Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2010

Clairesmummy - loving your attitude at the moment, hope you get one of those annoying ' oh we weren't even trying' up the duffs at the end of the month!!!:lol:
Mum2romone - get dtd girlie and maybe just keep checking CM and chuck out those opk's and I will stop with the preg tests!!
Minniemouse - I have found I always get 2 days of strong opk positives but fat lot of good it did me so i stopped doing them and rely on my CM
Melster - the cervix checker :) I can never really feel much difference up there but great description so I might give it a go next month.
Hello everyone I have missed sorry :)
AFM sore bb's which I usually have 5 days before AF so bit confused maybe I o'd late this month. I am getting blood results tomorrow morning so I can check out my CD 21 progesterone levels which will tell me if I did o.

keep us posted Joeve...
must get to it, though might have to make it in the morning , Dh went to bed early after a 5am start... So not good for ttc...

Yes morning is good if you go back to sleep after :) I do when DH goes to work tired!!

Lol, I'll let you know how I go hahahaha ;)

Mummytotwo~ I know how you feel darl with the lack of getting your mojo on....lol...we are like that this cycle as well......Good luck though and hope you catch that egg of yours......

Melster~ Hope you are feeling a bit better today, just remember all the yuck you are feeling now darl is for a wonderful cause darl to hold that gorgeous little bundle in your arms in 8.5months.

Minnie~ How's things going for you today? Hope you now have O'd and that fertilised egg is making is way towards your BFP darl.

MummyDeb~ We are getting a few horsey lovers in here that is awesome. Love all our horses here to bits and have so much fun with them. hope AF arrives soon for you darl so you can start TTC again. Good Luck darl. And good luck with your Open house on Saturday and you can get it sold, FX for you.

Joeve~ Interesting you have sore BBs......could it be a BFP symptom???? I have my FX for you that it is.........Thank you for the loving of my attitude this month...lol.....Everything thing just feels like to much effort for us this cycle, I feel great not down about no ovulation so far into my cycle again just cruising along and letting whatever be will be IYKWIM. It was all to disheartening to do OPKs and still not getting a BFP with all our good timing with DTD when I O. So ahhhhh who cares what happens this month attitude is in for me, I think that's onle due to NOW finally having a specialist and now I can sit back and let him do his job...:lol: And they say all good things come to those who wait. And I have the Clomid ready for my next cycle (if it ever gets here) so I can be the freak at Xmas time with all the mood swings make for a great story one day.....Even though DF reckons I am already a moody grumpy woman.....lol.....

Stoked, Possum, Loops & MatthewsMum~ Hope all is well with you all thinking of you.

AFM~ DDs at kindy today so it's time for me to work my horses and get it all finished before I have to drive 35klms this arvey to pick my little cherub up, she was telling everyone this morning at kindy about her 2 chickens little hen and big hen she has called them.....lol....I just hope they lay eggs better than what I do......:lol: Or I might have to put them on Clomid as well...Hope everyone has a great day today, BBL for a catch up. Oh and still no sign of Oing today which is CD24 for me looking like another looonnnnngggggg cycle for me this month........Ah well best get to working then. Sending hugs to you all.

How's everyone today?

joeve, have you got your blood test results back today? hope you got some answers :hug:

DH and I have had a good day ( with ds) and Im happy because I should be ovulating, if not today then tomorrow, haven't opk yet but will soon. Just going with the flow this month now and not stressing.....

Though I'm sure at the end of the two Week wait I'll be a fruit loop :)

Hi girls.. On my phone so just quickly..

I'm still here reading! Af is due today, not here yet but I just cried for no reason so I'm sure she is on her way!

Hope you all have a lovely day!

X

Hello, everybody. I thought I might join in.
After losing Baby Elvis in March and the Little One in August/September, we're now trying again. I'm three days into the 2WW. No symptoms whatsoever, so I'm not all that hopeful. We will see.
I hope everybody who is trying gets what they want this cycle. :grouphug:

Stoked~ I have absolutely everything crossed for you that AF doesn't arrive for the next 8 or so months........Hope you are having a great day also darl........

KirstenFleur~ Hi and Welcome sorry it's not under better circumstances though. I will cross everything for you to get your BFP soon darl. I hope your stay in here is short and sweet and I look forward to getting to know you better.

