Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss March 2010

Well she hit me today.. :wall: but im ok im use to it.. So were just back @ step 1.
Best of luck to all
Personals later
HUGS TO ALL!!

Milly-aren't our bodies a pain in the a### i get similar feelings sometimes after O i get mild period type pain and a dragging pulling sensation around 5dpo then some days my uterus feels heavy and i have those symptoms when i am pregnant and sometimes when i am not then other months i get absolutely no symptoms at all AF just turns up without any warning signs so i just feel the same as i do every month i have been having the dragging pulling sensation on my right side for days now and when i have been pregnant with all my kids the placenta has always implanted on the right side so every month when i feel it i think maybe this is the month but it turns out not to be i hope your symptoms are the real deal.

T-Hopes-glad you got through your EDD ok.
Looks like we will be due for AF around the same time i am due wed-fri so lets hope we can get some more BFP's around here.

AFM-I had a meltdown last night i got home from work and just felt really anxious and stressed just about burst into tears at the stupidest things i felt really irritable didn't want to talk to anyone i just wanted to be left alone and i couldn't explain why i guess it was hormonal which just tells me AF is around the corner.

Hi everyone,

Lots to get through and running late for work so this will be a quickie and sorry to miss anyone.

MatthewsMum - GOOD LUCK WITH THE CYCLE!!! You must have started your FSH now - how exciting!!! Oh I so hope it works for you - crossing my fingers and toes. Donor eggs...we are going through similar thoughts. After my mc a very dear friend who I have known since I was 22 told me her daughter (who I have also known since that age but she was only 8!) offered to donate me some eggs (she is 26 now). I was blown away with her offer but also a bit weirded out about the fact she is the daughter of a friend, IYKWIM. Everytime I see her now I think about it but I'm hoping we will get our BFP in May and I won't have to think about it anymore. And I hope the same for you!!

Bons - sorry you are feeling short tempered love. Everything seems all over the place after a mc - I hope you are feeling brighter soon.

Thopes - hugs for your due date. What a sad day for you and I'm with the other girls and hooping that you just POAS a little early and that the BFP is hiding there waiting for you and after your last post, well - seems like it could be true! Fingers crossed.

Dory so good to hear from you! I think of you often. I had no idea what a cerclage is until I read further and I'm with Kit there's nothing coming out of you my dear til it's good and done! x

Hubba great news all is well with you!

Em - ah it's a hard journey Em. I'm gonig through it for the first time too and it is very up and down, as you can see with the posts here. Good to hear from you again and hang in there lovely

Crafty - sorry you are feeling so low. I really hope and wish for a BFP for you and Ferrals and I feel it will come but it's hard feeling like it won't ever happen. I hope you found Kit's info about late O'ing reassuring. Fingers crossed.

KitF my love you so are a generous and happy being - in here anyway! I'm sure that even when you feel you are not your bright self that you are still very loving and giving to those around you and I'm sure your friends appreciate you very much for the wonderful friend that you are. You'll get your sparkle back girl - we all feel like this from time to time, it's part of the rhythm of life (so to speak) (though that could be the intro to a really bad song!). May this TWW fly by and with it a BFP to announce.

MurryCod - Pregnyl lasts about 4-7 days (per shot) and some wear off much quicker (I asked about it last cycle when I fell pg) soooooyou just might be?

Ferrals - hugs to you

Jahazra and Sunbeam - I know where you are both coming from, best wishes to you and hope to see you in the BellyBuddy forums soon.

AFM - AF arrived yesterday (second since the mc) and with it a sore heart. Had a blue with my DH last night and went to bed early. Warning; TMI. My period is really watery and light and I'm worried that the lining isn't growing back properly. The first AF after my mc was quite heavy but this one the complete opposite so don't know whether I should speak to the dr or see a herbalist. Don't want to find it isn't developed enough when we go to do our cycle after all this time waiting.

Love to everyone - sorry to miss you in the persies but gotta run. So much for the quickie!!

