in pain? Have you tried to offer any type of pain relief at any stage? Did it change anything?

If he seems in pain I would think teeth or an ear infection would be the things to look at first. What is happening on the teeth front? My DD1 acted very much like you describe for about 2 months before she got her first tooth - it was horrible :( Fine during the day but waking up screaming several times a night and some times screaming for hours. I wasn't really sure if it was teeth or not but I put some teething gel on and she calmed down soon after so I realised I was on the right track. Some nights all we could do was hold her and try and distract her because that seemed to help a bit. I remember one night in desperation I grabbed an empty envelope with a clear window and some how that distracted her enough to stop her screaming. That damn envelope was all we had for many many night time hours, by the time the tooth arrived it was a tattered shread of paper with a scrap of plastic attached but it was the most important item in our house.

Other than that I would say separation anxiety but that sounds a bit unlikely if he is the same when you are with him.

Hope it passes soon.....x

It's such a guessing game, isn't it? If the GP didn't find anything, then it could be teeth emerging (??) Our DS2 screamed for weeks at nighttime,with EVERY tooth that he cut. Oh my. Panadol and Nurofen together couldn't calm the crying and we'd be up for hours holding him. The tooth or teeth would emerge and we'd have a respite of a few weeks and then back into it again.
Or separation anxiety - I think that happens around 6 months.
Not sure what age night terrors start as DS1 experienced those, but I think that's more toddler age and would happen after the first hour or two of sleep. Watching The Night Garden on DVD seemed to stop the screaming. It's like a drug for kids - as soon as they hear the music they go quiet, but again, probaby more a toddler thing.
Can you try a warm bath to calm them down (probably not what you're wanting to do in the middle of the night).
We found when the teething screaming wouldn't stop after hours that a 5-10 min drive was the only thing that worked. Not fun when we live in the country where it's pitch black some nights and the nearest road is 100km/hr with kangaroos around. Talk about desperate measures!

Hope you get some respite soon. A few weeks of screaming can feel like an eternity and you really start to dread the evenings. Hang in there!

Oh hun, I'm so sorry you're going through this :hug:

My DS went through a similar thing at around 8mths I think - didn't want to feed, didn't want to be in his cot, but he at least calmed down in my arms. We spent a lot of time in front of the TV - me watching things I'd taped earlier, him dozing. We ended up at sleep school but he got a lot better before then... he just worked something out himself. Like your DS, he seemed quite happy during the day so I never really considered anything medical, just some sort of night thing.

It is so tough. People offer to help but really, when it gets to 1am and you are up with the baby yet again, you know there is not a lot they can do. They can take them during the day and try to give you some rest, but you know its going to happen all over again in 8hrs and it is not a nice feeling.

How was he last night? Any better?

Thank you all for taking the time to post and suggestion some things. I think the only thing left is seperation anxiety. He has his bowels open daily or second daily and it's soft/liquid. He has been given panadol/nurofen/bonjela. I've been showering with him at all weird times of the night.
Sadly I've got no back up and that makes it that little bit harder knowing that I can't catch up on a nap during the day. I wish I could so I wasn't so grumpy with my older kids - I just hate that I'm grumpy/cranky with them, it's not their fault.
He is just the biggest mystery. If only he could talk and tell me.

Oh hun, gosh my DS has been a terrible teether too, DH works away and I have two older ones, and no back up either...I hate being the cranky / grumpy mum too, I really can empathise with you....

How open are you to co-sleeping? If its seperation anxiety I don't think trying to get him to sleep in his cot by himself is going to help.... ((hugs)) how tough this is for you :-(

Oh hun huge hugs, hope he settles for you soon xo

Well blow me away and praise the Lord!!!! He slept for three hours last night!!! And in a row too not in total, LOL!!! Absolutely no idea what was different but praying to God that he strings together two three hour blocks tonight. Would love if this is the beginning of him going back to sleeping but will take it one sleep at a time.
RhiChiChi I'm all for co-sleeping but DS is it and miss with it. I'd sleep upside down outside in the freezing butt naked if it would help him sleep, LOL!!!

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I'd sleep upside down outside in the freezing butt naked if it would help him sleep, LOL!!!

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Can I have a photo of that please :p

I hope you get another decent (even better!) night tonight

Yay! for a great two blocks of sleep, I hope it continues!

Lol@ sleeping upside down & naked - funny how we do anything for a good nights sleep!

Well I think we might have found our problem. It's looking like DS2 has chicken pox!!! He has slept in my arms since yesterday afternoon. Making things hard to look after DD & DS but hopefully only a few days & he'll be back to normal. But gee I really hope it isn't chicken pox.

poor baby boy. I hope if it is, then its just a mild case and that O and W don't get it too. Sending you sleeping and healing vibes