Ok ladies if any of you can tell me what the hang is going on with my body you deserve a badge of honour. I have now had EWCM for the past week and a bit missing a day here and there but mostly had it a week and a bit and now it's like big globs of EWCM when I wipe.........How long should you have EWCM for, I always thought it was for a few days but no more than that. It's not bothering me in any way I have never had this much for this long so I am just curious to find out. We still haven't DTD as yet, DF is having a REAL HUGE slack attack when it comes to BDing this cycle. He even got me to check out if the anti-inflamatories he is taking would decrease his libido.....So I told him just because they are anti-inflamatories doesn't mean they will stop him from getting his game on IYKWIM.........well that was the end of the poor soul he was laughing that much he was crying......lol....lucky he loves me or I think he would divorce me for giving him such a hard time......Off to pick up DD soon all my horses are worked now it looks like it is going to rain here again.....

Hi girls...

Welcome KristenFleur. I am so sorry for your losses xx

Well, Clairesmummy, I think you are my lucky charm!

I just got me a :bluecheer: :bfp: :cheer: !!!!

O. M. G.

Stoked, that's fantastic! Congratulations!
:happyforyou::happyforyou::happyforyou:

Clairesmummy - I don't think a week of EWCM is anything to panic about...... It's a bit more than usual, but that can only be a good thing. I say go for it, girl... as soon as your DF gets over his slack attack that is. :)

Stoked - OMG!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! :o :dance: CONGRATULATIONS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

stoked - I am Stoked for you hahahaha YAY!!!!!!!!!!

:cheer:STOKED~ WOOT WOOT WOOT WOOHOO Hun that is just BLOODY AWESOME........OMG I am just sooooo happy for you hun, and if I am your lucky charm I feel totally priveledged to bring you such a wonderful surprise......I hope you can see me :dance::dance::clap::clap: where you are cause hun you deserve it all......Congrats again darl. :bluecheer:

Forshelby~ That's good then I was getting a little bit of thinking happening in head that I was turning into some type of EWCM freak.......lol......And I may have to pull out some of that lingerie tonight maybe that will put DF in the mood......lol.....:shhh: :lol:

:happyforyou:OMG!! So happy for you Stoked!!! Such wonderful news!!! All the best for a very happy and healthy pregnancy and lots of sticky vibes xoxo:stickyvibesgirl:

Stoked: fantastic news hun !! congrats to you :clap::dance::leap::happyforyou::stickyvibesboy::s tickyvibesgirl:

clairesmummy: i have cycles where i had ewcm for weeks every day, so can't really help you, but good luck if you get DH in the mood, maybe he is saving himself up to give it a good crack for your clomid cycle lol

kirstenfleur: welcome to our group

joeve: are you going to test again ? fingers crossed for you if you do


mum2romone: how was your opt today ?

afm: still hanging in there, opt STILL negative, day 20 !!! gggrrr still got some discomfort so hopefully any day now

Stoked :happyforyou::happyforyou::hooray:

woohoo Stoked - very chuffed for you.
Here's to a H&H 9 months :)

Clairesmummy - I always say better too much than not enough of the slippery stuff.. LOL. And I have three words for you. PUSH UP BRA. Worked for me :)

Forshelby~ LOL.......I don't own a push up bra.........lol......maybe a few words may get him going.....IYKWIM....lol

hi ladies

today or tomorrow is the big day! o Day lol

thankfully we had a great day today and subsequently a great night ;)

How is everyone else traveling.....?

Mum2romone - go girl get that egg!!!

I'm trying, I'm trying ;)

hee hee

Just in to send lots of :bluedust:and :stickyvibesgirl:...and hoping all the girls who are about to O or are O'ing Good Luck and catch that egg!!!!

AFM.... Still waiting to see if AF shows up...have tried 3 times the past few days but still not expecting to get preg straight away... and having such a quiet day at home, just wanna get out but have no funds for petrol... so can't really go anywhere :( Was meant to catch up with some friends but one isn't feeling so well so have postponed it... Oh wells!!

AF arrived this morning, I am so sad..........why couldn't it have worked this month?

Joeve~ I'm so sorry AF arrived darl, sending you some massive cyber hugs. Have a nice hot bath and a cuppa and some choc cake hun it always makes me feel better.

