Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss March 2010

Hi everyone, I am not sure if I am doing this right but here goes.
We are waiting for AF and will start on another Clomid with triggers cycle.
PLEASE send me vibes for AF, I know that sounds insane on this list and I can assure it will be the last time I request that.
I am scared to death trying again, we have been on a break since we lost our 2nd precious angel last easter. 12 months off has been great.....After sinking so low I was clinically depressed after the loss of our first and then second baby all within 9 months I needed some time to regroup and get my head around their losses.
BUT I am better, healthier and this is going to work!!!

I am excited to join in here and Hope I can get a hang of posting ;o)
anyone else have PCOS. I just started Metformin finally(previous OB refused to give it to me) I feel amazing already on it........

SO operation baby is underway in this house.
Hugs to you all, baby dust and vibes sent to everyone here.

MatthewsMum: Oooh that's exciting! Hopefully no OHSS though! Let us know how many fertilise...could be multiples on the horizon?

Ferrals: Oh F*** (I know it will be edited, but there's really no other way to say it). F***. I'm sorry your out this month, it sucks sooo much. Still, each month brings you closer to the month when you'll get your BFP. Wallow for a bit (I know I am) then come back, it's a whole new cycle baby!

Jenna: You've got some serious stuff going on there girl! I hope it's all turns out for the best. Beading sounds awesome, I understand that in theory it could be relaxing, but whenever I've tried it it's ended in disaster. Like some truly truly embarrassing jewellery and beads flung across the room. I am all for Fiji though, lol.

Alice: I know! I was getting excited too, I did so well in assuming I wasn't and then those darn symptoms show up and they're just giant stupid mean tease's. Next month, I will not be taken in by them! No matter how much sore boobage occurs. Meanwhile, May has your name written all over it!

Tegam: I know re BondiGirl, it's so sad. Had a big talk with my DH about it, it's scary that it's understandable, I hope we'd catch each other though. I think we would.

TTCALC: Glad you had a nice easter, now go get some rest! xo

MurrayCod: Thank you sweetheart, 2011 is pretty good :) I can just imagine some happy puppies sleeping off a huge meal, lol.

SPF: I'm sorry they forgot your EDD :( You'll always remember your angel xo

Rose: Hope your doing ok :)

Hi to MillyD and Jellylove! xoxo

AFM: Yesterday was such a bad day, I was so sure I was gonna get a BFP, totally crushed :( AF still hasn't shown up, but I think yesterday was 12 DPO so if it was there it would have shown up, I use the early detection tests and it was FMU. So now I just wait for Day 1 again. Got some Maca root, so hopefully that will shorten my cycles back to 28-30 instead of 35 days. This baby is coming no matter how long it takes, and whether it likes it or not. But, hopefully in 2011.

Love to everyone xo

Oops, hi Mummatomany! Welcome, sending you lots of AF vibes and good wishes!

Kit :ROFL: You soooo got edited!!:clap:

Mummatomany welcome to BB, and I am sorry for your losses XXX a
As you can see we are a pretty mad sort of a bunch, but kind and supportive also, so strap in for the ride because 'Mission Baby Making' is one journey we all love to share XXX

JJ, that sounds like a lovely hobby you have, and one awesome competition!! I hope you win it!! Your symptoms are still sounding positive, I hope tis is your lucky month XX

Matthew'smum, how are you feeling sweetheart?? I was pretty groggy after my EPU, and a little crampy, but I hope you woke up feeling ok XX
WOW :o 18 eggies!! OMG!!! You ovaries must feel like party poppers have gone off inside your tummy!!! Praying you get a good number of those eggs healthy and fertilised honey XX Good Luck, as helpless as you may feel over the next couple of days, it's a numbers game now for a while, so rest up, take it easy because you are going to have one hell of a TWW on your hands!!

Alice, that is the best news that we will be stimming it up together in May!!
I was pretty nervouse insisting on those tests, my FS wasn't that keen to do them so early considering we have only had one failed IVF, but I told him I was too anxiouse to move forward unless I got some answere. He gave in when I started begging!!:D If they find something, fine, fix it. If they don't, I will feel more confident going ahead with out next try, so it's a win win for us I feel.

TTCALC, happy easter honey, I can't wait to have children in my life to celebrate family holidays, and great thinking with the gifts, have a lovely time XXXXX

Tegam, what sad news, but thanks for letting us know, I had no idea that had happened. I left a msg XX
I hope you are well honey, glad you like my posts!!!:lol:

I'm off to keep cooking my roast lamb, smells delightfull!! XXXXXXXXXXXXXx

alice-thanks...mummatomany-sorry for your losses,hope af comes soon so the fun stuff can begin.i have pcos,been on metformin for a bit over a year,stayed on it through previous clomid & now ivf cycle,dr told me if i do get pregnant will stay on it throughout the 1st trimester...kitfaerie-sorry about you having bad day yesterday,could still be a bit early????fs has already said if get to transfer definitely only one going back in,too much risk of miscarriage when i'll already be at a risk,one at a time will do me...murraycod-i only had a mild sedation & local anesthetic in the area so not to groggy,but quite a lot of pain,whether i'm sitting,laying ,standing or walking.Roast sound nice,dh had to do tea here tonight so that meant frozen meals.

