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Thanks for the tip Mollycat - I am very knew at all of this (and and so glad I stumbled accross such a wonderful group of ladies). I have never been one to go to chat pages etc so feel a bit out of touch with all the abbreviations etc lol - I'll get there! Thanks again hun xoxo
Toccara & Mannie - :pray: everything will be ok and your bubs are sticky ones.
I know nothing I say will take away the anxiety you must be feeling but a friend of mine had 2 m/c and she was on her third pregnancy when she had spotting at the exact same time as the 2 m/c but it was all ok and she went to full term and now has a beautiful baby boy.
Thinking of you both xx :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
thanks Mel, did another pg test just in case and for some peace of mind and it did come out positive however I know HCG can stay in your blood after a m/c has occurred, but it did reassure me somewhat. And I know that if I do lose this one too, I'll take some time off and then in the new year get all the right tests done with my OB and also test out my DH, just to make sure we are A OK to keep trying on our own. I'm hoping we don't need IVF, its not conception that seems to be the issue but staying pregnant so it must be chromosomal and our ages its more than likely. Trying to stay positive and am hoping its just implantation bleeding.
I'm thinking of you too Toccara big time!!! lots and lots of hugs out to you lovely girl we'll get through this. xxx
Mannie - really hope it all works out for you. Try and stay positive as hard as that may be. :hug:
Megsmum - How are you feeling?
Hannah - Did you POAS yet? Have :crossfingers: for you!
Maddysmum - Don't worry, I am new to this forum thing as well. I have never been on one before. DH told me the other day though that I have turned into a true forum member as I was speaking in the lingo (DH works in IT!)
Fificlaire - Hope your scan went well. :)
AFM - Well FF changed on me again this morning and it now reckons I o on CD23 - I give up. :wall: Going for another BT tomorrow to see if I did ovulate on CD22 or 23. Got my bill for the last blood test and I now know the FS tested for Rubella, chromosome test and a couple of other things I am not sure of and they came back all ok. That's something to be pleased about.
Anyway I hope everyone is well and my thoughts are with Mannie and Toccara. Wishing you both the best. :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
Mannie and toccara - just want to wrap you up in cotton wool and protect you from all this :hug: you have all my prayers and sticky vibes
everyone else - big big hugs!!!!
Mannie & Toccara you are both in my :pray: I hope everything is ok for you both. Sending you lots and lots of :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy: :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy:
Lots of Hugs to you both.
Quick reply for mannie & Toccara...:grouphug: and lots of :pray: for you both!
:bluedust::pink-babydust:
:stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:
:noaf:
Leyza--What a beautiful tribute to your angel twins! I can imagine how emotional and difficult that day was for you! :hug:
megsmum--Continuing to send lots of :stickyvibesgirl: Big *hugs* cycle bud--I'm still so truly happy for you!!
tempus--Glad to hear your BT went well. :goodluck: with your scan on Friday!!
buliej--Good luck with your FS today!! *hugs*
WTH--Aww, hon.... sorry about your BFN. Hope your FS appt. went well yesterday. Enjoy your cut/color--you deserve to pamper yourself!! :hug:
Mel--Isn't it so frustrating when FF changes your dates??? It always makes me want to :computer: *hugs*
Hannah--:noaf:
smi--Hey girl! Glad to hear you enjoyed your Thanksgiving! Did you enjoy any of the sales on Black Friday? I stayed as FAR away as I could from the stores on that day--it's crazy, people getting trampled to death when they go shopping!
fifi--Hope your scan went well!! *hugs* and bellyrubs for you!!
Krystie--I haven't forgotten to send you my address!! Sorry, just been really busy, but I promise... today!! *hugs* and :bellyrubs:
Mannie--Saying lots of prayers for you and your little one.... sticky, baby, stick!! :stickyvibesgirl:
Maddysmum--I have a Mac, so my smilies don't show up on the right when I respond to the posts...unless I'm actually editing a post, then they show up on the right. I had to find mine up in the user profile under "edit signature". It's really just as simple as adding the mood you want in between some :'s For example (and this isn't an actual smilie, so it won't show up... you'll just see how to do it) :hugs: :kisses: etc.... hope that helps! I see you got your signature all figured out--looks cute! *hugs*
mollycat & plc--Hope to see you both in chat on Friday!! Love ya both! *kiss*
My HCG was 35.1 and no baby was seen on scan my DH is really upset and Im not sure if my marrige is going to it make thur this because he saying it his fault and i would be happier with someone else he said if i was with someaone else i would have three kids right now ... i really dont understand why i keep losing babies when they dont see anything wrong with me ... all have right now is you girls becuase nobody else understands what its like to keep going thur this ...
