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    Unhappy approaching 1st wedding anniversary since Spilt

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    Aww hun I don't really know what to say, but I wanted to send you some

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    Oh darl, It's completely natural to feel a bit confused - it's only been six months. I still think about the split with my DH and that was close to 10 years ago LOL! It's natural to have regrets and be happy all at the same time. All I can say, is that's the decision I made at the time, hindsight is sometimes a beautiful thing but we can only deal with the situation we're faced at the time and we have to trust that we made a decision based on those circumstances.

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    Hun just wanted to give u some hugs and let u know i am here for u!!

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    Big Ness..

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    don't have any advice ness, just wanted to drop in and give you a cuddle and let you know i'm thinking of you.

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    big hugs Ness..

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    hey ness i know its a hard time for you but do what divvy says and play your wedding vid backwards! give back the ring and leave with your friends!!

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    Darling big hugs...

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    edited sorry
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    I know what you're going through. Officially separated 24 Oct (living apart for a few months but still seeing each other & sleeping together), his birthday 2 Nov (yes this Sunday), 3rd anniversary 13 November - yes ALL this year.

    I've got the day off work, going to spend it with friends & they're going to let me do what I need to do to get through it.

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    feel liberated hun !

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    Mine was 29 December, right between Christmas and New Year. The first year I felt awful, as we'd only been separated about 3 months.

    However, the following year I didn't even remember it at all!..

    Time heals... really it does.

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    Huge Ness

    Maybe you could light two candles on the day - one to signify that it is a day that still has some meaning to you and was a day that you used to celebrate - and the other to remind yourself that you give yourself meaning - and you are strong enough to handle this journey by yourself.

    Thinking of you babe *mwah*

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    the day still signifies a period of your life where you had hopes and dreams for a life with someone you loved. I like the idea of a new tradition - but maybe it's important for your girls to know how happy you were on your wedding day to their Dad? Maybe you could give them each a photo of you getting married and then put the rest of the wedding pictures into a 'vault' until they're grown up? (chuck out the ones you don't like or give them to him!).

    Ignore me if I'm way off the mark or outta line here...

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    I totally forgot mine!

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