babies born~December 1st-15th 2009 #2

Hi Girls,

Kanda - Lucky you! I think Craig would be like Lila if we got to meet the Wiggles, a bit shy. But I'm so glad you got to go and made it there OK. We watched it on TV and were with you in spirit. That's good that you know what's wrong now and it's not cancer or something really scary. What does the overactive thyoid mean for you, medication? I'll have a drink with you :)

BS - Oh how cruel! Don't worry, I'm sure she'll start doing those big night sleeps more often than not soon. Make sure you take lots of photos of your trip to Paris, so we us 'armchair travellers' can indulge with you.

Alison - Damn in laws! I'm sure they don't realise how annoying their construction work is and how bad their timing is. But you'd think the workers could respect the law with regard to noise, perhaps you could make a noise complaint? He he he I used to hate the Wiggles too, but your opinion soon changes when you have a toddler who loves them. The songs are quite catchy and I often find myself humming them around the house (which Craig loves, especially in the car). BTW, I loved the dress and it looked gorgeous.

Tilda - Poor little Matilda. I hope she feels better soon and you be OK to fly home. Their first cold is awful for us parents because we can't really do anything. The Fess saline drops and aspirator (funny gadget to suck the snot out of their noses) works a treat and a vaporiser is a great idea. Also you can't beat the baby version of Vics Vapour Rub.

Beany - Michael's going to keep you on your toes! He sounds just like my Craig, always wanting to try things out before he should be capable of doing them. That would be lovely if you girls can make the Perth meet up a regular thing.

Rose - Liam looked so cute in his MCNs! And you take great photos! If I work out how to Skype, then I'll join you girls at your next meet up.

Carmey - You look great, but I can't see the 6kgs that you want to lose. Eeek! I hear you on the Brownies, too moorish. That's great news about your apartment, I hope you can find something to rent quickly.

AFM - Well, still toilet training. And still having a bit of a battle at naptime and bedtime. But I've got a few strategies to try out and bedtime and naptime both were less of a drama today. I'm trying to make the toilet training fun and I think we'll get there before very long. DH is feeling better after his dirtbike accident. He's got the Jetski going again and wants to take it for a ride this weekend!!!! <sigh> My Mum visited today and the boys were so happy to see her.

Hope everyone has a great weekend. Long weekend here for Canberra Day!

Hi Girls - where is everyone, we must have all had busy weekends! :)

Well, I'm off to see my 91 year old grandma in her aged care home today, I haven't seen her for 12 months and I'm really nervous. Mum's up and my sisters are also coming but while I want to see her I'm kind of dreading it. I struggle with the fact that she might not know who we are but like everyone has said, old people love babies so it doesn't matter. Will be weird but I'm glad I'm going, Amelia will at least have met her and vice versa. I'm taking a little frame with Amelia's pic in it for her, she'll probably wake up everyday and wonder who the hell she is but I thought it was nice anyway, it was her birthday on Saturday. Mum said when she called her to tell her she was coming to visit she thinks she knew who she was so hopefully she's having a good week and not a bad one. Will let you know how it goes!

Have a great day everyone. xx

Everyone has been super quiet these little bundles of ours must be keeping us all on our toes.

Alison it is lovely u are going to see your grandmother and little Amelia can meet her. I hope she recognizes you.

Well Jett has been doing good lately he is happy 90% of the time which is great. I had him weighed this morning he is 6.5kg and 69cm long. A big boy. He is 12wks tomorrow yay!!!!

Thank you all for the lovely comments on his photos. I am very happy with them.

I hope everyone is doing well.

I am not liking the humidty we are having at the moment everytime I feed Jett and I are both very hot n sweaty.

Take care all xx

Hey girls,

Kanda - I watched Sunrise. How cute was that little girl who kept walking up to them? I was giggling to myself. Looked like a lot of fun!

Alison - how did you go seeing your grandmother? You're right, old people do love babies so hopefully she loved seeing baby girl.

Lani - glad you're happy with the pics - I need to book some in too!

Suz - good luck with the toilet training - I think you're super woman doing that, plus having a 3 month old and a house to run!

BS - OMG, if only I could say "Off to Paris for the weekend!" What a lucky girl you are. Looking forward to the pics on FB.

Everyone else - how did your night go?

ATM - all going well here. Jack is now 7.5kg and growing by the day (my chubby bubby). We just went to get his car capsule belts loosened because he's too big! They said they can turn the seat around when he's 8kg. It's usually when they're 6 months but apparently the RTA says that if they're 8kg you can turn them. I think that will make car trips much better.

And he's rolling now. So, he started rolling from his tum to back at 5 weeks and now he rolls from his back to tummy. And he does it constantly. It's cute but at the same time it's tricky because I can't leave him sleeping on our bed anymore!

Question: are you all still wrapping at night? I have a bit of a dilemma because I think Jack would sleep longer at night if he didn't wriggle out of his wrap. But when I try him unwrapped he seems to wake himself up with his hands. I don't know what to do anymore!

xx

Hi Girls!

Hi Carmey - ha ha what a lovely big healthy boy you have there. I have to officially get Amelia weighed which I will do next week but I weighed her on the Wii Fit and it said 6.2kgs. I don't wrap Amelia anymore, haven't for a while - she sleeps in Grobags now but she's always hated having her hands wrapped so it wasn't hard to make the transition.

Well, I visited nana today, I have no idea if she knew who we were, she kind of did but was more just happy that we'd visited in general. She absolutely adored Amelia and kept saying how perfect and precious she was and every now and then she'd use a phrase like she used to like "what a gorgeous little sausage" - it was funny. She did ask me a million times her name and mum kept saying it was Amelia Alice, and she'd say oh that's a lovely name and mum would say, yes, your middle name is Alice too and she'd say, oh how lovely. ha ha. I'm not sure she put the two together. It was quite a depressing place, the home itself is new so it was lovely - they even have big flat screen tellys in their rooms but just full of people who had no idea. My nana must be around 40 kgs and has no teeth now, she had to take out her dentures as she suffers neuralgia (sp?) so her face has sunk in a bit. There were a few ladies who were a bit creepy following us around and they just stare lol, honestly though, I really don't want to get to that stage. My nana just turned 91, that's a good innings but sometimes I think it would be nice if you could decide when you'd had enough. She tells everyone she's just about done - but she's been saying that for about 5 years now! Anyway, I got a nice pic of her with Amelia and I feel much better for visiting her.

Anyway, been out all day and desperately need to sit and relax, been running around everywhere! Hope you all have a lovely evening.

Hey Kanda, Lila did look so shy in the photo :) I am so happy that the nodules were nothing serious! I hope you enjoyed that drink, I would have needed a few ;)

Suz, good luck on the toilet training - It is only a matter of time!

Alison, your poor nan, I understand that - I sometimes ask myself would I prefer to live long and not have it all up there or just go earlier. I think I'd rather stay as long as my mind is also present. Bu I am sure she had a lovely day with the beautiful Amelia around - Old people react to babies in such an amazing way - it is like youth hits them again for a bit.

Lani, thos photos are gorgeous - my god, those gorgeous eyes he has - future heartbreaker I say!

Carmey, your boy is destined to be a triathelete! Runs in the family so he is starting early. This weekend, Eva started rolling as well...But she goes from back to sides - not the whole turn yet, but even now I am never leaving her ANYWHERE unattended except the floor, bbecause I keep feeling like she'll decide to do a full roll the moment I take my hands off of her! What a big boy :) You both are tall, so it is normal - so glad he is doing so well, from his pictures he looks like he is a happy baby :) - I never wrapped her so I would not know - I do sleep her on her belly now that she is strong enough to lift her head though and that prevents any startling or wayward arms. I know people are against that but with her reflux, back sleeping is IMPOSSIBLE!

AFM, packed up alllllll the baby stuff and headed to Paris this weekend, didn't forget anything, or so I thought...20 minutes out of the house and I realized I forgot her medicine and then when we arrived in Paris, I realized I forgot THE CAMERA! So I have like 5 crappy pictures on my iphone but that's all. I'll post two or three but they are nothing to look at really...

Eva did well, the first two hours of the trip went smoothly, then after she started crying for a feed (the past three days she has been on a two hours sched again :o) so I fed her and she started complaining at the end of the fourth hour, but we got in so it was ok. Traffic was annoying - it is usally a 2.5 hour drive buit took 4...

Her first dinner out was not too shabby, we went to have diiner at the Dali at Le Meurice, a very nice hotel restaurant. She behaved well except for a bit of fussiness but I walked her around the halls of the hotel in her stroller and she slept for the rest of the meal (I missed the first plate though...as usual). Second day we walked around and went to see all the lovely boutiques at Place Vendome etc...then she had a huge nap so I stayed in with her and also had a nap, then for dinner we went out again where she was really adorable - awake the whole time but playing and quiet. Then sunday we had brunch at le first which has a wonderful organic brunch and she slept through the whole thing, only waking up once for a bit to meet DH's aunts and cousins. Then we headed home where she slept and played and was great...

