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ferrals - soooo happy to hear your news. i keep lurking in here and have been wondering when your good news would come. you are a clever girl. i have everything crossed for you.
coco, sunny, maddison, eliselouise, snugglebean and all the new ones - i keep sending you all sticky vibes and hoping you get your BFP's very soon. it is a long hard road and only for the brave!
afm - nearly 15 weeks now. having an amnio on 15th - nuchal fold was a little high than ob would like it (2.7m) so will be good to get that out of the way. josh's mum has her's 2 days before mine so nice to have someone else on the same journey. apart from that worry everything is going really well. my heart goes out to you all and i wish there was more that i could do. i look forward to seeing heaps of you in the paml thread really soon. love to all.
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Afternoon everyone,Scarypinkfairy-Hope the bleeding stops soon.everyone seems different to how long they bleed afterwards .Twinsister-Sounds like your dh will have to watchout,have fun...Ferrals-I remember you from when i was just readingthis forum.Congratulations on your news,hopefully more congratulations will be in order soon.I'm a central coast girl as well ,born & bread...Craftymummy-The matinee set sound beautiful,they have them at the markets here.I'm sure we will all need them soon...Maddison-hope all is well for you...zstar-Thanks for the sticky vibes.Good luck with your ammnio...Murraycod-How did you go at the doctors today,same plan as last month?
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Good Afternoon Everyone,
Nice to hear everyone's views and support
i am still waiting for AF to show up...its 2 days over and checked this morning its still BFN, i think my cycles have extended a bit after D&C. God knows
Eliselouise - all the best hope this delay is a +ve sign of Pregnancy for you and you hear good news soon.
Murraycod - that is very true when you don't know whats happening inside the body and you just keep guessing...
Starangel - Congratulations of BFP :), good news and hopefully we all will be following you soon..
craftymummy - thats a nice idea of indulging yourself in something, so i have started fixing my vegiepatch and also completing my cross stich knit pending from ages.
ferrals - Congrats for "green light"
and to all the ladies i have missed, i feel relieved talking and sharing with all of you...hope i get my AF today or tomorrow
love you all
ric
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Ferrals - Great news! I really appreciate it when people drop back to the thread to let us know how they are doing.
I'm weaning myself off this board a little bit. I am still around but trying not to obsess about things and just let whatever will be happen. I guess I am coming to the end of my TTC journey. I applied for a job yesterday and I had been holding off on that because I thought I would be pregnant and not seriously considering employment for a couple of years.
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great news ferrals!!!! Onwards ad upwards!
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Evening Ladies!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
TwinSis thats a lot of:bd:!!!!! My DH would be hiding!!!! LMAO!!!!!!!
SPF i think every body is different to when the cycle returns to the 'Norm', I got AF back 35days after I began to bleed from MC. I didnot have DC or meds though, I was abt 8wkspg. I hope your cycles settle quickltyfor you X
Ferrals what fantastic news hey!:dance: After 6 long months you must be completely over the moon!!! Best wishes for your October month my darling, don't stress over the injections too much, DH gives me mine each night, I hope that you make lots and lots of healthy eggies that will soon turn into healthy babies XXXXXXX
Craftymummy you have been through a huge emotional and exhausting month, I too would love to see you get a BFP so quickly but please don't be too hard on yourself if your body is still adjusting :hug:
Ric my cycles went from 29days bf the pregnancy, to 35days after MC. Now it's all different again now that am doing the IUI treatment. I'm very glad to hear that you are enjoying the friendships on this forum, as sad as it is to get newbies, it is a chance to give back to others, for what I received being a newbie myself X
Matthew'sMum did you get DH to hide that stick!?! I hope the next few days go by quickly for you! Hope you are well.
Elise any news??
Starangel I'm so pleased to hear that your levels are getting higher, grow little bean grow!!!!! XX Sticky Glue Vibes Honey X And Thanks :hug:
SammyP X
Tanya thanks for the hug X
Bookworm fingers are crossed for you!
Snugglybean hug for you, hope youre feeling better
Bonelige X
Sparkles X
HubbaBubba did you get the ultrasound still? Have been thinking of you, hope you are well. Glad youre on a fresh cycle now X
Coco are you lurking??? miss you!
Milly5 X
Alx Xxxxxxxxxxx
HannaS
Hearts X
Zstar Chickybabe Maddison TinaR Josh'sMum Sunny09 and now Starangel :bellyrubs:
Sorry If I forgot anyone, sorry sorry
And Finally.....Wine...tick. Puregon Injections...tick New Gucci purfume...tick went shopping in Mildura today, spent heaps and loved it. Got Beyonce cd and had it cracke'n all the way home whilst eating Hungry Jacks Onion Rings from my lap!!!!! WoooHooo!!XXXX:D
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Evening all, hope everyones day is going well.
