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Hi,
These hormones are doing my head in. I'm so angry all the time, or maybe just irritable. I cry at the drop of a hat and everything annoys me. First trimester i was so happy and feeling fine, apart from the nausea.
Now it's almost like i need people to stay out of my way, even strangers annoy the crap out of me! I hate feeling like this!
Anyone else like this too?
Geez those pesky hormones do some weird things.
I am a little opposite to you Keira. Usually feel fine in the second trimester
BUT don't come near me in the week or so after bubs is born because then everything sh*ts me and I am likely to bite your head off.
Then again don't come near me when AF is due either, I am exactly the same.
When I am pregnant I am usually much much nicer!!!
Haha, gosh i would rather be like u, i still think i am nicer preg but everything that ****s me i internalise and then it just end up exploding at something stupid.
Hmmm, anger management issues perhaps?!! :)
i know how u feel Keira, i was shocking the littlest thing would get on my nerves and i would just snap, poor DP i thought he was going to leave me lol!! i cried all the time
i also couldnt stand to be around my best friend i dont know y but i just never wanted to see her couldnt stan being around her!! for me third trimester was the worst.
No, you're just pregnant.
Me, I'd rather have everything sh*t me when pregnant and be nice all the other time - after all we spend most of lives NOT being pregnant. When you have a bump people can (or most do) make allowances!
I was like that. ppl at work gave me the *****s, as did strangers and even my own family! I got over it all of a sudden. I managed to hide mine as sarcasm tho. Its ok, you're pregnant and ppl will understand!
Good luck with your pregnancy!
awww.......i hope it gets better soon!
oh my god!!! this is me all over. i have been the biggest ***** ever since i've been preg. dp started calling me 'Emma from big brother' for a while there cos i was backstabbing everyone we knew, whinging about everyone and i too, can't stand my best friend at the moment. everything she says to me absolutely sh8ts me and i've been avoiding her a lot. it's so bad. i get totally angry....but i have to tell you, in some ways it's been working for me...i put in an insurance claim and wasn't happy with the amount they gave me. i just sort of clicked and went psycho at them on the phone and wrote a letter and they've sent me out another cheque. probably to shut my pregnant mouth up!! anyway, you are not alone in your anger....
Definitely not alone... I must say I havent beenangry but havebeen feeling quite anti social and not keen to do much - which isnt like me.. and lots of small things get on my nerves some days... i blame it on hormones! when in doubt blame everything on hormones!!!
bloody hormones!!:angry:
or as my friend calls them 'hor moans'
he may well have meant 'whore' 'moans' but i am pretending he didnt mean that it is too mean!!! (he told me this when my dear friend, his wife, was preg and she was a little bit of a nightmare!!);)
Keira, everything started to annoy me too!! I think part of it for me was strangers were too nosey!! So, I just got ****ty easily and would think to myself... and who the hell are you!!... what business is it of yours... lol. So, could be a combination of hormones and annoyance?? Take some deep breaths and punch a pillow!
Keira,
I've been feeling like this from the start pretty much. So, I understand how you feel.
I share a house with a 21 year old male, who I thought wasn't too bad. Now, I want to kill him. He brings mud home with him from work on his clothes and shoes. Last night it was in the bottom of the shower and I burst into tears. All I want is a clean house. This morning I had to pick up a used bandaid that he'd left on the coffee table. It's revolting and it's making me homocidal!
It's not only him, it's everyone. I speak with my parents every day and I've been so horrible to my Mum over the past couple of days that I told her not to call me during the week when I am down here in Torquay. Seems I am only happy when in Melbourne with family and out of my messy house, away from the piggy h/mate!
My boyfriend is driving me insane. Sometimes I feel like I want to scream at him to just shut up and leave me alone.
This isn't how I usually am. Like you, I can't stand to feel this way.
I found it bad enough suffering depression and having to take medication through this pregnancy, let alone all this other BS!
Maybe it will pass?
