im soooooooooooooooo tempted girls!
but i dont want to see that single line
might get one tommorow while were out and about
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im soooooooooooooooo tempted girls!
but i dont want to see that single line
might get one tommorow while were out and about
Yeah go on Kell we are all impatiently awaiting your BFP, your temps are looking like a BFP to me darl........
Thanks lovely ladies!
Kellbell ~ :crossfingers: for you hun, GL.
Hi all,
still lurking occasionally.
Clairesmummy: everyone's probably different but I find that the egg white CM starts a few days before 'O' so you may not have O yet? Also, i read somewhere that the hormones the OPKs test for are more detectable in the afternoon (better NOT to use FMU). Testing between 2- 8pm was the best time I read (and then testing each day about the same time). Not sure if that helps? Congrats on the prize at the horse show!
Kellbell: ok now i'm also desperately keen to see how you go with a pg test!
Forshelby: WHat did i miss? I didn't realise you were going into full time incubation! THat's fantastic. What will you do with yourself?
Hi everyone else, sticky vibes! (FOrgive me for not doing full list of persies. i'm too behind. But wanted to say hi and hugs to all).
AFM: Boring boring... still bleeding! Still having weekly blood tests. My HCG is dropping ridiculously slowly. But OB and oncologist think it will go back to zero soon without the heavy duty drugs. Phew! Interestingly, something showed up on one of my blood tests: i have a gene for a blood clotting disorder. OB thinks this may explain the mc's. Next time i'm pg i'll be on aspirin, progesterone and daily injections of clexane (blood thinner). But i think i'll be having a break from TTC for a couple of months... even if i do eventually stop bleeding grrrr!
How funny i have stalkers hehe :p
Possum glad your hcg is coming down for you. when your ready next time sounds like youll have a great chance!
Whether i am or not up the duff im glad ive got all you girls in here - you are all great :D
Possum- thanks for the info I will keep up with the bding for the next few days then, I did not know that. All you ladies in here are just a wealth of knowledge I love it. Thank you again.
Kell- I'm happy to be classed as a stalker in a good way...lol.....definately keeping an eye on your progress darl...still sending you lots of sticky vibes.
Possum- hope HCG goes down quickly!! And some rest.... :hug:
Possum - good to see your name pop up. Sorry about your bleeding but the clotting disorder might also contribute? Awesome news about not needing the heavy duty drugs. I am so happy for you.
Is it Factor V Leiden? At one point it was thought I might have a clotting disorder and the same treatment regime was suggested..... some women also take heparin instead of clexane. Sorry if this is TMI but you're going to bruise at the site of the ibjections most likely.
How are you travelling?
Loops - hope you've got that tractor sale money in investment account so that you have lots left over after this next ivf cycle..... it's getting much closer now - how are you feeling? Glad your week away went well! It's so good to almost feel the positivity leaping off the page at me in your post.
Stoked -can't really help out with your question....
Stoked. I'm 3DPO and have stacks of whitish/yellowish CM which is creamy to EWCM tho not really stretchy but there is stacks of it. I'm really surprised at it too. One of the girls on other forum says progesterone surge after O can make extra CM. I'm not sure other than that!!
Clairesmummy - Oh yes, I do enjoy imagining all the amusing things I could do to that woman.. lol. Hoping you catch the eggy this month!! I'm lmao at your washing comment.. I remember what it was like being at the mercy of the weather. I caved in and bought a clothesdryer. Just makes life so much easier when it's raining like this. (it's raining here too, BIGTIME.)
Stoked - Do you have an idea what cd you're on today?? Cramps could be good.... depends on where you're at. :) And wet cm is usually a good sign. I used to say 'it's a desert down there' after O time. Not in my lucky cycle though! FX!!!!
Kellie - Ooh, high temp, excellent. I think you're the next BFPer in here!
AJello - Underwire can be a pain in the boobage, that's for sure! LOL.. I hope you get your BFP, and please try not to get too far ahead of yourself. Worrying about what might happen does no good, just stresses you out. If it is another mc, you can't control that, and worrying doesn't give you any control over the situation whatsoever. I know, easier said than done, but just try to relax and take it one day at a time. I hope that didn't come off as condescending. FX this is your lucky cycle hun!
Loops - Hi hun, so glad to hear you had a ball at the... er, ball. :redface: hehe.... Hoping a 2011 baby is on the way for you soon!!
