What dummy are you using for your newborn? Any recommendations on the best one? Also I have been told that the bigger the teat the better, is this right?
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What dummy are you using for your newborn? Any recommendations on the best one? Also I have been told that the bigger the teat the better, is this right?
Actually I thought you weren't supposed to use them for 6 weeks at least?
We initially used the Avent ones. We changed to Tommee Tippee cherry style because we found the Avent ones which are thinner were always falling out while he was going to sleep and he became unsettled and we spent half the night going in to put the dummy in. We have used Happy Baby but think they are a bit flimsy compared to TT.
One thing to keep in mind is that silcone ones can be sterilised in the microwave while the latex ones need to be boiled or cold sterilised.
HTH.
I havent heard about ' the bigger the better' but i used the Advent newborn dummies. I found they were the smallest ones i could find and he never gagged on them.
HTH Simone:)
When DS was the hospital their Mothercraft Nurse suggested I get one for him then, and she said the cheap Happy Baby ones were usually the most popular. DH got a few different ones which he used for 3 days and has only used them as toys to chew on ever since.
I think it depends on the baby. It's been a while, but my newborn (or toddler for that matter) refused/s the orthodontic shaped teat, and will only ever take the Tommy Tippee ones.
Both my girls liked the Avent silicone dummies.
umm...just a question. what are baby dummies??
My DS uses Happy Baby - they are cheap and work the best for us...
DS has only ever had the Happy Baby brand - which was good, as they're the cheapest! He was given one in SCU, that's all they use, so that's what I continued to use at home.
I tried him on a couple of others that I had waiting at home, but he was not interested.
Lulu, that's just in relation to BFing, dummies are safe for newborns if that's what you meant. You can even get premmie ones! And in some cases it's okay to use them in the early days of BFing, it's just generally not recommended.
Same here, Riley hated the orthodontic ones and will only take these.:
We used Avent dummies for Jesse since birth. They have a large shield and being my son has a large mouth also, theyre the only ones he cant fit in his mouth whole.
I would only purchase what size is recommended for their age to be honest.
Aurelia never took to the avent "designer" dummies, but she loves the 'happy baby' ones. I think the roundness is what she likes about them. I always gave her ones that were a size too big, because they were to relieve her teething (i wanted her to be able to chew on them).
I used a MAM soother when DD was a new bub. It wasn't too big and didn't cover half her face like some do! :lol:
Hey everyone
dummies are safe for babies...in fact some research into SIDS indicates that the use of a dummy reduces SIDS as a risk as the baby does not enter a really deep sleep phase (which is when SIDS can occur)
but...
why do you need one?
Babies cry to communicate...popping a dummy in does stop the crying but it does not address why they are crying
Breastfed or formula fed babies still feed every 2hours or so in the early days of life, just because your baby does not do what the formula tin indicates does not mean that it is wrong. Breast fed babies suck at the breast for comfort and to stimulate mothers milk supply
Babies also suck to self soothe, and part of their developmental growth means sucking on their little hands. If we place a dummy in their mouth they are missing out on a vital stage of self settling development
Your baby can get attached to the dummy and become unsettled everytime it falls out. This may not be a problem now, but at 4months it may cause problems
Im not against dummies as they have their place, but it is important to consider all aspects of their use
x
I was advised by a child health nurse to purchase the Happy Baby dummy as it was meant to be similar to that of my nipple... and as I was breastfeeding at the time, did not want to confuse DS. I now use Pigeon dummies.
Ethan was given the Happy Baby ones in SCU as well so they were the ones that I bought because the hospital recommended them. I just wasn't using them at home because I guess like Blue Daisy said they are crying for a reason and I would always try other ways to settle him but people were asking me why I wasn't using a dummy so I thought I should start but to be honest I think it is causing more problems. When I put the dummy in he does settle but as soon as it falls out he crys so I'm not sure that it is helping :dunno:
Lynn, DO NOT LISTEN TO WHAT OTHERS THINK YOU SHOULD DO. You are Ethan's mummy, you know what is best for him. If you feel it is causing more problems, it probably is. Seriously, everytime I listen to other's well-meaning advice, things seem to get so much worse for us until I stop it and go back to what I think is best.
You're doing a great job hun, trust your mummy instincts, they will be right!