Matthew's Mum :dance::dance: for the eggs. I have everything crossed for you for a fantastic fertilization rate and you avoid OHS.

Thanks for the welcome,
Matthews Mum- fingers crossed you transfer, 18 eggs is awesome, Us PCOS ladies are good at surprising them!, fingers crossed you don't have any issues with hyperstimulation. Dr also told me you stay on metfromin for the first trimester, I read that they have clear proof it reduces miscarriages in ladies with PCOS, hey we are the same age ;o)) sometimes I feel so old, but my OBGYN tells me that I am just average age for infertility issues so not to worry.

Murraycod- I do "mad" well LOL, we have to try so hard to keep a sense of humour through all this or we will go insane and that is not a good look , I nearly went there and advise against it!

Kitfaerie - thanks a heap for the welcome......Promise it will be the last time I ever request AF vibes.....but with darn PCOS ya have NO clue when its comming. Plus I just had a recent D&C to check on a previous issue I had with Hyperplasia. All clear so we are Go! and I want it to GO LOL.

Again thanks for the welcome.

Hi All,

Happy Easter.

Ferrals- you poor thing what you went through, you are an amazing person to have gotten through it. Inspiration is not the word. I hope you are doing ok.

Ric- Good luck with test tomorrow 10dpo. Exciting as i will be 10dpo tomorrow also.

Mummy of 5- How did the scan go i hope i had your dates right. I am sure all is well and sending you lots of good wishes.

Mildez- How mant days are you. My way is keep testing and keep posting but i don't want to be a bad influence.

Jenna- Welcome i hope you have a great month and the tww has a positive outcome.

Jennajayen- I am so happy you are physicaly feeling so bad. The worse you feel the better your signs. Sounds very promising

Mathewsmum- 18 eggs is amazing. I hope those little frozen guys wake up bright eyed and bushy tailed. Good luck hon.

Mummatomant- well done for making a brave decision and for being strong enough to know you needed to rest. I am hoping and praying for a positive month for you. Best of luck.

Sorri if i have forgotten anyone but afterall i am a poas- aholic and there is not much else on my mind. My name is rose123 and i have a problem. I love to pee on several sticks a day. My poor children think i am buying colour for my hair.

Ok so i have poas several times today as i can not understand how i can have so many symptoms and i am still only 9dpo. Boobs more painfull today, cramps eased off. Still chills every now and then, no metal mouth, stuffy nose and just feel bad. I used two internet cheepies and they show'd something but i would almost certainly say they were bfn's. So i decided to go and get a first response and it is a bfn/bfp. It is so faint i am not sure if it is my head. For now i am saying a bfn. Whatever happens i am sure i will have an answer tomorrow. Please please please
Chat then Bye for now girls

Rose123, thats so so exciting, hope you get your BFP!!!
:pray:

Eagerly awaiting the POAS results fot the morning Rose :D Don't keep us waiting too long now!

Hi everyone

I wanted to pop in and say Well Done to MM for your 18 eggs collected, I hope they are making sweeeet love with the frozen swimmers.

Rose - Best of luck for your poas this morning



AFM : The following paragraph is WTI, though I am sure some of you gals will relate in some way

You wouldnt believe my bad luck. Triggered 11.30 Friday night, so 36 hours later equated to 11.30 am yesterday, and could I feel Ovulation. :o W hat happened to DH :wall: a stomach bug, he was bedridden all day, that's okay, I allmost force him to "do the deed", he knew the importance of it, and when he was putting it in the right place, it spilled all over my leg. :redface: So the poor man had to do it again later, whilst I am beside myself worring about the sperms quality, and quantity. OMG been doing it every day since Friday, and again today, for a purpose, it's so full on. We dont mind though, those little swimmers had some friends to meet :dance:

Just another day i the life of a lttc'er

morning everyone,mildez-what cycle day are you on?has any more decisions been made about you doing ivf?...mummatomany-hope af has turned up for you,has dr mentioned provera(i think it is called),brings on af to be able to start clomid,Dr was talking about putting me on it on one of my cycles but af ended up coming by herself day 42,she can be stubborn at times,have you been on clomid before?Their is a few of us on here that has age as one of our challenges in the ttc department...rose123-sounds promising,you might be the next escapee,hope we all follow you soon,like murrayycod said dont keep us waiting to long for news..murraycod-have you got any app dates set as yet,can you have them done locally?..afm-still sore,but i can walk a little bit more normally today,and bleeding has stopped,i'll let you know my fertilisation numbers this afternoon.

wouldloveabubba-the obstactles we need to jump through,it does your head in,sounds like your still in with a great chance though,hope dh is feeling better soon..i've been up most of the night worrying about sperm too,i know they got 13 straws of frozen sperm,but don't how much is usually in a straw,so hope they had enough after the thawing process,oh well find out soon.

