Nope, you're not alone. We dont do parties yet. With DD1 turning 5 this year I asked her what she wanted to do for it, expecting her to want to have a party. But instead she just asked for us to go out for dinner as a family to somewhere where we havent been before. Also her birthday falls on a preschool day this year so she will take cakes to share at preschool.
But we havent got caught up in the whole birthday party thing for the girls yet. Its not that we dont want to celebrate the day, but we celebrate in other ways. We always have cake, we go to the park, out for a meal, go on a special birthday shopping outing, anything the girls ask for. If they ask and it can be arranged we invite a couple of friends to spend the day with them, but thats about it.

