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Kristylove- Hey you said something about herbs... I don't know where you are right now but Here in US there is a herbal mix to help TTCing called "Vitex" or "chaste Berry" have you heard of it?... You do have to use it for at least 3 months to conceive but My Cousin had 10 yrs TTC and docs played ping pong with her and NONE helped her at all... so she used it and after 4 months she got pregnant on it.
Joey123- I'm wishing you the very best woman!!.. Sometimes we do have to put our thoughts ad stuff together. I totally understand where you are coming from... I pray that everything falls into place and when you do start to TTC again I pray that you conceive right away and deliver a full term healthy bub!! :hug:
Larz- Congrats on being 6 weeks!! When do yo see your bub???? It's amazing how tiny thy are yet they are sooooooo active!!!! Wishing you a H&H 9 months and baby!!:dance:
I'm doing great today. I'm cramp free and my BBS are very sore...that reassures me that bub is ok??? **sigh****
hubby liked the Maternity Clothes we bought so much he said he is treating me early ( for my B-day) and he is taking me there again tonight!!!!.. WAAAHOOO!!!! :dance:
The thing is Maternity clothes are super expensive in most stores so there is one store Old Navy that has all maternity clothes on clearance 50% off and when we got to pay we found out those things 50% off are an extra 15-25% off on top of that. So we paid literally pennies for a pair of Jeans and a couple of shirts.. so he said "we should have bought more" so we are going back tonight and I'm raiding the place. LMAO!!!
I know Silly me..... I can't wait to show!!!;)
Leaveing some L♥ve :loveshower:and :pink-babydust::bluedust:
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Rachel--Hope you have a safe trip home! Hope you have some tests at home already so you can POAS right away! :goodluck2:
Babyfever--Sorry to hear AF arrived :hug:
Tam--:welcome: to our humble little thread. I'm sorry for the loss that brings you to us :hug: I'm super excited for you to begin TTC again in 4 days, I wish you a speedy and sticky BFP!! Looking forward to getting to know you!
Toccara--Sorry to hear about DH leaving... I know you mentioned it before, but for some reason I thought he had already left. You'll still get to see him on weekends, right? At least his little :sperm: should be fully charged and rarin' to go on the weekends! Make sure you take advantage of those days :bd:
Krystie--Whaaaaaaat?! No :bd: stats for 2 days???? How will you catch that egg??? Maybe you just haven't logged it yet for yesterday...
Any info yet on your avatar? I'm feeling impatient for mine, which is terrible, I know... just can't wait to see her!
Did you ever call that travel agent? Hugs and *kiss*
Ruthie--Glad to hear your achy breaky back is feeling better! Have fun buying maternity clothes--that's always lots of fun--especially when you're getting a bargain! Angel has found lots of maternity stuff on e-bay... have you thought to check there? Sending lots of :stickyvibesgirl:
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mollycat--How's that O coming along? Feeling like it's a good month??? I'm keeping my :crossfingers: for you! How's it going with the remodel?
smilanatu--:doh: That's no good! Maybe you need some new toys! lol... Almost Friday!! Woo Hoo!! Got any plans for the weekend?
Hey Easha-- How's the plodding coming along? :hug:
jenushka--Hey hon, how's the job hunt going for DH? Did you get in to talk to your doc about the antidepressants? I wish you the best of luck with whatever you decide... don't forget we're here if you need us--for whatever reason... a cry... a vent... for advice... you name it, and we'll do whatever you need! :hug:
Hi's and :hug: to Chappas, megsmum, joey, WTH, tempus, babbs, and Sandygirl
Van & issy--Always thinking of you both! This place just isn't the same without you girls! Hugs...
tut--Bellyrubs and :stickyvibesgirl: Saw you introduced yourself in the PAML thread--good job and congrats!