It was also fashion week in paris, so I had tons of eye candy walking around everywhere (though the skinny models everywhere depressed me!)

It was DH's grandfather's bday so we celebrated that and also, Sunday was grandmother's day in france, so we went to see Eva's 2 great grandmothers and brought her grandmother flowers when we headed back to brussels.

All in all a lovely weekend. I hope the trip to NY goes well because that is 8 hours flying, but as DH said at least we can stand up and walk around with her.

She seems to have grown enormously overnight! I have her in all of her 6 month pyjamas and they fit almost perfect! I was not putting them on her because when I looked at theml I kept thinking that they are waaaay to big, but finally they are not at all...The time flies so fast...I am dreading putting her in daycare at 5 months (I want to put her in to socialize etc, but I will be the one to have a hard time!)

Well, I am officially back to work today - working from home but working :( I am happy to get back into the swing of things but it is incredible how priorities change once a baby is in the picture.

Off to be productive!

xoxo

Just a quickie, will read your post shortly BS, am verrrrry tired and just checking before I head to bed. I just feel awful as I meant to say to you KANDA congratulations on your results! I'm so pleased....well, not pleased you have thyroid problems but pleased it's nothing serious. Yayyyyy!!!! You must feel so relieved. xx

Hello all!

BS - sounds like you had a lovely time in Paris! V jealous! Thats great Eva has started to roll a bit. I'm trying to get Michael to do the same...were you teaching her, or was it something she just did on her own? I caught Michael on his side once in his cot, but I think thats cos I had tilted the mattress slightly cos he was getting a flat spot. I too fear the first illness, A LOT! I'm paranoid about him getting sick...so Tilda, I'd love to hear what your experience was like.

Kanda - Phew! Glad ot hear its not something too serious. Must be a weight off your shoulders for sure.

Suz - how's the toilet training coming along? glad to hear DH is on the mend :)

Alison - Sounds like you had a nice time at your Nana's. I know what its like with the demetia...my Nanna was heading that way too, she was here on holiday (from UK) and was adamant that she only had 1 daughter (my mum lives there and her sister here), so when she saw my Aunty here she was like "you can't be my daughter, I only have one daughter". I think it was pretty upsetting for my Aunty. Anyhoo, glad to hear it went well.

Lani - sounds like you'r ehaving a wonderful time, Jett sounds like a little angel! Oh and those pictures were fantastic!!! You've inspired me to start hunting for a photographer here. My 30th is in 2 weeks (groan) so if I get any money from that I'll put it towards getting some photos done.

Carmey - Wow! Jack sounds like he's doing very well indeed! Great weight :) We stopped wrapping him when we moved him into his cot (bout 4 weeks ago), for fear of him unwrapping himself and getting cold. Like Alison, he sleeps in grobags, which are fantastic.

Hello to everyone else!

AFM - plodding along nicely. Michael slept 12 hours last night!!! I even got up before him! He seems to be coming along in leaps and bounds...using his hands heaps, loves picking things up and putting them in his mouth. Also noticed a few new sounds he's making. After we watched some video last night of him still in hospital its absolutely amazing to see how far he has come from that little bundle that would sleep all the time and only wake up for a quick feed.

Question1 - This is prolly TMI, but I'm stressing slightly. Does DTD still hurt for anyone? Its really really painful for me. I dunno if its just me not really wanting to, or if there's something going on up there or what. Its not nice :( Even when I had my pap smear done a few weeks ago it murdered. :(

Question2 - what do you all do for playtime? Like, what activities do you all do with bubs? I need some ideas as I'm always trying to come up with new things to do with him as he seems to get bored if I do the same stuff over and over! This is my current list of activities:
- A few mins of tummy time,
- floor time playing with a toy,
- sitting in his high chair playing with toys,
- holding him 'standing up' and 'walking' ,
- time in his cot playing with a muslin blanket or with his mobile on,
- holding him in front of a mirror
- reading stories to him in his cot
- in his rocker for a while, which he doesn't really like.
- in his kickin' coaster when he's in the mood.
- on his gym-mat thing.
- walking around the house showing him things.
Any idea's would be welcome!

Off to see MIL this arvy. We got the results from her bone marrow test last thurs...could have been better. She still has blast cells but they can't tell if they're cancerous or not :o Which is a bit scarey. So, the next step is to try her on this really expensive monthly treatment that I mentioned a while ago, from our understanding it seems like they can't just keep treating her with chemo. Not sure whats happening with the transplant, I think she has to be in remission first before they can try it. The docs said they could try it now, but that only 1 in 2 survive it. So we're still on the roller coaster....:(

Hi Girls,

Got both boys in bed so I have a minute or two to write a post.

BS - Wow, Paris! Such a shame you forgot your camera :( It's hard getting organised for a trip away with a baby, there's so many things to remember. Sounds like you had some quality family time catching up with DH's family. I envy you being able to browse Parisian boutiques. I'll have to make do with a walk to the local French Patisserie for a coffee and croissant. Good luck with working from home and don't worry about daycare for Eva, she'll cope wonderfully and we'll be here with an understanding ear when you need the support (it was harder on me than it was on Craig). BTW, the clinic nurse told me that once your baby can roll, then they're OK to sleep on their tummy (because they have enough strength in their neck to turn their head and not suffocate).

Beany - Don't worry, you're doing lots of wonderful play activities with Michael. Wonder Weeks (I got my copy today!) has lots of suggestions for play and toys. DTD hurt for me too, we've only managed it once (DH had a cold sore prior to the broken ribs) but it's more because of (sorry TMI) dryness. After my C-section DTD hurt for months, as if I was bruised around my scar. Mention it to your Dr if you like but I think it's quite normal. That's great that Michael is giving you lots of sleep. Hope your MIL is in good spirits when you visit today and that they can do her transplant soon.

Alison - So glad you go to see your Nana, even though she's not quite there. It will be good for Amelia to know she at least met her Great Grandma. My Grandad has just been diagnosed with a form of dementure and he's turning 84 in a couple of days. How's the construction going? He he he I weighed Ryan on the Wii Fit too, great isn't it?

Carmey - Wow, Jack is a big boy! Very physical too. Craig was a big baby too and I wanted to turn the car seat when he was 8kg to get more room in my Mazda3. He was heavy enough at 4 months but I waited another month until he had more strength in his neck. You can buy little pillows that hold their chins up off their chests when they're asleep. I haven't wrapped Ryan since January because it was too hot and I don't use a gro-bag, just tuck the blanket and sheet under the mattress.

Lani - The photos of Jett are great! I'm also inspired to hunt for a photographer. DH told me he wanted to do photos of the boys for my birthday, so I should hurry up and find someone. I love Jett's hair, very cute.

Hi to everyone else!

AFM - Just got back from a weekend down at our caravan, long weekend here in Canberra. Craig was doing really well with the toilet training, but went backwards a bit while we were away. He's fine with no pants on, but has accidents when he's dressed. I guess he needs more practice. Ryan is sleeping 10-12 hours at night and looks like the Michelin Man! Anyone's bub blowing a lot of spit bubbles? Ryan is practically foaming at the mouth. I'm going to start pumping so that I can get DH to give him a bottle every now and then, and also in the car on trips. DH is slowly feeling better after his dirtbike accident. My copy of The Wonder Weeks turned up today! Just got emails saying my photo orders (calendar, birthday cards and photo book) are ready to pick up from our local Big W, so that's tomorrow's outing taken care of.

Off to sort out some dinner and maybe bake some cookies or muffins...

Hi Beany - 12 hours go Michael! I just had to wake Amelia after 10, not sure I should've though do you? I just worry about her going so long without food although I'm sure if she was hungry she'd wake. Of course it puts her routine out of whack too....what do you do in that respect seeing as you're on the same schedule as me pretty much? The things you do for Michael's amusement are great, they're pretty much the same as me and Amelia - I have been buying her a few different toys, they're mostly for 6 months+ but I figure she will still like them. She can't sit unaided yet or in a highchair so mostly it's against me on the couch or lying on the floor. Sorry to hear about MIL, I hope they can continue to treat her. As for DTD, it doesn't hurt me anymore, we've only done it a few times - who can be bothered lol - but it only hurt the first time for me. I'm sure it's normal though, we had a lot going on in there and the scar tissue from the c-section can take some time to heal apparently - my OB told me it can take 6 months or more. Have you had a period yet seeing as your feeding like me?

Hi Suz - I'm sure Craig will go back to his toilet training now you're home, everyone slacks off when they're away so why not him lol! Glad DH is feeling better too, poor thing. And yes Amelia is foaming at the mouth too, bubbles everywhere! I read it starts around this age as their saliva amount increases and can continue until they're 12 months old when they learn to swallow it, greattttt! I go through so many bibs and clothes - problem is, when I put the bib on she thinks she's getting food :o Have to get her over that idea!!!

