T.hope I pray for you its a little implant bleed. Best of luck. I hope you get a BFP in time for Christmas!
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T.hope I pray for you its a little implant bleed. Best of luck. I hope you get a BFP in time for Christmas!
T-Hope I usually have a cycle B/W 32-35 days and seem to ovulate on CD21, so If is the case for you, it very well could be implantation bleed hun! I have heard that with implantation you feel crampiness too, so best of luck!! Oh and WAAAAY to early to test:lol:
Get your other half to hide that PeeStick somewhere in the house where you wont be able to find it!!:lol
Matthew'sMum hope the FS visit goes well :crossfingers:
Hi to everyone!!!XXX
AFM, I have an appt at Mildura Repromed to pick up all of my injectables and meds Monday morning...soooo excited to have them in my fridge!!!!
And have organised to have all of my scans done in Mildura so I don't have to travel to Adelaide every few days for them, don't know exactly how many I am meant to have yet, but I will find out all of that sort of stuff on Monday. So looks like I won't have to go to Adelaide Repromed untill eggpickup in early Jan!!!:D More cash for Xmas!!!
My current project ATM, is nagging and harassing my poor DH to buy me a treadmill for Xmas. It is something I will be able to use during my IVF treatment, and after (esp if I am UTD)!!! I put on a few kilo's over the 3 months I was doing IUI, and I don't want to blow up like a baloon doing IVF.
I can't walk down the river with my dogs now because there are campers on every bend, some with big scary dogs that run at me when they see me walking in the distance and it scares me, not to mention the 1meter psycopathic Goanna I stumbled across yesterday.....man did I Sh*T my panties!!
Hi Ladies
T hope welcome to this thread sorry you have to be in here with us all but we have all suffered and are here to help each other along the TTC road however long or short it may be,
Murraycod I have also put on more than a few kilos in the last 4 mnths think I just eat when Im not hungry but a treadmill sounds good if you get one ( I am sure you have hinted enough for him not to ignore you ! ) poor guy we women can knagg when we need to hey !
Matthews mum hope your apt went well spill the beans what did he say ? and your comment about your old body well what about mine 44yrs old and already had more than my share of bubs ! Mine must be totally Kna****ed :lol:
everyone else hope your all sorted for chrstmas its only a week away !
AFM well day 29 for me and a BFN again but keep feeling sick think it must be the vitex again as its within an hour or so of taking it in the morning, just waiting AF to show now hope I don't have to wait too long ! want to get on with next months cycle I am not getting any younger !
Crafty sorry you got a BFN hun X:comfort:
You know what you said about nagging??....Well I got my treadmill!!!!!:D
Hi ladies,
T hopes - could be an implant bleed! fingers crossed!
sorry about the BFN CM - though it aint over yet till the old cow AF arrives!
murray cod - YAY about the treadmill (I love nagging LOL)
AFM - darn clomid! dried my girlie bits WAY too much - had to cut the shag fest short as I could feel the beginnings of a UTI. So I'm now in the 2WW but I really wanted another 2 days of bd, so I'm not feeling confident this month. :(
hi again ladies... no good for me ... AF arrived today :crying: 4days early - weird but i guess if im not pregnant Id rather know now than christmas day! its such a roller coaster ride, im up then i just get smashed back down.... thinking of going back to acupuncture... i was doing it when i fell pregnant last time, maybe it will help! xx
evening everyone-muraycod-thanks for your update,sounding good...craftymummy-sorry about bfn,nearly sorted for chrissy kids keep adding things to their lists...milly-sorry the clomid being a pain,sound like your still in with a good chance though,fs looked up some previous tests and thinks if it was thyriod probs it would of been indicate in them,thanks anyway...t-hopes-sorry af turned up,acupunture sounds good,fs has given me the green light to have some too...okay afm-next step for me is a tubal patency(check for tube blockages)&pelvic ultrasound in one of the sydney hospitals,af being a pain cycle day36 and not here yet,bfn still,checked yesterday,thing is i have to have the tubal test,day8,9or10 and with public holidays coming up,if af doesn't co-operate i'm going to have to wait till next cycle because they'll be shut,while waiting for test to be done fs wants be to try naturally as he said i need a break from clomid ,but before we do ivf he wants be to have 2 more cycles of clomid,so 2 cycles natural,2 cycles clomid,then start ivf
Murraycod ! yay for nagging gets us what we want ( anything for a quiet life )
I guess you best be on it every day or else you know the comments you will get !
