Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2010

ggggrrr girls im so frustrated ! i have been doing opt's for a week now, there has always been a slight line, not dark enough to be considered positive, i didn't get a chance to do one yesterday because we were driving home and today i *think* it is slightly lighter today so now im left wondering if i would have had the positive yesterday.....gggrrr i hate all the guess work when ttc !

militant: good luck getting dh moving to ivf, is he happy to do it ?

melster: fingers crossed for you. my cycles have been a bit all over the place since the m/c's

Minniemouse - Good luck with the testing, let us know how you go..

In regards to DH he will do what needs to be done, he has been away for alot of the last 2 years, so he knew if he kept going away I might be heading towards IVF

Well I'm 7DPO as I know that the light positive was dark enough to be considered positive, and I usually ovulate sometime so.... Hopefully we have no sign of AF next week.....

I have been peeing like crazy for some reason, fingers crossed, waiting , to see if I get a BFP! testing at 12dpo I think, unless anyone has had a BFP before then??????

MilitantVixen ~ Sorry AF arrived for you darl, Good luck with seeing the IVF clinic. I have my FX for you that everything goes well and you get your BFP soon. I know how hard it is when your DH is in the army. My DD's father is in the army as well I was lucky enough though that when we were together he never got sent away from home until after we split then he was sent to Afghanistan for 6 months or so.

Melster ~ keeping busy can be a good thing darl, it will make your days go by quicker for you. I have everything crossed for you and can't wait to read how you are going. Sending you lots of :bluedust::pink-babydust::stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:

Minnie~ I'm so sorry your cycle is being so nutty darl, wish there was a magic wand i could wave to bring us all a normal cycle and our BFPs hun. Sending you lots of hugs darl. I know exactly how you are feeling right now, there is nothing more frustrating than guessing every month when you have O'd if you have O'd or if you are now in the 2WW. I feel your pain darl, hope it all works out for the best for you. Feel free to vent as much as you like hun or if your like me you will just send yourself around the bend wondering WTH is going on........:goodluck::hug:

Mum2Ramone~ Good Luck with your 2WW darl I have everything crossed for you as well. Let us know how you are going with it all and I'm praying AF stays well away from you as well. FX.

AFM~ Well I have nothing at all to say about me only that AF has been in full swing sonce I woke yesterday morning. So I'm guessing that if my OB/GYN wants to put me on Clomid I won't be doing that this cycle if you start at CD5 on it as I will be on CD8 by the time I see him. Oh well looks like another AF coming up at the end of this cycle. Maybe DF will get his spring baby after all, he has always told me he would love to have our bub born in Spring so I guess Ive got to wait until January for a BFP......lol......2011 night be a better year for us. ;)

minniemouse....the not knowing is a killer isnt it....maybe just ttc like it was positive but keep doing the tests just incase...

Militant...well good luck with the ivf..let us know how u go

mumtoromone...good luck....hope u get that bfp

clairesmummy.......getting closer to ur appointment....not long now

atm.....well im at that stage of ....im pregnant.....nah dont be silly ur not pregnant....im pregnant.....nah ur not.....so i am doing my own head in...trying to rationalise everything....still peeing and on and off queezy...still strange things going on down below and bad back ache.......but i know deep down i have had these symptoms and not been pregnant so i am trying to be realistic as well...........so the waiting continues

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Hi Tegam! Great to see your ticker 'ticking' away nicely! I still stalk you guys from time to time! Thanks for the well wishes... i will be popping in to let you know when i finally get my BFP xx

I don't really know what is going on... i have kind of stopped bleeding! I am definately not PG as i had a blood test, but tis strange.... hmmmm.

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I know its not like you could ever forget Stoked but i did hid my ticker to try to soften my post! Thanks for stalking us, still wish you could be with us. And please do let us know how you go!! Huge hugs!

hi all,i've got lots to catch up on,i have been reading just haven't felt up to posting.Thinking of you all.I'm due to test on Saturday,tried naturally this month so chances aren't good....

Morning my beautiful ladies..

Were is everyone its very quiet...

Hey mathews mum...i hope you are ok then!!!!!!!

ATM..we go away tomorrow, so i have been busy organising myself.....ill try and come on as much as i can..but i will be away for two weeks..i dont know how i feel at the moment..im convincing myself i am not pregnant so the disappointment wont break me....i go from thinking i am pregnant, to thinking i am just making up signs or making my body do them...still peeing but im not sure as much...and still feel queezy...my cervix is lowish with a little a cm....i had a killer headache last night...it was so bad....but im wondering if its pregnancy or just hormones....the wait it killing me...but af flow will be even worse while away........

:noaf: :pray: pretty please :pray: Bring that little angel to me that i know is up there waiting to come down........i want to be a mummy again........please please make it this time.....

Hi Ladies
Hi Matthewsmum ~ :crossfingers: for a natural lil miracle for you!

Melster ~ the signs sound good, the wait is a killer isnt it but there is a light at the end of the tunnel, hang in there and :crossfingers: for you.

Clairesmummy ~ hope you're ok hun. Bring on 2011 for both of us!!

Hope everyone is well - :stickyvibesgirl::bluedust:

Hello Ladies!

Loops, How are you going lovey? Is that a Kelpie in your avi? My neighbour has three Kelpies, beautiful dogs but BOY do they love to bark! haha!

Melster and Matthewsmum, i have everything crossed that this is your month!