Hi BS - Paris, you lucky thing, when I go away for a weekend it's down to our farm house ha ha. The joys of living in Europe I guess. Hows Eva's sleep going?

AFM - I got my first period yesterday! I thought something was up as the day before I had some cramping. Boy is it bright red and heavy, I guess it's the cleanest it's been for a while lol (sorry TMI). At first I felt sad and angry as it was just another reminder of my breastfeeding failure but then I read even if you're fully breastfeeding you can get them after 3 months so I felt a bit better. Oh well, back to the monthly aches and pains then I guess. I figure at least I know my body is working again I suppose. lol Also, is anyone else's bubs trying to talk? Well when I say talk I mean are they making noises like they're whinging? Amelia is but she is happy and playing with toys so I think it's her finding her voice!!!

Hello!

Suz - are you kidding me? Baking?? On top of toilet training a toddler, looking after a 3 month old, and an injured DH??? You really are super woman!! Oh yeah, thats right WW did have some activities, didn't it. Must read that bit again! Yes, Michael is making a lot of bubbles and it does look like he's foaming some times. I read it can take up to 18 months until they figure out they're meant to swallow it!

Alison - Hmm. I prolly wouldn't ever wake Michael from his night sleep. I don't worry about him going so long with out food, he would let us know if he was starving I think. Even after 12 hours he doesn't seem too bothered, never cries or anything, just does this thing with his tongue like he wants to suck the bottle. If he ever goes past his normal feed time I normally just bring all the following ones forward a little bit until he's back on schedule. I have woken him a couple of times during the day, only when he's like 2 hours past his normal feed time! Oh, I thought you got your period a while ago? And we started on the same day? maybe I'm getting mixed up. But yeah, I got mine prolly about 5 weeks ago I think. Mine was bright red too. Yes, Michael definitely trying to talk. I put a video on fb of it. It seems like he's coming up with different sounds every day, I absolutely love hearing it!

AFM - not much to report. Survived my first trip to the shops with him on my own (I know, pretty embarrasing to say that after 14 weeks!), he was a little angel. Just went to Target to get some more of the best bibs ever, but they didnt' have any left. Booo. I think I may have chosen a photographer... dilkarra photography. Her fees seem pretty reasonable for that sort of style of photography, $425 and you get 2 hours in the studio plus 20-30 images on USB so we can print however many we like. Is that ok, do you think?

Hey everyone!

Beany, I think you are not doing so bad with the games there :) I do most of that but def a lot more tummy time (like half hour at a time) - something else that is nice to do is actually walk around let him touch things while describing. I walk through our closet and let her touch the different fabrics and promise her she can borrow stuff later :ROFL: Also, I take a feather or my finger tips and in her diaper or naked I tickle her and describe the areas I am touching, like this is your big toe, here is an arm...etc...I also have conversations with her in the morning while I have breakfast, let her sit in her high chair while I cook and describe what I am doing. It is just letting her observe. But you have quite a nice list of games there!

As for the rolling. I am not sure if it helped, because I get the feeling she did it when she was ready, but I usually give her a massage or naked time before the bath and I put her on her changing table and every day I put her foot in her hand (she does not hold it yet, but just so she knows it is there), and change sides, then I let her hold on to my finger and roll her to one side, then do the same for the other. I life her legs up to her face so she can realize she can lift her butt etc...so she has started doing all of that now. Not sure if it helps but can't hurt...

Suz, Craig will get the hang of it - he changed sorroundings so it is normal that he did not manage to keep it up. I am sure once you get back home and everything is how he is used to it will help. I have lots of bubbles too and lots of drool fown the front of everything! Her hands are sometimes full of drool then she touches my face so I get a wet sticky drool patch on my cheek :)

Alison, I got what I thought was my period a month after giving birth but I am not sure if that was it. I am enjoying not having it but I know my hormones are going back to normal (hence the hair loss etc) so am expecting it soon. You really should not beat yourself up about the bf. Amelia is happy and settled and that's all that matters. I bf and Eva is always unsettled with her reflux...bf does not change that much and as long as bubs is happy, that is all that matters!

AFM, Eva was up crying again two nights in a row, now with gas, but I feel like her system is getting back to normal with the bigger meals now...she has pooed Sunday, Monday and Wednesday :o Unheard of with her since she used to go every 10 days or so! So I am blaming the crying on having gas since her system is starting to kick back into gear! Hope that is the case...4 month pediatrician visit next month! Holy crap, time goes fast!

Hi Beany - no you're right, I thought that was my period but it only lasted 2 days and wasn't like this so I think it was just a bit of "leftover" bleeding from the birth etc. Have you had yours again since then? I'll be interested to see if it's sporadic or goes back into a routine. I knew I was ovulating recently so I'm not surprised - I can feel when I ovulate, probably sounds weird, plus I can tell from the CM - gosh, remember talking about all these things when we were trying to get pregnant ha ha! I tell you what though this is heavier than I ever remember, was yours the same? Good on you for hitting the shops. Gosh how bad do I feel, I've been going since I could drive and I go a few times a week I reckon lol. Have to stay home more now, spending wayyyyyyy too much money and now I'm on maternity leave and we're down to one income I have to remember I can't shop like I used to. Oh I miss my lovely monthly salary. :shakehead:

Hi BS - thanks for saying that, makes me feel better when I hear BF'ing people say that, I always feel like people think I'm slack even though that's not why I FF. I just expressed, only got 20 mls today, boooooo. It's inredible they're all heading to the 4 month mark isn't it, it just goes way too fast. Good luck with her appointment, Amelia has her 4 month needles in a week and a half, dreading it much!!!! I hope Eva has a good night for you tonight. Oh and how is the exercising going? I started the Wii Fit Plus today, it told me it had been 411 days since I was last on and then proceeded to say "oh dear, you've gained weight" - 5.9 kgs more than 411 days ago lol...........then put me in the overweight category for BMI - I did have a BMI of 22, now it's 25! :o I didn't get a full workout in this morning however because Amelia didn't want to sleep, I think that had something to do with the 10 hours she'd just sleep that night!

Hope you've all had a lovely day. xx

Hi Girls - where is everyone?!

I had my child health nurse appointment today and it went really well. I came out feeling so much better about this breast feeding bizzo........she told me to stop worrying about it - didn't attempt to lecture me one bit and in fact told me to ignore anyone who gives me grief and that really the only difference between the two is the immunity side of things which they get from the first few weeks which I did anyway so that's it, I'm not going to beat myself up anymore!!! In fact, she said even though she said they're supposed to sway you towards breast feeding at the end of the day it's really not that different anymore. She said the formulas these days are packed with good things....she said even she had to formula feed one of her 5 children as she went back to work when he was 6 weeks old. She said in those days they didn't express, they either did one or the other. I did notice in my purple book that the paed wrote something against the column for her head/fontanelle etc but I can't read it. He did tick it as as pass and didn't say anything but now I want to know what it says and that appointment was back in January! Idiot. Oh well, obviously nothing to worry about. The health nurse also said that she's obviously healthy and content, it helped that she smiled the whole time we were there hee hee.

So, anyway Amelia is now only in the 75th percentile for height so not sure what happened there given she was in the 90th last time lol....perhaps she's stopped like I obviously did ha ha. She's also in the 75th percentile for her weight......Sheila wasn't concerned at all, she said once they start moving around they'll even out. I don't think she looks fat anyway do you guys? Her head circ is right on the 50th so that's good - don't want her having my husbands big Polish head lol!

Oh and I've decided to go from the infant to crawler size nappies now? Amelia has wet through her nappy at night the last 2 nights in a row and it's waking her up so even though the sticky tags to do them up cross over they give better coverage I think lol.

Well, off to roast my vegies ready for my lamb shanks that have been brewing all day. My house smells divine. Hope you've all had a fab day. xx

Hi everyone, its ages since I posted! So sorry in advance if I miss heaps of stuff!

Kanda - that's fantastic news that the nodules are something pretty manageable! And what fun to have met the Wiggles!

Alison - It's great you were able to introduce Amelia to your grandmother. Like you said, they love babies even if they're not aware who you or the baby are. We visited DH's surrogate grandmother in Perth who is turning 100 this year. She had no idea who we were but loved seeing Matilda. And hey, just read the post you just put up. That's just great that you're feeling so good about the feeding stuff. It sounds like your CHN really has her head screwed on. Maybe you should just let the expressing go altogether. And I thought Amelia was quite a tall, trim little thing (not like rolly polly Matilda lol).

BS - Glad you enjoyed Paris. But its no good to hear Eva has been so unsettled. It's tiring isn't it! We've been up and down ourselves.