Possum - Good to hear from you, love! Yes, I am going into full time incubation. Not sure what I'll do with all the time just yet, but I'm sure I'll keep busy getting crafty and just being a good housewife minus the diamond ring. LOL.. No diamonds here to weigh me down, girls! :) A good friend at work has already asked me if I'll mind her kids during work hours on the school holidays, and says she'll pay me for it, too. Bonus! I would have done it for free, but she's so kind, and generous, she wouldn't take 'no payment' for an answer. LOL. Gotta love her. :) I really hope your mc is over soon. This must be so hard for you, your strength is just amazing and so inspiring to us all. Take as long as you need to get back on the ttc rollercoaster. :grouphug: We'll get through it together. And excellent that you might have an answer as to why you mc'd. At least now you have a plan of attack for next time around. Best of luck!
Reet - How are things in Reet-town?! You're very quiet, missy. I hope all is well and you are UTD this cycle as I predicted.
AFM, Feeling kind of crampy today, not sure what that is all about. It reminds me of O pain, but keeps shifting around and is just low and to the sides near my hips. And slight backache. It comes and goes. BBS are only sore on and off, nipples are not as sensitive as they have been.... I don't know what it all means. Hopefully nothing, maybe things are just settling down and my body is getting used to all the homones? In other news, I saw a ****roach run across the kitchen when I was trying to prepare dinner tonight, and had to run to the bathroom for a quick up-chuck. DP thought it was very amusing. Then I told him how just looking at the can of bug-spray had me dry retching this morning, because of the images it conjured up. (Just KNOWING there must have been a ****roach at some stage was almost too much) LOL.... awful! He said I sounded like I was going to die, and I don't think I looked much better, either. On the up side, I did feel much better afterwards, so that's a plus! Sorry for the TMI... it's disgusting, I know. All part of the joys of motherhood, I suppose. I just hope this crampiness is ligaments stretching. It's not painful and there's no sign of blood or anything worrying. The next 3 weeks are going to drag by until I get to see bubby at my 12wk scan. FX all is still ok, as it's always in the back of my mind as my symptoms ease (then come back again, then ease again) that something is wrong. They definitely seem to be slowly diminishing, though. I have to just push those thoughts out of my mind right now and remember that every pg day is a great day.
Good luck to everyone in their TWW :)
Hello everyone! Sorry i have been reading just not posting.. been a bit slack! Ill make up for it now!
Possum- Oh ur still bleeding! u poor thing :( so glad that the drs think ur hcg will go down by itself.. thats a bonus. Take care xx
Stoked- I have no idea about cm!! mine confuses me all the time! :)
Kellbell- Im going to be completely the opposite to everyone and say dont test!! I still reckon wait it out.. atleast for a few more days! Once u get thru tomoro imagine how excited u will feel! But with saying all that if u do test tomoro Good Luck! and be sure to tell us straight away! xx
Clairesmummy- Hope u caught that eggy!..actually i hope u have layed that eggy! :)
Ajello- Good luck playing the waiting game.. i have been there way too often.. it does ur head in hey! Give it a few days.. like the others said u cld have Oed late.. or ur hormone levels might be out of whack.. or ur little bubba might just be taking its time making an appearance! :)
Forshelby- Ur ****roach story! haha that is so WEIRD!!! i cant even imagine throwing up cos of a ****roach! do u normally hate them?? wow the things i have to look forward to once im pg!! :) i cant believe ur 9 weeks!! Thats so excellent! time has flown! maybe not for u but it just reminds me of how bloody long i have been here for! U will be having ur baby and ill still be in here! ha! now now thats not positive thinking is it ;) hope ur aches and pains settle down soon.. it will be nothing.. just ur bubba growing! xx
Mum22- So do u think u caught the eggy?? Or did u give it ur best shot?? :)
Loops- Glad ur weekend went well! I hope to see lots of bfps in here soon too. Lets be one of them!
Bons- Have i missed ur update??! Has af showed up yet?? I really hope not!!
Hello Dory.. u are so so so close! Yipee!
Hi to everyone else too! I cant go back any further on this page so cant remember much else! is loss of memory a pg symptom??! haha wishing.
