matthewsmum: sorry to hear about the bfn but good news you at least have a plan to go forward with, how long should it take to get some improvements in your levels ?
are you happy with all that ?
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matthewsmum: sorry to hear about the bfn but good news you at least have a plan to go forward with, how long should it take to get some improvements in your levels ?
are you happy with all that ?
Matthewsmum - sorry you got a BFN :(
Minniemouse - hello lovely :)
Clairesmummy are you lurking?
Melster - how you feeling? Still on cloud 9 I hope!
Loops - hello :)
Mum2Romone - how was the test? Have you done it yet?
hi girls,
i just wanted to pop in and wish clairesmummy good luck at your specialist appointment tomorrow, i hope it goes well and let us know how you go
melster how are you ? did you test again today ?
im having an awful day, ongoing family drama, i am so sad today, hope i can pick myself up tomorrow
Minniemouse -:comfort:
thankyou joeve
Well didn't need to test because AF came today , whilst at my sons birthday party :(
I sort of expected it soon, as it's been ages, and I've had back pain lately but I was still hoping that it would never come again.... I should be five months pregnant now not doing this, and I don't even feel like trying anymore to be honest.
it's not fun,it's just frustrating, and life consuming, and It seems the more I want it, the longer it takes.
Sorry to vent......
On the plus side , my d&c was oct 7 and BANG Nov. 7, AF back..... Atleast things will be " back to normal now "
long day ladies, sorry to be a drag :(
Mum2Romone - oh no I am sorry AF came. I guess at least you know where you are bang smack CD1 which is horrible but this will be your last one and you start counting down to o from now :hug:
mathewsmum....sorry about the bfn...
Joeve....how u going darl...were r u up too
minnie....sorry to hear ur having family dramas...does it look like u can sort it out...sending hugs
mumtoromone........i remember my first bfn after mc...........its really heart braking and dissapointing......i felt like u did....try and give it a couple weeks and then try again babe.....it has taken me 4months and every cycle was pretty tough.....but look there is a definate light at the end of the tunnel..it can take few months for ur body to get back on track again......this one when i think i finally od i had accupunture...the tea she had given me...had a massage just to help me o....good luck....i hope ur ok
clairesmummy....how r u...have u been to ur app
atm....i took a test today and its defiantly darker now....so whooooo hoooooooo......im still away and im so so tired...ill go to sleep after this post...i can barely keep my eyes open......its really taken it out of me......i have had a few queezy moments....and im so bloated....im starting to put on weight which is not good. And im finding it hard to concentrate....im real hazey....forget what i am talking about etc.......i have my obs appointment in two weeks friday and i have decided ill still go and see what happens...see whether he will check my levels and make sure everything is progressing well......i know he probably wont scan but its just for a bit of reassurance.....it really hasnt quiet settled in yet....i keep looking at the tests lol......i am still in shock...it doesnt quiet feel real.....
Its been hot here...having a good holiday tho..just wish i had more energy....and would stop eating
thinking of u all
Matthew'sMum~ Sorry darl for the BFN, but great news you now have some things to move forward with hun. Sending you some GBH. Take care if you.
Joeve~ I am back in the land of the wonderful net yet again.....lol.....and I was lurking while I was away over the week end......lol......
MinnieMouse~ Thank you so much for wishing me luck for tomoro, we have just got back home and I am about to sit down and write out some questions to ask my FS....Sorry to hear you are having problems now hun, take care of yourself and sending you some hugs as well. And I will let you all know how I went when I finally get home tomoro night.
Mum2Ramone~ So sorry to hear that the wicked witch AF arrived for you darl. Get into some chocolate it's a great mood enhancer darl. Sending you some GBH.
Melster~ WooHoo for the darker line, awesome. Sounds like you are having a great time away. I don't have my appointment until tomoro lunch time, so will let you all know when we eventually get home tomoro night.
AFM~ Well as you all know I had AF on the 1st she left me on the 3rd only to continue spotting up until today where I had another light bleed again. FS tomoz at lunch time have to travel 2 hours to see him so be no news from me until tomoro evening ladies or a little earlier. Hope you all had a great week end, ours was pretty good had a few drnks last night with DFs cousins in Tamworth and had a good laugh n chat.
13.5hours to go until my FS appoinment and I am to tired to be nervous right now. lol
Best of luck for tomorrow Clairesmummy!
