Good psychic in Melbourne

Hi everyone, I was just wondering if anyone could recommend a really good psychic in Melbourne?? After 14 years together 2 beautiful children, we had our son 4 weeks ago, my husband told me he loves me but is not "in love" with me and wants to separate to divorce. Our son was 3 weeks old when he told me. He says he isn't interested in marriage counselling and once he leaves he's not coming back.... I'm so lost right now. I was wondering if anyone could point me in the direction of a really, really good psychic to get some understanding as to what is going on ?? He says there is no one else but I found photos of another woman on his phone and her children and flowers he had sent her.....
Am so gutted and stressed. My milk has all but dried up and I was starting to do so well :( We already have a 3 year old daughter....
Please help

Earthmama, I am really, really sorry you are going through this :( It must be utterly devastating.

I dont know of any psychics sorry, but I wanted to offer an alternative (or, if you prefer, an extra) which I think would be hugely beneficial to you.

I think you should look into counselling just for you. You are going through a period of immense stress at a time when you should be getting support. I think it would be great if you could get some professional support. It doesnt need to cost much. You can go to your gp and explain the situation and ask for a mental health plan. This will reduce the cost significantly.

In the meantime, try to look after yourself as much as you can. Do you have any family or friends IRL who can help.

This is such a crappy thing to happen. I really feel for you :hug:

take care x

So sorry to hear what you're going through. It must be so incredibly stressful for you right now.

I'm not sure which part of Melb you're located in, but I would highly recommend going to Flying Souls. They are near Nepean Hwy, near Gardenvale Station/North Brighton. My sister sees Libby for readings and we've both seen Emma for healings. They are both nurturing, lovely people. I haven't seen the other therapists - they also offer massage etc. Have a look on their website. Definately, definately recommend Libby for a reading and Emma for a healing. I used to live in Melb but now live over an hour away in the country and still drive to see them. I've seen a few different people over the years and this place is the best.
As Nothing2lose said, maybe also see if you can book in with a regular counsellor for support as well.
I hope you get some insight as to what's going on
Lots of love and strength to you

He's gone. Thank you both for your advice. I'm seeing the mat. Health nurse tomorrow for DS 4 week check up...will get some help there...he really left :(

Earthmama hugs I couldn't read and not post something.
This happened to a friend of mine after baby number 3. Reach out to your friends and family for support x

Earth mamma. I'm so sorry :(

big :grouphug: from all of us. I agree with the others. Get someone to talk to and ask family and friends to help if you can.

Earthmuma I also couldnt read and not respond, nothing we can say will make your world seem right at the moment. how uterly devistating for you and your children. Ask for help from family and friends. I am so sorry you would have to be going through this at such a stressfull time anyway.

Oh Earthmama, :hug:. I am so sorry. Definitely talk to someone so that you can keep functioning

I tried to pm you, but it didn't work. More :hug:

Oh earthmama... Couldn't read and not respond... Huge, huge hugs!!!
I also suggest some counseling for you... Xox

Right now a psychic isn't going to help you at all, what you need is to sit down with a counsellor who can help you sort through your feelings/emotions etc.

:hug:

oh I'm so sorry.

Hugs.

I really hope you have some close family and friends who can support you right now, especially with a new baby.
Also, maybe speak to your GP about linking in with a psychologist or social worker for counselling. You can get some sessions rebated through Medicare on a Mental Health Care plan for issues such as stress, depression etc.

I think somebody tried to send you a private message, but it didn't work. I think once you've posted 50, people should be able to PM you etc.
Reach out to everybody in your life and don't feel like you need to be 'strong', just get through each day and get as much support as you need. Sending you lots of love

Hi,
Just seeing how you were getting on? I've been thinking of you and tried to send a PM, but couldn't.
I hope you are ok.

I ended up going to Libby. It was more like a counselling session than a reading. She didn't pull out any tarot cards or anything. She was lovely though but she got everything wrong. She said there was no one else and that my husband would come back to me. Tonight my husband told me he is in love with her and to forget him... How could he be so cruel after 14 years together ? All I ever did was love and support him. I'm so shattered !!! Our son is 6 weeks old :(

Make sure you get on to centerlink & child support. He can't just leave & go play happy families with someone else & leave you the children you had together to "just forget him" . Sorry to hear he is turning his back on you & the children. But don't let him get away with it that easy. He needs to man up & still be there for his children.

I can't believe this is happening .... My whole body is shaking

Breath just breath

I'm so sorry this has happened.
The pain can be overwhelming at times. Just get thru every minute as best u can. Focusing on your children will keep you busy in the day, but take time for yourself at night.
Be gentle with yourself.

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Lots of hugs EM..

I would highly recommend N2Ls suggestion of counselling.

I'm so sorry he has put you trough this. But you will get through it and get to the thee side xoxox

I'm so sorry Earthmama. You must be devastated. I think speaking to a counsellor is a really good idea.

:hug:

Do you have close friends or family around you?
He sounds like a real piece of work, that is so horrible that he would say that to you and just walk away i am so sorry. I hope you have lots of support. Xxx

oh I'm so sorry. Like what efjay said, he can't just walk away completely, you've got a child together now. I hope you've got some family support to help you right now. It's hard enough looking after a newborn without the stress that you're experiencing right now. See if your GP can link you in with a good counsellor.
Hugs

He can just leave unfort. I'm so sorry to say this.