Well ive just been living my life trying not to think about anything. I dont think Im pg.. not feeling any different. Im pretty sure i only O'ed 8 days ago so i guess not much wld be happening if i was pg anyway! im just not feeling too positive tho..as usual! I think im cd 25 today so im not due for af for probably another 7 days so ill just keep on playing the waiting game. Im having one of those moments where im so over it all.. im feeling like if im not pg this cycle the next one will just be the same sh*it different month and so on and on and on and on..! All good tho.. just one of those moods :)
Nite nite everyone xxx
Hi Reet: i agree, can't believe Forshelby is 9wks already. I reckon 'pg time' is totally different to 'TTC time'. What i mean is, when you are the pg one, every week until 12wks drags so slowly as you wait to see if baby is ok. When you are NOT pg, you look at the pg people and think "where did the time go? How come their pg is going so fast and mine went so slowly? And how come now i'm NOT pg, time is going quickly for me too and suddenly it's been weeks since my pg finished! I can't believe I should have been over 13wks already : ( It's also 11mths since my last mc.
Dory: Thanks for that info. I don't know much about the clexane yet or the alternatives to it (like heparin). I'll have a good talk to my OB about options, risks etc of treatment before i start TTC again. Right now i'm just focusing on finishing this mc. 7wks on...and still bleeding. I agree though, i can't help but think the blood clotting problem may be a reason my mc's have been so drawn out. Ummm, don't think it's Factor V Leiden. My OB said something about thrombophilia? (He rang me with my results so i haven't had a proper consult yet and am a bit hazy on the diagnosis at this stage. I'm sure he'll tell me more when i see him next). Yup, sure i'll be a pretty purple pin cushion next time! Did you decide to have blood thinning injections in the end?
So excited to see how close you are to 40 wks. Keep up the good work (and Go Team Dory, including the furbabies!)
Thanks Ajello and welcome to the thread. Hi to everyone else i've somehow missed in my two posts today! Loops, stoked, mum22, Hi! (Think i've done persies for most others?)
Hello Ladies,
I'm a newbie here. Just reading your posts has given me hope. Its amazing how much you have all been through and how strong you are to keep ttc. Its truely inspiring.
I'm finding things a little tough atm. My sis in law is 3 weeks ahead of what I should be, so watching her pregnancy progress smoothly is a little tough. I'm stoked for her, but yeah... it makes me cry sometimes... and then I feel silly :redface:
Also, 3 of my friends have just announced pregnancies and my two best friends have just delivered healthy babies. Its wonderful. But I'm struggling a little on the inside... that's why I'm here. I don't want to keep dumping my misery on my hubbie.
We've started trying again. And I think I'm ovulating (so hard to tell with me)... so I guess I might have to go to bed soon :shhh: ha-ha.
I hope to get to know you all a little better in the near future. Thank you in advance for your support.
:bluedust: to you all.
xo
Forshelby: I think I'm CD19 that's from counting last AF as CD1, is that right? I have a very regular 28 day cycle. I also have had a drooly mouth today (you know what you get when you're about to throw up!? Haha).. I think I will test next Tuesday which is the morning of my gynie appointment. About your crampiness.. I had that with my pg with DS, I also had the disappearing symptoms, and Archie is 8 months old now and very healthy!!
X
hello lil'J welcome... and hope your stay here is short :)
I understand. I put alot of emotion on my poor hubby when I MC and it has been great here w all the encouragement from the other girls.
Hope that this is THE cycle for you!
Sorry about my 'me' post before.. I am on my phone but will come back tomorrow and be less selfish!! Welcome lil'J!
X
Hi Possum,
Reet, I gave it a good shot. I O on CD19 and we DTD CD17 CD19 and CD20. Will wait and see. I dont have a good feeling about it this month tho :( but I am going to :) and be positive that if its not this month then it will be the next....or so on!!
I have however been feeling icky and nauseous for the past 2 days 2DPO and 3DPO and today I feel much the same. I am crampy/bloated or something and I feel (tmi) gassy to do with the bloated/crampy...odd. Also I 'think' I have a yucky taste in my mouth today....not sure if I have or not I will brush my teeth and see if I feel better.
My temp has risen again today.... my temps since O have been 36.54 36.44 36.44 and today 36.57. Pre O they were consistently 36.2 to 36.27.
Hmmmmm enough about me....