GL clairesmummy at your FS appt, hope you start getting some answers and that bfp is round the corner
Best of luck Clairesmummy will be thinking of you today
Another step towards your bfp xoxoxo
Melster: great to hear your line is getting darker. my family fallout happened almost 6 months ago and was over my last m/c, the short story is apart from my dh and kids i have (had) my mum, dad and one brother, anyway when i had my last m/c my mum was completely unsupportive of me, said some terrible things to me while i was still bleeding and cramping from it (along the lines of i don't know why you want another one you have 2 healthy children that should be enough for you etc), i was shocked, i was so hurt i couldn't even speak to her (this all happened in my house), so after an hour she stormed off because she wasn't "welcome here" and left, she then ran to my brother and told him what an awful person i was, same with my dad and that was the end of my relationship with them all, it has been a devastating 6 months for me, i thought families were meant to support you no matter what, i didn't do a thing wrong and ended up with my whole family turning against me because i upset mum !!!!!!
mum2romone: sorry af found you, hopefully we are all setting up for a good cycle this time around
joeve: where are you at with your cycle ?
clairesmummy: hope you are feeling ok this morning
Stoked - Iona - KellBell - Thank you all so much for the wishes of good luck. Right now I sit here thinking I should be in the shower and getting ready we have a 2 hour drive to my FS and have to be there by 12pm to fill out paper work and I have my appointment at 12.30pm. I'm feeling a little nervous but also very much relieved that this is ALL finally rolling along for me....I think I just wanna breathe a HUGE sigh of relief right now as TODAY is FINALLY here. I will be back late this afternoon and I will be definately letting you all know what happened and what my FS wants to happen. I expect to be feeling like a lab rat for the next cycle or so.....lol.....but whatever it takes I WILL BE THERE.
Take care all my lovely supportive BB friends and I will be back soon.
xoxoxox
Hi Ladies
Thanks for asking about me etc.
Minniemouse ~:hug: Really sorry about your family troubles. That sounds horrible your mum doing that. Really hope things improve hun.
Melster ~ very exciting, :crossfingers: tight for you!
Clairesmummy ~ Good luck today hun, hope you get some answers and can move forward quickly to get your BFP! :crossfingers:
Mum2Ramone ~ very sorry about AF arriving and at your sons B'day of all rotten times. You will get there again, keep hoping and trying. You've only just had your D&C so your body probably just needs a bit more time. Goodluck for this month.
Joeve and Stoked ~ hi, hope you're both well :)
Matthewsmum ~ glad you got some answers and can start on getting your body is great shape and then you'll be right. To find out you were low in all those things did you just have to have a blood test? The reason I ask is Im keen to find out if Im lacking in anything which would cause our embryos not to stick. All the best!
Hi to anyone I may have missed and I'm sorry if I have. Hoping everyone is doing pretty well despite our losses etc ~ :grouphug:
AFM ~ Im doin ok despite the no baby. DH just found out last night he got a job he applied for - he is wrapped - no more milking cows for him in a few weeks, he'll be transporting them instead :) And everything else is pretty good too, we are getting our finances sorted, ive started weight watchers to lose a little bit of my tummy LOL and we are just trying to enjoy life and take a breather from TTC. Although I will test for O still but just have some fun ;)
clairesmummy..how did u go darl? U ok?
Minniemouse....wow......i cant believe ur family would do that.....how could that be turned around on u that ur the one to blame.....i dont know all the ins and outs but it sounds like there completely in the wrong and thats such a horrible thing to say to someone when they have just lost there baby.....i hope for u that they realise there wrong and apologise to u......im sorry u feel down babe..
Loops....thanks......hope ww goes well...i have been on it before and its great.....good luck with ur relaxing
atm...been enjoying sunny qld........im so so moody tho and very snappy...i just cant help it.......and im feeling really flabby too........i know i should be appreciative that im pregnant.....and i should stop worrying about my weight........maybe its just the hormones......
Just stalking you clairesmummy for your news
Hi girls:)
Clairesmummy - I am hanging out to hear how you went!
Minniemouse- oh babe sorry to read your story :(
Melster - yes be happy and revel in the pregnantness!!!
Hello everyone else!
AFM - I have the first bits of EWCM and some twinges hinting 'o' could be on the way....now to convince DH to BD but without pressure IYKWIM? I am trying to go with the flow this month....
Good evening all, sorry to keep you all in suspense for so long. :grouphug: to you all for every single one of you that are there for me through all this TTC, I just hope you ALL know how much I truly do appreciate every single one of you lovely caring supportive ladies. Sending you all great BIG hugs. So I don't keep you all sitting around in suspense any longer here is what happened to me today at my appointment. Sorry if it's long winded. Joeve- You have nothing at all to worry about with your first appointment hun.
