Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ December 2010

well 7 days after AF popped her head up she went again :) yay for a normal period for once! lets hope it doesnt come back next month but i wont get my hopes up. Hope santa was good to everyone :) hows everything going possum??

Shan85 - yay for a normal period for you although you mentioned it was heavy? My last one was super heavy the first 3 days but I seemed to have 7 days worth of bleeding in 3 days as it petered off after that. Anyway, hope that is the last you see of her for quite some time!!
Possums - did I say congrats? If not big happy, sticky vibes to you!!
Seems a few of us in here are around O time yet again. I'm not sure DH's swimmers will be up to the task this month after all the xmas merriment he has partaken in (& me too for that matter). You gotta keep living though I reckon....
Anyway, good luck to all no matter where you are in your cycle. Good things have stated to happen in here so lets keep it going!!
How was everyones xmas anyway? We had a good one & the kids were totally spoilt. My little girl turned 3 yesterday too so had a bit of a pool party for her. Golly gosh they grow up so quick.....
BBL all x

Hi mummytotwo: Thanks for the sticky vibes! I'm praying hard for them myself! Sounds like you have had a happy time with xmas season. I agree, you've got to keep on living it up a bit too. Happy birthday for your little DD. My DD is nearly 3 and i also can't believe how big she is getting.
Shan85: Must be a great relief that AF left you in a week. Hooray for no dramas!

AFM: Going ok. Just hanging out to see my OB again in 10 days to see if there is a heartbeat. Crossing fingers every time i go to the loo that there is no blood!

hi all, possummagic-must be a worrying time for you,but remember their are lots of success stories after loss,try to focus on them..

Hello Everyone,

I am sorry for not doing any personals. I am reading everyone's posts daily.. kinda a routine now.
Hope everyone is having a great Christmas/New Years week. If I don't stop eating.. ill be gaining a dress size in a week! YIKKES.

HUGS and loads loads of baby dust raining down in buckets.

Hi everyone,
Shan85- phew! AF is normal and has gone, that must be a relief. I have week-long AFs too, they're no fun.
Tascha- hi! It's not an easy time of year, when you've lost a little one. :(

Everyone else- Merry Christmas! I hope you all had a lovely day. Ours was good, even though DD slept in till 9.30am (!) it gave us time to finish setting up the trampoline in the backyard. You've never seen such a delighted child as when she saw it. :D She made up for Christmas morning by getting up at 6 am on Boxing Day and running into our room and yelling "Time to bounce!"

AFM: still crampy in the uterine area. And I feel sick. This had better be a pregnancy, because if I'm feeling crappy for no good purpose I will be CROSS. FX!

tascha-bb can be addictive,but i think in a good way.i know in my early days after loss,it actually helped me get out of bed in the morning sometimes...kirstenfleur-when are you testing?...minniemouse-how are you?..

KF - oer sounds promising!! Yes, when is testing day? lol at DD & "time to bounce" :)
MM - I agree - it really helps to connect & read stories so similar to what you are going through. It can be a lonely, isolating time but thanks to BB it isn't AS bad....
Hi to everyone else - bbl for persies xxxx

Hey girls

Just a quick one, pretty sure I am O'ing as I have slight pains and also got EWCM, so might not be a 32 day cycle after all!.. so surely thats good news...we have DTD xmas eve, and boxing day then tonight was meant to be the next one but DF has gone to bed already..if Charlotte was in bed I would go try it on lol...but hoping maybe we have caught the egg with our last BD :)

Big hellos and hugs, be back sometime tomorrow hopefully :)
Night night :hug:

Oooo, sounds good MummyDeb! I hope you caught that egg! :fx:

Tascha, Mummytotwo, Matthew'sMum: I know what you mean about BB being addictive. At home I've had to firmly shut the study door, with me on the outside, just so I don't spend too much time on it. At work I spend most of the day gazing into a computer screen anyway, and nobody minds if I've got it open in a tab. BB was such a huge support after I lost the Little One, I think I'd have been a bit of a wreck without it. :hug: to everyone.

AFM- testing day is scheduled to be 12.01am 1st January 2011, aka CD29. If it's positive then I'll cheer and go to bed; if it's negative, I'll make straight for the nearest bottle of champagne and drain it. win/win situation. :D I'm feeling sick again today and my bosoms have started feeling tender, which they don't do before AF. Very hopeful... very very hopeful...

Managed to get more BD in last night :D so I think I did well this cycle, now its in the lap of the gods! I sure hope we caught the egg!!! Now the 2ww I sure hope it flys by!

Oh I hope you get a lovely BFP Kirsten! Will keep my fingers crossed for you and yes thats a win/win lol!

Big hellos and hoping everyone is going well..not long till 2011...surely its got to be all of us girls year for BFP and newborn babies :) fingers crossed for all of us and lots of :bluedust: and :stickyvibesgirl:
:hug:

KF - win/ win for sure. Hoping the cork stays put in that bottle of champers though.
Will check in on you on the 1st. Symptoms sure sound good tho.
MummyDeb - well done with your bding this cycle. I would say you've got things covered nicely :)
Hi to everyone else.....

ok ladies, too many have been doing BDing so i joined in lol hopefully its all worth while.

Fingeres crossed for you KF, i agree its sounding good :)
2 more sleeps til new year and i know what im wishing for!! fingeres crossed 2011 is all our year and we flood the UTD forums
enjoy the sunshine for those in melbourne like meeeee:)

hi ladies, hope you all had a wonderful xmas!

af is 2 days late for me.. just waiting a few more days to see if shes just trickin me!

Hello ladies! Hope you all had a lovely Christmas. I was out of town so just getting back on BB after being away for a bit. Seems like lots of promising things happening in here. This is a busy month for me and DH, so I'm taking a break from charting and OPKs to try to calms things down. I'm not expecting this will be our month, but if it happens it will be a nice surprise. :) Still stalking you all, though, and hoping for many New Years BFPs.

ok, i couldnt wait a few more days so i took a test andddddd

:bfp:

i cant believe it!!!!!!!

ALISH....

CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!! WHOOOHOOOOO.. what a way to start the new year!!!!!!!!!!!
STICKY STICKY STICKY STICKY VIBES....!!!!

thanks tascha :):):):):):):)
i know my body so well and i just knew it