Trying to Conceive after Miscarriage or Loss ~ November 2010

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Hello ladies...

I am sorry AF arrived Clairesmummy. It did for me too, just last night

Things are looking up for you Melster! Goodluck!

Loops, like Forshelby said, it WILL happen one day... you'll get your baby. I just hope it is sooner rather than later for you xx

Hi everyone else

Well AF came for me lastnight. This cycle was another 25 dayer... i hope it is not a sign for things to come! Although, i guess it makes the wait shorter for the next round! Off to the Dr again tomorrow for all my test results.

Hope you all have a great day x

Saw your name Stoked and just had to come and say HELLO! Hope that your TTC is a short journey!

clairesmummy and stoked....sorrry about af ladies.........

clairesmummy....i suppose for u its kinda a relief at least now u have finally got af and now u can moved on

stoked...yeah i had an early one last cycle...8 days...it does make the cycle come round quicker.....

atm....i am about 6 or7 dpo but not exactly sure......least af hasnt come not like last cycle.......i felt so so sick this morning but its past now......i have been peeing for the last few days but i dont think i have an infection or anything.....its been really clear.......and sorry about the info but kinda smells like fluid..........i have had creamy cm and my cervix is a bit lower.......been having on and off ovary pain.....boobs are ok...just a bit tingly at moments and a bit achy......been wanting to go to the toilet at the other end too......so its going to be very interesting for the next week........stay away af.........

Stoked - So sorry hun that AF arrived for you, I hope she is kind and leaves you quickly darl. Sending you some massive hugs.

Melster - I don't know if I would call it a relief as I was starting to take all the signs as good things about to happen, so no real relief here. The only releif I will get is when and if my gynae can tell me why I can not fall pregnant. Good luck with this cycle and your BFP is just around the corner.

AFM - Not really on a downer today trying to stay strong and hold onto hope until I see the gynae next monday. Still have a headache today obviously an AF thing nothing more than some streaking on loo paper when I wipe so far but AF has got to be on the way for me. With out living in hope I have nothing so here's to hoping and praying that this gynae can do the trick for us.
And if he can't well we will be learning to live with the things we already have in our life that we are so greatful for and moving onto other things for our future.

sorry clairesmummy.......well i hope ur drs app comes around real quick....

Hi Tegam! Great to see your ticker 'ticking' away nicely! I still stalk you guys from time to time! Thanks for the well wishes... i will be popping in to let you know when i finally get my BFP xx

I don't really know what is going on... i have kind of stopped bleeding! I am definately not PG as i had a blood test, but tis strange.... hmmmm.

Morning all~ Well AF has definately arrived for me now and the cramps are really hurting this time around. really bad lower belly pain right where my ovaries are, I'm taking this as NOT a good sign at all. Have taken to tablets and they are not even shifting it a little bit. So once again no BFP for me this cycle hurry up and bring on next monday please. 7 days to go until my appointment with the gynae......

hi girls we are back from melbourne

clairesmummy: sorry to hear af arrived for you and is being really painful, i hope it settles quickly for you and next week comes around quickly !

Stoked: also sorry to here af found you too !

melster: fingers crossed you are about to start a bfp run in here ! how are you feeling today ?

afm: day 20 and still no sign of ovulation, i hate my long cycles !!!

Minnie~ Good to have you back again, hope you had a great time in Melbourne darl. Wow your cycle seems to be flying by CD20 already only seems like last week you had AF, I hope that egg of yours decides to come out and play soon darl, good luck and FX for you.
Melster~ How are you feeling this morning, like Minnie I have my FX that you can kick start this thread with a BFP darl, keep us posted pleaseeeeeee.......no pressure darl just would love to have another run of BFPs in here I think we are well over due for some by now.......lol.....Good Luck..
Mum2Ramone~ How are you going do you know if you have O'd yet? FX you are in the 2WW darl. Hope you are feeling ok.
Stoked~ Hope AF is being kind to you and not giving you to much trouble. FX O time comes around quickly for you hun.

stoked....i hope ur cycle sorts it self out...

Clairesmummy....sorry about af.....i hope ur app comes around real quickly and u get some answers.....have u tried nurp plus for the pain?

Minniemouse....welcome back.....long cycles can get very frustrating....hopefully u will o soon...

Atm........well no signs of af so at least im not early this cycle......im still peeing and have on and off sickness....and overy pains here and there......cm is still creamy..hasnt dried up or anything....but thats about it at this stage........i kinda feel pregnant but i dont know if its in my head or not......just wanna get past the next few days...i have heaps on...cleaning...packing...and sorting stuff out...so hopefully i can keep myself preoccupied.........hopefully i can be the one that brings that bfp train......i felt queezy like this with dd......so i have got everything crossed its that and not sickness......i feel slightly positive....but i guess time will tell

Hi Ladies

Stoked ~ thanks hun xoxo. Sorry AF arrived but hoping there is still a chance you could be PG.

Clairesmummy ~ terribly sorry to hear AF arrived hun, hope your Gyno appointment comes around quick and you can get some answers. Big hugs

Melster ~ FX'd tight hun, we need a BFP in here and I really hope it is you!

Minniemouse ~ GL hun, hope you 'O' real soon.

Thanks ladies..

Definately not PG this month, so said my blood test!

Good news is that i DID ovulate this month (according to my hormone tests) so that is a relief. I am about to join a private health fund because my GP wants me to start seeing a OB or Gyno now and then have constant monitoring when i finally do get pregnant.

Better get on the phone then!

Have a good day ladies!

Clairsmummy: i'd be happy to be cycle day 20 if i ovulated on day 14 like i should, then i would be half way through the 2ww, so frustrating having to wait over 3 weeks to ovulate rather than the "normal" two

Stoked: sorry to hear about the bfn but good news that at least you ovulated

loops: nice to see you still here, how are you feeling ?

Melster: are you going to test early ?

Minnie~ I know how you feel with waiting for O day. It's so frustrating that it's not funny darl, I feel for you darl. FX it happens soon for you hun.

Loops~ How are you feeling darl, hope you are having a great time and kicking back and relaxing as well darl.

Stoked~ WooHoo for O'ing that's wonderful news. My GP told me that I should join a private health fund also to see an OB/GYN but when I rang to make my appointment with the gynae they told me not to worry about that as you get most of it back on Medicare. I rang MBF to ask them about coverage for seeing a gynae and they told me they don't cover it and there's a 12month waiting period before they will cover you, and MBF told me that they would only cover me for any hospital stays no proceedures that may need to be done. Good Luck darl I hope it all goes great for you keep us posted darl.

Sorry ladies haven't had a chance to read all of the posts in detail and reply.

Sorry to all of those that have AF, wishing you all of the best this month.

My AF has also arrived today

Since hubby is finally home tonight (he's military) I have put the foot down and told him that we are going to consult with the IVF clinic to see if they can't give us extra help considering he's away so much!

stoked...great news that u od.....

Minnie...how long are ur cycles? Are they always that way

i shouldnt probably test early...but i will probably cave in....im trying to be strong tho....wait as long as possible

militant...sorry about af....sounds good about consulting with ivf

atm....well i have been busy today but also so overwhelmingly tired....and body tired....had a nap with dd....i have still been feeling on and off queezy......got so much to do tomorrow i hope im not this tired.........if im not pregnant something else is defiantly going on......