Hi girls

I've been lurking on the thread & was amazed at how much you all support each other, and hoped to weasel my way in too!

A little bit about me, I've got a 2yo DS Elliott, who was conceived the month after I stopped taking the Pill! I had spotting with him at about 7 weeks that amounted to nothing. Last year in March we started TTC again and it took 6 months before we FINALLY got the BFP. At the 7 week mark again I started spotting, the week leading up to Christmas. Had a scan which said everything was ok, but found out later that the HB was too slow, and that baby was dying when I saw it on the screen. That week we also found out that my dad has a brain tumour, and he had emergency surgery on Christmas Eve. Christmas Day was the day the miscarriage really happened, but found out Dad got out of the surgery really well. Unfortunately he's since been diagnosed with terminal brain cancer, (the same as Prof Chris O'Brien from RPA had), so we'll be lucky to have him around for a couple of years. On a happy note, he's getting married to the love of his life this w/e.

Anyway, I'm feeling really frustrated about having to go back on the whole "Am I? Aren't I?" routine every single month now. It's driving me crazy, and I hate complaining about it because every single person is telling me "When it happens, it happens" and I KNOW that but I just want it to happen now! I feel so irrational, and overwhelmed with jealousy when I see other pregnant women... my friend is having a baby in the next week or so and I'm really worried about my reaction when I go to see her. I'm thrilled for her, I really am, she had a bit of PND with her first baby but seems much happier this time round, but I feel jealous and sad for myself. I should be pregnant right now, I should be feeling my baby kick....

Sorry for the rant, I'm just feeling a bit low. I'm due for AF this week, and I haven't bought any preg tests because my DH gets frustrated that I waste my time & energy on them, getting my hopes up just to get down again when I get that BFN.

Sigh.

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wouldloveabubba-the obstactles we need to jump through,it does your head in,sounds like your still in with a great chance though,hope dh is feeling better soon..i've been up most of the night worrying about sperm too,i know they got 13 straws of frozen sperm,but don't how much is usually in a straw,so hope they had enough after the thawing process,oh well find out soon.

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OH MM - I am sorry to read you have been up worrying about sperm. I am not sure of your DH's sperm quality, however, there will be plenty of swimmers in each vial. We have used my DH's frozen before and it worked fine. Millions .....

AMI - So sorry hun to read about your Dad . I am happy to read he is getting married to the love of his life. Welcome to our thread .

Hi everyone,
Just to let you know i'm on a different time zone to you guys so i'm just tucking myself into bed now. In about 9 hours i'll let you guys know. I'm not holding out on you or anything.

Ami- welcome and sorry about all your worries. This site will make you feel great i promise and i'm wishing you lots of good news.

Matthewsmum- take care of yourself you poor pet.

wouldloveabubba- that's love for you what a man. Lots of swimmers i'm sure and

oh rose.......9 hrs is too long! Good luck


AF arrived here this morning. I am really ok, now the 2010 baby has gone i can relax and let it happen. We have decided to stop trying in another 6 months, we dont want a huge gap between kids. So if it doesnt happen soon im sure ill go nuts again.

would lovea bubba...that was me and dh two cycles past hahaha. He was sick and I made him bd!!! hahaha hilarious. I hope you have better success than me xx

Rose, i hate your time zone, we have to wait all day now.....imagine how you must feel :)

Dory How are you??? Love to you.

Ferrals, It took me 5 days to come out of my hole this month sweet, usually only 1 day to get over horid AF arrival, but I was way down this month. Hope youre feeling better soon.

Ami, welcome to the thread sweetheart, sorry for your loss and the news of your dad. Love to you, take care of yourself, enjoy the wedding xx

MM thinking of you xxx

Murraycod you are always so thougtful to evryone else, hope you are loving yourself and giving yourself all you need right now to xxx

AFM I have finally come out of my hole, I made an appointment to see a chinese herbalist tomorrow, pretty excited about that...not looking at my dates or anything at this point, I dont want to know when AFD is due again, we just plan to bd and bd alot for thext 3-4 weeks and hope she doesnt show...

Love and babydust to all
Its not fair we have the need to be here....:hug:

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