:stickyvibesgirl: for our other BFP's : fifi, larz, pbstar, tina, plc, AJC, and Katiegirl :stickyvibesboy:
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My better half of Nuff--As always, lots of :hug: and :pray: for you! *kiss*
Ok girls, it's been another slow month.... we seriously need some :bfp: around this place! Sending bucket loads of :bluedust: :pink-babydust: :goodluck2: :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy:
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Hi ladies,
Sorry have been out of it for a while but feeling really low at mo. DD starts full time school in week time so getting ready for that too
Jen- Sorry af reared her head will keep :crossfingers: for that bfp next month.
Tutmae- Congrats on 7 weeks and seeing HB on u/s
Ruthie- Glad backache has gone and you feel better
Babyfever- Sorry AF arrived for you too
Babbs and Tam 83- Welcome,so sorry for your losses, really glad that you found this place as it has really helped me a lot.
Fificlaire- Congratulations on that BFP
Krystie- :hello:
Rachelswirl- Safe trip home then :pray: you get that BFP
AFM- Know we wont be getting BFP this month DH has a sports injury IYKWIM has put a halt to it all :wall
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Morning All,
Ruthie - Next u/s is on Wednesday, hoping for a strong heart beat:pray:
Had really bad cramps last night, but no spotting and feeling better today. Was so scared last night, thought something was wrong. I prayed my little heart out and hopefully God was listening:pray:
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Ruthie where can I buy some of that from I have never seen it at the pharmacy where I live ...
Jen I will be all over dh on the weekends lol ...
Larz you are I'm my prayers hun ***sticky vibes*** :hug:
AFM another one of my friends had a baby today I'm really happy for her but it just makes me want a baby even more now... DH could tell I was a little down so he told not to worry I would have a baby soon which was really sweet and made me feel better ...
***stickyVibes***Babydust*** :hug: to everyone else ...
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Well Im home and guess who arrived.. yep the AF... grrr. ON THE FLIGHT!!! OF ALL TIMES!
However, Im so chuffed to be home and start a fresh cycle. Its a bit brownish and weird but I guess thats post LAP DYE.
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Larz-:goodluck2:Momma!!! I am praying for you and your bub to be ok!! I can;t wait to hear the good news!! :pray: for a strong :heartbeat:!! Well from Oing time till week 5 I can recall cramping and running with a pad in hand swearing AF was coming. I have been reassured that it's your uterus stretching and preparing for 9 months ahead. Girl I get scared of anything.. imagine having 2m/c I always think of loss and not what it really could be. I'm sure you will be fine, like the darn receptionist told me.. "If you are not bleeding or have pain so bad it bends you over" it's all ok.
Can't wait to see a pic of your bub!!!!:hug:
Tocarra:
You can buy it online, I don't think they sell that on pharmacies I know the Vitamin Shoppe or GNC have it for sure!! Ask for the "Chaste Berry" They have it in tea form and I think in capsuls? (pills)
So far I have heard great things about it even women with PCOS.
Type Vitex on Google and it should direct you to good sites.:goodluck2:
I'm BEAT today.. I was cleaning the house... and am truly beat!! I most likely will go to bed early today!! hubby is not home yet and it's 8:36 PM so the stores will be close by the time he is back..:( so I guess I will shop for the remaining Maternity Clothes tomorrow.
Hugs to you all and I hope you have a good night/morning. :grouphug:
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Toccara - Thanks for the prayers, it all helps. Hope your dreams come true and :pray: you get a BFP in September
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Hi ladies,
Yet again I find myself saying a huge big thank you for your support - I could not be getting through this time without you :grouphug:
I saw a GP yesterday (not my normal Dr A) and she was great. I have an affliction at the moment where if i walk into a room, sit down in a chair and see someone looking at me with kindness I just burst into tears. So, yes, I didn't even get 3 words out before I started bawling! This dr was great - very professional but sympathetic. It's a little too early for them to be dishing out anti-depressants but she would like me to go see a counsellor and insisted that I use the referral. She said losing two babies in 5 months was a lot and I needed to give myself time. If I still felt exactly the same in a month or 2 then they will look at other options. So true, but still...
