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Ok, there's hope. Yesterday was just a doc's visit, not a scan. I still really didn't want to go. Basically the doc spoke to a couple of obs who said that there's every chance I'll be bringing this baby home. The bleed isn't a big deal, the size is still ok for 6 weeks, and as long as there's a heartbeat we're in with a shot. I'm still worried, cos the scan on Monday showed CRL of 2mm, and the scan of Friday showed CRL of 2mm, but babies can grow right? And early scans aren't the most accurate. The heartbeat wasn't 80, it was 83. I know it's not a huge difference, but it means a lot to me. The ultrasound tech made me feel like I should say goodbye to this baby, but the doc said the ultrasound tech was stupid, lol. I have morning sickness, which is really lovely, I never had it this bad with Splat and it only stuck around for a few days. The doc also said she doesn't want me to get any more scans til 11 weeks. Basically, if I'm gonna miscarry, it'll probably be soon, and if I don't - then I'll probably see a baby at 11 weeks. So I'm deferring my exams, which is good cos I've done limited revision this week, and just concentrating on this baby and not throwing up. My Mum said she spoke to all of us kids lots, so I'm talking lots to Tiger, and DH sings to him/her. I dont think I could bear to lose this little one. I've been reading everyone's posts so I know what's going, just haven't had the heart to do a big reply. I will soon though. I love you all xoxo
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Oh, Kit, fingers crossed so tightly for you. You're so very brave. xxx.
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LOTS OF GOOD VIBES, POSITIVE ENERGY AND HOPE = I AM PRAYING FOR OUR THREAD
KIT - Hope everything goes well for you. What a rollercoaster week for you.... Always remember -" there is a bright light at the end of the tunnel" and your Tiger has the support of all the near and dear one and our prayers. I wish you Happy and healthy Pregnancy once again and you have a joyful time ahead. Decision of deferring in the exams is Good one, Atleast you can focus on the most important part of life i.e. motherhood. Just Relax and enjoy sweetheart. Sending you alot of Sticky Vibes xoxoxx
MurrayCod - How are you going my dear? Testing next week. I wish this month is a miracalous for you and you that that piece of happiness and Joy you and your partner waiting for. I think of you alot of times xxox
Craftymummy - How are you? Good line - In tune for June. I know we few people are waiting for that BFP from a long time and you said it right to me in the reply, that why I am thinking negative. I think the fear is ruling my head and only thought come to my mind are so scary that I dont even want to discuss it. I know, how Long I waited and worked for this BFP and now I am the one who is scared. Crafty I am praying for you BFP this cycle so that You can move one happily to new life. I think its a testing time for all of us and in this Journey I have learnt one thing "Motherhood brings happiness and life, and also bring the fears of a mother and it starts when we start thinking of our own baby".
T-Hopes - All the best for your appointment, I hope all goes well. I dont know much about Laproscopy but with memory I remember ANITA (TTCALOVECHILD) mentioned that in few of her replies. Hope Your TTC journey is short as well. Thinking of you.
Matthew'sMum - How are you and hows things going? When are you Testing?
Ferrals - Where are you? Hope everything is going fine and good with u?
Reet - Hows things going with you and how are you feeling?
Foreshelby - All the best for BD session. I hope this month = those spermies catch the egg and seal the deal for you and you get to see those wonderful Magical Lines. All the very best hun.
and to all my friends i have missed - I hope everyone is busy in TTC and their day-to-day chores.
AFM - I have resigned from my job yesterday and i am giving the best to this pregnancy and all the time wonder about the symptoms of pregnancy (though i have very little symptoms, no morning sickness, only sore boobs and tremendous tiredness). I was sick frm past 2 weeks with cold and cough, feeling little good since yesterday. Went for my 6 weeks u/s on 20 May - saw the round sac, but no HB yet and the tech said its too early as the pregnancy measured around 5w6d, and he said you are on the borderline for seeing a HB, so i have got next u/s appointment at 9 weeks, somewhere around 9 June. Just praying to God that everything is good and my baby bean is developing well. Thats all from me.
