sorry to be all mee mee first of all thanks everyone for your quick responses and encouragement it is appreciated lots.
well im feeling BEYOND stressed out its getting to a ridiculous time time for us 4 weeks gotta move hubbie has no job yet been out of works for so long its silly. And the only 1 person i know well enough in qld to help me move house the ex husband said nope not helping me. Im very much feeling emotional and stressed. i hate moving hate hate hate it. why cant there be 10 more of me to help out i dunno have not found a property yet as only just realized... lease up on 8th may and i am feeling very much overwhelmed. we need more time in our days to pack.... the real estate hasnt herd back from owners and the longer i wait the harder it is. they want to demolish this house. they dont do periodic leases.
i feel like ripping my hair out then sleeping for 100 years and then doing it all over again with tears in between.