I told her that I still had some spotting each day and she said that 3.5 wks after the d&c it really should have stopped. So I have been given antibiotics for what she thinks is a small uterine infection... oh happy days :) If still spotting in a week then I go back for a scan and blood tests.
And the best part is she gave me a cert for the rest of the week off and said to come back if I need more time and they'll write me another.... very very tempting!
Anyhoo!
Angelbabies - thank you for your honest advice on anti-depressants .... I did think about what you said and I guess it's probably too early to be considering them... it is very normal to be feeling what I'm feeling now. I honestly think I would consider them if I still feel "paralysed" by my sadness say 6 months down the track. Just so very tempting to take something to make it all go away though ...thank you again for taking the time to give me such a "from the heart" reply
Jen - thank you also for continuing to be such a champ... thanks too for the permission to come in here to "offload" all my emotional stuff. You honestly don't know how much that means. Also, careful what you wish for! I am hoping though that in the not too distant future there will be more and more happiness and positivity creeping into my posts :) DH has a freelance job today which is good, and has a couple of interviews lined up next week :crossfingers: Thank you for remembering :hug: And I love my little storm trooper vibes - they are just gorgeous ;)
KL - thank you for the massive hug - will not let the internet and a few hundred km's get in the way!
Tam - :welcome: ... you will find all of the support and then some that you need here. Looking forward to getting to know you, and :pray: that your stay here is short and sweet!
Better go - DS is stirring from his nap and banging on the walls ... hope you all have a lovely weekend.
xx
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Hi Ladies,
Just wanted to say thank you for making me feel soooo welcome.
I wanted to say a personal thank you to;
Kristylove
Joey123,
ruthie,
toccara,
baby fever,
larz,
jen and
Jenushka.
I read all your messages. LARZ I just wanted to let you know I am :pray: for you and you are in my thoughts. I am sure everything will be fine and its just your body changing and growing and wish you the best of luck.
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Tam: You are so very welcome I am :pray: for you and sending you my very best wishes hun.:hug:
Jenushka: You had me teary eyed reading your message... I totally understand how you feel and in your position' I would have been the same. I'm very happy you found a doctor who cares and is sympathetic, That's what I love about my doctor too... Imagine I have been seeing him since I was 18 when he diagnosed me with PCOS and it's him that has helped me conceive when other docs said there was no hope for me. My heart goes out to you and it's ok to be "blue".. girl... Having had 3 years trying and succeeding twice AND miscarrying them both really had me depressed. It took away from who I was.. I am a bubbly person and if you saw me back then.. eyes puffy from crying so much.. I used to sob entire nights wondering when was it finally going to be my moment. Momma I know how you feel and across the miles I want to send you a a special :hug: with real L♥ve sweetheart. Hang in there, You are in my thoughts and prayers.. Gosh I'm tearing up!! sniff sniff...
You are amazing and strong and I'm SURE you will get through this.. when you have your bub I'm sure you will let that baby know how hard you worked to have him or her and how loved he or she is going to be from before conception. I feel honored to have you a sa friend.. same to all my girlies here, Chappas,Joey, Mollycat, larz, Fifi, Smi,Easha, Angelbabies,Jen805, Tam same to you hun, kritylove, babyfever, megsmum, tempus, babbs, Issy, Pbstar, Vanithi, Tina, AJC, Plc, Katiegirls, WTH, Rachelswirl, Tocarra.... all my girlies here.. ( sorry if I missed anyone.. ) A huge hug to you all.. you all are very strong and whatever your situation I'm praying hard that you all have a healthy miracle on the way this year!!!! and for those who have been blessed I am sending you my best wishes with your miracles on the way!!! ♥
I feel truly blessed to have found you all.
:grouphug: and :goodluck2:
So C'mon Sept. :bfp: We need 2009 babies here!!!!
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Ruthie - you have ME sitting here teary eyed reading YOUR post! .... wow... I felt every bit of positive energy and kindness from what you wrote and definitely felt that great big hug that you sent. You are so right - I feel like I'm not even myself at the moment.... normally the most resilient, optimistic person in the room I feel like in losing that I have lost such a big part of myself and I just so badly want it back. I have to believe that every day the pain will get a teeny tiny bit less, and also that every day brings me closer to meeting the baby that I still feel is waiting to meet me.