Thank you Janie :hug: I am just second guessing everything that I am doing because I don't know if it is the right thing. And also because people are saying what I should be doing. I know you are right and I shouldn't listen to them but it is just so hard. I thought everything was going ok but people would put other thoughts in my head and I think this is where we are going wrong now because when he is unsettled I have these little voices in my head (no I am not crazy........ok maybe I am!) where I think of all the things that other people are saying to me so I try that and it isn't working. I guess I should go back to what I think and see how that goes.
Kimnastics
I am not against the use of dummies, I used one with my first baby, but every action has a reaction and that is all I was saying in my post :)
Janie
just because you can get dummies for premmies does not necessarily mean you should use them, they have a delicate care balance that can be overlooked with artifical pacifiers:
that's just in relation to BFing, dummies are safe for newborns if that's what you meant. You can even get premmie ones! And in some cases it's okay to use them in the early days of BFing, it's just generally not recommended.
In regards to BF and dummies it is generally not recommended at all (but most especially in the first 6weeks) as this impacts on milk supply, attachment issues and undermines a mothers confidence in her intuitive response to her baby
Lynn
Janie is right that you are Ethan's mummy and that you need to trust your instincts
if the dummy is working for you that is great :)
x
I have a reflux bub and have actually been told to get him to take a dummy as the sucking will help keep the acid down - but I cant get him to take one!!! (he wont take a bottle anymore either - he did for the first 3 weeks, and now just refuses, no matter how hungry)
Any tips on getting him to take it? He likes the taste now of his medicine - so I tried even putting this on the dummy, but he just licks it until the meds gone, and then spits it as far as he can...
He's 10 weeks old...
jsmum i have an 8 week old with acid reflux also. i was also told a dummy might help. she doesnt like the dummy very much either and continuously rejects or spits it out. i have tried a few different ones...tommy tippee cherry shape , nuk orthodontic, tommee tippee soother, heinz baby basics. i found the heinz one works the best although she does spit it out still..
nuk was useless and just kept falling out when she was trying to suck it
tommy tippee cherry 0 months was making her gag
tommy tippee soother no good either.
my first girl loves the tommy tippee cherry dummy and took to it straight away.
i guess every baby is different and im not sure if Bf or FF makes a difference..
my first was FF (formula fed) and loved the dummy
my second started of breast fed and doesnt like the dummy.
i must say the dummy for me was fantastic!!! really soothed a crying baby which at the time is all you want to do. Savanna is 18 months now and only has the dummy to put her to sleep then she spits it out and continues to sleep so no problem there. initially in the begining when the dummy fell out she would wake and cry for it..
giving your child a dummy is a personal choice and you only should do what works for you and what you want to do.
i was against it before savanna was born.. but like everything in life you shouldnt judge unless your in the situation.
cheers ambz
My little girl was using NOK from birth, I tried avent but for some reason she didnt like it.
These days she still uses a dummy at sleep time. She's not so fussy now, she uses NUK, MAM, Tommee tippee & one I bought from babies galore (not sure of the brand) but she liked the look of it & it's pretty nifty as it has a cover that opens so baby can suck it (when its opened its the shape of a normal dummy around the baby/childs mouth) then when its taken out the cover closes keeping the part thats sucked covered.... we love it haha
I think its just a case of trial & error until you can find the one your baby likes as every baby is different....
Good luck :)
We use the Avent ones. It is all DD will take. She was never one to suck her hands but was a comfort sucker on the boob. So we introduced the dummy and it was the best thing for us. We've tried other brands but she refuses them.
I remember someone saying the NUK newborn dummies were recalled (whe DD was a newborn) because babies were found with them whole in their mouths as well as not having enough "space" and so had a suffocating effect... or something like that. I'm sure they've adjusted the design by now but I've never been able to shake that from my mind so won't buy that brand.
Personally I love dummies and used them for both boys and was lucky that it didn't interfere with BF for us. But as Blue Daisy says "but every action has a reaction". You have to be prepared for tears when you take the dummy away.......
When Aidyn was young he used Pigeon, Nuk, and Avent dummies. I didn't like the Nuk ones as the mouthguard was too small.
Eva has so far used Nuk, and just recently Tommy Tippee. She likes them both, and completely rejects the Pigeon one.
She will take a dummy, but certainly not every time... she is nowhere near as keen on them as Aidyn was, and has just recently started sucking on her hands, so I would rather her do that as much as she wants rather than a dummy.
Her having a dummy hasn't seemed to have any detrimental effect on BF. She didn't really become very interested in sucking on the dummy till she was 1 month anyway.