Will talk to you all again
Heaps of Love and good wishes and :bluedust::pink-babydust: to all in 2ww
and special :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy: sending your way KIT. lost of wishes and positive vibes on your way.
Love,
Ric
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Hi Ladies
Kit - I'm so happy it all seems ok with your bub. FX your next scan shows your happy little bub with his/her heartbeating away quite contentedly with not a care in the world.
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KIT So glad your feeling a bit more positive about this tiger of yours LIKE I SAID morning sickness is good the sicker the better, Out of all my pg the ones I was really sick all day every day are the ones that stuck !
FX you keep going and feeling worse by the day ( in the nicest possible way of course )
Ric Im ok Af turned up in the night so 13 more days to ovulation and I can try my hardest again ! Not giving up that easy !
Trying to get my body in TUNE for JUNE cutting out the crap and eating healthy veggies fruit and proteins no sugary crap ie cakes and biscuits and pepsi its gonna be hard for me but I have to try !
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Hi Lovelies,
I have been thinking of you all, still no computer though! Im so sorry kit that things havent gone as smoothly as we were all hoping....
Im sure i have missed heaps....:(
I have been trying to take some time to get my head together, havent been in the best of places lately, i hope to be back with you all soon though.
Big hugs to you all.
Xxx
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My Darling, darling Girls, so sorry I haven't posted much, I doing it a bit tough to be honest, and just can't bring myself to type anything. BUT, I have decided I need to drag myself out of this hell I'm in, and keep my mind buisy by chatting to you all X
I'm 8dt4dt today, and have been suffering cramping, pretty much since embryo transfer. Just the same AF cramping I always feel, so I have lost hope in this cycle being the one. As I sit here now, I am flat out cramping, it is all day non stop, from the moment I open my eyes.
Every morning, I wake up, feel the boobs....nope not sore....wish that I feel nauseated...nop not sick either, just bloody cramping!
Crafty babe, sorry AF turned up, but atleast we can try together again next month, huggs to you honey X
Ric, oh sweetheart I am so over the moon for you, I can't wait to join you in the pregnancy forums one day!! You lucky girl quitting your job!! Take rest babe, you wont have much more time to do that so enjoy!!!!!!
Kit honey, I'm still praying for you and your little bean, it's a fighter, and I am thrilled your hopes are in a higher place now. You are a strong girl, and so is your little one, so hang in there XX
THopes, yes I tried straight after a lap years ago, the doc actually told me, that after he had done the die test through my tubes, I had more of a chance at falling PG for the next 3 mnths because he 'cleared the way' so to speak!
Good luck for Monday honey, don't be scared, everything will work out fine XX
Happy humping Forshelby !!!!;)
I'll go read back a couple pages see who I missed, my memory isn't the greatest as you can imagine!
Love to you all, thanks girls for asking about me, it means so much XXXX
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Back again, ladies. Time to do those persies as promised.
Dory - that sausage in a bun comment did make me chuckle. I do like them, but find I can't help but giggle when I'm eating it. Sorry to hear about your poor furbaby's tooth, I'm sure it's more traumatic for you than it is for your kitty. I get all uptight about leaving my cat or dog anywhere, all I can think is 'they think I'm leaving them!!!!' Every time though it turns out fine.
Kit - That's great news, hun! I'm so pleased there's some hope here. Like you said, as long as there's a heartbeat, there's a chance for your little Tiger. I know it'll be a long wait for that 11wk scan, but I'm crossing everything for you that it's okay. Glad you feel sick, too (lol not in a mean way). All these things are good signs. And the doctor is right. If something is going to go wrong, it would be sooner rather than later. So far, so good right? Stay strong. You've been so brave, and really inspiring. :)
Ric - Thank you for the well wishes. I hope this is the month, too. It seems like I waited forever to start TTC, now I just want to get it done!
Murraycod - I'm sorry you're feeling down. But try not to lose hope..... af like cramping can be a big pg sign. It ain't over yet, sista! Thanks for wishing me happy humping, too. lol....
