TTC after Miscarriage or Loss ~ August 08

Jen - I keep thinking about the force field (hopefully the power of positive thinking will work). Mmmmmm, can you get your mum to send me some cheesecake. Yep, youngest of 7, mum has been married twice (first DH died - he's the father to the eldest four) and then my dad has the other three (der, that sounds stupid). My eldest brother died (he was 17) when I was 3mo in a car accident, so obviously I don't remember him - they say he was all over me whenever he came from work he would come and get me out of bed to play with me. I'm everyone's favourite (they used to buy me toys when I was little), shame they grew up and got married and had families of their own. I could still get them to buy me toys. :rofl:

PBStar - sit back and enjoy the ride. congratulations are now in order :clap::clap::cheer::wiggle::excited::happyforyou: there. I think that covers it.

Where there's hope - glad your feeling a little better and back amongst us.

WTH - Welcome back chicky. Sorry you have to be here with us, but glad you have chosen to spend your month with us. Cause then you'll be off again I am sure. :hug:

Jen - Thermometer (sorry, forgot who I was talking to!) I do NEED a laptop. I have told DH. We have been looking, but just waiting another month or so, so we can get the one we want for a reasonable price.

AFM - This time tomorrow I will have been in the car for 7 and a half hours. Ouch!

:grouphug:

:pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust::pink-babydust::bluedust:

PBSTAR - Congrats hun :hug: I wish you the best sweet heart. You deserve it.

Issi- I pray that you get a suprise BFP hun :hug: Hang in there, How many DPO are you again??

Joey- Alot of the time when I was pregnant I would get those same O twinges it was like Ugh, I'm pregnant why do I feel like I'm Oing, So that could be a good sign (if you don't normaly get those after O) :hug: Hang in there..

mollycat and jen, you are both sweethearts. thanks for all my little cheerleaders and stuff

i wish there was a smilie thing to show the force field- maybe like a little luke skywalker waving the light saber around- i am sending heaps of those to both of you

WTH- so glad to see you back, hope this time before you can officially TTC goes quickly :hug:

Ok so I guess I just needed a nap after work because I'm feeling much better now ... :) thanks for all the kind words and hugs girls I love you guys !!! :hug:

Jen AF is packing her bags and getting ready to leave this is my second cycle where I'm heavy for 3 days and then spot for a day or so still don't know what day I O'ed on or how long my lp is I'm so lost on that ...

Joey you leaving us again already :( I wanna take a vaca so bad right now I have 4 weeks of vaca time I have not used ...

Pbstar yay for you starting to feel a little pg I'm wishing you a h&h 9 months sweetie !!! :hug:

Hi wonderful ladies

KL, Issy - sore BB's must be going around.... I have started geting them too praying there a good sign for us all and not just womens stuff

Tut - how cute you have a little belly, you must be soooo excited :loveshower:

Rach - chin up darlin... hope you start to feel better soon... keep chatting to us and you will see there is hope for you too :hug:

Chappas - my silly cycle did the same last month.... AF was 6 days late and I will still getting BFN's.... maybe go and get a BT

Jen - I was also excited to get two lines on the OPK test... yes you should ov same day or day after the + catch that :sperm:

WTH - great to hear from you :hug:

Joey - when do you come back from skiing??? Hope your ride down is safe. The roads are pretty awful at the moment due to the snow and ice. Our 5 hour trip took 7.5 hours to get home as there were 3 diversions due to fatalities... - be safe and have fun !!!

Pbstar - :happyforyou::excited::excited: wooooooohoooooo can we now celebrate loudly??? When are you going to get a BT?? The herbs sound gross although I am sure you are willing to do anything to keep that littlwe bub sticking

AFM - DH is flighing to QLD today for a bucks weekend (his Bro is getting married next month) so I am home all alone. What should I do this weekend ladies, thinking a movie, breakfast on Sunday - what else??

WTH--It's so nice to see you back and posting again--obviously none of us want you to have to be here, but you know what I mean, I just missed hearing from you! You're never far from my thoughts! :hug:



joey--Make one of your swooshes for me! Hope you have a safe trip! :hug:



:hello: Babyfever! Hope you're doing well!



pbstar--I would love to see a Luke smilie wielding a light saber!



Ok,I have a question for anyone... since I got a + OPK today, do I need to bother doing another one tomorrow? No, right? Thanks for the help, girls!

thanks toccara and easha

will prob do BT's next week, i'll let you know when i get results

easha i would go and get a mani and pedi, then bring home some choccy and dvds and spend some quality time with your doona and the couch...oooh i'm jealous!

jen i have heard with the + OPK that once you get it you should stop doing them

just go and catch that egg

and have fun doing it ;)

Toccara--So glad to hear you're feeling better! Naps are amazing, aren't they? Yay for AF packing her bags! :clap: I'm telling you, you should chart... it would be good exercise for my brain to have another chart to stalk! You want me to be smart, right? :rofl:



:woot: Thanks, Easha! I'm going to hunt that little egg down... I've told DF he has to send out the troops! :sperm:

Ooh, enjoy your quiet weekend--spoil yourself! What movie are you planning to see? Shopping is always fun! Mmm, and breakfast out is always yummy! Hope you enjoy!