Forshelby-- I do have a clothes dryer as well but yesterday was a lazy day for me and just couldnt be bothered washing and using the dryer as well...lol.....Keep your chin up and stay positive with your PG I'm sure everything is moving along greatly for you...I can't beleive a ****roach made you sick....I'm sorry, but that is funny....lol.....
Reet- I'm not sure but I don't think I have laid that egg as yet thinking it may happen tomorrow I usually get cramps when I O and haven't had them as yet and I still have a fair bit of CM happening as well, sorry if TMI but feeling pretty wet and slippery down there and I'm always dry right after I O, didn't do any bding last night but going to get to it again tonight.
lil'J- Welcome and I hope your stay in here is short. So sorry for your loss darl it's a tragic thing to go through and we all understand how you feel about seeing your rellies and friends PG. I was the same as happy as I was for both my neices to be having healthy PGs and bubs I still thought to myself life's so unfair. But darl it does get easier and we all find the strength to carry on. It's great having a place like BB where you can get your emotions out there and get some great advice as well.
AFM- Well don't think I have laid that egg just yet still have a bit of CM going on and I'm always dry after I O, so back the bedroom tonight for us:shhh:. Feeling pretty crappy today though headache, sore throat and feeling really tired. But we shall see what happens....So I guess I'm playing the fun game of pateince, I just wish I had some for this sort of thing....lol....:pray:
Hello ladies..
Its so hard trying to catch up on all these posts...i get lost LOL so i check on my work computer rather then my phone..
I hope all you ladies are doing well
You have probably seen my other posts...
I have had my check up at the dr's after my D&C and he said this is the bets time to fall pregnant..and a girl who had a D&C 3 weeks before me just called up and said she was five weeks....
Im not sure when i will ovulate..i keep getting lines for the last 3 days but they are still not darker than the control line...we trying anyways...my husband is starting to complain how much LOL have you ever heard that before LOL LOL.....
Hopefully i will o soon if i havent already...
Least i am actually getting excited and thinking about positive things and my mind is being distracted from the last few weeks....its still there but i feel a tiny bit better.....
LOTS OF BABY DUST FOR ME AND EVERYONE ELSE...
the wait feels like months....:)
Melster - oh all these men!! complain where there is not enough, complain when there is too much?!! Haahaaa!!
Clairesmummy - good luck.... lost of baby dust your way.
Mum22 - that's the advise I had from my OB. DB between 10cd to 20cd every 2nd night - I know, it is physically challenging!
AFM - still no AF. It is officially 6 days late. Still have sore BB periodically taking their turns on each side. Will NOT POAS until tomorrow when AF is 7 days late... have too many heart broken BFN with 1 line... on that evil 1 line keep poping up. Try to stay positive and keep in good mood. Dog sitting for my parents and surely is a good thing to keep my mind off. At the moment the pug is head-butting me for attention....... should take him for a walk before it rains again... oh what gloomy weather?!
Stoked ~ GL in TWW, FX for you! I think watery CM is a good sign of pg after O'ing - sticky I believe is not good but I wouldnt really rely on CM as an indicator as it varies so much between people and cycles. Most reliable is probably just a test when AF due. Hoping a BFP is coming your way though!
Clairesmummy ~ Thanks heaps - certainly got to let my hair down and have fun. Im sending you lots of patience... LOL. Have fun BD'ing and GL
Kellbell ~ Great temps you've been getting, FX tight for you!
Mum22 ~ See above what I said for Stoked. Its just I got my hopes up last couple of cycle when I had extra CM which ended in BFN's. Dont wanna see you guys miserable if the same thing happens. That's not to say that it will as everyone is different. :bluedust::pink-babydust: And your temps sound good. GL and FX
Ajello ~ GL and FX for you!
Possum ~ Hoping your HCG drops to 0 over the coming days and it will be great if they can work out why you might be having the m/c's. GL hun - big hugs
Dory ~ Unfortunately once we paid out the tractor loan (huge weight off mind you) we only had about $8,000 which went to paying off bills and debts. We have only about $1,000 of that left which we will be keeping for the IVF. Because we dont have as many expenses now we should be right to save the rest for Oct. Im getting pretty excited - thanks heaps for asking. I guess that's why im feeling positive and happy. How are things with you - going well I hope? xo
Forshelby ~ LOL - I did have a ball at the ball! Must be hard not to stress, GL I hope you can start relaxing a bit more soon. As you say its probably just growing and stretching pains - I hear and read a lot of preg woman get them. MS not so good but I guess at least you know you are pg that way. xo
Reet ~ thanks hun :) Lets both be one to get BFP's very soon yes. I understand how you feel - im hoping its just too early for you to have any signs yet, FX for a BFP!