AFM, Wondering exactly when I o'ed. I'm pretty sure I did, since CM has mysteriously dried up all of a sudden. It's almost non existant today. My boobs are still sore from O, not sure what that's all about. WAY too early to have any symptoms so it must just be because O was yesterday judging by the complete lack of CM. Hoping for a -OPK tomorrow. I only have 2 left so I'm just hoping things go according to plan.
Sorry for the TMI, lol. And I guess I'm now officially in the TWW. *sigh* Are we there yet? :) Good luck to everyone.
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urgh - lost my massive post, stupid prepaid wireless!!! (the joys of being on holidays) so just doing a quick one!!
Kit, so glad that there is hope, am thinking of you and we are all here to help you get through the next 5 weeks!!
Ric - yay on feeling so sick, it is always a good sign
crafty - sorry to hear that AF has arrived but here is to june, we are going to get there!!
murraycod - it's not over until that darn old witch shows her face so keeping everything crossed that she doesn't and that the crampy is from your lil emby snuggling herself in
forshelby - hoping the TWW flies by for you!!
bons - hope things are all ok, hugs to you sweety
Hi to everyone else - I am thinking of you all!!
AFM: CD9 so the bding bonanza will start soon, hopefully...DF and I had a pretty major fight our first night on holidays where I slept on the couch, things seem to be ok but not the best but I don't 'o' until the weekend so we should be fully sorted by then FX. Well ladies we are off to sydney tomorrow for the state of origin (go qld hehehe) so will catch up with you all either in the morn or on thurs
take care lovelies
xoxoxo
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Fingers very much crossed for you Kit. U/S people can be awful, and have no tack at all, and I'm sorry you had to deal with such insensativity.
Hugs
Bec
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Agg must have missed a page! Stoopid me - tired though so know you'll all forgive me.
Kit! Relieved to see your post lovely and think MurryCod said it best - hoping for the best for you and your bub - lots of love to you x
Dory - how's your furbaby? Do you need to give him special food for a while now the tooth is out? I hope snuggling up in bed did the trick today. x
MurryCod - damn those cramps :( hoping that you still might get some startling news but know that sometimes you just have a gut feeling anyway I'm keeping my fingers crossed for you. x
Crafty - I asked my TCM doc about taking Maca and the herbs and it's fine to have both, you don't need to stop anything so keep going and that's great your cycle has evened out to 29 days and you are getting a good flow - I'm still feeling sure for you so hang in there
Foreshelby - I haven't used OPKs so can't help there I'm sorry but sounds like you are doing everything right so fingers crossed
MatthewsMum - that flu you've got sounds like a doozy - hope it leaves you alone soon - must be close to three weeks now? Hope that's it for you for winter
Bons - sorry you have been feeling down love - hope you feel better soon. We're all here for you x
Reet we haven't heard from you in a while - hope you are doing OK.
Ric - great news about quitting your job and glad to read all is going well with you
Hi everyone else - sorry for not doing more persies tonight, had a long day.
Take care everyone
Alice x
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Kit: Yeah, U/S technicians do not always know what they are doing, neither do drs. I had some bleeding early in my pg with DD. I was away on holidays and a local GP sent me for U/S at local hospital. There was no HB but the U/S tech just said cautiously that it was a 'very early pg' (nothing bad) but the supposedly specialist local dr who interpreted the scan wrote in his report that bc there was no HB it was 'consistent with a blighted ovum' (ie not going to grow into a baby). I was very upset but nothing happened... bleeding stopped. I went to my GP who sent me to an OB (a few days had passed by this time). The OB said he'd do another scan himself because he didn't want to do a D & C and find out he'd accidentally done a termination. He did the scan himself... and there was my DD, HB and all. It had just been too early to see a HB a few days previously. My mind boggles when I think that the OB could have just trusted the first U/S and done the d & c. The moral of the story i guess is that wierd stuff happens in early pg and it aint over til it's over. I'm wishing very hard for you that all goes smoothely from now on.
Murray cod: i can only imagine how hard it is to wait to find out what the outcome of your ET is. But i wanted to say: it's not a bad sign that you only have cramping. As I said, i had cramping early in pg with DD and i had no other symptoms until about the day AF was meant to come (day 30) when i started to feel a bit off and tired. Pg symptoms are often not so different to AF symptoms (which i guess is why we are always so desperate to POAS!)
