more questions from me - this time re: over 40 and number of embryos transferred
Hi
I've been doing a lot of reading on the web and talking to a friend in the US who successfully underwent IVF at the age of 43 ... with her own eggs (baby looks just like her!). She said that her doctor - a very highly regarded New York City specialist - said that when it comes to his over 40 patients he does not like to transfer LESS than 5 embryos as it's very difficult to get pregnant at over 40 and the chance of multiples is very low - and even with multiples - the chance of it being more than twins is almost nil. And, I also know 2 other women over 40 (one was 45) using different NYC doctors who had success with their own eggs but they too had many embryos transferred. Again, with these other 2 women it is certain that it was their own eggs.
Is it true here that it is illegal to transfer more than 3 embryos regardless of the woman's age? why would this be? why isn't there opportunity for the patient to make an informed choice?
I'm thinking of asking my FS to transfer 3 (assuming there are 3 good ones to transfer) my next cycle? Does anyone have experience with such a request? I had 2 transferred last time (which was my first time) and a third good one frozen and I'm wishing I had asked to have all 3 transferred because the frozen one may not even make it through the defrost...what a waste.