Trust Your Intuition & Inner Strength.
I empathise with you, having been through a similar start to my pregnancy and throughout. Noone can tell you what to do but it does make a difference to do the following:
- surround yourself with people who have your best interest at heart...
- Realise that you cannot control someone else's behaviour....
- Accept that he will regret the way he is acting one day as he'll have to explain his behaviour to his own son or daughter...
- Document and keep evidence of everything...
- Read, order some books on Amazon about separation, single motherhood. It'll make you more prepared in a logical sense.
- You can sort out your feelings and get closure without him
- KNOW the truth that you are a Mother-to-be now, respect yourself and your body and value your own emotional intelligence for the sake of your baby...
Becoming a parent is a pure and profound experience that is HIS loss if he misses out on all the ultrasounds, the birth, the early smiles, the late night cuddles...you have this pregnancy for 9 months in your whole life, savour it, it's precious & and don't let anyone ruin it. :hug:
:
βAny intelligent fool can make things bigger, more complex and more violent. It takes a touch of genius β and a lot of courage β to move in the opposite direction.β ~ E.F. Schumacher