Got in there DR typed everything he needed to know into his computer, took me straight in and had a good look at my cervix his comment was " Your cervix looks great"
He then did an internal exam and told me my uterus felt great......he then did an internal US and took measurements on my uterus and ovaries, uterus was great in my US right Ovary was great Left Ovary...his comment was have you ever been diagnosed with PCOS........I told him NO.......he kept looking at it for awhile and said I have a fair few follicles on my left ovary but it looks great as well so no PCOS. He finished my internal US and I cleaned up and went back out to him and he told DF everything internally looks great no problems there at all. He explained to us that DF was to have his SA done so we can get that out the road straight away and if his SA comes back good then we will know that we are just dealing with ME. He told us the last thing they want to do is check my tubes so he gave me a presription for Clomid and I'm to start that next cycle 2 tablets (100mg) a day from day 5-day 9 then a BT on CD21 to check my Progestrone levels. So my first appointment is over and done with now to WAIT yet again for my next cycle then start the Clomid and pray it does the trick for me and I O. DF did his SA today his not sure if he gave them enough to test though but we get the results if they can get them this Wednesday for that. So that's everything that happened and now I'm hoping I have a normal cycle this time round and AF arrives soon so I can get the Clomid into me.
Clairesmummy - wow that sounds positive! I am so glad for you. FX you get on the clomid soon! Hmmmm now I am counting down the days til its my turn.....
:) yahhhh
joeve~ My Dr was pretty good and he was VERY straight forward with us no beating round the bush and NO medical talk either he put everything in our words it was great. I thought that they only put you on 50mg of Clomid first up but anyhow he said 100mg so it's 100mg we shall take then....lol......first time I can think of in a long time that I want AF here before I have even O'd.......lol.....I'm still hoping and praying they don't have to check to my tubes.....I'm such a sook.....but it sounds a little scary to me.....But if they need to do that then they will.
Thanks Kell- I also have a very good feeling about this as well, my gut tells me this is the right thing to be doing for us.......Just hoping now that DF had enough stuff in his jar for them to test for us so he don't have to go back through it all again.......I felt so bad for him having to do it, he was quiet embarassed by not getting much in the jar IYKWIM.
oh clairesmummy, that is awesome news....now fx that your body behaves itself and the clomid works and your bfp arrives in no time
Thank you Iona-----I really do FEEL FABULOUS TONIGHT.........Feel like shouting in excitement, I haven't felt this great in such a long long time.
:confetti:Your so close to a BFP i can feel it im excited for you already
ur welcome sweety and don't you worry i will be stalking you all the way until you get your bfp xoxox:
Ohhhhhh thank you so much to you both Kell and Iona...seriously ladies you have both bought tears to my eyes.....Good happy ones that is definately not sad tears. I never thought I would or could have such great caring friends that I have never even met. I love all you ladies on here you are all truly fabulous to me. Thank you
we want you in the Preg thread ill be stalking you too!
Hopefully a sneaky BFP this month :crossfingers:
Clairesmummy- you deserve all the BB love :)
:redface::redface: :grouphug: for all the :goodluck: you are all sending me.....:redface:
Joeve~ Let's hit the BFP run together hun.....lol......I think we are pretty darn close in our cycles, I'm at CD8 today....No sign of O'ing for me yet though I still have AF. My FS told me to count CD1 from the very first day of ANY bleeding or spotting. So the sooner this stops and AF gets back again the better....or as Kell said maybe a sneaky little BFP before the Clomid....lol....maybe who knows. Before I had my DD AF was always hanging around for at least 7-8 days and I have never had her that long since until NOW. So here's hoping anyhow....lol
clairesmummy: so pleased to hear your appointment went well and you sound so happy, it must be such a relief that he took you seriously and has you on a plan to get you that bfp !
thanks for all the support here girls, i was so upset sunday because after 4 months of nothing my dad had contacted me and we had been negotiating to try and meet up and talk about things, i said i would under the conditions that it was only dad, not my mum or my brother and i wouldn't be taking my kids, they have been devastated by all this which is so upsetting for me, anyway we met sun and it turned into a discussion on how upset mum is, how she misses the kids, no acknowledgement of how wrong she (and the others) were and has been in the nearly 6 months since, felt like i was banging my head against the wall, no one seems to get how devastating it has been for me to lose my entire family when i did absolutely nothing wrong. anyway sorry for the drama here, i have lost a lot in the past 12 months and it makes me really sad
on another note, i started clomid last night so im on my way into a new cycle
Minniemouse~ Thank you for the kind words hun, I truly appreciate them. I'm so sorry to hear hun that you are going through such a horrible time with your family darl. Sending you some massive hugs, it's not fair to you that your Dad is only concerned for your Mum darl. I can't offer any words of advice but I just want you to know I am here for you and I pray that everything works out for the best for you and your family soon.