lil'J ~ Hi and welcome. GL this cycle and sorry for the losses of your lil baby angels - hug
Melster ~ Hi and welcome to you 2. Wishing you all the best! Enjoy the trying part ;)
AFM ~ yes getting excited for IVF/ICSI in Oct - doing antagonist cycle this time as hoping to finally get some to freeze as well as maybe a couple to transfer this time. In the mean time - still TTC naturally. I have my ups and downs as so many of my friends and family seem to be getting pregnant. Hopefully my turn is just around the corner.
Sending lots of :bluedust::stickyvibesgirl: to everyone xo
So Sorry I have been MIA!!!
I tested.........and got a :bfp: I am so very very excited and petrified at the same time!
Thank you all for asking after me!!! It means so much xxx
Kellbell test.....get your DH to read the test that way you dont have to look at it! xxx
Reet - I cant wait for your news!!!
Lil'j and Melster, Welcome hope your stay here is short!....xxx
Dory - hope you are well hun and relaxing xxx
Loops - Good luck with this antagonist cycle, hope you have lots and lots of embies!
Matthewsmum - How are you doing hun? still lurking?
mum22 - DTD every 2nd night hun! It is worth it! your DH will be happy man hehe
Clairesmummy - I hope you get some energy soon! xxx
Forshelby - When is your last day??
xxx
Bons, we did as O approached but then I had to be careful because he woud crack it if I said in a row now cos the +OPK :) gotta be careful not to push my luck...
And after O I'm pretty much over it all and want a wee little break from it!!
::oops: I just re read that message bons as I just scan the messages sometime to make sure I have replied to everyone and not ignoring any questions...
WOW BONS CONGRATULATIONS......FANTASTIC!!!!!!!!! WOOOOO HOOOOO :loveshower: :leap::confetti::happyforyou::hooray::stickyvibesg irl:
Bons.....!!!! WooooooWWW
:loveshower::confetti::happyforyou::hooray:
Congret!!
OMG OMG Bons - congratulations sweety so happy for you. Now rest up and lil that lil bubba stick
:dance::happyforyou:
forshelby - I tried to pm you but ur box is full
will be back later for persies
xoxox
Bons ~ Big CONGRATS hun!! :dance: So :happyforyou: All the best for the next 9 or so months - hope it all goes smoothly xo Hope you can relax into it xo
CONGRATS BONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Have a beautiful happy and healthy Nine months
:leap:
oh bons congratulations :happyforyou::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy::dan ce:
i knew there was someone here with a bfp :clap:
hope everything goes smoothly for you
Reet - LOL, yes I normally find ****roaches gag-worthy.... but this one just totally set me off. Just thinking about it gives me the jibblies. You won't still be in here when my bubby is born, because you're going to get your bfp this cycle, remember? Don't make a liar out of me, LOL.. no pressure!! You can do this. And when it does happen, it'll be the greatest thrill of your life, I'm sure. I'll be here to congratulate you, too. I had a pretty sore back today but it's subsided now. I think you're right and it is just bubby growing big and strong. It must be so hard playing the waiting game for so long, if I could sprinkle some 'quick ttc luck dust' over you I would. I'm going to have a chat with the universe tonight and demand that they give you your baby!! It's going to happen, dangit!!! :) Hang in there, hun. I didn't feel all that different either when I got my bfp, and still don't feel tremendously different now. I get feelings here and there, and it's mostly the gagginess/nausea that reminds me there's a bubby in there. Stay strong!
Possum - I have to agree with you there, time flies for you guys while it drags for me. And TTC time seemed so much longer than pg time for me.... *sigh*. I hope this whole ordeal is over soon and you have your baby in your arms in 2011.
Lil'J - Welcome to the thread! I'm sure we can all relate to the difficulties of watching others progress happily with their pgs while we mourn. It's normal and OK to feel crap about it sometimes. Don't beat yourself up about it. A friend of mine was 5wks ahead of me when I mc'd, and every time I see her little boy I think of how old mine would be right now. It was hard at first, but has gotten easier as time went on. I hope your TTC journey is a speedy one, best of luck for this cycle!
