TTC after Stillbirth/ Recurrent Miscarriage or Loss after the First Trimester May 07

Olly OI Olly OI Olly Olly Olly

Lol, I do that all the time to DH, his nickame is Pip and I allways sing "Oh pippy youre so fine, you're so fine you blow my mind hay pippy" he gets the *****s cos he knows I am being a *****. ha ha

Damn! censored again - potty mouth

LMAO Bailey - your gonna have to watch that gutter talk its not f@@@in' tolerated! ;)

LOL at Pip - do I dare ask where that came from?

When he was little, he was really little, so a neighbour called him pip-squeak. Everyone knows him by pip. Which is weird as he is 6 foot something now :)

talking of gutter talk, go to the Websites thread and follow the link to the 'Ask Mr T' site. You type in questions to Mr T, you can have quite the conversation. It entertained me for ages, but I am easily pleased. I think you will appreciate it Mel.

LOL I'll check it out - always up for a bit of potty mouth!

Also, LOL @ pip-squeak - although its kind of cruel from a childs point of view huh

OMG Mel, put it channel 10 "search for next pussy-twat mole' oops sorry pussycat doll. B!tchiest show ever. Hilarious.

Damn I cant - DH is watching footy, I said he could :rolleyes:

I did check out the website though - I asked "Will you have sex with me" (really I have grown up LOL) and it replied "HAVE YOU SEEN MY VAN? IT'S THE BEST! LIKE MR T!" :lol:

BTW how the hell did you come across that website LOL

LMAO, how funny is it. You can review your whole conversation. Man, I am a sad case. I ask him if he used to be BA Barakus and he said "We're not here to talk about me fool"
Lol

I didn't find it, I read about it in that thread Dachlostar posted it. But it was love at first site (site... geddit!) for me. Sorry that was bad. Imagine when everyone else get up in the morning and reads this, they are going to think that we are mad....again.

LOL - questions my will all be dirty :p I am such a Calvin! :rolleyes:

Goodnight Mel, have a good time in BrisVegas! Sweet dreams about Mr T!....Fool!

Whats a Calvin??

LOL - Thanks... can you believe I still have to pack and have a shower and wash my hair :doh: Damn addictive computer!

Oh sorry I assume everyone knows what I am talking about - he was a character on one of those old sketch comedy shows and he worked in an office and he found something dirty in anything people said and he used to have this funny laugh... I am starting to think only my sister and I ever saw him cause even DH doesnt know him!

Anyway ignore me - I am nuts :redface:

OMG....yes I know him, I just didn't remember his name. Wasn't it Kelvin?? It was played by Michael Veitch from D-Generation. I loved the one where he was having a driving lesson and saw the traffic sign for HUMP..my brother and I do him all the time at any rude word. LOL, we must have the same sad taste.

LMAO - yeah that's him... phew, dont feel so bad now!

I do have a sick sense of humour - havent seen it for years but still remember the laugh, it cracks me up... I am a sick.

I used to love Charlie the Wonder Dog too :lol:

Charlie the Wonderdog, theres nothing he can't do, running ,jumping, making us laugh, charlie we love youuuuuuuu.
how funny was the "Olden Days" segment. That was champagne comedy.

Are you serious? You know the Olden Days? OMG I have never come across anyone other than my sister and I who know it... I have it on video (bought it years ago)! Its hilarious, but whenever anyone elses watches it they look at me like I am some crazy lady! I am always calling people Govener Tightpants and no one gets it :doh:

Anyway, you have made my night now :D So I guess I should go and pack my bag.

Take care :)

Just quickly - my fave bit is where he goes "oh look its the barman from the sullivans, oh yeah and hes with the guy from playschool" LMAO

Girls girls girls - Mel and Bailey - you are right - i have woken up to read your nutcase posts - and i have decided to leave BB as i can't be brought down by some immature, gutter-mouthed girls like yourselves ! OK OK OK - i will stay as you did crack me up - i think i recall Kelvin but that is about it - i was LMAO reading your posts.....

Mel - you were the only one picking up about the undie comment (with mum) - yes what a sinister thought but glad to hear you have morals and are not some sick bugger ! Us others are just sick ! Have a fab time in Brissie - and yes you can just jump on to BB when you get back - get your priorities right ok ? LOL

Bailey - How is DH doing - with the fam - what is going on there - at least you cannot choose your family. Not long now until you may have some news ?????