Mattews mum guess im with you this month day 31 for me no AF so waiting and waiting but I guess with chrstmas here the time goes quite quickly not thinking about it too much, Got a bit of a headache today so I guess shes on her way I always get a bad headache the run up to AF visiting,
Well girls enjoy your day and lets hope next year will be full of BFPs for us !
Afternoon all,looks like i'll be able to have the tests done in between crissy and new year as af has arrived...
Matthew's Mum pleased AF arrived for you at a time when you can still arrange the HSG test obviously a BFP would have been more welcome. Hope the HSG helps make the BFP come very soon so you can avoid IVF. I am hoping for the same. 5 cycles to go before we start. Please let it be.
T-hopes sorry AF arrived. On a positive note atleast the witch will be gone for Christmas or almost of you have a long AF. And then you can concieve a NewYears baby. They always say their is something in the water at NewYears (must be alcoholic) as where I work the most babies are born Septemeber/October and were concieved at NewYears. FX for all of us that this wait for another BFP is almost over.
craftymummy9 hope a BFP shows itself intime for Christmas.
AF has finally left my building so to speak so the wait is on for some fertile signs. Another week I guess.
T-hopes
It's such a hard journey - sorry you've joined the rest of us on it.
The TCC can do your head in, and as you you're finding out its all consuming but amongst the heartbreak there are some amusing moments - like the shag fest going on in some households!
I was so hoping it was implantation bleeding for you.
Mine was particularly mixed this time around, so desperately wanting BFP but so relieved because of some medication I'd taken which if I'd had BFP I know I would have been scared of its effects on bubs. The pregnancy journey after loss is hard enough without the extra burden of worries about the effects of medication on bubs. So the end result for me, I am relieved at the BFN but sad too.
Mathew's Mum - hey good news about the testing. Tubal patency, at least for me wasn't too bad,the proceedure and the results! I had a hysterosalpingo-contrast-sonography (HyCoSy). Although there are other procedures. I was told "it's like a grease and oil change" for your tubes, and apparently increases chances of pregnancy for about 6 months following the test. I am yet to see those results, but fingers crossed for you. I didn't have too much discomfort during or after, although of course there's no dignity with your naf on show for a fair while. If you can get them to issue you separate accounts for the procedure and the levovist, as medicare refunds on the procedure but not the levovist but your healthfund, might. Every dollar counts! Here's one of the better explanations of the options I've found on the web:- Specialist Women's Ultrasound.
Good luck. Lots of baby dust to you all.
thanks Emmy83 - yeah I should be ovulating New Years Day! Ive been really off alcohol since our loss but thought bugger it - im gunna get drunk on New Yrs eve and murphys law says we'll conceive lol! Ive been doing everything by the book but every where i look there is all these young slappers with babies and I bet they didnt do anything by the book yet they still conceive - doesnt make sense!
If we conceive next month Id be due on Grand Final day! My husband was so excited - were Saints supporters and he thinks that its a sign and hoping we have a baby that day and the Saints finally win another grand final! lol!
Emmy sorry to ask but you said you have to wait 5 more cycles till you can try again? did you have ectopic? here I am complaining that its not working for me and you poor love having to wait that time - you must be very frustrated... xx
thanks again everyone else for your support!
T-hopes woops my previos message was rushed no I have 5 more cycles until we start IVF or the procedure stuff so it will be more like 6-8months before we are well on the road if that makes snese. I have only been ttc since November after an ectopic pregnancy conceived in July and removed in September. I had to wait 3months before ttc again. I started ttc in August 2008, m/c in May 09 and EP in August/September. I had a lap and dye in November and the Gyno said give it 6cycles or the 6months ttc again before doing IVF to give us the best chance of a natural BFP. He said after 6months if I am not pregnant its unlikely to happen and seeing as it will be 2yrs ttc then he thought as did we that IVF was the next step. Clomid won't do (although I want some) as I O every cycle and IUI wont help as its tubal damage causing the problems thats why we will be looking at IVF and ICSI as DH has low sperm morphology and motility although he has excellent count. No I can't complain. I have 2 children already just I am still desperate for more. I thought iw would happen quickly like in the past and have brought baby clothes, maternity clothes that break my heart seeing them and not knowing if/when they will be used. If I knew after no2 that would be it I think I could deal with that but trying and loosing and still not having that baby I planned I just can't accept that. Well not yet anyhow.