Stoked - The first day of af is counted as day 1. First day of 'full flow', that is. I know what the drooly mouth is like, lol.. I have it on and off even when I'm not about to throw up. Thanks for the reassurance, though. I'm just staying positive and reminding myself that no blood means no problem, as far as I know. Worrying won't change the outcome, so all I can do is keep my FX and look forward to my next scan in early September.
Mum22 - If memory serves, 3 days of a sustained temp shift means you definitely O'ed. Judging by the timing of your bd, I don't see why you aren't in with a great shot this month!
Clairesmummy - :) thanks for the encouragement. I'm surprised so many of you find it shocking that a ****roach would make me sick. The way they look... and the germs that must be on them.. oh GOD! LOL.... Especially because it was in the kitchen, it just sent me right over the edge. That's where the food is! Ewwwww.... I am no good at fighting ****roaches and large spiders. I tend to squeal and hide. If DP isn't home, I do my best to corner them, trap them, and leave it for him to sort out when he gets home. LOL... he hates that, but I just can't handle them. Glad you got a laugh out of it though, LOL. Sorry you aren't feeling great, but you know some people say an orgasm can be great for a headache. I find the last thing I want when my head is pounding is further pounding from the other end. :redface: LOL Good luck with it though, I say get your groove on if you can!
Melster - Did I miss something? Sorry if I'm having an attack of pg brain right now, but welcome to the thread! Apparently elevated hormones after a loss can enhance your fertility, so go for it! My OPK lines were rarely quite as dark as the control line, but it turns out I must have o'ed at least once... cast your eyes to my ticker for the explaination, LOL. I hope this is your month, and I'm so sorry you had to experience the heartache of a loss. Oh and yes, my DP wasn't a fan of the bd on demand, but hey.... they know how it works, and what has to be done to get that bubby in there!
Ajello - Wow you sure are late... Can't wait to hear your BFP announcement tomorrow. That's how positive I'm feeling for you. FX!!
Loops - Your turn is just around the corner! I'm excited for your IVF/ICSI too, can't wait to hear your announcement. It won't be long now, hun, stay strong!
Bons - :o OMG OMG OMG!!!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!! I nearly jumped up and did a little dance for you just then, but DP might think I've lost it if I do. But I'm dancing on the inside! :dance: When are you going to see your doc and get the ball rolling?!!! My last day at work is not this friday but the next. Can't wait for it to be over after a particularly crummy day today. Will explain below.
Iona - Emptying my inbox now! Try try again :)
AFM, Had a really hard day at work today, doing 3 people's work and watching that cow saunter around without a care in the world, not helping in the least, as usual. I did get the last laugh, however, as she had the hide to ask me to stay back after work and help her decorate for the boss's birthday tomorrow. I truly relished putting her in her place. "Like **** I'm going to stay back and help you decorate! You didn't help me in the slightest today, why would I want to help you?" She then asked me if I could at least blow up some balloons. "I've had a blasting headache all day. NO I'm not blowing up your damn balloons" Then I grabbed my purse, and casually strolled out of the office, leaving her behind. The look on her face was PRICELESS!!!!!! Oh goodness me it was so theraputic to finally stick it to her. I was shocked she would even ask me that. She's truly oblivious to how disliked she is. BAH! My other co-worker also told her to shove her decorations. LOL.... maybe one day she'll learn not to be such a selfish cow, and people might be more willing to help her. She'll probably have a whinge to the boss about it tomorrow, but what are they going to do? Punish me for not staying back without pay to blow up some pathetic balloons? OH PLEASE.... whatever. I'm still enjoying that stunned mullet look she gave me. :D
That was totally off topic, but it was so awesome I had to share it with you all.. LOL. I hope everyone is getting closer to their dreams! :)
forshelby - go on girl!!! no stress during pg = no blowing balloons for ppl you don't like!! :P Keep the spirit!!
