My pregnancy is no more

I don't really know what to say. Yesterday at 6 weeks and 6 days I went for an OB appointment. She did a routine scan and couldn't find a heartbeat. She said there were irregularities with the sac, but I wasn't really listening at that point.

I am going in for a curette tomorrow. I don't think I could hack letting the miscarriage happen naturally.

I've been quite sad. Husband came back from interstate where he was working this week and will be with me tomorrow. Mum burst into tears when I told her, and Dad was also upset. My brother has just gone to London and I don't know how to tell him. This would have been their first grandchild / nephew and with my brother being gay I'm their best hope, so to speak.

I guess it just wasn't our time. It took us 2 years to fall pregnant. I have PCOS so we knew it would take a while. We hadn't been stressing about being pregnant, counting cycles or anything. It was so lovely when it happened.

The nearly two weeks we thought we were having a baby were lovely. A lovely surprise, perfect timing for work and everything just falling into place. oh well.

Fiona

Oh, and I should thank everyone her for their advice over the past few weeks. Just the little things have been great.

Oh Fiona! :comfort: I am so sorry honey! Don't know what to say, but just want to send you heaps of :hug: :hug: :hug: :hug: I too have PCOS and have been TTC for months. I won't say I know how you feel because I don't, but I DO know that it hurts.

Don't be so hard on yourself.

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I'm their best hope

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It really wasn't up to you - these things have a mind of their own. Just hang in there, hun. Hope your DH is with you soon. I will be thinking of you. :hug:

I'm so sorry for your loss :hug:. My thoughts and prayers are with you.

Oh Fiona, I'm so sorry :( Take care, mate. :hug:

I'm so sorry for your loss Fiona. I'm glad your husband will be with you tomorrow so you can comfort each other. Big hugs to you and your family.

I am so sorry Fiona. :hug:

Fiona,

I am so sorry to hear of your loss. I have been there 3 times before and know exactly how it feels.

I also have PCOS,IR and have trouble falling pregnant and have tried lots and lots of things.

If you ever want to chat, please don't hesitate in contacting me by PM.

xxx Sue xxx

:comfort: is your dr 100% I didn't see a :heart: till I was 7 weeks 3 days along I had had 2 scan earlier I had given up hope...:hug:

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:comfort: is your dr 100% I didn't see a :heart: till I was 7 weeks 3 days along I had had 2 scan earlier I had given up hope...:hug:

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Yeah. We had a heartbeat at our previous early scan. After my OB did a scan in her rooms I was sent upstairs for a proper one which confirmed the diagnosis.

I am so sorry for your loss... We also had been trying, for a year, then got pregnant and had a m/c at 6 weeks... i felt the same as you, there was no reason for it, but these things just happen. Then, six months later we got pregnant again and this time everything is fine... a yr after the first m/c and we are about to have our baby.... i know its hard, but you will be successful with a little bub, just remember that it takes time.

Oh Sweetie :hug: that is shocking news

sorry fiona

Thinking of you hun xo

Fiona, I'm so sorry.
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I am so sorry Fiona... Sending you love and support... :hug:

I'm so sorry. Noone can explain how hard it is to lose an angel. You must have felt awful at the unltrasound. I was in the same position and it was a terrible time. I came through it and you will too. Take care of yourself

I'm so sorry for your loss Fiona, sending huge hugs for you. :comfort:
I found out with my first angel baby at an u/s just like you did, I was 10 weeks & it had taken us 14 months to concieve. It's a massive shock, I really feel for you.
Let yourself cry hun & take care :hug:

Fiona. I am very sorry for your loss. It has been a long journey for you. I hope the road gets easier and smoother for you very soon :hug:

I'm sorry Fiona :hug:

Thanks everyone for your kind words.

I had my D & C yesterday and that all went fine.

I feel better today than I did yesterday, and better yesterday than I did the day before. I can now think about my miscarriage without crying. Maybe today I can talk about it without bursting into tears.

I am going to go back to work on Monday. I'm looking forward to it (not the work that will be waiting for me though!), being busy and getting a bit back to normal.

Husband and I had a good chat last night and we are not going to stress about getting pregnant again for at least 12 months. That worked really for us last time, and when it happened it was a gift. If it happens and I fall pregnant, then great. But apart from lots of sex and getting fit, we won't be taking part in any fertility treatment.

Thank again for all of your kind words.

Fiona

Fiona, I'm so sorry for the loss of your little one :hug:

Sounds like you and DH and moving towards a pretty good place, in spite of everything that has happened to you.

Good luck - you are being very brave. Enjoy your weekend and I hope Monday isn't too hectic for you at work - but hectic enough to keep you nice and busy :D

Fiona so sorry for your loss, take care of you...glad you and your DH have discussed a way to move forward. My heart goes out to you as I know what you are going through...I had my D&C on Tuesday and am back at work and finding it tough going to be honest, but at least it is some normality as you say.

so sorry for your loss take time to heal physically and emontionally

oh fiona, i'm so sorry.

So sorry to hear of your loss :hug:

Sending you lots of strength right now.

I wish you all the best for the future.

Oh Fiona, I am so sorry you have to go through this, I am sending lots of positive :hug: to help you get through this, I know how you feel. Just take care of yourself and DH.
Shell xo