Beany - Don't worry, I haven't been shopping on my own yet either! I cringe to admit but I haven't really taken her anywhere much on my own because I'm nervous about lifting the stroller. But I'm going to bite the bullet and take the stroller out in the car tomorrow. And a couple of posts back you were asking for ideas on stuff to do. I can't remember if you mentioned it or not, but have you tried giving him a massage? I tried one for the first time today with Matilda and she had a feed and went off to sleep really quickly afterwards. Not a bad life being a baby these days! I also find Matilda loves having songs sung to her (even though I have a horrible voice). Especially ones with actions along with it. The raising children website has a baby karaoke page - great for brushing up on all those kiddie songs. I liked BS's idea about fabrics! Did that with the laundry today.

Suz - Things are always 2 steps forward one step back with babies and kids. I'm sure Craig will get back into the swing of potty training after a couple of days at home. My copy of Wonder Weeks arrived this week too.

Carmey - I'm so impressed Jack can roll! Whenever I try and give Matilda a bit of a helping hand to roll she looks terrified. She swings her legs around in the air so much she almost throws herself over. One of these days she's going to go smoosh on her face and there will be many tears I fear. I'm still wrapping because of the same dilemma. You might want to try and get a larger wrap. Living Textiles sells one online which is 150cm x 150cm. Most of the ones in the stores are only 120 x 120. I think until this hands obsession thing ends I'm going to have to keep wrapping her, because like Jack she just wakes herself up with the hands all over the face and in the mouth thing.

Hi Lani, Rose, Hannah, Sesame and anyone else I've forgotten.

AFM - Well, god, it's been awhile since I've had a chance to post. The flight home from Perth on our own was manageable but not easy. It was hard trying to manage her and luggage even with a bit of help from attendants. But we survived. And her cold had improved a lot so her ears didn't seem to worry her as long as I fed her on take off and landing. And let me tell you girls, infant panadol is a godsend. Her poor little throat was hurting too much to feed I think unless I gave her the panadol. And I think I might have caught what she had because I've had a really sore throat for a couple of days. At least I'm hoping that is what it was and that I haven't caught some new bug that I'll pass on to her.

Matilda was really difficult to get to sleep for a few days after we got home. Gone were the blissful 2-3 hour sleeps and easy settling. I think after 2 weeks away everything seemed very new and interesting again so she was a complete rubber neck and was pretty disinterested in going to sleep or staying asleep. I felt quite low myself and have been stomping around blaming our house for being cluttered, uncomfortable, and noisy. But she's improved a bit and I'm going to rearrange things to make the house a bit more workable. But nights are a bit all over the place. One night she'll only wake once and then the next she'll wake three times. Grrrrr.

DH has started working several days a week for a company in Sydney so he's not quite as available as usual. Its been mostly from home but next week he has to go up to Sydney for 3 days and I'll be on my own for the first time with her. I'm a bit nervous because we don't have any family here or even really close friends that I could get to help out if needs be. It wouldn't worry me except I'm often quite sore towards the end of the day and its great to be able to give Matilda to DH for a break.

Anyway, I should finish this marathon post. It's been very therapeutic to get on finally and say hello. Missed you all!

Hi Tilda - we miss you here in Perth! Glad Matilda is feeling better and I'm not surprised it took her a few days to get back on track, it does that to us let alone a little bubba! Bummer hubby has to go away to work, I still think you should head back this way... :p

I forgot to mention in my other post for those interested Amelia is now 6.3kgs and 61.4cms in length.

Sorry for quick reply/post but gotta have a shower while Amelia is quiet, DH is at indoor cricket. I'm hanging to eat these shanks so wish he'd hurry home!!

Hello my lovelies!

BS - thanks for the suggestions, I'll try them for sure! I've tried getting to touch his feet...hmm, his belly seems to get in the way!! Sorry to hear Eva is waking up more again. Fingers crossed its just a phase and it passes soon :crossfingers:

Alison - Yeah, I'm back on the pill now, so back to the usual every 4 weeks. It was heavy, but not too bad, heavier than normal yeah. Feels really wierd since I haven't been on the pill for over 2 years! Yess! Haha, I remember the TTC forum, all the DTD, CM, TWW, etc etc. They were fun times tho, was pretty cool to hear people getting positive tests :) Oooh, wanna send some of those lamb shanks this way?? We're having hungry jacks for tea - oh dear :shakehead: Great to hear your appt went well, thats really good to hear what she was saying about BF, makes me feel better too! Hee...my DH would dearly love to be back playing indoor...he had a pretty bad eye injury so he is forbidden!

Tilda - Yaaaay! Lovely to hear from you :) Thanks for those suggestions. I did a massage once, not sure why I haven't again...I really should do. And thanks for the tip about the kareoke page, will look at that too! Sorry to hear DH has to work away. Bummer :( I'm with Alison...you should come back to Perth, we love you here!

AFM - had a lovely meeting with the Mothers Group this arvy, was just 4 of us so a bit more comfortable for me. Its at my house next week...eeek! Need to get things in order a bit!

Hope you all have a good night xx

Hi Beany - oh lucky you on the pill...I'd love to go back on as I prefer to have control over AF and also it makes them painless, shorter and lighter lol! I don't think I'll bother though as we'll probably be having our bubs close together so no point if we're going to try again in another year (or less if DH has his way!!). :o I found it more weird NOT to be on the pill ha ha, was on it for 19 years!!! ha ha I'd forgotten all those terminologies, TWW (how we all hated that) and DTD......you're right though, how fun was it to wait and see if people got positives. Seems so long ago it was us.....I wonder how many of us were chatting back then before joining the due group and didn't know! Glad you had a nice mothers group meeting, I met mine today too and there was only 4 of us as well, a lot of people are dropping out each week, it's a shame but I don't mind it being smaller either - we're going to start up a playgroup too.

Well, cup of tea for me and then to bed. Nighty night all xx

Thanks Alison and Beany! I would love to be back in Perth! At least I have another visit in May to look forwards to. Well I'm feeling a bit more in control of life. I've done a big cleanup this morning and got a neighbour to help us move some things around. Next I think I'll buy some blackout fabric for the curtains. What's everyone's thoughts on dimming the room during the day? Some people say that it can get them confused between day and night sleeps but our room is soooooo bright in the mornings that even with the curtains drawn you could do with a pair of sunglasses.

Hi Tilda - yay for May, can't wait to catch up with you again! Amelia's room is quite light too even with the blinds so we're putting up curtains, we've got old sheets up at the moment ha ha - it's far too light and even though she'll probably go to sleep I wouldn't like to sleep like that would you? I think they can tell the difference between day and night as long as it's not completely blackened like night time. :p

AFM - well off to aqua class today, it's going to be 38/39 here so not looking forward to the hot steamy indoor pool but I cancelled last time due to the heat so can't really do it again. Besides, I need the exercise! It's also getting Amelia in and out of the car in it too, yuk! The bigger nappies seemed to do the trick last night, Amelia had a great sleep, she woke at 5.00 am jammed up against the cot again so I just moved her back to the middle and she went back down until 7.30 am. Was so cute too cause instead of waking up crying I went in and she was just lying there awake, making her noise that the health nurse said was her way of talking......more like a monotone growl to me ha ha. There's nothing cuter than when they lock eyes on you first thing and give you a big cheesey grin, love love love! Oh and my lamb shanks were yummo last night, got leftovers for tonight, yippee. Who'd have thought you'd get excited over Friday night leftover lamb shanks.......what ever happened to getting excited over which party or restaurant or pub you were going to tonight! lol .......secretly I wouldn't change it for a thing.

kanda - I'm glad the nodules turned out not to be too serious. I hope the treatment helps.

Lani - Great to hear Jett is growing so well.

Carmey - I've just stopped wrapping Amelia at night. She kept wriggling out of her wrap too. I left her with just one arm out for a few nights and now leave both unwrapped. I still wrap her for warmth, but loosely enough that she can straighten her legs.

Alison - That's great that Amelia got to meet your nana, even if neither of them remembers. I think I'd rather lose my mind than to be 'with it' in a body that doesn't work anymore. Dementia always seems harder on the family. Amelia has this high-pitched squeal that can mean either happiness or pain...it took me a while to learn the difference without seeing her facial expression as well. But she is always experimenting with new sounds.

As I said on FB, you're doing a great job. Amelia is happy and healthy and that's all that matters. She does not look fat. But babies tend to 'chub up' and then slim down as they grow in length before getting chubby again. At least, my Amelia does anyway.

BS - I'm so jealous of your trip to Paris. I'll bet it felt good to get away for a while. Well done Eva for being a good girl and letting her mum enjoy it.

beany - Amelia has rolled on her own a couple of times (from tummy to back), but apparently its normal for them to start rolling then go a few weeks without and then start again. I try to give her some floor time on both her tummy and back everyday so she can kick around and get some exercise. I think the activities you do are fine. Babies love repitition but can tire quickly. It might not be so much that he is bored, but that he just needs a break to process all he is learning.