Alice x

afternoon all,ferrals-i've still got my fingers crossed for you...t-hopes-hope af stays away..dory-how are you feeling?..millyd-fingers crossed for you too.Our bodies sent us mixed messages,i know it's hard but we just have to wait it out ,i think...murraycod-Where are you?You okay or as okay as anyone can be in this journey?..ttalovechild-sorry af turned up it's still hard even when your expecting her..alice-sorry you &dh had a tiff,hope all is sorted now,what a lovely gesture of your friend's daughter,but as you said hope you don't need to take her up on her offer.If we need to go down that road clinic said they will help us advertise,spoke about adoption,but dh age is a obstactale as well as having other children,anyway yes i've had 2 injections,they've put me on 225iu,still sniffing up the spray,blood test came back okay,hope scan on friday show good results.If worried about af maybe ask dr,might just be your body still settling down though.

Matthews Mum: Glad your doing ok, you sound so on top of it all! Very excited to see the outcome of the cycle!

Alice: Thanks, you made my day :) It is sweet of your friend's daughter to offer her eggs, fair enough about being a bit weirded out, but if you needed too, I'm sure you could get past that bit pretty darn quickly! Fingers crossed for that May baby! (I was born in May, I can highly recommend it)

Ferrals: I'm sorry it's been so tough lately, you've had so much to deal with and you've been strong for so long, totally ok to have a meltdown. Have two if you want. I know you think AF is coming, but you never really know until it shows up. Your still in.

TTCALC: Crap. I'm sorry sweetheart. This month! This is the one!

T-hopes: It does sound promising! I hate how AF and preg symptoms are so similar! Testing soon?

Milly: It is tough, that's why I'm so grateful that everyone in here understands! Not sure about CP though, I know if your preg it's meant to stay soft and high, so could be?

Jahzara: It sounds like you've put a lot of thought into your decision, I think your family is very lucky to have you! I really hope you return to your family better than ever and come back to TTC feeling happier. I hope we're not here too though, lol, xoxo

Sunbeam: Aww darling, gonna miss you!! When you feel like you can't see a future with a baby in it, remember that we can. Until you feel strong enough to come back, I'll be your future-see'er ok? And I see your little girl in your arms. I'm glad your stepping up the counselling, you look after yourself ok. We'll see you soon xoxo

Em: How you going sweetheart?

AFM: Oh my goodness I hate this part! I'm really distracted and irritable. DH said he thinks I'm UTD cos the last time I was this irritable was when I was preg! I really wasn't sure how to take that :shakehead: I'm not sleeping well, boobs get achy on and off, had some cramping today. And apparently DH can't do anything right (his words, not mine). Not sure if that counts as a symptom. Could be though. I worked out dates and I think I'm 7 DPO. So I'm in the 1 - 2 week wait. I hope it goes quick while my husband still loves me!

kitfaerie-our poor dh's really cope the brunt of the 2ww,hope his instinct are right this time around.Glad i sound like i'm on top of it all,i don't feel it,trying to keep the big picture in mind though.afm-my ds asked if the easter bunny is going to come to matthew so i've got some ornamental eggs to put round his grave,every occasion is saddened after a loss.

Ladies just a quickie ( well the only type I will be getting in the near future) ( ROTFL). All went well with my procedure yesterday. Dr very happy. I am recovering well. Very light headed and tired but not sleepy. Not too much bleeding or cramping. I am just happy to be resting and not a lot of energy to read all your posts and reply. Sorry. Thanks for thinking of me. Thinking of you all.

Alice- sorry AF turned up for you and maybe because your last AF was so heavy this one will be lighter to give your lining time to recover.

Mathewsmum-i hope this ivf cycle all works out good for you DH and i have decided we will not go down that road again even to speed up getting pregnant we will just go with nature now i no longer want the stress i know we said we would in may if we were not pregnant by then but i was pregnant a year ago so i can do it again if my body will let me if not then so be it but i have another 2-3 years left in my if i can keep this FSH level down.

Kitfaerie-OMG i feel the exact same the last two days i have felt so impatient and short tempered and very irritable i don't remember if i felt this way when i was pregnant last time maybe i just didn't take any notice my boobs are real sore but they were real sore the last two months also so that means nothing.

Dory-glad everything went well hope you feel better soon.

Murrycod-how are you my sweet i think about you every day i hope you are doing ok and crossing my fingers that one little sperm made it to one of your eggs not all 5.

AFM-seeing i O'd on day 16 i am about 7dpo AF is due in 5 days but i expect it to be two days late so next friday (my Bday) i am praying i get the best present ever but i am not very hopeful just don't feel anything different but i have been shopping up a storm for my furbaby Mowgli.

Hello all DH here... just wanted to say a hello and respond to Kittens writings...