Thankyou so much girls! You have all been so supportive :hug:

Joeve, I'm so sorry about AF arriving :hug:

xxxx

joeve: so sorry, big hugs to you, its hard to pick yourself up and dust yourself off after af arrives. have you got your clomid ready to go in the next few days ?

mum2romone: yay for positive opt, at least one of us is going to ovulate !

mummydeb: i hope your day has gotten a bit more exciting than you thought it was going to be ! when is/was af due for you ?

oh Joeve, so sorry babe, Get out that Clomid, it's not fair ..... for Christmas I want to get you a BFP all of your own !!!!!

:hug:

Hi Lovely Ladies

Stoked ~ Very :happyforyou: YAY! All the best for a H&H 9 months! :clap:
Joeve ~ Very sorry hun :comfort:. Goodluck for the next try, dont give up hope xo
MummyDeb ~ hope AF stays away! I love horses too and dont have one at the moment but hope to have another horse in the not too distant future. They are such beautiful creatures arent they.

Hope everyone is travelling well and Im sending out lots of :bluedust::stickyvibesgirl:

AFM ~ Just waiting for AF to show, Im at CD30, usually my cycles are about 34 days but I really feel she is just on the door step. Ive only just realised too that if our BFP in Feb had of stuck around we would probably have a child in our arms righ about now :(

Joeve- so sorry to hear your news.
Have a nice glass of wine or something you enjoy (choccie cake sounds good Clairesmummy).
Here's looking to your next cycle - you are now one step closer to your BFP.
Bring on the clomid & your BFP!!!
Hi to everyone else - BBL!

Joeve- so sorry to hear it didn't happen this cycle. Sending you heaps of positive thoughts for the next one. In the meantime, to the wine! Or chockie cake! Or blue cheese!
(not all together though, that'd taste odd.)

Still no symptoms here. Nothing at all! Not even a cramplet.
Roll on December 5th, that's testing day and at least I'll know one way or the other.

stoked....congrats..

Sorry about the me post.....im completely freaked out and extremely worried as i have have just had a little bit of blood and after the mc this has completely scared me and i cant find my breath....i know it can be common in pregnancy but not with someone thats had a mc.....i feel the hope melting away from me.........what am i going to do

Melster, phone your Dr first thing in the morning and get a referral for a scan. They may be able to do it the same day. Maybe read some positive stories on BB re bleeding in early PG to try to reassure yourself tonight. I know how horrible it is. It is the most stressful time ever.
I know this is probably not going to reassure you much right now but my best friend bled for two weeks at around 7weeks and everything was fine.. She is now 25 weeks. Please try to relax. Big hugs. We are all here for you xx

melster: sending big hugs and :stickyvibesgirl::stickyvibesboy:, i second trying to get a scan and maybe even some serial hcg's done, i hope that is the last you see of any blood for a long time

Melster - hope everything is just fine with bubba & it is one of those "normal" things that happen in early pg.
Unfortunately once you've had one or multiple m/c's the innocence of pg is gone somwhat :(
A scan would be good to put your mind at ease - hoping everything turns out well. Hugs xxxx

Melster- thinking of you. I know the horrible feeling when you see blood- it's like being punched in the stomach. I hope you can get a scan that shows everything's fine and you have a completely troublefree pregnancy hereafter.

Joeve, I am so sorry hun that AF turned up :( sending you big hugs :hug:

Melster, Oh hun I really do hope its just a bleed thats nothing serious...how scary :( sending you lots of big hugs as well :hug: i know I would be freaking out xoxox

MinnieMouse, I don't know when AF is due...I had my DnC on the 12th Nov, had slight spotting but bleeding was finished by the 14th..so do i count that as the start of my cycle? So new to all this..we have now tried 4 times after last night hehe...

Big hugs and lots of :bluedust: and :stickyvibesgirl: to everyone xoxoxox

Not much to report from me other then I had a hard day yesterday, got so upset with a couple of friends but was cos i was having a hard day... but managed to sort things out, and well last night we DTD :) was so nice... Really hoping AF doesn't come and I'm a lucky one to fall preg straight away, but think thats wishful thinking!

hey

i have had no more blood yet...and have been having on and of period type pain but not stabbing pain......im too scared to have a scan....mum wants me to go in but i think i am too petrified.....the bubs died this time last time....i feel sick as well so not sure if its morning sickness......