taking progesterone after 3 miscarriages?
hello,
This is my first post although i have been lurking for a while and have been following many of your ttc journies :goodluck:
I have had 3 miscarriages since feb 08.
I have been told to start the progesterone (cyclogest pessaries) cd 10 until cd 25. I am a little confused! I thought that cyclogest should be started after ovulation, not before? I ahve contacted my gyne but he is always busy and i cannot see him again until jan 09!! :wall:
Does anyone have any advice on this? i dont want to ruin my chances of conceiving again. Any help or advice would be greatly appreciated. Sorry again for going on about me me me! i wont do it again, i promise ;)
I just had to reply to you
I will cut a long story short. This is not advice. This is just my story.
I fell pregnant after 9 months of trying. I was 36. At 11 1/2 week I lost the baby. After another 9 months I fell pregnant again. This was eptopic and again I lost the baby. I went to a fertility doctor. Clomid - nothing. Injected hormones into my stomach - nothing. I then started assisted conception. I was still injecting hormones into my stomach, being scanned and my eggs measured, then receiving an injection to release the eggs and then I was getting assisted conception (you've heard the story's of the turkey baster). Anyway I fell pregnant the first time. Lasted for 7 weeks. Left it a month, repeated the whole process, fell pregnant again. Lasted 8 weeks. By this time when I got a positive pregnancy test instead of being over the moon like most people, my husband and I would think "how long's this going to last".
My girlfriend told me about asprin. She to had my miscarriages (now got three kids). I told my fertility doctor about it. He said "There is no scientific proof that asprin works and in fact could be dangerous". I was desperate so I went on Astrix which is 100mg of asprin (asprin is 300mg). Went through the whole process again in January, fell pregnant, waited for 7 weeks. No miscarriage. I had a beautiful, healthy baby boy. I told my gyno I was on Astrix. He said to stop taking it at 38 weeks. He didn't seem surprised or anxious about it. When my son was six months I started to try again naturally (thinking if nothing worked I would go back to my fertility doctor). I started Folic Acid and Astrix. Fell pregnant straight away and had a beautiful healthy daughter. My friend on IVF also took Astrix after many failed attempts and had twins.
I I took 1 Astrix tablet every day I was pregnant and quite after 38 weeks. My gyno knew I was on it. I am not giving your advice. I am just telling you my story.
Good luck with it all.
Hope there could be something helpful here
Hi Don
Sweeting I am so sorry about your losses - it casts a small shadow on your heart each time and is always challenging to accept and work out how the feeling can become a healthy part of your emotional landscape. My m/c was at 9 weeks in Sept but I am blessed to have a little daughter 3 who was conceived naturally at 35 and homebirthed at 36.
But to the progesterone - I have done and am doing a huge amount of personal (I am not a doctor, natural therapist or fertility specialist - just someone trying to be safe and rational in my approach) research constantly on hormones (I am 39) as it is an immensely relevant part of my preconception prep and I tend to find, as you have, that there is a lot of contradiction out there.
The one thing that medical and natural practitioners seem to agree on with the use of progesterone (in my case - I am using a transdermal natural progesterone cream - not the 'wild yam' (scam) creams and fairly high potency - but the choice is always an individual one) - is that progesterone appears to be of most use in terms of defective luteal phases in women as a support tool in conception rather than as a maintainer of pregnancy (so there is some argument about how effective it really is in maintaining a pregnancy that may not be viable). There seems to be some argument against the synthetic forms in terms of adverse side effects. Aspirin is not an option for me as I am intolerant of it!!
The general consensus of what people have said here about trying to take it post-ovulation seems supported by a lot of the readings I've done - the advice I've had is to start at day 12 and go to day 26 of cycle - day 12 seems to be favoured because it does take a little while for the fat absorbant properties of the progesterone to take effect and the egg needs to meet a good uterine environment so it seems you may need to lay a little progesterone groundwork before the egg sets up residence. I have teamed a uterine tonic (my naturapath puts this together for me) to support a healthy egg and good ovulatory state to start with (taken just before period rocks up and during the period) and then I use the progesterone to support the luteal phase as I have a short one (I ovulate at the right time but my period kicks in at 24-26 days - a little too short). I used this approach with my first pregnancy and we had just started trying again this year when this second pregnancy took but did not remain with us.
One interesting point that did appear in several sources was the need to take care with high dose saturation with progesterone (particularly if the site of application was constantly the same or unvaried) as some medical and natural therapies sources seem to suggest that this saturation might actually interfere with the body's own progesterone receptors and could adversely influence them i.e. they could 'turn' off or produce less instead of being stimulated . I have to constantly alter the site every time I apply my transdermal cream and I have to target areas of high circulation rather than obvious fatty tissue given the progesterone's tendency to saturate fatty tissue (you can see why many medical practitioners might target pessaries for high circulation!!!)
Where I'm going next at the moment is to try a saliva test for hormones to ascertain where I have come back to after the m/c. I have also since then given up 1 1/2 jobs as I was totally overstressing my adrenals and exhausted adrenals do not support progesterone production (I still teach 0.6 for a crust) - and I must admit I feel much better in myself and a lot less tired (sleep allergic three year old, very active was making the mix too interesting I think!;))
So - I am no expert - but like many people trying to create good health and support their fertility to the best of their ability I keep seeking out information and research from both medical and natural therapies arenas with an open mind and a lot of hope and this is what I have found at this point. I am not sure if anything here is of help but there may be some leads of use for you to investigate more if they seem useful.
Sticky vibes to you!
BFN
Karen
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It is OK to be real about how you are feeling
Hello Don
Many thanks for the celebratory reaction - I appreciate the thought!!!!
You are so wonderfully close to 12 weeks - it will not be long. It is wonderful that you are consciously managing your reactions to this current pregnancy in light of what has happened in the past. I understand that none of us want to stress - particularly when we are pg - but not acknowledging HOW we are feeling might be more likely to drive it underground where it becomes physical rather than mental.
Do you feel there is a point at which you can say to yourself - 'having reached this point I feel confident and positive about this pregnancy?" - if you can create a use by date for your fears and doubts associated with past losses perhaps you can allow yourself to be able to enjoy the pregnancy the way you would like to.
It sounds a little flaky - but I actually undertook a little exercise this year that I haven't done previously that I found in a newspaper (of all things :rolleyes:) - you had to write a Ciao for Now 2008 list, a Gratitude to 2008 list and an Intentions 2009 list - you get to destroy the first list which is really, really satisfying. It was really worthwhile for me to physically do this in all three cases because somehow the creation of each list crystallised my thinking and the destruction of the first list (I burnt it and then lifted the ashes to the breeze to be scattered - never to darken my doorstep again) seemed to be a release.
May the good news keep on coming!!
Karen van