T-hopes i completely agree, i did everything right last time, and still m/c. someone i know didn't even want her baby, kept getting drunk (she also keeps splitting up and getting back together with her partner, but that is another story) and she is fine. i've been going out and drinking for the past 3 days now (just a few mind you :) ) and just think sod it. if it's gonna stick it will.
dory at least you haven't got added stress this time because of the meds causing anything to go wrong. hopefully you can get your bfp next time :)
Emmy83 my o day is chrissy day so hoping for a september baby :) my birthday is in october also lol so i think i was a new year baby :)
craftymummy9 are you gonna test again or do you think af is coming?
Matthew's Mum at least you can get on with your tests now, and hopefully like dory said it can increase your chances of getting pg x
milly5 hopefully your dh has strong swimmers, fingers crossed for your tww!
well done with the nagging murraycod! enjoy your treadmill :)
hope the wedding went well mrs ferrals! :)
aww emmy so sad to hear what you have been through... its a real emptiness isnt it! we have a room full of stuff, bought our cot, high chair, furniture, clothes, even a new car - we were so excited. its very hard to look in that room some days, still so raw. we fell pregnant first try last time and we just expected that it would all happen again straight away. really hard also cause my friend is pregnant too, she is 2 weeks behind where i should have been, seeing her tummy grow is so heartbreaking for me, sounds so awful but i just hate being around her! too hard! Ive started taking Vitex, has anyone had any experience with it?
fairy - my husbands little sister had a daughter when she was in her late teens, after having an abortion a few months b4 hand!!!!!! her daughter is now 7 yrs old and doesnt even live with her. she is raised by my husbands parents (and has been for 6 yrs) who are almost 60. its so so sad and makes me so so angry. i cant even look at her some days, makes my blood boil!!!!!!!!! I wonder how there is God sometimes!
Dory - yeh hubby and I do laugh about the shag fest! he calls himself my sperm donor! lol! ive always worried that id have trouble conceiving as my sister was told she could never have children (has severe PCOS and severe endo) but she had IVF and now has 4 children - gives me hope and very inspiring when i think about the struggle she went thru and now she is living her dream! xx
PS how do i get one of those Tickers????
T-hopes i know how you feel! we bought quite a bit of stuff, clothes, cot, high chair etc. and it is very hard to go into that room with all the baby stuff.
and we fell pg first try too. i got to 12 weeks but had a missed m/c.
that 'friend' i was talking about was due same time as me and i have not seen her at all since my m/c. i really can't deal with pg people.
i have been taking a supplement called pms essentials, which contains vitex, and i think it got my cycles regular after the d&c. seems we have a lot in common.
to get a ticker go to google and search for ticker, there are lots of websites that do them. you get an address once you have created one and you have to paste it into your signature. hth x
Morning ladies
Well even when you already have kids people think its not so hard to have a mc but like all of you I also mc at 12wks and have maternity clothes and baby clothes just waiting in a box its the whole loss process that is heartbreaking and watching your dream end in a single minute when you either see the blood or the Dr says Im sorry your baby has no heartbeat " so like all of you we are in here for the same reason to give each other support and understand how we all feel ! so good luck to all of us in the comming year !
AFM well AF showed up yesterday lunchtime so here we go again !
wow fairy, we sure do have a lot in common! both had a missed m/c at 12 weeks in september with our first and first try too!!!! how is your man handling it all??
yeah i have been on Vitex for the last month, been fairly reg since D&C too. My AF started on Saturday and its just about finished today, shortest and lightest ever!!! Strange!
crafty - sorry to hear AF arrived yesterday, its the pits huh! at least this time of the year, there is so much going on, it will be time to try again b4 you know it! xx