Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2010

Melster~ Great news darl, praying for you that bub stays safe and snug for the next 8 months darl. I feel for you in your situation darl, we are all here for you.

Hi girls, I hope everyone is well and looking forward to the weekend! Found out today me and hubby are "normal", no chromosome abnormalities :leap: so we delighted about that. Hopefully that lowers the risk somewhat of another embryo with downs... Start my bloods tests next Tuesday, so hope to have the frozen embryo transfer soon!! Happy days!

Sweetie~ Awesome news darl that is wonderful. Good luck with your BTs darl and hoping you can have your transfer soon followed by a HNH BFP.....

Melster, So happy you have a heartbeat, sending lots of :stickyvibesgirl: your way :)

Sweetie, Glad your blood tests came back good, heres hoping you have a BFP real soon :)

Hi girls, quick update & a wwwhhhoo from me, I finally got a positive opt tonight !! Day 22 !! I was seriously getting quite down about it all not happening, at least now we can b in with a chance !

Oh thats awesome news minniemouse!!! So very happy for you, and now I hope you guys get that BFP at the end of your cycle!! Fingers crossed xoxoxo

Mel, hooray for a heartbeat! I do understand about all scans being filled with fear. No fun at all. Hopefully it was just one of "those stupid pregnancy things." :stickyvibesgirl:

Minniemouse- great news! Quick, wrestle your DH to the ground and have your wicked way!
Sweetie- that's excellent to know as well, a huge weight off your mind. Sending :bfp: to you both!

glad everything is ok Melster ! You had me worried about you ;)

I'm pleased to say we are having fun, trying this month for a change, even if it's not our month, !!!

Take care ladies xxx

Thanks chixs for your lovely comments, much appreciated. :redface: Congrats Melster, you must be over the moon everything looking fantastic for your wee one! :dance:

Wishing :pink-babydust: to all and loads of :BFP: for December! :angelic:

minnie.....congratulations on the o babe....i hope u can an eggie


thanks ladies.....sorry i have been a bit consumed...ill try and catch up on everyone

atm....still having a couple spots and a couple pains.......and am feeling pretty sick all day every day......i seriously could punch my husband....it is his fault but i seem to be really angry.....and really upset........every pain and every spot makes me wonder if this is it....i keep wondering if the baby is alive........u would think after the news i would be happy........but i am filled with fear..........hopefully things emotionally will settle soon.....i have a scan friday so now that will be as nerve racking as the last one.....

thanks girls,

i had positive opt for 2 days and has faded again today so im happy the signs seem to be there that i have ovulated (or about to), i will have a blood test next week to confirm, we have been busy dtd all week so we should be in with a chance :crossfingers:

who else is in the 2ww ? (im not sure if i am yet or not)

Melster: sorry you are still having blood and pain, i can imagine how that would be making you feel after having had 3 m/c myself, im sending you sticky vibes and hoping things settle down, it sounds like you need to have a big chat with dh and explain how stressful and upsetting this is to you, good luck at your next scan, i hope you see a bigger little bubba in there.

clairesmummy: do you think you have ovulated yet ? i need someone in the 2ww with me (well i hope to find out im in the 2ww)


we are going away tomorrow for a week so i will only have my phone to check in with you all, i hope everyone has a good week and there is another bfp for someone just around the corner

Minnie~ Great news that you are either O'ing or very close to O'ing hun. I'm now at CD28 and still no sign whatsoever that I have O'd.....:wall: I have very very very tender nipples atm and just feeling like crap generally. Think I'm just so over the waiting to O and I can't wait to see if the Clomid does the trick and makes me O. So sorry hun I don't think I'm in the 2WW with you. And if I was I am certainly not in the running for a BFP this cycle......lol.....
BBL for more persies going to watch a movie, Did You Hear About The Morgans with Hugh Grant in it. Hope it's as funny as the shorts of it looks....