BB really sore. Ran out of soft bras (blame it on bad weather) and gone back to underwire... spent most of the day hunching and pulling the cups away whenever pain strike. DH thinks that I am just being tooooooo optimistic+over analytical and over fantisying and may be after MC it has upset all my cycle and cycle symptons.... then this will be crap for I never have PMS and only have cramps on the CD1 and seriously sore BB will be a very very unwelcome side effect of after MC- consider my first AF after MC was very normal, just a bit funny feeling avro before AF and a bit cramps on CD1 of AF.
oh well... if this sore BB is going to pop up as my monthly PMS- well then, I will just have to change all my bras!! Shopping, here I come! (TTW has drove me crazy girls!)
hi everyone,so much to catch up on,bons-congratulations,yes i've been lurking(feeling a bit quite of late)...kellbell& others testing soon-good luck...welcome to the new ladies,sorry for your losses...afm-af arrived (39 day cycle),so have started hormone replacement tablets,so fingers crossed for us all
Hi Mathew's mum: good to hear from you. Yay! start of a new cycle for you. Best of luck.
Bons: Woot! Woot! That's fantastic news! Keep us posted.
Welcome Melster. Sorry for your loss. Best of luck for your next try.
Welcome lil'J: so sorry for your recent losses. Look forward to hearing some good news for you soon.
*Squeals* BONS!!!!! OMG!!! CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Am so happy for u!! :) When did u test?? how far along are u now??? Oh u must be SO SO HAPPY!! Bet dh is too! Well done! Every 2 days must have worked a treat! :) xxx
Forshelby-Well done girl! Excellent that u finally got to show that horrid lady exactly what u think of her! And isnt it the best feeling knowing ur boss cant exactly get angry at u cos really wat are they going to do??!!!? Are u getting them to write u up a reference? or not much point since u wont be working for a while now?? I hope u have had that chat with the universe tonight cos its bloody not listening to me!! :)
Ajello- Oh ur sore bbs do sound awfully promising!!! Be sure to tell us all as soon as u test tomoro morning! :)
Kell- So when are u testing??? I am getting so excited for u!! Af is late!! Woohoo!!!
Matthews mum- Lovely to see ur name back in here. Hope everything works out perfectly this time around for u. And yes im crossing my fingers for us all too!!
Melster- I think this is our first meeting too.. ?? Welcome anyway and i hope ur stay is a nice and short one :) Keep up that bding!!! Good luck!
Lil'J- Welcome and i hope ur stay here is short also.. Good luck!
Stoked- Oohh a bfp might be coming ur way??!
Mum22- Going insane yet in the 2ww or staying nice and busy??
Hi to everyone else too xxx
AFM- Well i realised today why im feeling so sh*tty, sad and angry all at the same time! PMS!! What else! Ive been feeling like this since yesterday.. and pms shld start coming right about now i think. Havent had much experience with the whole pms thing since i havent had many cycles since coming off bcps.. but im pretty sure this is it!! Am thinking im going to be keen to test soon just so i show myself that im not pg and i can start being sad now and get over it sooner!! So yes ladies not much positivity going on here!
Oh and my MIL is annoying me!!! Her and her partner are staying at our place at the moment.. sadly dh is away at work so im copping it all!
Ok number 1.. 2 of our dogs escaped this morning because they left the door open.. one of them being heidi, our girl that is going to be put down if she has another fight with the neighbours dog, so i come home 4 hrs later and there both outside still! Grrr!! Thank god also that our pup hung around and didnt go missing again! I called them to ask if both dogs had been in our yard when they went out and they said defintely yes.. bullsh*t!!
Number 2.. MILs partners son has cerebal palsy.. they cld have slept him on the foam mattress on the floor but instead they sleep him on the $2000 bed and he wets his pants! Our house now stinks!! The wee has gone right thru the mattress and bedding.. now forshelby thats something to vomit over! And they havent even commented on it or said they will attempt to air the mattress out or anything.
Number 3.. MIL was trying to be helpful and hang my doona on the line once it had been washed but she must have let it sweep across the ground whilst she was hanging it cos it has a big dirty patch on it now! Grrrr! I left it on the line hoping she wld notice but she obviously hasnt. I know im being a bit silly being cranky about this cos she was trying to help but i cant help it!!
And finally number 4! I went to put rubbish in our wheelie bin expecting it to be empty since it was bin day this morning and it is still chocabloc full..with maggots!!! I had put it and the recycling bin out last nite.. they must have heard the recycle truck go past assumed they had both been emptied and brought them back in!! GRRRRR! And to top it off i had put fish guts in there from a fish that dh had filleted a few days ago (it had been in the freezer since). I dont think they have noticed its still full yet.. they better say something once they do tho!!
Its so frustrating cos if it was my parents i wlda had a big argument about all the things they did wrong.. but i just cant since its the inlaws!!!