Oh, Toccara!!! :crying: It's just SO UNFAIR!!! I'm so very sorry, honey, that you keep having to go thru this torture!! :comfort: :hug: I'm :pray: that you and DH are able to work thru this--I'm sure you will--you need each other right now!! Placing blame isn't going to make things better or take away the pain.... you guys have to support each other and love each other thru this!! My thoughts and prayers are with you both! :hug: :hug:
oh Toccara hun - :crying: I'm really sorry. You and ur DH - as long as there is love then you can get to working on whatever is potentially lacking with the communication and commitment. United you 2 are going to be a force that can get thru anything. I think the key is to get answers and then there will be physical proof of what the prob is and not just a lot of self-blame that's born of an emotionally stressful time with a whole lot of frustration trimming it. To you and your DH - big tight hugs!!
Toccara - I'm so so sorry.:comfort: I'm saying lots of prayers that you and DH can get through this together. As long as you have love, you can get through this. Take some time to grieve together. I hope you get some answers soon.
Mannie - Thinking of you and sending you lots of :stickyvibesboy:
fifi - I hope your scan went well. :bellyrubs:
buliej - Hope all goes well with the FS today.
WTH - Enjoy your 'you' day today. You deserve it! :hug:
megsmum - :goodluck: with the BT results.
Mel - Glad the results came back ok. At least some things have been ruled out already. I did POAS (see below).
jen - Thanks for the anti-af vibes. So far so good. How are you?
:hello: mollycat, maddysmum, krystie, smi, tempus, possums, babymiracles, plc, lezya and all those I've missed.
AFM - Well I tested again yesterday (AF was due Monday) and got another BFN. Still no sign of AF though. Will test again with another brand in a day or so. I've been so crazy through the TWW and now I feel so calm (must be those zen vibes you had left over jenushka ;) ). Will keep you girls posted.
A quick msg for Toccarra...
Huge hugs to you.. Please please dont think any of this is your fault/ anyone elses... it is just horrid and unfair. I wish I could give you a real hug
Rach
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Toccara - I am so sorry to hear this. I just want to reiterate the wise words of Jen, place blaming isn't going to make things better for either of you. Big Hugs - we're all here for you. Special :pray: for you & your DH.
toccara50: I'm so sorry to "meet" you under these circumstances, but I'm keeping you and your husband in my prayers and sending cyberhug. M/C is a terribly trying thing for a marriage. Maybe he's just venting--we all say things we don't really mean when we're upset. Just keep the lines of communication open. Again, I'm so sorry.
Mannie2309: have you called your doc about the bleeding? Keeping you in my prayers, too.
Mel1979: hopefully they can figure out when you ovulated. so frustrating
HannaD: sorry about the bfn. sending cyberhug
tocarra- big hug and so sorry you have to go through this...life is not fair! And I hope you and your DH can communicate and nurture each other through this...things will settle down in time I hope
Hello Ladies,
Oh Toccara and Mannie sending you all the care I have at the moment. Lots of :stickyvibesgirl::grouphug:
Afraid no more personals this morning as I am decidedly crazed. Well after testing on Friday (D11-12 PO) and getting a BFN with the 'super sensitive' forelife tests and then having spotting (very light) on Monday, AF has not showed up! So this morning I POAS and now I have a :bfp: !!! Argggg! Boy, those 2 glasses champagne are now sitting heavily on my conscience!!
Also, now having hugely conflicting feelings, lots of fear, as in, why did I have spotting- too late for implantation surely (???) and also, why can I only detect HCG now (D15PO)? Do I suck at making it?? But also have very excited daydreams about actually having a bub... Also, DH is away again for work and in a different time zone so can?t talk to him about it yet- also, do I tell him? Don?t want to get our hopes up too much, but having trouble keeping calm :pray:
Anyway, thought I you ladies wouldn?t mind too much if I had a small brain explosion here. Also thought if I drifted through I could pick up some :stickyvibesboy: that might be around.
Take care all, Indy
Dearest Tocarra, I am so terribly sorry to hear that your angel has left you :( You are an amazing person, and your DH must be too to go through all this heartbreak with you. Remind each other of the love you have for each other, and why you are going down this path together and I'm sure that you will both find your way. Take care of yourself. :hug:
Today is the EDD of my angel, and while I'm trying not to get too upset and am trying to focus my emotions on the little miracle in my tummy, it's hard not to shed a few tears for the baby that will never lay in my arms. I've spent the last half hour or so cuddling the little star teddy that we bought for our angel and tonight I will look up into the sky in the hopes of seeing the brightly burning star that we named for the baby.