As long as he pay his child support (agency can collect) and uses a lawyer for his divorce he doesn't have to have anything to do with her. It's horrible and a cowards way but no one can force him to see his children.

I really hope this isn't the case for you but what ever happens its not you fault.

Do you have support? I doubt his family will be very proud of his actions and they may want to stay connected and could be amazing support.

So sorry this is happening to you.

I can't suggest any psychics, but I would encourage you to see a counsellor, and a lawyer.

If you have any family nearby or really close friends, I'd possibly also see if someone can come and stay with you for a week or two, to give you some hands on support ... a newborn and a toddler is a huge amount for anyone to handle on their own, without the additional stress and grief you are currently experiencing.

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How are you doing?
I'm so sorry for what you must be feeling. Are you ok?

He comes and sees the kids almost every day. He baths our daughter and will feed our son and he'll sterilise bottles and ask if l need anything else. But he can't give me what I need. This morning it all unravelled. They were both supposed to leave their marriages except she backed out and is now saying he was the instigator and is trying to work things out with her husband. So my husband has lost everything and ended up getting burnt by the one person he thought he was going to be in love and happy with. Everybody seems shiny and excitong when thry're having an affair.

Earth mama, if anyone's been burnt, it's you.

I wouldn't worry about him. He made his choice. Expend your energy on you and your little ones.

Look after yourself :hug:

And remember, you and your children are not the consolation prize.

Hmmm & how do you feel about all this. Where do you stand? Do you think you can work through this? Do you want too? Does he?

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He comes and sees the kids almost every day. He baths our daughter and will feed our son and he'll sterilise bottles and ask if l need anything else. But he can't give me what I need. This morning it all unravelled. They were both supposed to leave their marriages except she backed out and is now saying he was the instigator and is trying to work things out with her husband. So my husband has lost everything and ended up getting burnt by the one person he thought he was going to be in love and happy with. Everybody seems shiny and excitong when thry're having an affair.

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How sad im nearly in tears as my marriage broke down too...at 7 weeks he was out all the time and didnt give a rats and he got so bitterly distance and verbally abusive i left him ..... 18 months later im divorced ! it was a revolting revolting 12 months for me but i got thru i concentrated on my kids and my baby and went back to work ...
(he see the kids which is a huge help but now has fathered another kids yep 18 months after i left ....)

When he asks you what you need tell him you would've like to be loved cherished and spoiled but he chose to end the marriage so he can support you in raising his children BUT you my dear have to move on .... with the help of counsellors .... and get down to centrelink and get yourself sorted...

Some men are ????


HUgs to you darling girl xx

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He comes and sees the kids almost every day. He baths our daughter and will feed our son and he'll sterilise bottles and ask if l need anything else. But he can't give me what I need. This morning it all unravelled. They were both supposed to leave their marriages except she backed out and is now saying he was the instigator and is trying to work things out with her husband. So my husband has lost everything and ended up getting burnt by the one person he thought he was going to be in love and happy with. Everybody seems shiny and excitong when thry're having an affair.

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Lots of hugs xox he has lost everything BECAUSE OF HIS CHOICES not anyone else's xox

I am sorry I cannot offer more than what has been written already above, and to make sure that you DO get straight onto centrelink and organise yourself on that front, in touch with a counsellor or with a gp to get you onto a mental health plan (discounted counselling), and also make sure you eat properly, even if your are not hungry.

All the ladies on here, me included, are right behind you and your children, wishing you strength and a clear way forward. :comfort:

Hi ladies,
I have just re read all the comments after not being on this forum for ever and wanted to say from the bottom of my heart...thank you. I ended up taking my husband back and then he went back to her again and left her again. I took him back again. We are doing counselling together but I have just started seeing my own counsellor for myself too. Some days I feel like we are ok and other days I feel like I'm going crazy and that I just can't cope being with him and knowing he could do that to me...to us....
I just can't fathom that he could be so hurtful and selfish in the one time I needed him most. If there's ever a time a woman should be able to relax that her husband won't go astray it should be when she's pregnant, carrying his child, right ?
The other woman had been texting him just until about 3 weeks ago and he says he's been ignoring her texts but how do l know ? I am trying to trust him again but it's reaaaaally really hard.
The counsellor said to give ourselves 3 months and then we should gain an idea of whether we want to continue (more me than him)...Some days l'm so ready to leave him and other days I can't imagine life without him...On a positive note, our son has been absolutely beautiful. He is such a happy baby (which is surprising seeing as i was so miserable and unsupported during my pregnancy with him). I'm so lucky. I've been a bit short with our daughter because of my anxiety and it fills me with guilt because she has just been the best big sister ever throughout all this mess...I'm trying my best...I feel like he's not sorry enough...is that...wrong or destructive or something ?

I'm so glad you baby is here. Congratulations!

Congratulations on your new little man! I don't know what else to say, it all has to be up to you, and I don't know if what you said is destructive or not. But I'm pretty sure its not constructive. I am glad to see you back on the forum. X