Soooooooo devastated

This is probably going to be a massive, unreasonable, makes no sense rant!!! But I need to get it off my chest I'm a massive wreck!!!

So had bloods taken Monday Hcg had risen from 1700 to 5100 in five days!!! Progesterone was sitting at 56 - not bad it was under 40....

LMP was the 5/4/13.... By that I should be 7 week this Friday

Just went for a dating scan and was told there is no sign of any pregnancy and that my hcg levels can keep going up if there is no pregnancy!!!!

WTF??? How can that be? The lady who did the scan was soooooooo rude

I'm heart broken

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That's a real worry. i'd go get a second opinion. It could be a sign of an ectopic pregnancy, or it may just be hiding where the sonographer couldnt see it. Depending on when you ovulated, your dates may be wrong.

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That's a real worry. i'd go get a second opinion. It could be a sign of an ectopic pregnancy, or it may just be hiding where the sonographer couldnt see it. Depending on when you ovulated, your dates may be wrong.

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I know I'm freaking right out this will be miscarriage number 14 if it doesn't end well and I can't cope anymore....

The lady who did the scan said to go back in 7-10 days :(

I second L&B - it could be an ectopic and I'd be getting a second opinion too. I really hope that you just got a crappy sonographer :hug:

Id at least be asking for repeat hcgs tests until you see something on u/s but at that level you should be able to see something and id definitely be concerned about an ectopic pregnancy :-( sorry you didn't get better results hun.

It's just NOTHING is adding up.... Like I said my hcg is within the "normal" range and is my progesterone....

My LMP was the 5/4/3013 and the last time my partner and I had sex was the 16/17th April then nothing for a week (as he works away) so the next date was the 24th but I got a very very very faint BFP on the 3/5/13....

So it can't possibly be that my dates were out can it????

You may be out by about a week. Assuming you ovulated around the 25th April, you could get a faint BFP by 3 May. It would be about 8-9dpo. That would make you about 6 weeks pregnant. Sometimes that's too early to see anything in the uterus. Many people wait until 7wks before having a dating scan.

You can still have normal hcg and have an ectopic. Mine was within normal range but I had other indicators, like extreme pain.

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You can still have normal hcg and have an ectopic. Mine was within normal range but I had other indicators, like extreme pain.

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Yeah, that.

I have no pain at all....

Thanks for your comments I guess I'm no better off then a week ago its just a waiting game

Thanks again glad i can "talk" to people

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Was it an internal scan? Or just an abdominal one?

She did both ultrasounds but I barely in there for 1 minute with the internal

Hmm usually they can see something from the internal. I would get another scan x

baby4please, i am so sorry to hear your news. And to be treated so rudely, about something so important, is terrible. Especially with your medical history. I hope you get another scan, adn have a support person come with you. i would be devo too, so sorry you're going through this. Best of luck, i hope the next scan is all you want it to be (and with a sonographer who has the empathy gene). Big hugs to you - i don't know you from a bar of soap, but it breaks my heart that this could happen to anyone.

Baby4 my heart goes out to you but I agree with the others, I'd get another scan. At the very least the results based on what you know seem inconclusive. Hoping its perfect news.

baby4please, I'm so sorry the scan wasn't what you expected, after all the stress so far. I really hope the next scan shows a beautiful little embryo...

So more bloods today and still rising although slowing down

6/5/2013 - 39
8/5/2013 - 126
15/5/2013 - 1790
20/5/2013 - 5100
27/5/2013 - 8960

Booked in for another scan tomorrow morning so fingers crossed there is something to be seen now

Good luck... hope it's good news!:pray:

Yay, that is very hopeful news. :hug:

That's good. After 6000, HCG levels become irrelevant. A scan will give a better picture. I hope they find something safely in your uterus.

Just been for scan there is nothing in my uterus, nothing in my tubes or anywhere outside my uterus.... So I'm pregnant with hcg level at 8960 but no baby ANYWHERE in my body

So after a screaming match with my partner about NEVER asking me again to try for baby 4 (his number 1) I am waiting for the GP to call me to tell me sweet FA really

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Hug ..

I'm so sorry.

Why do they think your hcg is still going up?

Are they willing to do a lap to see what the cause is? Have you had any bleeding or anything?

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I'm so sorry.

Why do they think your hcg is still going up?

Are they willing to do a lap to see what the cause is? Have you had any bleeding or anything?

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They haven't said anything about why my hcg rising but I'm waiting to see my GP tonight.

I have no pain no bleeding no spotting no anything (including no yolk sac ) the endo lining is very thick but that's all they could see....

I just wish I knew either way living in limbo is killing me...

I am really sorry to read this...it's the limbo which is most difficult, I hope someone can find an answer for you soon. Please don't turn against each other in this time, it's easy to, but it's most important to come together and stand together if you can xx

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Thank you, much appreciated

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I am really sorry to read this...it's the limbo which is most difficult, I hope someone can find an answer for you soon. Please don't turn against each other in this time, it's easy to, but it's most important to come together and stand together if you can xx

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That's good. After 6000, HCG levels become irrelevant. A scan will give a better picture. I hope they find something safely in your uterus.

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That's good. After 6000, HCG levels become irrelevant. A scan will give a better picture. I hope they find something safely in your uterus.

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Sadly nothin seen

Oh baby4please how awful and confusing for you. I hope you can get some more clarity soon. Thinking of you.

I hope you get your answers soon. Limbo land sucks. :-( thinking of you.

Did the doctor call you back and give you a plan or any idea what was going on?

Hi all

I'm currently lying in a hospital bed waiting to go in for surgery they have said they will most likely remove my left tube....

Will post more when I know...

Thanks so much for all your support

Xxxxx

Guess my partner and I are just not meant to have a baby together

Oh I am so sorry hun.

Did they do another scan and find something?

Huge hugs.

Don't give up ... If you guys wanna have a baby there's still a great success rate of falling pregnant with only one tube. I got given the statistic that losing your tube only reduces fertility by up to 15 percent. (I thought it would be more like 50, but it doesn't work that way.)

Sending much love x

Hope they can help in best way possible

It might not be that its not meant to be sometimes some journeys have more bumps in the road, take this as an opportunity to connect to your dh and come out of this for the better together closer I know its hard but I've found it to be so good for us as a couple and made other bumps in the road easier

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Oh I am so sorry hun.

Did they do another scan and find something?

Huge hugs.

Don't give up ... If you guys wanna have a baby there's still a great success rate of falling pregnant with only one tube. I got given the statistic that losing your tube only reduces fertility by up to 15 percent. (I thought it would be more like 50, but it doesn't work that way.)

Sending much love x

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They did another scan yesterday and still couldn't find anything in uterus but then can't 100 guarantee its eptopic although that's the most likely as they saw a probable mass near my left ovary.... So I guess until they get in there no one knows for sure what to do etc....

I'm not sure if I can handle the emotional strain of trying but one day at a time I guess

Thanks again
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Hope they can help in best way possible

It might not be that its not meant to be sometimes some journeys have more bumps in the road, take this as an opportunity to connect to your dh and come out of this for the better together closer I know its hard but I've found it to be so good for us as a couple and made other bumps in the road easier

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Thank you jellybean88 xxxxxv

Hope you are going ok love.

How are you doing huni? Many hugs and love xxx