I was scared to leave the house alone with Amelia too, but was forced to when I had to run some errands for Mum during her last hospital stay. I always thought that I'd be embarrassed when she cries in public, but I don't. Amelia rarely cries without a reason. But it has certainly helped for me to have waited until I was familiar with her cries and comfortable answering them before going out on my own.

suz - Sounds to me like Craig is doing great with the toilet training and its natural for things to be thrown out a bit by going away. I'm glad DH is on the mend.

Tilda - Glad Matilda is feeling better and that the flight home went well. I'm so jealous of all you Perth girls getting together, but so glad you all had the chance and had a great time. I wouldn't worry too much about giving her a bug. If you get it, the antibodies will be passed through in your breastmilk and help protect her. Sorry to hear that DH has to go away but I'm sure you'll surprise yourself at how well you'll cope.

AFM - Well after a horror week with reflux Amelia is much better this week. We're still going to see the paed next week and I've got some infant gaviscon but she hasn't needed it yet. She is now regularly sleeping 7-8 hours a night. Its from 3-11am, but at least we get to spend some time with DH when he gets home from work at night. I still feel pretty wrecked most of the time...still having regular headaches, dizzy spells and nausea. I saw my GP and we've increased my meds and she's referred me to a psych her specialises in PND. I'm not happy since I was actually hoping to start coming off my meds altogether, but I need all the IRL support I can get at them moment.

I'm going on regular walks with Amelia...just to get us both out of the house. We've started taking Mum's dog with us as she doesn't have the energy to walk him. He's a 2.5 year old Belgian shepherd so has LOTS of energy. He walks really well with the pram, until we get close to home, he runs in front of it and gets his heels nipped. Oh well, he'll learn soon enough.

Hi Girls, I've finally made it back in after another long absence. I've had a read through the posts I've missed but I don't know if I'll be able to cover everything!

Hannah Sounds like you are doing all the right things re your PND, you are doing a fantastic job!!!!! Amelia doesn't sound like the easiest baby with the reflux and irregular sleep but you are handling it really well. Harry's sleep is very irregular too but he doesn't suffer with reflux as well and I'm wrecked most of the time! So you are doing great!!

Suzi Like some of the others have said...Supermum! I'm sure Craig will get the hang of the toilet all kids are different and go at their own rate, sometimes you think they've got it and they slip back, but he'll get there. I know some people frown on it, but I used "incentives" with my boys when we toilet trained, apricot bites worked a treat. I know people say you shouldn't bribe your kids but it worked for us:p

Alison I definitely don't think Amelia looks fat! Geez have you seen Harry lately now he looks fat!! Bummer on the AF but like you said at least you know everything's working so you'll be good to go again before you know it:p

Tilda Isn't it great when you de-clutter!! Makes such a difference to your mental state I really need to do that myself but we have more crap everywhere than usual as we're clearing out the garage ready for the extension. I have a friend whose just had her 6th baby and she has the block out curtains for day sleeps she swears by it, helps with the bubs being not so stimulated so settle easier I'll be getting some too once the extension is done I think it might help keep Harry asleep for longer through the day...hopefully. If you're worried about it you could make it part of the sleep routine, one of the sleep cues being drawing the curtains I'm sure they won't mistake day and night sleeps, it wouldn't be as completely quiet through the day like it is at night either so I think it'll be fine.

Beany Sounds like you're doing plenty of good activities with Michael, and going by the pics and videos on fb he's developing at a great rate, we only do a few mins of tummy time as Harry hates it! I know they need a bit more than that so we'll lay back with him on our chest which is still helping to work all those neck and chest muscles hopefully he'll like tummy time more as he gets stronger. But all the girls suggestions for play time have been great. I forgot the WW book has ideas too I'll have to look at mine again.

BS Glad Eva is improving hopefully the reflux horrors are behind you now! Oh day care I would be a mess!:hide: I don't have to think about that for another few months yet, but I'm already dreading it, I'm thinking of looking at working from home (no idea what I would do though) or maybe getting some night work so DP is home with Harry, but I can't imagine leaving him:cry: But we have bills to pay!

Carmey Go Jack with the rolling! The more mobile they get the trickier it is with where they can sleep and you can't leave them and turn your back for even a second cos you don't know where they'll end up. We stopped wrapping Harry quite a while ago, he didn't like his arms tucked in, I'd like to get him some growbags as it's starting to cool down at night here now, someone mentioned cheaper bags from the UK, what are they called? Are they growbags too? I'll check them out.

Hi to everyone I didn't get to:hello:

AFM Finally got rid of all the visitors! The building on our extension should start on the 22nd of this month :leap: so now we'll be stupid busy with getting organised and having workmen around for 8 weeks, but it will be sooooooo worth it!!!!!!!!:dance: I hope Harry handles the noise ok, if not we might be spending a lot of time out.
I noticed a lot of you are losing your hair, me too, I remember the same from DS1&2
Harry's quite the chatterbox very cute, he's trying desperately to get his hands under control and do what he wants, so far he can whack the toys hanging from his play gym/bar thingy, and he gets his thumb into his mouth when he's in bed and sucks til he drops off to sleep, also very cute, I sucked my thumb until I was 13 so it's in the genes and may explain why he refused a dummy.
Has anyone noticed a preference of hands in their bubs, like left or right handedness coming out already? Harry seems to favour his left, it's the first one he stared at intently, the first to try and reach the hanging toys and the first to go in his mouth.
Speaking of Harry I'm being called better go.

Hi lovely Hannah and Willow - I've missed you both! Sounds like you are both doing great!

Hannah - you sound so much better and Amelia is doing so well, I hope they can get your meds sorted too so you don't feel sick etc., don't worry if you have to stay on them a bit longer, you're getting better and that's the main thing. I think you've come a long way and have done so well, must be hard having PND. xx Amelia is such a cutie pie, must be the name lol. I love seeing the pics on FB. :p

Willow - yay for getting your house back! Gosh how patient were you! I hear you on the construction going on, Amelia handles the noise but I don't lol! I spend many a day out to get away from it but it's not that bad most days. Like you said though, will be so worth it - well for you maybe, I end up with the inlaws next door! :o And funny you say that about Harry's hands, Amelia is sucking them like crazy and sometimes gags on them but I have noticed she is favouring her left also! My mum is left handed so wondered if it's in the family - she does use her right too but definitely goes for the left when grabbing things - DH was like noooo, I don't want her to be left handed lol - I think it's more to do with being the same as my mum cheeky buggar :o Either way will be interesting to see hey.

Hi everyone else, hope you all had fabbo days. I had aqua class, it was stinking hot in the indoor pool and it's 39 degrees outside today so we both came out with red cheeks but had a great time. I am annoyed though, I missed out by one place to get in for next week and the week after I can't go and then it's Easter so it will be 4 weeks before I can get in again. Sux!!!!!

Well, best go have a shower and get this chlorine off me. Have a great evening all. xx

Hello Lovlies!

No time to post, but on to wish you all a great weekend! Friends coming in this We, so planning on having some bubbly and catching up!

Nice to hear from you both Hannah and Willow!

Will do a proper post next week!

xoxo

Hi girls!

Apologies for not posting for the last week or so - I've managed to pop in and read a couple of times, but that's about it. Nice to see both Hannah and willow posting!

Hannah - I think we could almost be twins with the PND and reflux babies. Either is hard, but both together can be a nightmare :( I don't know how many times I need to tell myself that this will pass and it will get easier.

willow - I've noticed that Liam pretty much always sucks his left thumb. Haven't noticed yet if he favours one hand for grabbing stuff, though.

Tilda - I'm glad that you got through the flight back home. It must be so hard to fly with a bub, but to have poor little Matilda sick with a cold must have made it even harder.

Alison - I wouldn't stress about the feeding at all (not that I think you are). It just doesn't work out for everyone, and you gave it a really good shot. The main thing is that Amelia is nourished and thriving and loved.

Hi to anyone else I missed! I kind of have baby brain today in a huge way.


AFM - We've pretty much had a week from hell. Not sure what's going on - I suspect that it's the three month growth spurt (though we did entertain the thought that Liam might be teething - time will tell with that one). Friday before last Liam was randomly inconsolable - in the morning he was happy and quiet, then started crying and pretty much didn't stop all day, and wouldn't feed or sleep. Cue a week of bad sleeping at night, hardly any napping, lots of crying and grizzling. As the days went on, he started to feed again at least - and didn't stop. I'm a nerd and track everything he does (it makes me feel like I can cope better with the chaos) and he's pretty much tripled the time he spent feeding normally. Madness. I've been chained to the couch feeding all week and hardly ha any sleep at night, both of which are combining to make me feel like I'm going slightly nuts. PND was starting to get bad again because of it, and I had to resort to taking sleeping pills to get some rest again (yay for anxiety and insomnia on top of it all).

The last few days have been better, thankfully. Last night Liam actually slept for eight hours in a row without feeding. I still woke every few hours, half expecting him to be awake. He grizzled a few times, but went back to sleep with his dummy. We've had him out this morning, where he was pretty well behaved, and he's napped a couple of times since we got home (and is napping now). I really hope that this growth spurt, or whatever it was, is over.

