Did you get BFPs at different days for different pregnancies?

Arg so I should be patient- AF is due end of the week but since my early loss last cycle I am so impatient to shake the awfulness of last month and just bake a sibling for DD! With this pregnancy last month I got a bfp on the evening of 8dpo. I'm 8 or 9dpo today and have some of the same symptoms as last month but when I tested I got a clear bfn. With DD I didn't test until the day after AF was late so I can't compare but basically, being already a bit emotional from last month, I'm gutted that I've got a bfn this time.

Should I get another early bfp if I got one last time? Or can you realistically get early and later bfps with different pregnancies?

I wouldn't give up hope LL, maybe this time you've implanted late? I can understand your frustration, I think the cycle after a loss feels like it's lasting forever.

Hey LL!

You certainly can! My first pregnancy I got a BFP at 12DPO I think it was, and I had tested and gotten BFN's before.
This pregnancy I got a super strong BFP at 8DPO.

I have my fingers crossed for you lovely, that this cycle is yours x

The first cycle after a loss is so tough. I remember just wanting to be pregnant again to feel ok. I didn't ovulate that first cycle though which the ob said is common. I fell pregnant second cycle. Are you sure you ovulated?

Yep sure can. I've had BFPs at 11DPO and with DD1 I didn't get a BFP until I was 8 weeks.

Definitely can be different days dpo.

First PG was 14dpo,
2ND PG was 8 dpo

and I realised yesterday I am late (no idea of dpo) and waiting for Af or bfp at CD29 on a 26 day cycle.

Keeping everything crossed for you :)

Preggoeggo no I'm not certain i ovulated actually as I usually have a stock standard cervical mucous pattern of dry creamy watery ewcm then dry then creamy before AF and other O symptoms but this time I had early patches of ewcm around Cd 8-9 then around the time I normally ovulate (cd16) I only had super watery cm. I don't temp as DD still wakes at night or early in the morn.

BubbaT I was thinking of you the other day! I hope it is a bfp for you :hug:

Thanks girls. I feel like a woman possessed this cycle. I just need to be pregnant to get over my loss... I'm not calling it a chemical because I was pregnant for seven days and it felt real enough. and I see DD relishing the company of other little people and I so desperately want to give her a dear little sibling.

I didn't like calling mine a chemical either. Doesn't matter how early, once you see that second line it's a baby to you. I hope you've got a sneaky pregnant eggy in there and it's just too early. If not though I hope you can conceive again quickly and it helps you heal.

Thank you so much. :hug:

mine have been:
early m/c - faint bfp at 11dpo not strong til 14dpo
DS1 - strong bfp at 8dpo
DS2 - strong bfp at 9dpo
this bub - faint bfp at 10dpo not strong til 14dpo

still early days hun. stay strong and be kind to yourself

LL I don't like calling it a chemical either, like Preggo eggo said once there is a second line to me its a baby.

You are too sweet to think of me, I have been in limbo on ttc so to be late was a really pleasant surprise. I am happy to hold your virtual hand while we wait for what ever will happen :)

LL - reading about your c/m reminded me, this month I had watery c/m cd 13,14,15, slight ewcm cd 16 (only noticed after checking internally) & watery c/m cd 17 - which according to fertility friend is when I ovulated. I also ovulated 3 days earlier than normal so maybe you did O but your body changed it's pattern? Don't forget, I only got faint bfp 14dpo using IC. But it was as clear as day 17dpo using clear blue.

I had 10dpo, but ended at 12 weeks.
Can't remember the next one, but started bleeding within 12 hours, so not really significant. Was early though.
Then BFN at 10, BFP at 12dpo, baby 39 weeks later.
Then BFP at 14 or 15 dpo.

Looks like I'm one of the few who don't have a normal cycle after an early loss- I think AF arrived this morning, three days early. I'm usually a perfect 28 day cycle with ovulation about cd16 so either I ovulated early, didn't ovulate at all or ovulated as per normal and had a stupidly short luteal phase. :(

:hug: I'm sorry LL. AF sucks :(

Boo LL, I am crossing my fingers and toes for you that next month is the month you get your little bundle of joy!

Big Hugs xx

Sorry to hear that LL :( I hope next month you get a better cycle xxx

Big hugs LL

:hug:

Big huge lovely xx

My first two pregnancies i was so impatient i always tested early and got an extremely faint BFP...this one was close to AF because it was a surprise and it was so positive it came up within two seconds and extremely dark

I was the same after my loss...i had a missed mc at 9 weeks..we tried straight away and i ended up being completely obsessed....every month down broke my heart...it took 4/5 months...i ended up having accupunture and drank this tea she gave me and was using sticks for O and making hubby drive down to my work even to go for a drive when it was time :o lol lol.......so i can sympathise with you....i had to keep my mind occupied.......i wish you all the best and hope you get a BFP real soon..and just keep coming on and talking about it...talking helps

Thank you Melster.

AF is pretty heavy this time too. Didn't think I'd be this affected by it. I hate that I've got AF again when I should be exactly 8 weeks pregnant today.

Big hug LL, I hope next month is your month for a sticky bfp xxx

Hello... Just thought I'd do a courtesy update to say thank you for all of your lovely responses and support... After two short, suspected annovulatory cycles I got a bfp the third month after my very early loss... I didn't test between 7dpo and 11dpo but on 11 dpo I got a clear second line and now at 20 dpo the test line is darker then the control line and my beta hcg yesterday was 2200 so fingers crossed but looking good. Thank you again :)

Yay LL! Congratulations. Sending loads of healthy sticky vibes your way x

Great news LL!!!!

So happy for you, its been a long road and you have been a great support over our time TTC together. I hope the next 9 months is a easy and happy time for you. Big hugs xx