"AFM: Oh my goodness I hate this part! I'm really distracted and irritable. DH said he thinks I'm UTD cos the last time I was this irritable was when I was preg! I really wasn't sure how to take that :shakehead: I'm not sleeping well, boobs get achy on and off, had some cramping today. And apparently DH can't do anything right (his words, not mine). Not sure if that counts as a symptom. Could be though. I worked out dates and I think I'm 7 DPO. So I'm in the 1 - 2 week wait. I hope it goes quick while my husband still loves me![/QUOTE]"

First of all let me sing all of you my praises for being so caring and loving for each other and of course my dearly beloved. You have my Koodos.

Second I would like to correct a slight miss quoting... I in fact said my DW (Dear Wife... that's right I can use acronym too! WOOT!) was irrational. No sugar coating here ladies but it is said with love.

Finally I would like to address the words "I can't do anything right" by posing a rhetorical question...
If a man is in the woods all alone and there is no one to here him speaking... is he still wrong? Lol.

My love to you all and my kindest thanks to all of you for being apart of this wonderful sisterhood.

I wish you all the best BD-ing and hopes for many BFP's (unless I got those ones wrong and there insulting in which case forgive me lol.)

Thank you all Ladies,

The floor is yours and once again Male free.

XO's

Hi there

Well kit I guess you best watch what you are saying in the future ! someone will be correcting you !:ROFL: by the way welcome MR KIT so nice to hear your views !

I guess all DHs cop it in the TWW say something useful for goodness sake ! but of course I have no idea what that would be I am a women and anything a man says in the TWW is just not useful !!!!! ha ha,
Lets hope the male instincts are right and we are getting another BFP in here really soon.

Ferrals keep going honey you can do it think positive and remember there is always next month and I will be here thats for sure, probably on stik number 32 still with one line :ROFL:

Matthews mum go girl you sound really on the ball and very positive thats great will be thinking of you the next few weeks ! hope you get a good crop of eggies !

Alice sorry you and DH had a ding dong guess we all have them from time to time, its the pressure of this game and feeling inadequate at times but its ok we all do it and we all get through it so send him a sexy text will make him smile if nothing else !

MURRAY how are the triplets doing ! oh the suspense is killing me is it still 2 lines or not ? praying for you honey at least one little spermy and one egg had to meet I just know they did !

everyone else hope your doing ok its tough in this forum but it does have its advantages keeps us all sane ! well I think so anyways !

AFM well day 17 still no nothing no CM no LH surge no nothing but did the deed anyways and will do every other day for a while and pray I get to ovulate if not I am wondering what I can take to help me I tried the vitex and its a no no for me anyone got any ideas ? seen some chinese womb warming tablets and wondered if they any good and also some mother tablets suposed to help after mc and with ovulation guess I am getting desperate my birthday is looming next month the big 45 !
speak soon and see who is the next BFP on here we had 2 already there has to be another one real soon they only come in 3s

Hey Mr kitfaerie-be careful with the word irrational around a women in the tww it could get you into trouble i would say that us women become slightly anxious and maybe a little irritable but considering the crazy hormones that race around our bodies and send us batty the best thing i that i think men should say and do during this tww is just yes dear what ever you say dear and of course you are right dear lol because as you should know even when men think they are right us women let them think that but we still believe that we know best and women are never wrong.
Who am i kidding we can be complete nut job's with this whole process but if it wasn't for our sweet understanding hubbys we wouldn't be able to schedule BDing into our daily routine LOL( just kidding ) no if it wasn't for you DHubbys we wouldn't have any laughs in this thread which is something we need more of around here.

Crafty-my money is on day 19 they are just a bit slow to get out of the gate maybe they are a bit like mine DH says ours are on walking frames and need a bit of a kick in the a##e to get moving.
And i am feeling a bit desperate to i don't want anymore Bdays i am banning Bday's from now on i will stay 35 for the next 5 years thankyou very much.

post came through twice!

well that was unexpected, hearing from one of the DHs!! Hello Mr KitF and thanks for your post. You've got a great Mrs there, you hang on to her and treat her right or we'll send the Hormone Girls around to sort you out!! Not that we'll need to by the sound of it...aww you two!!

MurryCod MurryCod...when can we find out?!

MatthewsMum - that's really good you're on 225 - my FS had me on 400 last time and there's no where to go really from there - so I reckon you'll get some great eggs happening!