Hi Rose - oh that sounds like a horror week alright you poor thing! Definitely a Wonder Week....do you have the Wonder Weeks book? Definitely a must for everyone. But sounds like a text book growth spurt to me.

Hi Beany - was reading your FB status, sounds like you had a fun shopping day! The floor mat with the alphabet on it, was that one of those expensive non toxic rubber mats from Baby on a Budget? My friend from swimming has one and it's soooo good but she paid over $200 for it!!!!

AFM - had a nice day, shopping and what not, going to get Thai takeaway for dinner and relax in front of the telly tonight. Amelia did 10 hours last night again, not sure what time she woke up but I heard her at 8.15 am making her little talky noises and I went in there and she looked up and gave me the biggest smile. It's so adorable, I hope she does more of those!!! Hey Beany, sounds like Amelia and Michael are on the same wavelength lol!

Hi to everyone and hope you're all having lovely weekends so far.

xx

Hello! Oooh, its raining! Can't remember the last time it rained here!

Alison - Oops, I didn't think about whether the mat I bought was non-toxic. I'm guessing it prolly is since it was only $15. Hmm. How does Amelia move around so much in her cot? Is she rolling? haha...we're tossing up between thai and indian for takeaway tonight!

Tilda - Glad to hear you are feeling more on top of things. How is little Matilda going now? I dont' dim the room as such during the day, but I make sure the sun isn't glaring through.

Hannah - You're doing so well :hug: The exhaustion is bad enough when you have a baby to look after, but the headaches, dizzy spells and nausea must be extra tough. I hope Amelia's reflux finishes soon...did I read somewhere that it usually stops by about 4 months? Or is that colic? Hmm, I can't remember.

Willow - Michael hates tummy time too! I don't know how he's ever going to crawl if he can't last more than a minute before he face-plants in a sea of tears. Must be lovely to be finally finished with your visitors! Good luck with the extension :crossfingers: Yeah, I definitely think Michael favours his right hand for sure.

Rose - Sorry to hear you've had a back week :( Sounds like it must have been a growth spurt, hopefully its over now. I can sympathise with the anxiety, I had it really bad for the first month or so, I still have it now tho nowhere near as bad. I've had it most my adult life and I just hate it.

Hello to all the other beautiful mummies!

AFM - had such a wonderful day today. Went proper shopping for the first time since we've had Michael, all three of us. Was brill, Baby on a Budget had 10% off everything, so got a bumbo there. Spotlight next door had 20% off entire store so got his nursery curtains from there plus a big rug for the games room for him to play on. Then went to Garden City shopping centre and bought a few other bits for him. He was such a good boy the whole time. Even had a couple of naps in the pram.

His sleeps are still going well...only the past 3 mornings he's woken up about 4am crying. Not sure what the matter is but the dummy seems to fix it and he'll sleep for a bit longer. Yesterday as I mentioned on fb he had massive sleeps during the day, he hasn't slept like that since he was about 6 weeks old! Today it was back to the old routine of 40 mins here and there. Was nice tho, while it lasted :)

Hope everyone is having a lovely weekend.

Morning Girls!

Hi Beany - I realised it had rained when I got up, how exciting!!! ha ha. I haven't been out yet to see if it's muggy or cool, I will have to do so to see what to dress Amelia in as we're off to the in laws for morning tea lol. Might have to pull out some of her less summery stuff! lol I seriously think Amelia and Michael must be in sync with each other. Amelia has slept 10 hours the last 3 nights in a row, 10.00 pm to 8.00 am and other than one of those nights where she didn't wake at all she has been waking at 4.00 am but isn't crying as such just stirring, I put the dummy in, move her back away from the edge of the cot and she goes straight back to sleep - her eyes don't even open! Isn't it fab! I hope this keeps up.

I have a confession to make however, the last 3 mornings, my only BF of the day and Amelia has decided she doesn't want me anymore. :cry: I wasn't sure if it was because I've had my period this week but it's almost gone now so not sure. I will keep persevering but I think she's just decided it's too easy for the bottle. The morning was the only BF she was taking so I'm going to be devastated if she won't even take that! I'm surprised how sad I feel about it. I tried her after her bottle and she'll go to my boob but was just smiling at me because she was already full! Beforehand she actually pushes away and cries until I give her the bottle.

Anyway, best go, gotta get ready for the in laws.....my sister in law is going to be there with her 2 kids and last I heard one of them had a cold so they'd best not still have one, if so I'll have to stop them from touching her as they put their hands all over her face all the time - she's 4 and the little boy is 2. Don't mean to sound awful but she's having her needles next week which will already bring her immunity down. :shakehead:

Have a great day everyone.

Hi everyone!

Alison - I've been trying to think of something that might cheer you up about the BF but I know it must be really painful. I can imagine those morning feeds were really special. But you need to remember you're number one in her eyes. Just think of that smile she gives you every morning when you go in to pick her up! I hope your sister in law's kids didn't cover Amelia in germs today!

Rose - Oh god, what an awful week you've had. Sleep deprivation is the absolute worst for depression. And it's always so hard seeing the poor little mite so upset (mixed in with a big dose of frustration when it goes on and on!). My fingers are crossed big time that this phase ends soon for you!

Beany - Matilda is all better thankfully. And she didn't seem to pick up another sore throat from me so I think I probably had caught it from her. Isn't it great to get out and do some shopping with a bit of help from our lads!

BS- the bubbly sounds GREAT! I could so do with a glass myself. I think I'll have to get pumping this week and spoil myself one night.

Hi Hannah! It's great you're keeping active. That will help so much with teh PND. And its great that Amelia is sleeping some long stretches even though its at funny times. I wonder if its because DH does shift work and she's trying to be up when he's around. they're clever like that!

Willow!! Great to hear from you! We've missed you! Glad to hear you've got your house back. And what a relief Harry has found his thumb. Matilda is definitely favouring her right hand so far. But she hasn't found her thumb. But she will take a dummy if she's really, really upset or really, really tired. Which suits me!
AFM - Well we had our 5th wedding anniversary on Friday. I think Matilda must have known something was going on because she steadfastly refused to go to bed. DH wanted to fix me a special dinner to mark the occasion but I ended up throwing him the baby to walk the streets while I finished cooking because she wouldn't settle. But even that didn't seem to work. Eventually she was so exhausted and would fall asleep sitting upright in our laps. So we'd put her down and 5 minutes later she was yelling for us and we go through the same routine. It was like she knew there was something special going on that she didn't want to miss. We ended up all going to bed at about 11 exhausted. But she's being really adorable at the moment. Lots of smiles and she's started giggling just in the last week. She loves the paintings in our house for some reason and she'll look at them and giggle as we're walking around. And DH bought her a jolly jumper on Friday which has been a bit of a hit. It really exhausts her even after a few minutes. She has a big feed and goes off to sleep as soon as we get her out of it! She's still getting me up a couple of times a night at the moment. I really wish she would go down to one feed a night consistently. The tales of 10 and 12 hour sleeps I'm hearing are pipe dreams for us at the moment. Anyway, i should get off to bed! Good night all!

Thanks Tilda, that's really so sweet of you.....I know I've done my best in hindsight but I can't help but wonder why my boobs have been so crap and is it my fault, did I not drink enough water, have I rushed around too much, did I give in to the bottle too early.....oh well, I will keep trying and see how I go and I will continue to express as I really want her to still get at least a little of my milk. I know I've done better than some people who can't do it at all so I will try and think of that. Isn't it funny, we all have different things that work and don't, I get the good night sleeps but I can't provide her with much of my own milk, whereas as others get the waking through the night but are still able to BF. I guess it just proves that no two babies are the same and nothing is perfect or "text book"! Happy anniversary for Friday though, even if it was interrupted by cheeky Matilda at least you got repaid with giggles and smiles. I haven't tried Millie in her jolly jumper yet, I was worried about her head but she can hold it up fine, it's just when I sit her down she starts to lean. Would it be ok to try it then?

Morning girls,

How is everyone?

Alison - Three months of BF is a great start for little Amelia. Don't beat yourself up about it. You're a wonderful, loving mother and that's what's Amelia needs most of all. It won't be long and we'll all be talking about the joys of solids!

Tilda - we were given a Jolly Jumper too. I put Jack in it the other day and he cried! Will have to give it another go, perhaps when he's fresh and not tired. And, don't worry. Jack is back to waking me at least twice through the night, too. Last night was a shocker - was up every two hours. I'm trying to wean him from wrapping and it's proving so difficult. But what can you do? They'll be through this stage soon enough.

Beany - have you tried the Bumbo yet? I think I'm going to get one for Jack because he loves sitting up so much.

