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HotI it was definitely being used. Still had a bit in it and it had the smelly water too. So obviously wasn't the 1st time. She had put it in the cupboard above her bed :rolleyes: I noticed the other day she had glassy, bloodshot eyes and queried her then and when she denied it gave her the benefit of the doubt. Can't this time.
We have decided to tell her that this is the only warning she is getting and if she stuffs up again then she is moving back into the house. If she decides to leave - then we are going to let her. I think it will be the only way she will learn how hard it is out there. She is still so naive in some ways that I'm scared for her but we realise that she might have to leave to learn.
Not looking forward to this chat at all!!!
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Thinking of you Kim and sending lots of strength.
Regards,
Dianne
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massive hugs.
Hope she pulles her head in for you.
I know in nsw you can be charged with drug parafanalia (sp?) my step dad coped that one when I was younger.
Is there a chance she is only doing it to break the rules?
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Well we had a chat last night after she got home and she played the nice, contrite girl but not sure how much she meant it. We told her that she was getting 1 warning and then she moves back into the house if she stuffs up. I was very calm and collected but I'm sure she was thinking I was going to be a screaming banshee lol. We also told her that she needs to start applying for some part time jobs. Hmmmmmmm will see how we go from here.
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I really hope she's been thinking about what she is putting her family through and sorts herself out. Must be tough for you all.
Regards,
Dianne
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Thanks Dianne. Unfortunately at 16 she doesn't think much about her family - only herself and her friends. Although a swift kick in the bum reminds her - especially about me lol