Sorry no time for persies tonight,. just got home from work and im stuffed and really dont feeli like talking to anyone or doing anything.
AF decided to rear her big fat ugly head this arvo at work (only very light spotting at the moment but pretty sure will be full flow in the morning), grrr was so angry and sad that i just wanted to :crying: but because i was at work had to hold it in. I was really starting to think that this was my month with af being 5 days late and all. Ill know now not too get my hopes up AT ALL, untill at least 2 weeks after af due. Why does this journey have to be SOOO hard for all of us who want it so much and seems so easy for those who dont :wall:
To make matters worse db is not home and probably wont be for at least a week so im here all on my lonesome, just wanna curl up in bed and not get out for a very very long time.
Thanks everyone for thinking of me :grouphug:
Ferals that is great news hunny, im sooo happy for you, like you said hopefully we can all join the pg forum together:D
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I have not been here in a while...things have just been so busy!
I'm so sorry to hear about af coming for some of you! I know how tough that could be!
Ferral - CONGRATULATIONS!!!! Hope you get a BFP in October!!!
AFM: Got a positive OPK on monday so hoping that October will be the month for me!!!
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Morning ladie's
I was thinking seeing as i will be offically TTC again i can post in here aswell as the pgd ivf forum because you girl's were awsome support to me when i needed it so i will need you all going through this next month more than anything.
Thankyou so much for all of your good wishes.
Zstar-I have my finger's crossed your amnio come's back all clear abbi's nuchal fold was 4.2 and the cvs and amnio came back clear (don't want to scare you) but i wasn't happy so had an early morphology scan at 16 week's that's when they found some problem's and it took another 4 week's of testing for some answer's so if your conserned at all push for more test's let me know how you go also josh's mum hope you have good new's to.
AFM-just waiting on AF on the 11th-12th to start.
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elouise - I'm so sorry to hear AF showed up. The same thing happened to me this last cycle. AF was 4 days late and despite a BFN I was getting really excited and hopeful. It was a big letdown to see AF arrive. I really think October is going to be a good month though for this thread. At least with DP being away this week, he'll be home in time for O and there won't be a missed opportunity. When my DH is out of town for O its worse than AF showing up.
ferrals - yay that's great news!!
craftymummy - I think once I'm actually PG it will spur me on to start it, I'm just so busy right now with DS and other craft projects. I think i will enjoy it too though, once I actually get started I'll probably not want to put it down. Your matinee set sounds really cute.
zstar - hurray for making it to 15 weeks. Best of luck on your amnio1!
ric - That would be great if AF was late due to BFP. If not I hope she comes quickly and is kind to you so you can get back to TTC
SammyP - Good luck with the job application. Hopefully you'll be planning mat leave from it very soon.
Murraycod - ha ha DH would probably hide from me if he could but I'm pretty persuasive, and he knows if he hides form me it will be another month of me whining about not being pregnant so he'd better put out lol. Glad you had a nice day shopping and spoiling yourself a little with wine and perfume.
hearts - I'll be keeping you company in the TWW. Fingers crossed for us both
AFM it looks like my cycle has changed, as today is only day 9 and I am pretty sure I am ovulating. Thankfully DH and I got some "BD" time in last night. We'll try again tonight and tomorrow and hopefully that will be enough. Poor DH is saved from extended BD. October is my absolute favorite month of the year so I think it will be a good month, hopefully for all of us!
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Hello BB girls,
I have been gone for so long many of you will not know who I am.
I was on here for months after my second m/c in April. I decided to take a break through sept as I was not able to try for a month. I was very good and only popped in 4 times for a quick check to see how my girls were doing. So gald to see that so many of my original BB girls are now UTD.
I have started trying again this week but have decided not to return to BB as a regular. I have found that I am managing better emotionally if I am not thinking about trying to conceive constantly. I do really miss being here and chatting and supporting everyone but I need to do what is best right now to keep me as emotionally level as possible.
I am focussing on losing weight and have dropped a few kilos, I am exercising and doing yoga too.
I will still pop in from time to time. Good luck to all of you.
Ferrals big :crossfingers: for you I hope it works first time and you are soon UTD.
Eliselouise so sorry about a/f I really had everything crossed for you this month.
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hey sunbeam, have been thinking about you. glad to hear you are ok. i fully understand what you mean. i had to take a break too. was just consuming me too much and not good for me emotionally. thinking of you and hoping you get your BFP very soon.