Rose - you poor thing. I wonder what it was? Any signs of a toothy peg? A friend of mine in my mother's group is experiencing her first tooth - her little one is very grizzly, dribbling etc so it can definately happen. Hopefully whatever it was is over now and you can get some rest! x

Willow - hello! So good to hear from you. How exciting about the renos. Eight weeks will fly. And to answer your question, Jack favours his right. How are you sleeping these days?

Hannah - I'm glad to hear this week (or that's now last week!) was better for you. Hopefully now Amelia is getting older it all gets better for you both. The walking sounds like a great thing - for you and bub!

ATM - Jack has calmed down after his initial excitement of learning to roll. He still does it but not ALL THE TIME like before. ;) He and I went up the coast to visit my parents on Wednesday and stayed three nights. Now I'm getting calls from mum saying, "We miss him". It breaks my heart that they are so far away - they just adore him and spent every available moment with him. My nan misses him too so I'm going to try and get up there every three weeks. It's a big trip for Jack (four hours in the car) but it's worth it. Fortunately he sleeps for 90 per cent of it.

Oh Alison, I got my period the day after you! I'm a bit confused because I'm exclusively BF'ing but I suppose it does happen. What a bummer. I was looking forward to 12 months period-free!

Me and some of the girls in my mother's group have decided to get a personal trainer together. This bloke we're using has someone to mind the bubs while we train, so should be good. I haven't been able to shift any more weight so looking forward to someone pushing me a bit harder.

Sorry if this is TMI, but I'm sometimes feeling a little...sad/disappointed that DH and I don't have much of a sex life these days. We've done it three times in three months. I know it all takes time but I'm so ready for it again. It's more him, actually. And I don't know why. We used to have such a great sex life before bub but now it's just not there. I ask him about it and he says that he's stressed with work and tired from the baby. I just hope it's not me and him finding me unattractive now I've got more weight than I did. He says that's "ridiculous" but I do wonder.

Anyway, hope you're all having a great day!!

xxx

Hi Carmey - thank you, I tried again to BF this morning, nope not interested, she actually arches her back and kicks up a mega fuss until I give her the bottle :shakehead: A friend I met at aqua classes when pregnant had the same problem at the same time so maybe it's a common age for it to happen. She's also a child psychologist so she told me that at the end of the day if she was seeing Amelia as a patient she would consider her a "securely attached" baby as she is happy and content and healthy and that's the main thing - she said if I don't believe her to just look at the photos as she's always smiling or asleep lol.....I felt better after that. As for sex....well we've only DTD 4 times since having Amelia although I wasn't allowed until I'd seen the OB 8 weeks later but to be honest it doesn't really bother me. Not sure why, just not craving it yet, maybe it's because I'm older? DH seems the same as me, it's enjoyable when we have though so that's the main thing lol. Would suck if it wasn't! ;) If DH is tired and stressed that would kill the mood for him, no way would it be you because even if you think you're carrying weight to me your skinny and would swap bodies any day! You look great girl!

After yesterdays far too long day at the in-laws - 9.30 am to 4.00 pm Amelia's usual feeding/awake/sleep routine was all out of whack from over stimulation and DH's mum fed her at one stage and told me afterwards that the bottle had leaked everywhere so she only got half the feed, her bib and clothes were soaked! Why she didn't stop and fix the lid I do not know as they can leak if not screwed on properly. Anyway, just put her out of whack that's all hence why I'm up at 6.00 am instead of 8.00 am lol. Doesn't matter but I was a bit annoyed at DH's mum and DH because we were meant to go for morning tea and come home and do things not go there for the whole day! grrrrr

Woops, I'm a bit wired up this morning lol........DH went to the block again last night until Wednesday too so I didn't sleep too well and am feeling quite tired this morning. Think I might try and get a walk in this morning, get some fresh air while the weather here is cooler for a change!

Have a great day girls. xx

Afternoon girls!

Hi Alison, that's great that your friend that's the child psychologist could reassure you. She's so right. Amelia is happy, happy and you've got a great relationship and that's all that matters. Sounds like a trying day yesterday! There's nothing like going out for too lot to throw them off. I find it always takes awhile to settle Matilda after we've been out and about.

Hi Carmey, Don't worry, we've only managed it 3 or 4 times as well. And DH hasn't even been working full time. But I'm finding it a bit painful so I don't think I could manage it all that often anyway. You'll get back into the swing of things. And like Alison said, its definitely not you!!!! You're looking great.

AFM - I visited my work for the first time today. Matilda was a bit freaked out at a whole lot of people staring at her and oohing and ahhing and proceeded to get all grizzly and spewed everywhere (several times). And my back and neck haven't been feeling too good. I think I've got a bit carried away lifting the stroller in and out of the car lately.

I finally bit the bullet and bought some blockout fabric and hung it up yesterday afternoon. It seems to be working. She's been asleep for nearly two hours this afternoon! Just hope she doesn't think its night time! I think I'll wake her up in half an hour if she's still asleep. Ah, there she is. Well that was a mighty good effort. Hope everyone is having a great day.

Alison, I forgot to reply to your question about the jolly jumper. It says its OK for ages 3 months and over. I was a bit worried but DH was really keen. We only let her stay in it for a few minutes and she doesn't bounce all that much. She more just enjoys being able to stand up. But you do need to be careful. She nearly launched herself into the door frame at one point. In terms of her supporting her head, she seems to be fine. She's got quite a lot stronger over the last few weeks. But if Amelia is still quite wobbly, maybe wait a while. Have fun!

Hey Carmey - hope Jack sleeps well tonight. The two hourly thing is HARD! I'm hoping we get another good night tonight. She only woke once last night at midnight. I'm a bit over the three times a night routine!

AFM - well survived the first day with DH away in Sydney. Actually, she seemed to know I was under the pump and was on her best behaviour. She's just getting more gorgeous by the day. Funny how everything turns into a game when you're trying to entertain a baby. Today's hit was waving the hose around while I filled her bath up. Lots of giggles. very cute!

Hi Girls!

Thanks everyone for the birthday wishes on Facebook! I was very spoilt. I'd been planning to buy myself a Kitchenaid Mixer, so on Saturday DH surprises me by driving me to the door of the shop with the best price and hands me the cash. All I've had for years is a hand held electric beater, so I'm stoked. Then on Sunday for my birthday we went to the Canberra Zoo with the kids and bought a year pass for both of us (they were half the price I thought they were!) so we don't feel bad about only spending a couple of hours there before needing to take the boys home again. One of the Mums from my Mother's Group also has a pass so we can meet her there. Unfortunately, with all the excitement Craig's toilet training has completely gone out the window the last two days, but I hope to get him back on track tomorrow.

Alison - Honey, big hugs to you :hug:. It's understandable that you feel sad about the thought of BF ending. Craig was down to one feed a day when he was 10 months old, but I just couldn't cut him off and got quite emotional about the thought of stopping BF'ing. A friend of mine had been trying her bub on a bottle early in preparation for going back to work and her boy decided he preferred the bottle. Her milk dried up and she had to FF, she was devastated. Don't worry, you will miss the closeness of BF'ing, but there are still lots of cuddles and eye contact. And as people have already said, you've given Amelia a brilliant start at life and kickstarted her immune system so she already has what formula can't give her.

Carmey - My DH has either been too sore, too tired or too self-conscious about the weight he put on during my pregnancy to want to DTD. We've managed it once and it was a bit painful for me (which might be another reason why he hasn't been keen). As women we always think it's something we've done, but maybe it's your DH feeling unattractive? Bummer about your period coming back, but I guess it's nice to know your body is bouncing back from pregnancy already. The personal trainer sounds awesome, I wish the one our Mum's Group uses also had someone to mind the kids!

Tilda - Ooooh work! I still haven't been back for a visit with Ryan. Go the blockout fabric, glad it's working.

Beany - What a great shopping trip! I'm keen on a Bumbo too. I didn't bother with Craig because I thought they were expensive, but I think I can splurge for Ryan. Keep the tummy time up, even if it's only for a minute. Get down on the floor with him and talk to him, he'll be happier if he can see your face.

Hannah - I'm sure that the increase to your meds will be only temporary. You're doing all the right things to look after yourself. It's great that Amelia is sleeping 7-8 hours, even if it's from 3am. Maybe some babies are just night owls? My Mum says I used to talk all night and sleep all day. I'm still a night owl :)

Rose - Well done for riding out that last week with Liam! It must've been awful, but I'm glad to hear he's sleeping again now. Just keep telling yourself it will pass, because it does :)

Brussels - Hope the weekend with friends visiting was a good one and you got to have a glass or two or bubbly.

Willow - Harry is such a cutie! That's fantastic news about the extension! I hope the 8 weeks or so goes really quickly for you guys. Ryan favours his right hand, but he's facinated by both of them most of the time.

Sesame! Thinking of you girl!

Hi girls!

Argh, I haven't been getting notifications :-/ Not ignoring you all, I promise!

suz - Belated happy birthday!