I told dh all about it before and he got really angry and told me to put them on the phone.. but i cldnt! that wld be worse!
I also told him it was all just pms on my behalf and not to worry or get angry.. he didnt agree with me tho haha he said i defintely had reason to be angry! They are leaving on friday but will be back for a few days a week later.. i will defintely enjoy the break!! Oh and dont get me wrong i normally get on with my MIL really well.. we talk on the phone every couple days.. but this has just got me so angry!!! Would u girls be furious???!?
Anyway enough ranting and raving.. chat to u all again tomoro! xxx
OMG I had to pop in quickly and say congrats Bons!!!
Now I'm just waiting for Kell to announce :-P
I have been reading all of your posts! I'm on my mobile so I'll pop in tomorrow for a full catch up.
OMG Reet you have got a nightmare there!!! You need to get a serious mattress protector for that next visit!!! I agree with you re the can say anything....it is sooo frustrating!!
Oh, am a little over the TWW already last cycle with the m/c I had a temp drop today followed by AF tomoz making my luteal phase only 5 friggin days. Today my temp has remained the same as yesterday so I am hopeful that Af will not be paying me a visit tomorrow at least. Tho by the cramps I am having I doubt she will be far off making a visit to me.
Forshelby, I dunno, I just dont feel + this month. I just feel sad and depressed about it actually if I were to tell the truth and I know this is only my 2nd month of trying it doesnt make it any easier cos I am sick of having the dream of BFP and it just hasnt happened and I very much doubt I am preg as I said above by the AF style cramping I am currently having. It is in my tummy.....awful and my sides and my back.
Reet - i hope today is a better day for you
Mum22 - felt sad here, tooooo....
yeh.. did test this morning -:bfn:!!!! So, what is it? Cycle got major delayed n mucked up? But my last AF was good n on time in terms of timing n volume n symptoms. oh dear will need to see if bb still sore today...
woke up with sweat in the middle of the night for the last few nights and we don't run the heater all nite if not DH will nse bleed. Oh... my body is driving me crazy... i think i must be over analysing...:wall:
ladies, do u all get really bad cycles AFTER M/C? I know the first one is a bit un predictable, but how about the subsequent ones?
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Hello everyone..
Reet it sounds like you're NOT having a good time at the moment...i hope things get better soon
Bon.....WOW congratulations!!!!!!!!!!! very exciting..hope you're ok
MUM 22.....i hope you get a positive soon and feel a little better
Ajello..thanks for you're posts
and thanks to everyone else..
I finally had a positive OPK test yesterday....i was so excited so we have done the baby dance heaps in this last week and the last couple days....hopefully that sperm catches an eggie....now i have a 13 day wait.....i have to make myself not test early.....i always have a habit of testing early and then becoming obsessed...i know its silly but i already feel pregnant....and feel symptoms..my stomach is bloated and my boobs are hard and the veins are popping... but it must be because im o'ing or left over hormones...or just wishful thinking
Would you're body react quicker to pregnancy being i only had the D&C two weeks ago???
I hope you all have a good weekend...and loads of baby dust to everyone
BFN took a first response this morning and not even the hint of a line
i have no idea where AF is - how can i go from a 26 day cycle last month to who knows how long this one :wall:
and why are my temps still so high!!!!
i hate my body today - im wondering if i need to see someone or wait it out a few more months :shakehead:
and i let myself get my hopes up for nothing again
i feel pretty low today - sorry to be such a downer
Kell sounds promising still. Maybe it just implanted later or something that all governs the preg hormone levels. Try testing again in a few days!! Very promising with high temps!!
Melster, I think I may be over it....seriously debating if I can handle this whole TTC thing.....not that I have admitted it until just this very moment......I am thinking I will probably give it a shot this month (obviously since in am DPO) and next month and if it doesnt work I am going to count it as I am lucky to have 2 and stop TTC. That is what I am thinking!! Melster hope you caught the eggie!! Isnt it sooo exciting when you get that +OPK I find it hilarious how excited I get!!
Ajello, it is crap having a downer of a day isnt it.....I feel like just sitting in the corner and crying....not sure about that one. Hope your day improves!!
The first response are pretty accurate arnt they?
I feel pretty moody and *****y today so i think the witch is on her way
Can i join you in the corner what a crap day!