Spring - Olivia and Oliver are just beautiful names. Have you told family what you are having ?

Good morning to everyone else - rise and shine !

Morning everyone,

Ok Bailey and Mel, sounds like we are going to have to build a whole separate wing to the nut-house for crappy TV flashbacks (lol) I don't know if I know the Kelvin guy you are talking about but I do remember Charlie the Wonder Dog. I have a friend who has a Golden Retriever named Charlie after CTWD. My DH is addicted to those type of shows and will always come out with lines and I have no idea what he is talking about so he would get along with you Bailey and Mel for sure. He gets so frustrated when I don't get it (lol) Oh and Mel you drongo, of course you can still have Olly as a nickname. Whether I have an Oliver or an Olivia I think it would be cute.

Tommysmum: Top of the morning to you. How are you today? Well I hope, not long now until your NT scan. How exciting. Thanks for the comments on the names. I haven't told a soul about the flavour of Lil' Spring, only DH and I know. Oh and the ob and the lady who did the scan. I may have also slipped up to a complete stranger a month or so ago but that doesn't count (he he). So it will be a closley guarded secret until bub arrives. Got to have some surprises left. Are you going to find out? I seem to remember reading that you weren't but I could be wrong.

Well I'll be around all weekend. DH not home this weekend but only 20 sleeps until he is so I am really getting excited. I was going to wash the pooches but it is a little chilly so I think I might go to the shops and get a dose of retail therapy.

Hi to everyone else.

Be back later.

Lv Spring

Man you girls can talk. I am gone for 1 night and there is 2 pages!!!

Bailey & Mel, I thought I was a nutcase!! You two take the title!!!! It was great to wake up this morning and read your wonderful stories though! I agree Spring, they do need there seperate wing in the nuthouse!!! LOL!!!!

Deb - I am so happy for you. :happyforyou: That is excellent news about Col. I know you wanted twins but your ob is right. I am just so happy I can't stop smiling for you :hug:

Nat - sorry I missed your call. I haven't been out in ages so DH and I decided to go on a date. We haven't been on a date in 12 years!!!!! We went to the movies and then were supposed to have dinner afterwards but we ate so much rubbish at the movies that we weren't hungry. I told DH we had to have another date and go to dinner. I think we both felt a bit used of late so we decided to bring some romance back into the relationship. I will buzz you in a sec.

Mel - I am sorry I missed your posts last night. I'm not sure if you will be on this morning but I will text you as well. I hope you have a great time in Brisbane. Don't worry, any news and I will let you know. Although it will be too early for me. I am having a bt on Tuesday to confirm that I O'd so I will let you know about that. Have a fab time. I am going to miss you :cry:

Bailey - you are such a character!!! You make me laugh. I will text you tomorrow morning to remind you about the books. If you are like this now what are you like when you are pg and have baby brain!!

Spring - I have changed my mind. You are having a girl. Am I right????????? Come on!!!! Can't blame a girl for trying.

Chelle - glad to hear from you again. I hope you are doing ok. I think of you often. You are so right about life. I could say some other things but then I would get censored again. I hope you get some answers soon :hug:

Hi to everyone else!

Well a bit of quiet day for me today. I am going to bore myself and go and watch DH play soccer this afternoon (how rude am I!!!) but it is a bit boring. It isn't like watching Becks play!!!!

Can't wait for tomorrow chickies. I wish we were all catching up - one day we will. When we all have our screaming, pooing bubbas in our arms and the noise will be beautiful!!!!

*Tissue Alert*

Sorry to bring the mood down a bit but I just heard this song on TV sung by Darren Haze (Sp) who used to be in Savage Garden. It was originally by Delta Goodrum. The words just really affected me so I thought I'd share.