WooHoo for starting your Clomid I am hoping that this round will bring you your BFP this cycle I have everything crossed for you. They say things happen in 3's Melster is our first BFP in a long while so we still have 2 more BFPs coming up girls. Good Luck to you all.
Yay clairesmummy!!!! Perfect results! It sounds like ur body is just being as stupid as mine was.. they said one of my ovaries had a few follicles and thought i had pcos but according to all my hormone levels i didnt... maybe i just had pco?? But the clomid worked a trick! I really dont think i wld be where i am today without it. I thought they wld have started u on 50mg too... atleast u will know that its definitely going to work! :) when u start taking it ill tell u about a few things to expect :)
Oh and dont stress about ur dfs SA.. when dh did his i was like 'is that all?!' ...it really feels like a lot more when im cleaning up haha TMI!!! They only use a little bit to get all the percentages anyway so it will be fine! :)
Oh yay i just knew u were going to leave the appointment happy! Its a great feeling to finally be in control of falling pregnant hey! :)
xx
Reet~ Hell yeah I feel wonderful this morning feels like a huge weight has been lifted off of me it's awesome. DF tells me driving home yesterday that the reason my DR put me straight onto 100mg of Clomid was because he took 1 look at DF and thought **** I better get things happening for this couple straight away or DF will be needing Viagra soon as he gettin a bit long in the tooth he reckons. Well that was the end of me I was laughing so much I had tears in my eyes and couldn't see where I was driving on the road........Cracked me up big time. Be great to get some advice on Clomid hun at least then I will know what to expect from it. Thank you again Reet I miss all you girls soooo much and you all make me feel so special that you all keep checking back with us, thank you and a BIG HUGE :grouphug: to you all. I hope your PGs are all flying by for you with no drama at all girls, I do check in on you all from time to time.
clairesmummy - awesome news honey, so glad things are going well, and your on your way to your BFP!!!
Minnie- So sorry to hear your family treated you like that, big :hug: hun
Me - Just waiting for Af to go away .......
Hi Ladies
Thanks for the congrats for my DH etc.
Clairesmummy ~ So happy for you and excited that your results today were great. All the best for DF's sample, FX'd. You certainly do deserve the BB love and a BFP very very soon. All the best hun, hope the Clomid is just the ticket.
Minniemouse ~ So sorry your dad wasnt there for you as much as you'd like, must be very hard and feeling for you. We are certainly all here for you - (((GBH))). Good luck on the Clomid hun, hoping thats just the ticket for you as well! xo
Joeve ~ all the best for O'ing.
Hi all and hoping everyone is well!
AFM ~ Think Im just coming out of O'ing or just coming into it. Started getting back ache last yestie and did Maybebaby Saliva test which was quite +ve, so we DTD last night. Had also DTD Sat night. Then I did Maybebaby again this morning and it wasnt as strong - looked like I was back into the Transition stage. Also took Temp last night which was 37degrees C and this morn it was only 36.3. I did an OPK about an hr ago and there was a line but lighter than control line. Will do it a little more LOL but I wont be holding my breath or stressing too much about a BFP because after nearly 5 yrs of trying why would I all of a sudden get one now :(
hi everyone, minniemouse-sorry the meeting with your dad wasn't what you needed.Acu thinks i'll still be able to try for transfer in december...joeve-yah for 'o'ing,hope dh co-operates...mum2ramone-sorry af turned up...loops12-i know it's a long shot but something inside us(hope i think)tells us to give it a go,so best of luck.Acu requested bloods & urine to be repeated...clairesmummy-glad app went well.They don't need much sperm for sa .i've been on clomid before ,it has a good success rate.I found it easy to take,can't remember the side effects being to extreme...big hello to melstar,stoked,ionamacca,kellbell & reet...afm-waiting for af,had a few twinges today,so shouldn't be too far away
Clairesmummy - deal a pair of BFP's for us!! xxx
Minniemouse - yay for starting clomid a BFP for you too!
Mum2Romone - I hope AF buzzes off so you can get on with it this month!
Loops - happy bding :) just keep going you never know!
Hello everyone :)
Hmmmm a bit more EWCM so DH is on alert for action tonight!!
mum2romone: i hope af has gone for you and you can get busy for your next cycle :-)
Loops: fingers crossed for you that something unexpected happens for you this cycle :-)
joeve: i hope you put your hubby to good use last night lol
matthewsmum: has af turned up for you yet ? how are you going taking all those tablets ?
hi to melster, clairesmummy, possummagic, and anyone else who is lurking
Hi girls...
Just quickly as I'm on my phone..
So glad to hear everything went well, clairesmummy!
Thinking of you all! Have a lovely day!
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