Milly sorry for missing you earlier - it's hard not to think about every single twinge and tweak and symptom - I'm so not looking forward to that part of things. Here's hoping they are BFP signs for you.

Crafty - hope you catch that egg soon!

Ferrals - you could be our next one, you never know!

Night everyone - thinking of you both Sunbeam and Jahazra and wishing you both all the best xx

Alice

PS TMI WARNING: Aunt Flo turned into Aunt Flood so I think everything is OK after all!

Hello ladies...
Im new here. I am TTC after an ectopic in feb. Dr said wait one to two cycles so of course ive waited ONE! 6DPO at the moment. I only have one tubes so we'll see.... Normally fall rather quickly but like i said some say i have lost 50% fertility, other Drs say i have lost nothing....

I hope to get to know you all better and i hope that there are a few BFP this month (always keeps me positive when i hear others having good news!)

Welcome Tegam. I too have one tube as I lost my other to ectopic pregnancy. Hope this next bub is also quick to fall.

CD14 for mejust getting into the BD business end now. All going well except my EDD is coming :wall:

Thanks ladies (Ferals, Iona Macca, Murray Cod, Bons) for sharing your 'o' symptoms. i had so many procedures after my miscarriage (3 d & c's) i get worried about problems developing (eg scar tissue) and i was starting to worry that my wierd mid-cycle cramping (unusual for me) might mean something bad. Sounds like it could be just normal ovulation symptoms which are a bit stronger at the moment cos the ovaries are just cranking back up after some time off!

Congrats Hubba bubba!

T-hopes: sorry your EDD was a sad day (though to be expected) and you get a BFP very soon.
Mathew's mum: good luck with your injections/next cycle.
Dory: Glad cerclage went well.
Sunbeam: sorry to hear you're having a sad time. Hope the you find your 'sunshine' again
soon.
Alice: what a lovely generous offer your friend's daughter made. It is amazing to know when people have such love for you. Of course it would be great if you don't need to take her up on it. Does this mean you are doing IVF again in May?

Kit: thinking of you in the oh-so-agonising tww! I'm impatient just to be there: still trying to work out whether i've laid my egg yet! Great to hear from your DH too although for a second i was very confused by the post...then i realised it wasn't 'you' speaking!

Tegam: welcome and sorry for your ectopic pg. I can understand not wanting to wait as long as they say. I cheated a bit on my 'wait' too. Was told to wait three months after my last d & c and I did but as I was bleeding for the first of the three months i don't think i was meant to count it and should have waited one more.

Morning ladies

Tegam-sorry to hear about your loss i hope you don't have to wait to long for your BFP.

Mildez-have fun don't exhaust yourselves lol.
EDD are hard i hope you find a way to get through it.

Possummagic- i think it was O pain i get it every month and sometimes it can be quiet painful but only lasts for a day or two now lets just hope you caught that egg.

Hope everyone is enjoying there weekend.

AFM-Not long until AF shows her head i am not bothering to waste HPT's because i know inside i am not pregnant so i will just keep myself busy and get on with things.

Hi Girls!! And Boy!!:clap:
Yes I am still here, irrational and loopy, but still here! XX
Tested yesterday and got the dreaded BFN, so hopes are all but lost once again just waiting for the witch to arrive i SPOSE!!
Was a little excited deep down but I don't want 5 babies at once, so I guess it is for the greater of all outcomes. Just feels a little depressing right now..........
DH and I have had a chat about next cycle, don't think we are going to thaw out Harvey no2, going to go ahead and do a full stim cycle we think.
It costs $3000 for a FET, and doesnt guarantee the blasty will survive the thaw process. We only got our money back this month because the cycle was cancelled before the thaw.
A full stim costs $8000. We have the money to do a stim, but not to do both, so I guess the decision was an easy one to make.
Atleast with a stim cycle we have much higher odds of getting an actual blasty transfer.
We were meant to wait until may/June, but I can't wait that long.

Guess I will ring Repromed on Monday and have a chat to FS about the decision we have come to. Will this ever work? :wall:

Sorry for the 'me' post darlings, I am a little consumed by the whole thing ATM, and I need to take a chill pill and relax, but I just can't.


Tegam, welcome to the thread sweetheart, sorry for your loss, and I pray that you get your healthy baby very soon XXX Baby dust to you XX