"Lost Without You"

I know I can be a little stubborn sometimes
A little righteous and too proud
I just want to find a way to compromise
Cos I believe that we can work things out

I thought I had all the answers never giving in
But baby since you've gone I admit that I was wrong

All I know is I'm lost without you I'm not gonna lie
How am I going to be strong without you I need you by my side
If we ever say we'll never be together and we ended with goodbye don't know what I'd do ...I'm
lost without you
I keep trying to find my way but all I know is I'm lost without you
I keep trying to face the day I'm lost without you

How am I ever gonna get rid of these blues
Baby I'm so lonely all the time
Everywhere I go I get so confused
You're the only thing that's on my mind

Oh my beds so cold at night and I miss you more each day
Only you can make it right no I'm not too proud to say

All I know is I'm lost without you I'm not gonna lie
How am I going to be strong without you I need you by my side
If we ever say we'll never be together and we ended with goodbye don't know what I'd do ...I'm
lost without you
I keep trying to find my way but all I know is I'm lost without you
I keep trying to face the day I'm lost without you

If I could only hold you now and make the pain just go away
Can't stop the tears from running down my face
Oh

All I know is I'm lost without you I'm not gonna lie
How am I going to be strong without you I need you by my side
If we ever say we'll never be together and we ended with goodbye don't know what I'd do ...I'm
lost without you
I keep trying to find my way but all I know is I'm lost without you
I keep trying to face the day I'm lost without you

Lv Spring

:hug: to you babe :hugs:

Spring - You said 'I may have also slipped up to a complete stranger a month or so ago but that doesn't count (he he).' Is the (he he) bit a hint for us?? Lol. Only 20 sleeps til DH comes home, how exciting.

Lynn - I have a permanent baby brain, as you probably saw from Mel's and mine late night banter, I can remember stupid things!

Tommysmum - I hope the sun stays out like it is now for tomorrow.

Aargh!! At work and should be serving people, but can't...too scattered...must be Mel's fault :D Still no AF, only CD32 or something, so it is still early for me, but as I was having cramps, kind of expected it today.

Hello ladies - here is another tissue alert (thanks Spring for starting me on this one)..one of the mums from our S&K meeting who lost her baby, daughter Katie at 22 weeks (from memory). This special poem makes her believe that she is a mum even though she doesn't have her baby to hold....so this is for everyone....
>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>>> >>>>>>>>>>>>>

What Makes A Mother?

I thought of you and closed my eyes,
and prayed to God today.
I asked what makes a mother;
and I know I heard Him say:

A mother has a baby,
this we know is true.
But God, can you be a mother
when your baby's not with you?

Yes, you can, He replied
with confidence in His voice.
I give many women babies;
when they leave it’s not their choice.

Some I send for a lifetime,
and others for a day.
And some I send them to feel your womb;
but there's no need to stay.

I just don't understand this, God
l want my baby here!
He took a breath and cleared His throat,
and then I saw a tear.

I wish I could show you,
what your child is doing today.
If you could see your child smile,
with other children and say...

"We go to earth to learn our lessons
of love and life and fear.
My Mummy loved me oh so much,
l got to come straight here”.

"I feel so lucky to have a Mum
who had so much love for me;
I learned my lesson very quickly,
my Mummy set me free”.

"I miss my Mummy oh so much
but visit her each day.
When she goes to sleep,
on her pillow there I lay".

I stroke her hair and kiss her cheek
and whisper in her ear;
"Mummy don't be sad today,
l'm your baby and I'm here."

So you see, my dear sweet one,
your children are Okay.
Your babies are here in My home,
and this is where they'll stay.

They'll wait for you, with Me
until your lesson there is through.
On the day that you come home
They'll be at the gates for you.

So now you see what makes a mother;
lt's the feeling in your heart.
It's the LOVE you had so much of
Right from the very start.

Though some on earth may not realise,
until their time is done.
Remember all the love you have
And know that you are a SPECIAL MUM!

I just had to read this again as it is so sweet and sort of gives you some perspective on how our losses can be explained....it brings me tears.

Lynn - you went on a date hey - did you have to put out ???? You DONT have to reply on this one - i DONT really need to know....just having a laugh...

I am actually feeling very sick this arvo - M/S i don't know....If i don't get back on tonight i will catch up with you girls tomorrow (Bailey - i will pick you up around 11.40am). going to put my head down - once i put the fairy to bed (thanks Bailey).

Tommysmum that poem was so beautiful and so true.

Ok enough of the sooky la la for me today.

Bailey: Work Shmirk, tell them Spring said you could have the arvo off. Oh and he he isn't a hint. You girls will try anything won't you. I just had Lynn tell me on the phone that she and DH were discussing the fact that I must be having a girl due to the fact that I O'd when DH was away. Keep guessing ladies. I can't wait until I can guess what you are both having.