Kate
:hugs:
Hi girls! Hang in there.. is "should" get better!
i felt like this at the beginning... right up until 12 weeks.. now it's kinda getting better.. only go off my rocker occasionally, but it can be just a small thing that sets me off! poor DH doesn't know if he's coming or going sometimes... but it hasn't happened for a few days so i think it is passing...! :crossfingers:
although.. i do have a feeling that when i start to get heavier... it may come back!
Keira, I was (am still a little) the same. But with each day, it seems to get better and more tolerable!! There is relief in sight!!
PS...Happy Second Trimester to me...etc etc... :lol:
Thank god you girls are the same!!! I thought i was just suddenly miss mega b1tch!!!!!
My DP asked me yesterday what my attitude problem was all about!!!!!!! :angry: How about i'm pregnant halfwit!!!!!! GRRRR!!!
Its almost uncontrollable!! I used to be ok, and control myself, but now my outbursts just roll out my mouth like verbal diarrhea!!
And it doesn't matter who it is, everyone ****s me!! Can't wait to have bubs and try to be "normal" again!!
Thanks for sharing girls! I don't feel so bad now! :)
Keira, truly, I had the verbal diarrhoea going on too...but I guess I trained myself pretty quickly to stop and think. The stuff that came out of my mouth was just not in my nature at all!! I went Crouching Tiger Hidden Dragon on DH's a$$....in a verbal sense. It was not cool!!
LOL - too funny Mrsr :lol:
It seemed to work....going CTHD....he's much more sensitive to my moods now! :whip:
Hi Keira,
Hang in there...it won't last long. Be prepared that you will be on a rollercoaster, even after your precious little girl is born. Sometimes knowing it's all hormonal can help, because then atleast you know what is causing it all. As long as your partner understands just how much the hormones do affect women during & after pregnancy, he'll soon learn to go with the flow (mine had to learn although it took him three pregnancies to really clue on!!). I found he was always asking what was wrong which was the worst possible thing he could ever say, because I would say - NOTHING'S WRONG...GRRRR & he would look at me like I had two heads. Once he learnt to read my body language, he'd just stay out of my way, say nothing & make a cuppa for me. Anyway, just hopping on here & getting it out is absolutely wonderful. You need to vent!!
On an aside, our gorgeous little baby has your gorgeous name - Keira. She's two months old now & we've found some people are mispronouncing her name, which I wasn't prepared for. Lots of people seem to think it's pronounced K-i-rr-a, rather than the softer K-ee-ra. Do you ever have people mispronounce your name, even slightly? I might be overreacting - hormones again I'm sorry to say....they do hang around, the nasty things. DH keeps saying people will learn once they hear us pronounce it more often, & I suppose it is a rare name where I'm from, although I think it's becoming more & more popular. I'd love to put a pic of our little one on here, but I haven't figured out how to do it just yet. Need more time.....ah thems the breaks.
sit down, relax & have a cuppa tea!
I have my happy days and my p!ssed off days. haha, that sounds so bad.
Today is a p!ssed off day because i had a dream last night that my man let one of his ex girlfriends (from 6 years ago..) sleep over in our spare room. I woke up soooo annoyed! I couldn't help but hate him for what he did in my dream! haha
Even now Im still p!ssed at the thought of it.... bast@rd!!!
Hey Keira, hang in there ok. Think of it this way, you have some great stories for dinner parties and hanging out with friends after the baby is born!! I have been very lucky and haven't experienced any of these mood swings as yet (I am 18 wks pg), but then again I am known for speaking my mind anyway!! he he
Hey, I'm having a girl too! Keep smiling ok, Nicole
I am like you Gracie. My best friend was driving me crazy. She kept telling me that I was should be eating more and that I had blood pressure problems and that I should be careful because I might become a diabetic...etc etc... the list of my possible complications went on.
I am 58kg and 169cm tall. I used to go to they gym a lot and I eat pretty healthy food. My doctor can't see any problems with my weight or blood pressure either, so I think I will go with his opinion :)
My friend is the type that takes 10 to 15 different types of vitamins tablets a day, so she likes to preach about health a bit.
Anyway, eventually, I blew up at my friend and told her the only thing that would give me a blood pressure problem was her if she didn't stop telling me that I was sick!!! She stopped talking to me last week... Oooops!