Hi girls I am lurking around here just not much to say!
Melster - fx for you babe.
Minnie - yay for o, that egg has no chance of eluding those swimmers!
Clairesmummy - how annoying babe, I hope you have o'd and get a sneaky little BFP with those sensitive nipples!

Joeve~ Won't be any BFP for me this cycle cause apparently you have to DTD to get a BFP.....lol.....I just wish DF knew that....lol...I have already told him that he wanna get his act together for our Cloimd months as I don't wanna be wasting money on buying tablets if we aint gunne DTD......lol......I had sensitive nipples last month as well all the way through the last few weeks of my cycle up until just before AF arrived they just weren't this tender......had some very sharp pains in my lower abdomen tonight right about where my right ovary is maybe that's an O sign.....Don't know just grasping at straws feels like I am waiting forever again.

Melster I really hope the spotting stops, its not good having that, but hope your scan goes well on Friday!

minniemouse, I think I am now CD20... The past few days I've had lots of eggwhite/watery CM... so have no idea if I am O now, i aren't really tracking it cos i just want it to happen and not worry about if i am or not, but we have been DTD so Im sure if I have O we are in with a chance :)

Clairesmummy, So sorry things aren't going your way with DTD and your DF... I really hope things change for u real soon so your clomid can do its job and you guys can have a BFP real soon :)

Big hellos to everyone else :) lots of :bluedust: and :stickyvibesgirl:

AFM, our open home was very quiet, only 1 group came thru but they liked wat they saw, just aren't sure what they are after as still selling their own home... and checked out the place we liked but as much as the house is nice, the land is no good at all :( so back to the drawing boards...still wish we could do the big move to Bundaberg! but means DF has to get a new job
Pretty sure im on CD20.... and have been giving it a good shot this month!

Ok so first of all sorry for the all about me post girls, I will come back later and do some persies for you all. Righto so here goes nothing....lol...last night while posting I was sure I was never going to O again this cycle then looking at my charts I thought I may have on CD25 but them kept getting low temps every morning and FF was showing no O at all yet. Took my temp again this morning and I have gone from the last 2 morning being 36.2 up to 36.5 this morning and now FF is saying I did O on CD25 which is in fact the day after we DTD, so I guess I am now 4DPO and YES MINNIE I am in the 2WW with you hun. FX for you that you get your BFP we have only DTD once the night before I O'd so I don't think I am in with much of a chance this cycle ladies it has never happened before for me so I certainly have no high hopes about getting a BFP this month. But I guess stranger things have happened hey......
xox

Woohoo clairesmummy - we got a bfp last time by only doing the deed cycle day 10 so you could well be in the running this month - FX! You better whip DP into shape tho if there IS to be another cycle - not point taking the pills if you aint dtd. Hope this will be it for you though!!
Melster -FX for Friday lovey. Hope your emotions settle down also....
Mummydeb - sounds like O time is imminent - good luck!! Shame about the open house but it only takes one to fall in love with the house. Also bummer about the land at the house you were looking at. Hopefully something better will come along....
Joeve - good to see you popping in!!
Minniemouse - hope your 2WW flies by - sounds like you've got some company now!
MumtoRomone - hope your devil may care attitude works a treat for you this month!!
KF - hello to you also & anyone else I may have missed.
AFM.....cycle day 12 I think so O day should be anytime now.....
Anyway, bbl for more news!!

Hi everyone.
Minnie- I'm in the 2ww with you and Clairesmummy. Sun Dec 5th is testing day for me. Here's hoping. No symptoms here, though. *sigh*
Melster- I really really hope that the spotting/cramping stops soon. That's no fun at all, and living with the constant dread is just awful.

Even if I do get a BFP, I don't know that I'll be able to enjoy the pregnancy. I was crying into my pillow last night, thinking about Baby Elvis again. What brought this on? Buying a copy of Cosmopolitan Pregnancy. Why would I do something so stupid? Who knows... I think I might chuck the magazine out.