Your little bubby is so lucky to have you as it's Mummy - continue to hold it close and enjoy every minute of this pregnancy.... you deserve to be so excited and I wish you nothing but the best for the next 7 months or so :hug:
And Tam.... glad that you feel so welcome. Way before i first posted in here back in my days as a lurker I just knew that this was a very safe place. These girls will look after you...
Bit quiet in here otherwise tonight ... I must be the only nanna not out on the town ;)
Night, night and :bluedust::pink-babydust: to all xx
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Jen:..heeheh sniff sniff we can cry together. Momma.. I felt like I was losing my sanity and myself. I was so happy one moment and the very next I was so gloomy or super sad. It was just so hard.
I know exactly how you feel and know that you have more than a friend here in NJ ...more like a sister.
Thank you so much for your super sweet words.. I am praying that your time comes and that like I always say to my teeny belly " baby please grow nice and healthy, every millimeter you grow is a millimeter you heal in my broken heart".. I hope you are blessed with a little bun so that every mm he or she grows is a mm he or she is healing from you heart!! Bless you momma and have yourself a great nights sleep. Dream of your baby I can feel it in my guts you will be blessed sooner than you think!!
:hug:
Ruthie
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Don't worry Jenushka, this little nana is off to bed! I've had some loooong hours at work and have to be back there at 9am tomorrow and I'm sooo tired!
Just wanted to let you all know that I am thinking of you!
Tam, I am so happy that you have felt the warm welcome of all the ladies in here. They radiate positive energy :)
Fab 2/3, I miss you both so much! I promise I'll come back to chat soon! Not tomorrow night though because I'll be out on the town in my costume and wig! Lol. Hopefully you'll still be up and online when I come home from work on sunday night though, because I'll definitely pop in then! :hug: :hug:
FF tried to give me wrong lines this morning!!! It put them at CD12 when it is soooo obvious that it was on CD16!!!
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chappas--Sorry to hear DH's sports injury has put a halt on TTC :( I hope he feels better soon so you can jump right back on the bandwagon!
larz--:goodluck2: with your u/s next Wednesday! Praying those cramps were just your stretching uterus making room for bubs for the next 9 months! :stickyvibesgirl:
Toccara--It's so hard when those close to us are living our dreams.... Sending super big :hug: and loads of :pink-babydust:
Rachel--Grrr! Sorry to hear AF has blessed you with her presence. At least she was nice enough to wait until after your hols! You'll just have to join me in the Sept. BFP's! :crossfingers:
Ruthie--Hope you get to go shopping for your new maternity clothes today! :stickyvibesgirl:
Tam--Glad to see the girls are making you feel so welcome! I'm sure in no time you'll find yourself just as addicted to talking to these girls as I do! :hug:
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jenushka--I think it's a great idea to see a counsellor! I :pray: that you're able to find some peace and comfort from your angst. Make sure you take whatever time off you need, hon, you've been thru so much in such a short amount of time--you need as much time for yourself as you can get. Steal as many hugs from your DS as you can get--my DS is 7 and is getting "too old" for all the hugs that this girl needs! Makes me wish he was a baby again so that he can't push me away! :( You'll find your way out of this grief, it just takes time...and we'll all be here to help you pick the pieces!
Krystie--Ooh, hope you enjoy your night out on the town! I thought this was my weekend to wear the costume and wig??? Sunday chat sounds like a plan--you know I'll be there with bells on!
What's up with FF giving you the wrong coverline??? At least your BD stats look like you have a fairly high chance of conception!! As always, I'm keeping my :crossfingers: and saying mega :pray: for you to get the BFP ball rolling!!! Lots of :hug: and *kiss*
My Other Nuffer--Missed you in chat this am! :hug: Thinking of you always and sending monster loads of :bluedust: :pink-babydust:
