1st MC - 3 Questions please help!
I was so happy last week eagerly waiting my first Ob appointment and thinking how wonderful my June baby was going to be! I did not have any symptoms other than sore BB and thought I was one of the lucky ones...
I had slight bleeding Tuesday night (light pink in colour and not much) so I went to bed thinking it would go. It was still there Wednesday morning (again not much). I normally think things are wrong with me (you might call me a hypercontriact.:p) so I was going to ignore this, then I thought I may as well call the Ob. So I called, felt a little silly to be honest and the receptionist was lovely and she spoke with my Ob and they asked if I could come in for an appointment so they could so a scan and put my mind at ease. I was so happy to have a scan I told DH not to bother coming with me as I had to rush off to get to my appointment.
So I went to me appointment got asked all of the questions, she did an internal look and then an internal scan and I was eagerly looking on the monitor for my baby. I thought I saw it (must have been a shadow) when my Ob said something which I cannot recall... pretty much that there was nothing there anymore :cry:
So to cut a long sad story short (as it makes me upset to dwell) our little baby had gone and my blood test results showed I did not need a D&C as it had all gone (which apparently was a good thing).
Question 1 - I only bled very lightly for those 2 days then nothing... can I assume that is all? I read the booklet and some websites and they mentioned heavy bleeding and cramping? Is there more to come?
Question 2 - My Ob and the booklet recommend that I don't DTH for 2 weeks... is that because I could fall pregnant or because things down there need to get back to normal?
Question 3 - Do I need to wait for AF to come before TTC again?
Thanks - it has helped to read other people's threads and then to look at all of the good news when some of you get your :bfp: after :angel: Let's hope our little :angel: are all happy together somewhere...