Our Miracle Baby has died

After all our efforts and IVF attempts to finally get pg this time, I am guttered to say that our baby has died.
I have been going really well and went for our 12 week scan on Monday not expecting anything to be wrong. I had no bleeding, cramps etc, and had actually started to feel movements in my tummy.
However the ultrasound tech could find no heart beat. They believe that our baby had died sometime last week at around 11 weeks.
So Tuesday I had to have a suction currette. Our wonderful OB has made it his mission to help us get pg again and has ordered every test that can be done to find out what happened this time!

It has been a horrific time as you could imagine, but we have also been overwhelmed with our friends kind thoughts and words.
We will continue to try again, but it took us nearly 4 years to get far- I just hope things become a bit easier this time!!!

So R.I.P bubba BOBO that acrobatic baby - your mummy, daddy, brother and sister love you very much and we hope that your star shines down on us and guides us through this journey

aww hugs to you in your time of greivence ...
most certainly bobo will shine down on you !!

Odette,
I am so sorry for the loss of your little angle. I too found out at my 12 week scan our baby had died only a week earlier. It is great your ob is being so supportive and I hope you get all the answers you need and soon be pregnant and have a beautiful baby to stay with you on earth.
Take care

I'm so sorry to hear that your little bub has left you, it's just not fair.
Take care and be kind to yourself
xxx

Odette, after everything you have gone through I am so sorry to hear of your loss. :hug:

Odette,

I am so very sorry this has happened - there are never the right words to say but i deeply sorry this has happened to you. We too have been on this long long journey and sometimes there just seems to easy answer but like you we too are not giving up. I am sending you warm thoughts and i hope next time around you will have a successful outcome. Goodbye miracle baby you will be forever in your mummy and daddys hearts.

I am so terribly sorry to hear of your loss. My thought are with you and your family during this time. :hug:
xo

Odette,
I am very sad to hear this news. Thinking of you.

I am very sorry to hear about your loss..................thinking about you and your family at this very sad time xoxox

I am so sorry to hear about your loss. Big hugs and my thoughts are with you and your family.

Odette,

I am so sorry to hear about the loss of your precious little BOBO.

My thoughts are with you and your family.

Odette I'm terribly sorry that this has happened to you and your family. Please know that my thoughts are with you during this difficult time.
I'm very pleased that your ob is doing everything possible to find out why this has happened and that you are not giving up. You will have another precious bub in your lives in the future.I want to wish you all the very best and take very good care of yourself. Know that we are all here for you whenever you need us to be :hug:

Odette I'm so very very sorry for the loss of Bobo.

I'm so sorry for your loss. Be kind to yourself and take things easy.

Oh no Odette. I'm so sorry little Bobo has passed away. My sincere condolences to you and your family. :hug:

Odette, I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss....thinking of you

So sorry Odette.

Odette, I am just devastated for you and your family. I am so sorry for the loss of your little Bobo. It is a terrible shock when it happens like that.

I hope you don't have too long to wait for another little miracle to come your way...:hug:

Odette, I am so sorry to hear about your loss of BOBO. So glad that you are being positive about it all and that your OB is doing everything possible to find out what happened.
Take care of yourself and your family at this sad time and know that we are thinking of you.

i'm so sorry odette, so devestated for you and your family

Odette
I am so sorry for your loss of little Bobo. Big hugs
Take care
Chris

I'm so very sorry, Odette, for your loss of Bobo. My heart aches for you. Thinking of you and sending many hugs your way.

Sorry to hear the news of your loss Odette.
Sending you lots of love and cuddles..

i am so sorry, Odette, for the loss of your little Bobo. i wish all our tears could ease your pain. xxoom

Odette, I'm so very sorry to hear of your loss. I know there are no words to ease the pain you feel now. :hugs:

BW

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:hug: i'm so sorry :hug:

Bx

Odette
I am absolutely devastated for you...I wish there was something I could say...please take care of yourselves...you will be in my our thoughts and prayers xxx

Oh thats terrible. We're sorry for your loss. I'm sure bobo is watching over you.

Odette I am so sorry for the loss of your little miracle baby ... there just aren't enough words to describe the heartbreak. :hug:
Take care

im so sorry to hear about your loss. i lost my baby at 25 wks after having fertility treatment for 5 yrs. ive just been given the go ahead by my doctor to try again. i pray for you. you have got to think positive hard i know but, think at least you know you can get pregnant now and everything does happen for a reason. take care of yourself will be thinking of you and ur family

thank you so much all for your strength. It means so much. We are going to give my body a break for 3 cycles and then start the rollercoaster again. It took us 4 years to get a BFP this time - so hopefully it will be a bit quicker this time!!!
Living each day moment by moment and allowing myself to grieve when i need to.
thank - you again!

Give yourself time to grieve over the next few months. I wish you all the best in your TTC journey. It took us 2 years to conceive Cooper and this time it took 5 months (felt longer than 2 years though) so I hope that your little miracle comes along quicker too. Thinking of you :hug:

Oh Odette, I'm so very sorry...thinking of you

Nic

odette, i'm so sorry to hear of your loss hun

Odette, I'm so sorry. I only just read this thread, and my heart truly sank. I hope that you and your family can stay strong and find some answers to safely bring another beautiful bub into this world.
Take care
Jo

Odette so sorry to hear of you loss, my thoughts are with you.