Alison - I think it shows what a wonderful and connected mother you are, that you're so sad about BFing ending. But you've given her the first three months, and the main thing is that she's nourished and happy and growing. She is a beautiful girl and it's obvious that she's thriving and loved.

Tilda - I usually put Liam into the bedroom with the curtains drawn to nap during the day - it's darkened, but not completely. I don't know if it really helps - he usually just sleeps for a single sleep cycle most of the time, and will occasionally do a few hours. We did have him sleeping in a completely light room for the first six weeks and were advised by the CHN to put him in a dimmer place.

Carmey - we're definitely thinking about the possibility of teething, mostly because along with the grizzliness and bad sleep, Liam's been drooling like crazy - way, way more than his cousin, who's a month older. Time will tell, though, I guess.

AFM - Had a much better day with Liam today. He was happy and smiley for almost all the time he was awake, apart from a couple of little grizzles when he was getting tired. He did have a random massive meltdown after his bath - crying the loudest we've ever heard him - but I think he was just exhausted. He was pretty good yesterday, too - we had a family do, and he was smiley and happy again. For once, it was his cousin who was grizzling - she's normally a very settled baby.

I've been going a little bit nuts buying stuff for Liam. After hearing a few of you rave about the Bumbo, we borrowed one on the weekend to see if Liam liked it. He did, so I have one ordered. Finally got around to getting a mobile for his crib too, which he loves looking at. It's pretty cool - has music and lights and everything. I also bought him a bath seat, since he's almost grown out of his baby bath. I cannot believe how quickly he's growing up!

I'm feeling pretty wrecked after the last week, though. We had one awesome sleep where he only woke once, and then he's been back to his usual 2-3 wakings. I am ever so slightly envious of you girls who are getting 10-12 hours! I'd kill for 8-10 hours of sleep in a row right now.

Oh, and do you Perth girls want to catch up again sometime soon? I'd really like to :) And I cannot wait until you're back here to visit again, Tilda!

Oh, and adding to my previous post! I found something to amuse me last night while feeding Liam - I went back and started reading through our due date threads. It was kind of awesome to read some of it - I'd forgotten about what some of us went through! And I realised how many people dropped out of the thread.

Hi Rose - thank you so much, what would I do without you girls. xx Liam is so adorable, I'm glad he had a good day today, he's such a character and I defintely think he's been here before if you know what I mean, he just has one of those "worldly" faces, gorgeous. :p I had a lovely day with Amelia, went for a nice walk along the coast with one of my swimming friend and her bub and then this arvo discovered what makes Amelia giggle, it was very exciting. When I hold her up above my head and laugh and blow raspberries she cracks up, it's so cute. I just wish DH was here to see it. I visited a friend who lives 5 mins away today and she caught it on her camera so will wait to get it off her. DH has taken the camera down to the block with him, he'll be home Wednesday, I miss him a lot! Now we have Amelia it doesn't feel right when he goes away, it never bothered me before she came along.

As for catching up, I would LOVE to, name the day and place and I'm there! You're welcome to my place but I know you don't have transport so happy to come there too. You in Beany? Can't wait till Tilda's back in May too. Oh how funny to go back on the threads, are they still there? I might do that tomorrow. I bet mine was whinging about morning sickness lol. How funny..........I remember that like yesterday though, gross! I miss being pregnant, a lot, except the morning sickness part of course ha ha. I went to a Nutrimetics party (boring) on Saturday and met a girl who is 27 weeks pregnant, she was due on the 11th June (day before my bday) and I was told today she had the baby this morning....poor thing, hope they're both ok, a little girl. No news on if the baby is ok or why yet. Certainly makes worrying about BF'ing seem pointless. So, who's dropped off then? I think a lot have dropped off just in this thread haven't they?

Hello!

Alison - sorry to hear about Amelia dropping her BF. :( I know how it feels, I was so very very sad when I stopped, I missed him sucking and being so close to him. But really, all that matters is that she is happy and healthy, which she most definitely is! It will just take a bit of time to get used to, and you'll be ok :hug: Hehe, dont' you hate it when things go the whole day? Especially on a weekend! The same thing happened when my MIL fed Michael, he ended up with so much over his bib and down his top. We haven't let her feed him since! My Sophie the Giraffe arrived the other day! I love it! I think I love it more than Michael atm, I don't think he's got the hang of it yet. But I love when he finally does get it into his mouth how his gums make squeaky noises against the rubber. Thats sooo cute!

Rose - oh YES, I'd love to catch up again soon. I really enjoyed it last time :) My house is still open as a venue :) I'm free any time except Thurs afternoons, and possibly Tues afternoons if MIL stays home from hosp (thats the day I usually visit her) I hope Liam starts sleeping a bit longer at night for you. hehe, sounds like he was putting on the charms at your family do!

Tilda - Happy 5th Anniversary! We'll be having our 5th anniversary this year too :) Thats great Matilda slept for 2 hours during the day! I hope you put your feet up!

Carmey - we've tried teh bumbo a few times. He seems alright in it for about 3 minutes, then he just snaps and arches his back and wants out. Might just be getting used to it still...I hope! It sounsd like most of us are in the same boat in regards to DTD. We've only done it twice and its murdered me both times. So I'm happy to put off doing it as long as DH can stand!

Suz1 - Sounds like you had a lovely bday! Wow, thats a fantastic pressie! They look so impressive those mixer things, don't they? Thanks for the tip re tummy time, I've been a bit lazy and not put my face in front of him but I did it this morning and he stayed up quite a bit longer than he normally would, so thats good!

Hello to all you other lovely ladies!

AFM - been out on a walk 2 mornings in a row now! Its been really good. Michael has been an angel, I was worried he would crack the poops and cry, but he was happily playing with some toys I gave him, then he fell asleep. So was great!

Does anyone else feel like their hips are bigger? LIke, not just extra chub (I'm sure we all have that!)...but their actual hip bones? I feel like mine are, even my maternity jeans are a squeeze to get on. I did a bit of "research" (ie Googled it!) and it appears that it can happen. I'm bloomin annoyed tho, I'm gonna have to go out and buy a whole new flippin wardrobe if thats the case.

Hi Beany - thank you so much, I knew you'd understand how I felt having been there. :) I'm so glad you love the Sophie the Giraffe, isn't it the best! Michael will love it, Amelia doesn't go anywhere without her Sophie. I bought Amelia the Bright Starts rocker/swing today, it was on sale at Target for $49 down from $100! The other swing I had MIL bought me originally but it's big and cumbersome and takes up the whole lounge and it doesn't rock all the time when you flick the switch, I think it's a bit of a dud. Anyway, this one matches her bouncy so she likes it, in fact, she's asleep in it now! It was funny as a lady came up to me in the baby clothes section at Target and asked me about my pram, she's pregnant due in July and wanted to buy the same pram so was keen to know what it was like. We ended up chatting for ages, she was so excited after I gave her tips on what to buy, what not to waste money on etc., she was really sweet, I said I was jealous of her lovely little belly and she said she was jealous I had the baby already, ha ha - we were having a laugh. Then her husband came back rolling his eyes saying, is she still chatting to you ha ha - it was funny. I walked away thinking how ironic it was because when I was pregnant I was standing in the exact isle of the same shop wondering what size to buy for a newborn and asking a lady with a pram that had a baby about the same age as Amelia. Life is funny sometimes huh. I also bought a little something for the friend of a girl I met on Saturday who was 27 weeks pregnant, due on the 11th June, 1 day before my bday and unfortunately her placenta came away yesterday and she had to have an emergency c-section, her little girl is alive but in a critical condition, they're not sure if she has brain damage as she was without oxygen for about an hour inside her. It's just sad.....I haven't been able to stop thinking about her so I thought I'd buy a little gift to hopefully cheer her up. Makes me realise that worrying about not breastfeeding anymore is ridiculous in hindsight.

As for the hips thing......funny you say that because I was just thinking that even though I am carrying some extra kgs I think my shape has definitely changed. :shakehead: I haven't even attempted to put on my maternity jeans, this week has been the first week I've ventured away from the babydoll type dresses and worn a tight top as I've been so conscious of my stomach but decided it's time to embrace it. I think it may be going down slowly, I really think along with the "fat" I'm still carrying fluid, I still can't get my rings on, some days they go on but as soon as they're on my finger puffs up. I'm going to ask the Dr when I take Amelia or her 4 month needles next week if I can take some fluid retention tabs. I have read though our bodies can change shape after carrying a baby. Geez I wonder if it happens again when you have subsequent bubs........I'll be the friggin size of a house! lol

Yay for today's cooler weather huh. I'm going to see my hairdresser tomorrow, she's got a 5.5 month old but is now working from home yay. I'm so tempted to go a different hair style but I'm so scared to cut my hair off, it took so long to grow...........I just feel like a change now I'm a mum but want it fashionable still. I know me, I'll come out with just a trim as always....can't wait to get it coloured though!

Hi Everyone else, how are we all? xx