Lynn: Nice to chat to you. I hope you have a nice arvo watching the soccer. Remember to tell DH it isn't about winning, it is about being involved and having fun. Oh who am I kidding, I hope he kicks butt!

Tommysmum: I hope you feel better after your nap. If it is M/S then I hope it doesn't hit you too bad.

Well time for some lunch and then I must really try to get to the shops.

Lv Spring

Tommysmum that was beautiful. I have read it before and it just brings tears each time. Thankyou for sharing... :hug:

Bailey I hope this is your month my love... :hug:

LYnn: How many days post trigger are you now my love? Oh you don't know how much I am hoping for a positive this month for you... :hug:

Mel: Lack of symptoms means very little - won't it be nice if we get a mass :bfp: this month!!!!! That's my hope...

I am feeling quite awful today. Very nauseous and I had to go back to bed this morning witha headache. I am off to make hamburgers for everyone (even though I am nauseous I am eaating like a HORSE!) and then we are watching "Shark Tale".

I will pop back tomorrow... :hug:

Deb: I am sending the sympathy fairy your way because that Icky feeling isn't nice. I hope a big greasy home made burger does the trick. I found I only wanted bland and salty food so toast and vegemite was the top of my list. Hope it passes soon.

Lv Spring

Spring - I told them you said I didn't have to work and well it worked, I did nothing pretty much for the whole arvo. I think you are having a he he.

Deb - Sorry you are feeling sick, though it will be wortj it in the end right! I ate those Digestive biscuits when I felt sick, as I seemed to feel horrible when I was hungry and those are relly bland and dry.

Tommysmum - I'll be ready tomorrow, thanks for the ride again. That poem is sad isn't it. I cried when I got it theother day, and now I am crying again.

Well, I will chat to ya'll later. I am off to make hot dogs for the men folk.

Hi
I am not even going to attempt to do personals - you ladies talk way too much!!

Just wanted to say I am so pleased Flowerchild that bubs heartbeat was strong and size is spot-on.

Having a quiet day today as I am feeling very tired - went to watch Spiderman 3 and ended up in tears at the end. Anyway all composed now and curled up in the warm watching TV. Hope you all have a good day tomorrow when you meet up in Sydney.

Take care, love T.

Deb - I am so sorry you are feeling awful. I hope you are feeling better soon. I am 4DP IUI or 5DP trigger - not sure which one to go off. CD32 today!!! I am still pretty positive and hoping for a miracle :pray:

Tess - look at your ticker. Have you tested yet. I hope AF stays away.

Well I just thought I would let everyone know that today is my oldest fur-baby's birthday. Jazz is 4 today. I have been giving her choc drops all day! But her sister has to have them too because I don't want them to think I am favouring one ;)

Hi Lynn
I hope the IUI was successful - do you have to wait until 14DPO before testing or is it done differently? (Sorry I am so stupid I don't understand any of this stuff).

With Thomas I did not get a BFP until 16DPO when it was very very faint so I am trying to hold out until at least Monday. AF has not arrived yet but I am getting stomach cramps so not sure what is happening.

Happy b'day Jazz - our fur-baby (Tess!!) was a stray pup so we do not know her birth date. We celebrate the day we met her which was in Sept 2004. Can't believe she is over 3yrs old now - still acts like a 6mth old.

Awww, Happy birthday Jazz!

Woof Woof Woof Woof Woof,

That is Frank and Vinnie saying Happy Birthday Jazz.


Tess: Hope your feeling a bit better and that AF stays away and Monday brings a lovely BFP surprise.

Lv Spring

Jazz thanks you all for your birthday wishes (ha ha)

Tess, I will have a bt on 16dpo - 31 May. Seems like ages away!!! 11 sleeps to go. AF is due 29 May but they wait an extra two days (just to be cruel!!) They said that I could do a hpt a day or two before but I need to be careful that it isn't a false positive because I am on hcg injections. I hope you get a bfp on Monday :pray:

Lynn - Only 11 days till you test. It must be torture for you, your first 2 week wait and they make you wait 16 days :doh: I have given the pig another stern talking to and I am pretty sure he is gonna come up with the goods this month!