Oh hun I am so incredibly sorry. Today is going to be the hardest day for you and your family. We are here for you all day today in spirit and whenever you need us.
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Oh hun I am so incredibly sorry. Today is going to be the hardest day for you and your family. We are here for you all day today in spirit and whenever you need us.
Thinking & praying for you today. xoxo
Thinking of you. Sending peace and strength.
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thinking of you and your family at this time
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I am so incredibly sorry to hear your news.
Thinking of you and your precious little one at this very sad time.:hug:
I am so so sorry. Please know there we are here to support you through what no parent should have to face.. Much love, peace and strength to you, your family and your little baby :hug:
I am so very sorry your bubbie couldn't stay here with you any longer :hug::hug::hug:. My tears are flowing, I feel your agony and pain. Thinking of you and please know that we are here to support you through this very very difficult time.
I would also suggest taking lots of photos and more importantly have lots of cuddles. I am so very sorry hun, it just breaks my heart hearing of other parents' losses.
Thinking of you today...
:hug:
I have spoke with the midwife where she is, she has settled in for the night, she has an early start. Apparently she is being very brave.
I keep you all updated best I can with anything she is ok with me sharing.
Thank you for letting us know, let her know we are all here to support her and are thinking of her xoxo:
Thinking of you today, tomorrow and the days after. My heart and tears are with you, in this short journey as you meet and farewell your little one :hug:
im so sorry you are going through this, i send you strength and hugs.
Thanks for letting us know Efjay. Please pass on our love.
Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13
She sent me a message earlier this morning, Nothing has started yet, apparently it was a busy night with births. Which would have been hard. She seems "ok", keeps saying she knows the worst is yet to come.
:comfort:
Efjay so glad she is talking to you, she is lucky to have such a caring friend and :hug: to you.
Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13
I tell you, Its hard. I know its a gazillion times harder for her, But I am so scared she wont be able to talk to me when I have my baby. I don't want to loose her as my friend.:
You won't lose her hun, she will never forget you for being there for her.
Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13
Oh Efjay, it's such a hard and sucky situation!! I am sure she appreciates you being there more than she could ever say!!!! It'll be hard when you have your bub, but you won't lose her.
Let her know we all love her and are sending hugs and support to her. xx
Efjay you are awesome, not many people can cope with helping a friend when loosing a child while carrying themselves...
Just be there for her in anyway you can, even if your not in her presence always make sure she knows no matter what you are within arms reach..
When she births her gorgeous angel baby it will be so hard for her and to her its going to be the beginning of the end feeling, and she is going to be angry as well as upset...
Try not to stress yourself you have to also look after yourself even though i know, its hard, but the more rest you get the stronger you'll be when she needs you most.
Im still aching for this girl, i know her pain.. and i know its full of emptiness..
I dont think you will lose her, but she may withdraw for a while, but thats just to come to grips with everything that has happened. From what you say, you will never lose her.. your too precious babe!! xoxox
Thank you, I didn't mean to make it about me:redface: sorry.
I have not heard anything at all since this morning, which I understand. But I just wish I had some idea of what was happening now & if she is coping.
I have spoke with the midwives again, but of course they are unable to tell me anything. But have let her know I am thinking of her.
thinking of you!!!
Thinking of you and sending all my strength xx
Efjay, thanks so much for the update. It must be so hard for everyone involved, particularly your dear friend, but try not to worry how she will respond to you afterwards. Just offer to be there for her when she needs you. I can understand how hard it will be for her to be around pg women but she will pull through hun. She will. You're a gorgeous friend, she's so lucky to have you in her life. Send her all of our love and hugs :grouphug:
Thinking of you, your family and your beautiful angel baby. :hug:
I will speak with her a little later today. She has family with her atm. But Im sure it will be ok to say, she has birthed her little angel & all went well (considering). Once I have spoke with her & she has said its ok I will update with details.
She is in my heart right now, sending all my love and strength.
Regards,
Dianne
Emmanuel born sleeping @24wks
Trisomy 13
think of u gorgeous lady
xxx
Thinking of you all xoxo
thankyou everyone for all your words and support. it's been a very hectic week, obviously. we laid our son to rest today, but i feel from hereon everything is going to calm down and reality will hit me.
when im ready, hopefully soon, i would like to post my story on here, whilst it's still fresh.
and efjay.......that is never going to happen! you are not going to lose me over this. Trust me, you have been amazing xoxoxox:
got to go get some tissues again... Its been a very teary day thinking of you. I just wish I was there.
Mummydreamer- I am so so sorry for your loss :cry: i can't imagine the hell you and your family are going through at the moment, and in the years to come. I don't really know what else to say so i'll just send you a :hug:
Josiah Finn is a beautiful name xo
May little Josiah be watching over his mummy, daddy and family xoxox
Josiah Finn is a gorgeous name. Sorry your little boy couldn't stay.
What a beautiful name Josiah Finn, hugs and love and strength to all of you and your family xoxo
Mummydreamer, What a lovely name you have given your little angel. I am so sorry that he could not stay. He will forever be watching you and your family from above.
congratulations on birthing your beautiful boy, what a perfect name for a perfect angel.
Here if and when u need hun
xxx
Congratulations on a lovely little boy, his name is just lovely and obviously represents his impact on your lives.
Much love and hope for you and your future.
xx
Congratulations on the birth of your perfect little boy. What a beautiful name - Josiah Finn.
Be gentle with yourself. Thinking of you
Congratulations on the birth of your precious son. I am so sorry that you could not take him home and begin your life together as a family of 5. Sending love and strength. I hope you have all the support and love you need. xx
Congratulations on the birth of your beautiful son Josiah Finn. I'm so sorry he couldn't stay. May he forever be in your hearts. It's just not fair. Take care of yourself my love. x