Trying to Conceive After Miscarriage or Loss October 2010

Of course you can...hello and welcome..I had my mc 3months back and i was six weeks......im on my third cycle and im waiting to o at any minute hopefully...

YAYYYYYYYY YAYYYYYYYYYYY YAYYYYYYYYYY

Think im going to ovulate on time or maybe a day late :clap: i just checked my cervix and its higher today and i have a tiny bit more cm....will be interesting to check what the digi says this afternoon....im glad we BD this morning....im trying not to get too excited but its not working!!!!!!

SORRY about the 3 post in a row...

Just did a test and its still negative....but there is a line there a bit darker than the others...my cervix has defiantly gone higher and its at the tip of my finger and more CM...so HOPEFULLY tomorrow then.....its gotta be!!!! it will be CD15 then....will that make my period late???

Im :pray::pray::pray::pray::pray::pray:

Do you think i should do a test later this arvo...only thing is i only have 3 digi tests left and i either need to order the strips which could take days..or buy a whole new one which is 70.00...

melstar - yay on 'o'ing real soon. I 'o'd on CD15 but AF still came around CD27/28, so it just depends sweety. Hope you catch this eggy xoxox

Melster: yay that things are looking good for you, i think the best time to do opt's is early afternoon (but im not sure where i know that from !), more bd for you tonight (or are you doing it every 2nd night/day), fingers crossed for you ! af should start 14 days from when you ovulate

Joeve: hi and welcome to you, sorry you had to find your way to us, fingers crossed for you too, has your cycle been regular since the m/c ?

thanks ladies..

i should have waited a bit longer to test but i couldnt resist!!!! i think i read somewhere 2pm...were bding everyday..apart from yesterday when hubby had the grumps...but we made up for it this morning :p

Minni- Thank you for the explanation of PCOS darl, I do appreaciate all the detail. Guess I'm just trying to educate myself more so if anything comes back in my BT and testing if they do any more I can be a little more informed about things IYKWIM.
Possum- Yeah DR thinks my O pains are doing strange things as well hun, I told her everything I had written down as to where the pain was and what days they happened on ect ect and she said wow that's a little long to be still getting O pains. So we shall see what she says to me in the morning. If anything since my MC the O pains I get are alot less intense than what I used to get mid cycle as they used to feel like bad AF cramps mid cycle but now they are just like a stinging sensation and only lasts for about a minute or 2.
Joeve- Welcome darl and feel free to join in I'm just so sorry we all had to meet under such sad circumstances darl. FX you get your BFP soon darl. We are all here to support and offer any words of advice that we can darl.
Melster- Sounds like O day is approaching soon for you, good luck and go the power of positive thinking darl...
AFM- Well it's D day tomoro morning my DR appointment is at 9:40am and I'm trying my hardest not to even think about the what ifs and maybes atm anyhow.....today I got to have a bit of a sleep in as MIL and FIL took all 5 kids for a walk out the back paddocks to check flood damage to our fences so it was sooooo nice to wake up to a very quiet house again. This afternoon I'm feeling pretty well like I wanna throw up have a lump in my throat like just before you get sick and still have that niggley little headache again this afternoon, BB's are feeling very tender and look and feel huge. Got a little carried away in the moment of DTD last night and my god it felt like someone was sticking pins in my nipples, sorry if TMI there ladies....lol.....have no idea when or if I have O'd so can't even say I'm any number of DPO all I know is that today is CD21 for me and AF is due somewhere around Tuesday/Wednesday. Maybe I'm feeling off due to stressing about my results tomoro, don't know but I don't think I'm stressing that much over it all as I haven't had time to think about it much yet and the stress usually hits me right when I step in front of the surgery door and go to open it........lol......I've been telling myself whatever will be will be as I can't change whats happening until after my DR appointment. I'm still silently hoping that the Vitamin B6 is doing it's job and I get a BFP and sticky bub this month but I'm certainly not holding any hope for that to happen at all going by my past I am really feeling AF will arrive yet again.

Clairesmummy.....good luck for tomorrow...im sending you positive vibes...i hope you're issues are something that they can fix and its quiet easy...i hope you get all the answers you need for you to be able to sort this out...and still hoping for a sneaky bfp for you. Im thinking of you and hope you get through tonight and get some sleep..ill try and remember to come on tomorrow morning to check for you're news..

Sending you hugs

Clairesmummy - will be thinking of you tomorrow, please let us know as soon as you are up for it the results and here's hoping it's nothing too major and came be fixed xoxox

Clairesmummy - Good luck for your drs appointment tomorrow :)

clairesmummy: i often get sore nipples a few days after ovulation, hope that is the reason for you too, good luck tomorrow !

Thank you for all the good luck wishes ladies, ok so I said before I'm not stressing about it what a load of hog wash,cause I am now:o.......now come night fall its sinking in that OMG I get my BT results in the morning :jawdrop: Ok so to be honest I am scared witless right now thinking I should just not go to the DR at all but YES I will go but part of me is saying run like the wind and get the hang out of this situation. DF has to work tomoro so will be braving it by myself my lonely ol' self. Be brave be brave......hmmm the power of positive thinking......yeah right I'm trying......depending on the waiting at the DRs in the morning and depending how long I have to cry for after the DR and after I ring DF I will be straight back on here to give you all my lovely BB friends my news good,bad or indifferent. Please be warned I will probably have lots and lots of questions and be asking for tons of advice from you all if I get news I have no idea on. I never thought TTC could or would be this scary but it is a little overwhelming right now. Dr told me the other day that if my cycle is longer this month than it usually is I will have to go back for the same BT next cycle so I could be still no the wiser tomoro gee how frustrating that will be for me. No matter where you are all in Oz you will hear me scream if that happens.

Just sneaking in :redface:
to wish Clairesmummy all the best for tommorow
I hope you get the answers you want well be here whatever happens
:crossfingers:
be thinking of you tommorow ill have to stalk this thread to hear your results
sneaking out

Thanks Kell you can sneak in anytime darl, missing you all heaps. Stalk me as much as you like ....lol....... Be good if whatever is wrong is easily fixed. And thank you all for being here for me in my time of need.
Love yahs all

Good luck clairesmummy! Cant wait to hear everything! Dont be scared! There wont be anything wrong that cant be fixed :) xxx

Thanks Reet- I've been googling about thyroid problems tonight and I'm still no the wiser..........DR was having my thyrois checked as well. Does anybody know anything about thyroid causing infertility and how it's treated?

Thanks girls!
Melster - yes 2pm is the supposed best time for opk's but I read anywhere from 10am to 6pm. And if you o on cd 15 you can still have your period day 28 just means you have a shorter lutuel phase :) not uncommon really. good luck!
Clairesmummy - good luck for tomorrow, sounds like its going to be a good appointment for you in terms of making future plans - knowledge is power so don't be scared you can only be in a better posi with more knowledge!
Minimouse - thanks for the welcome. yes body seems to have gone back to normal after m/c although while waiting for AF the first month I noticed not much cm and my AF was not as full on as normal, but since its been fine. I didn't need a D/C at the time although my regular DR later asked why I didn't have one.....meh some say do it and others not.

clairesmummy: my advice is stop googling until you at least know what you are dealing with ! good luck, i hope if something shows it is easily fixed