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Eliselouise, I'm sorry AF showed up. She showed up here, too. It turned into a fairly rotten day by the time I got out of work tonight. I started spotting early in my shift, good thing I keep the "emergency" supplies in my work bag. It was disappointing, to say the least. Then things got stressful later in the evening, and my emotions didn't help at all. I regularly cover the front office person for their half hour meal break, but tonight the girl working that position took over an hour against policy. Of course the phones went crazy while she was gone, and I was hopping mad she disappeared that long. I got really behind on my own work in the process. I've emailed my supervisor about the incident, but it made the day that much worse on top of not being pregnant this month.
Sorry for the whining, I'll catch up on personals tomorrow when I'm more calmed down. Best wishes to everybody else, I hope your day went better.
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Hey girls....
Sunbeam, awesome to see you back :)
Eliselouise, I was so heartily hoping this time was yours. I hope it's not too much longer for you (although I'd love to be belly buddies again, I'm sure you couldn't stand waiting until Jan for your bfp)
I have had the most rotten day. I can't even look at my colleague who is pg, can't even be in the same room. Culminated in me shutting myself in my office, hiding under the desk and crying today. Like really really sobbing. One of the girls eventually came and found me, and sent me home.
Almost all of them know I'm leaving now - my replacements have been arranged, my boss knows and is devastated but supportive, and I'll be finishing at Christmas.
What I hate the most is that I'm supposed to be the leader, I am the director, and when I have moments like I did today, and they all see my cry, I feel so weak and like I'm letting them down. Which people assure me is not the case, but it's how I feel. I think that's why I've held it in for so long - this week has been the only time I've cried at work.
What can I do? How am I going to get through this? I've got 12 weeks left, and both colleagues are onyl going to get more pregnant. I know I need to talk to them, and one in particular, but how am I going to do it?
Have booked in to see a counsellor next week, might ge some strategies there. Just wondering if anything has worked for you ladies.
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Hi all,ric-hope your cycles sort out soon..Sammyp-good luck with things..murraycod-sounds like you had fun is it back to business now?Eliselouise-sorry,it's so easy to get our hopes up when af playing tricks,put all that hope into this month...hearts-good luck..ferrals-hope the wait for af goes quick for you...twinsister-go catch that egg..sunbeam-congratulations on the weight loss,sounds like you'll be in tip-top condition for o...zstar-hope you're well...bookworm&snugglebean-sorry,hope tomorrow will be better for you...
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snugglybean - I'm so sorry things are so hard for you right now. Maybe it's as a result of a melt down moment like yesterday when you could explain to your colleagues why it's so hard for you. I'm quite sure that they would understand (assuming, of course, that they are reasonable humans). I think that, as women who have suffered one or more miscarriages, it is a lot more aparent to us when a person is hurting over seeing pregnancies. We understand the fear and the pain and the jealousy of it. Some women who have never lost a baby will never understand it but I guess we can only take our chances and try to explain it to those we have to spend time with in the hope that they will understand and be sympathetic to our special needs. Don't we always say that women should stick together? Support one another and encourage each other? I wish you success in confronting your colleagues over this painful situation. My prayers are with you for their understanding. :hug:
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Hi ladies,
Apologies that I didn't report in straight after my US on Monday, I took DS to my parents house in the country for a couple of days, my sister was there with my nieces who are on school holidays. Needless to day DS had an awesome time. So my US seemed to go quite well, which was great for the hour or so inbetween my US and my Ob appt. When I went to my ob appt, he had the results of my down syndrome screen. Whilst my US was great and gave us 1:1500 chance my blood test results came in at 1:78 so our combined risk was 1:177 which has us at high risk for downs. After a lot of consideration DH and I have decided to have an amnio. We are scheduled for the 13th of Oct.
Hi to all the other ladies on this thread, good luck to all the ladies in the 2ww.
Eliselouise- I'm sorry to hear that AF showed up, I really thought this was your month. Hang in there I'm sure that it will happen soon for you.
Ferals: Great news about being able to start trying.
Sunbeam: Great to hear from you, glad that you are about to start trying to conceive again.
Cheers
Me 32 DH 38
DS 5/1/2007
:angel: December 2008 (13 weeks)
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Oh dear. Just when it looks as though we should be trying to catch this little egg, DD poked her Dad in the eye and managed to scratch his cornea. We spent Wednesday night in the ER and then back again yesterday when it became worse. He is in a lot of pain, on powerful painkillers and secluded in bed in the darkness. The last thing he feels like is making babies. :-(