ForSHelby: sounds like your timing was good. The sticks that show one line lighter than the other don't count. It's the one with two similar dark lines that is the winner (which it sounds like your middle test was).
Ric: did i say congrats yet? What a lovely day to get a BFP, mother's day! Will await further posts with excitement. Hope your cold gets better soon.
Bons: Have missed having you around. Sorry you're having computer troubles too and that you have been feeling blue. Can we help?
becnxavi: welcome to the thread
TTCALC: sorry i think i forgot to say hi. Hope you are now all recovered from your lap. COngrats on your recent winnings!
Iona Macca: Hope you get great make-up BD! Arguments with hubby are par for the course for everyone at times i guess but better earlier in the cycle than right on O time!
AFM: in TWW. Trying hard not to think about it. I don't trust my body any more. I don't believe it remembers how to combine one plus one and get three! But it would be loverly to be surprised!
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Possum, hang in there hun, you can do this. I'm sending you happy strong vibes XXX
Dory darling, how is your littl furbaby going?? I hate to see my pet's in any discomfort, my DH tells me I give animals way too much credit for thinking like humans, but I can't help it, I guess I was braught up that way.....hey, when I catch a fish I throw it back after taking a photo, yeup, how soft is that!!!!!
Hope you are feeling well yourself XX
Iona, hope you enjoy the rest of your holiday, and hope you had fun last night!! I'm sure you and DH will work whatever it was out, sometimes it's nice to have a decent barny, freshens the air and the make up love'n is great!! WootWoot!!!!! Have fun, and enjoy your time away X
Forshelby, hoping you caught that egg honey!!!!!!!
Crafty, how you going???? You made me cave, I was going to hold out with you!!!! But you gave in FIRST!!!!!
Alice, take it easy sweetheart XXXXX
Ric, hope you are feeling well XXX
Kit, so glad that things are looking up, I am desperate to hear more news when you have some yourself XX Hang in there, your little bean is a fighter X
Bons, am jumping into cyber land right now to give you a big warm hugg, hope you are well today X
Girls sorry to miss people AGAIn, this wait has totally done my head in.
I caved thismorning, I ddecided last night the cramps were totally bringing me down, and I had to know, either way.
So thismorning I did it, I was freaking out, as soon as I peed on the stick I ran out of the bathroom thinking to myself 'What are you doing stupid woman!!".
So I ran back in to throw the evil stick in the bin before I could read it properly, but to my shock, there were two, very srong lines on it. I've never seen it before so dark, have only seen fake pos from pregnyl injections from my IUI's, and they were way feint.
The test line is as stong as the controll, my heart is racing, I don't know what to do now!
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CONGRATULATIONS!!!!! Oh MurryCod this is such wonderful news and if you've had a fake +ve before from the pregnyl then I reckon this time you are rockin' girl! And that explains the cramps!! Your body is high on pg hormones!!!!!!!!!!!!!:leap::confetti::loveshower:: dance: Well done!!!!!!!!!! I hope this pg is a happy healthy one and so looking forward to hearing all your updates and I'm def stalking your bb group!! xxxxxxoooooo
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Oh MurrayCod I have been stalking this forum holding my breath for your news! Congratulations I am sooooooooo happy for you!
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morning everyone ,kit-glad you got good news...murraycod-congratulations!!!be watching for your updates,must of been wonderful seeing those 2 lines after all you've been through..big hugs to all...afm-af arrived this morning,rang ivf clinic,1st bt due day 11,so here's hoping this cycle is successful
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Congratulations MurrayCod!
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Yeah MurrayCod - Lots and lots of healthy and happy wishes on your way. CONGRATULATIONS - omg I am so over the moon for you....You dont have to do anything, sit back, relax, giggle inside.......ohhhhhhh. I am so so happy Murray, Congrats to DH as well. One of the long awaited announcement of the forum.....
I am so so so happy for you, you did it. just relax Murray, Hurraaaaaaaaaayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy...
Crafty , Ferrals - Bring it on girls..... I am waiting to hear your news now...