Hi everyone else! Sorry i have to run, Archie just LOVES getting into EVERYTHING at the moment and it's hard to keep up! BBL x

MathewsMum ~ Hi hun, hope everything is going well for you this cycle, good luck with Saturday and I'm begging AF to stay away from you darl so you can get your little miracle. Good luck darl, thinking of you and sending you some :hug:

Melster~ All those signs are sounding positive, I would use some reverse physcology on AF and go away fully prepared for her to arrive. Have some fun while you are away and let your hair down. Good luck can't wait to read your news. FX for you.

Loops~ Hey darl, I'm still here lurking around. I'm doing ok counting the days down until Monday. It still seems so far away but slowly getting closer. Hope your doing ok as well been thinking of you. I personally can't wait for 2011 we both have great things coming to us next year darl, I just know it. FX.

Minnie~ How are you going darl? Hope your cycle is working out for you.

AFM~ Who knows what the hang my cycle is doing, I always have AF for 3 days straight with medium flow then 2 days very light. Today is CD3 for me and AF is very light and barely there so only had 2 days of bleeding this cycle. This is getting so god dang frustrating it aint funny, 5.5days to go and I will be seeing my OB/GYN I can't wait to get in there and see what he says. I hope he is a nice DR and is good at explaining things to TTC dummies......lol......maybe they should make a book of TTC for dummies they did one for using a computer........:ROFL: DF is also going to be doing his SA while we are in there as well hopefully this time we will have better luck getting a sample from him........DD won't be with us this time so maybe I will be able to help him out a little.......:redface: So hopefully a few more things will come to light this time next week, :crossfingers: Hope everyone is having a great hump day.

Ok here are all my symtoms...

Aching in ovaries....not so much lately but at the start. it just now comes on and off
Nausea just started a few days ago...maybe 2-3 from memory..it comes on and off but i do feel quiet queesy
Peeing for about 5 days now...still there but maybe not sure as much
Heartburn a couple times
Face hot today and just started feeling snuffly in my nose
Been going to the toilet other end
Teeth are sore like i have clenched
A few twinges in boobs but nothing much tho...bit fuller
Lots of gas both ends
stitch type feeling
from memory i think cm was watery before...but now its kinda sticky
Sleep has been distrupted but could be from other things
Cried last night and feel a bit emotional
Havent been overly hungry..and sometimes off food
Had a bit of an acne breakout
Tired more than normal and even energy wise

Although the other times i think i was more bloated and had more of a heavier feeling down there...

So if i am pregnant great....but if i am not...what are these symptoms...they cant be all in my head, cant they:redface:...it couldnt be pmt could it......i never had all this before...

Ill be 10dpo tomorrow and i am hoping catching the plane etc it will distract me enough to not test......

Thanks stoked and clairesmummy

Clairesmummy.....i hope you get all the answers you need at the dr's as i can feel you're going through so much at the moment and just need to know whats going on.....it wont be long and you'll be at the dr's...ill have to remember to come and check while i am away......

hi ladies,

I have had a crazy few days, ( I posted other threads )
just hanging around.... So I'm 9DPO today.... Hmmm when would be the earliest to test?

My little man was TWO yesterday !!!! I can't believe how quick it has gone !

My little girl just turned two a couple weeks ago.....

Anywhere from about 10dpo.....but you can get false negatives by testing early.....im 10dpo tomorrow and im feeling like caving in ALREADY LOL

Mum2Romone, i got my BFP with DS at 8DPO... i had pretty high HCG levels though so don't be disheartened if you get a BFN if you test early x

Melster, symptoms sound pretty positive! Hope you can hold out to test til when you wanted to wait til!

Clairemummy, my cycle is all weird too! I had AF for 7 days then 4 days (last month) and i'm on CD4 today and it's gotten heaps heavier so who knows!!

Bloody hot in Perth today! I have to go out and do the food shopping too BLERGH!

hi girls,

clairesmummy: i hope the next few days fly by for you !

Melster: sounds like you have a lot of things going on, i hope they are heading in the right direction for you ! have a great holiday ! are you taking hpt's with you ?

mum2romone: fingers crossed you have good news in a few days


matthewsmum: i hope you get good news heading your way too !

hi to stoked, loops and joeve are you still reading ?

afm: i *think* my opt line is fading now, honestly im so confused as i never saw a definite positive, the only thing i can assume is it would have been on sunday when we were on our big drive home and i didnb't test, now i have bad lower back pain and achy legs so im hoping thats a good sign the ovulation has happened or is happening, havent really felt much of anything else except my boobs are so sore from the clomid. so i hope im in the 2ww but im not holding out great hope this cycle !

Hi girls I am back from my sulking after AF! Lets get some BFP's in here, Melster you are due one, MumtoRomone you too for this week!
Hello everyone else, all you ladies in the TWW I hope and pray your BFP's come next week!
I am just tra la laing along in limbo land....my last TWW killed me I was so sure I would be pregnant...so now I am trying to relax a bit!

stoked......yeah ill have to go our food shopping tom in lovely qld.....lol

minnie.....its one thing about those tests u can miss a positive at the blink of an eye.....i started testing twice a day with my internet cheapies....well hopefully it was a positive

joeve.....i was thinking of u....it can be tough but ur right its time to relax a little before o time.......i tend to let loose a bit and drink or go out.....hopefully next time round it will be ur turn

atm......i nearfly caved in testing tomorrow morning at 10dpo....but im worried if i get a bfn it will put a downer on the start of my trip.........but im really aching to do one........but dont know if its a good idea......i had a sickie burp before and i was talking myself into pregnancy.....im going to take some tests with me as well..................wonder if ill cave................lol........the thing is tomorrow ill only be wondering if im pregnant anyways so if i test it wont make much difference will it lol.......