Thanks, pbstar! Just wanted to send you your own private supply of :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy: :stickyvibesgirl: :stickyvibesboy: Lot's of :goodluck2: and lots of :pray: for a healthy, happy pg'cy! I'm so, so happy for you! :happyforyou:

Easha I agree with pbstar I would go out and have an pamper day hair, nails, and facial ...

WTH :hug: glad you are feeling better sweetie and decided to come join us again ...

AFM I started praying agian every night this week over the past few months I have not been doing that, I'm also thinking about starting my own business and once it takes off quit the job I have now. AF is packing up and leaving I'm just spotting now I have had 3 day cycles and then spotting for two cycle's now but last month was 28 days and this month was 24 days I'm so lost as to what is going on. I been feeling so extra jealous of pg women lately I'm not really sure if its even jealous really its more like a I should be pg right with them why don't I still have my baby I hope this passes with time anybody else feel like this ??? My DH mom is having a Bday party on Saturday so I'm going shopping to get her a gift 2morrow and I'm going get my nails done OK ladies let's get some more BFP's this month knowing you girls go on to have H&h pregnancy gives me so much hope and you girls have really helped me get though my loss so far I can't thank y'all enough!!! :hug:

5 things you didn't know about me

1. I was born with extra fingers it runs in the family on my fathers side so I had 5 fingers and thumb on each hand when I was born...
2. I have two dogs a tea cup Yorkie and a terrier mix ...
3. My father passed when I was 15 :(
4. I can't cook lol I'm learning though ...
5. I'm a junk food addict I love candy I wake up eating it ... lol
6. I don't eat pork or beef and I don't drink soda pop ...

Jen Jen...... Just wanted to catch you before you go nite nite..... I wont be online tonight...... didnt sleep well last night and need an early one tonight. I would hate to think that you got out of bed early and I wasnt there :(

Toccara--What type of business would you want to start if you could? To answer your question, I don't necessarily feel jealous of pg women, it's more of a longing to be pg--like I could just stare a pg tummies all day, just longing for it to be mine! Don't know if that's the same as being jealous, but I don't really think so. It's tough, though, that longing feeling...

I really hope you enjoy your shopping and getting your nails done, and hope you enjoy your MIL b-day party! I think you should buy something nice for yourself, as well, you deserve it! Wow, and an extra finger on each hand? I've heard of that on TV, did you have to have them fixed?

Take care, and have a great weekend! :hug:




Aww, Angel, you're turning into a softie! :hug: Thanks so much for letting me know! With my luck I'll still wake up that early! Actually, DF took the day off tomorrow, so we're going to head down to LA early, so I'll have to be really quick with my posts as it is. I'll sure miss chatting with you, tho! How will I get thru my day without my daily dose of Angel? :o Will talk to you soon! *kiss* Oh, and hope you sleep better tonight!



So what's the deal, Krystie? You holding out for the next even day, or did you decide to POAS??? My legs have been crossed TWICE for you tonight behind DF's head! :rofl: I'm on an egg hunt, and thought I would kill 2 birds with one stone! :lol:

Jen they removed them right after I was born I have never seen anything about it on t.v. I would like to though to know why and where it comes from I just no it runs in my dad's family I'm thinking about getting me something nice tomorrow as well maybe a new outfit :D ...

Hi All,

I haven't been on here for awhile.....:(

One more day left of my TWW...my temp is still at 37.1 is this a good sign???

am I just getting my hopes up...so confused today:crossfingers:

Babyfever - Thanks for that. If I'm going to be UTD, I'll be happy to put up with the pain. :D

Toccara - Just go somewhere. Even if it's just a week. Hope you feel better soon. :hug:

Easha - Yuck. I hope we don't have any road troubles. :( We leave 3am tomorrow morning and then we return next Friday, leaving the snow at lunch time, staying overnight just north of Sydney and then back home Saturday afternoon.

Have an awesome weekend. Lots of chocolate, lots of movies, massage, manicure, pedicure, shopping, sleeping... can't think of any thing else... oh ... LOTS OF BB!!!

Jen - Will be sure to swoosh for you. In fact, I'll have a swoosh for each of you! :hug:
I would keep doing OPK's just until they are feinter than the control line again. No reason, that's just what I'd do. I guess that way you know if it's getting lighter or darker. If it's getting lighter, then it would be with in 24-36 from the original one ... if it's getting darker, then you would O within 24-36 hrs from the DARKEST one. I'm no expert on OPK's - only used them once ... just what I figure???


AHHHHHHHHHHHH GOTTA GO!! RUNNING LATE - AGAIN!!